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I Choose: A Kingdom Declaration for a Complicated Time "Fredrick Lemons II "

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 23:50:15 GMT

"I Choose: A Kingdom Declaration for a Complicated Time"

"Rev. Fredrick Lemons II"

Scripture Focus: Joshua 24:15 (KJV)

“Choose you this day whom ye will serve”

There is a weight to choosing that we often have forgotten. We live in an age of endless options but shallow commitments. We scroll through possibilities like they cost us nothing. We sample spirituality like it’s a buffet. We move from moment to moment, carried by impulse, distracted by noise, shaped more by algorithm than by altar. And somewhere in the chaos, we have lost the sacred discipline of decision.

But the gospel has never been passive. Faith has never been accidental. And discipleship has never been a drift. Joshua stood before Israel at Shechem, at the edge of promise and peril, and he did not offer comfort. He offered a charge. “Choose you this day whom ye will serve.” Not tomorrow. Not when the conditions are favorable. Not when the pain subsides or the path clears. Today. Now. In this moment. With what you know. With what you carry. Choose.

Because there are seasons in life when you cannot move forward until you make a decision. When the paralysis of indecision becomes its own kind of bondage. When waiting stops being wisdom and starts being fear. When silence stops being rest and starts being retreat.

This is that season for the Body of Christ.

We have been through a wilderness. A pandemic that didn’t just take lives; it took rhythms, relationships, and routines we thought were permanent. It exposed fractures in our faith we didn’t know existed. It revealed how fragile our fellowship was, how conditional our commitment had become. We learned we could worship without gathering. But we also learned we could gather without worshiping.

And now, here we stand. Between what was and what will be. Between grief and growth. Between exhaustion and expectation. And the Spirit is whispering the same word Joshua spoke centuries ago: *Choose.*

Not because the choice is easy. Not because you have all the answers. Not because you feel strong or certain or ready. You choose because God has been faithful. Because grace still holds you. Because the cross still stands. Because the tomb is still empty. Because your life still matters. Because your witness is still needed.

You choose because covenant requires participation.

The Greek word for church, *ekklesia*, means “the called-out ones.” But calling implies response. God does not force us into fellowship. He invites. He woos. He pursues. But at some point, we must answer. We must move from passive reception to active surrender. From spiritual spectator to kingdom participant.

There are people in the pews right now who love God but have stopped choosing Him. They show up, but they don’t engage. They sing, but they don’t surrender. They pray, but they don’t pursue. They’ve been hurt, and understandably so. Betrayed by leaders. Disappointed by friends. Disillusioned by systems that promised more than they delivered. And so they’ve pulled back. Protected themselves. Built walls where there used to be windows.

But beloved, you cannot heal in isolation. You cannot grow in withdrawal. And you cannot fulfill kingdom purpose while holding God at arm’s length.

The invitation today is not to pretend the pain didn’t happen. It’s not to act like the wounds aren’t real. It’s to choose, deliberately, intentionally, sacredly, to move forward anyway. To recommit. To re-engage. To say with fresh conviction: I will not let my disappointment determine my destiny.

I choose.

I choose to trust God even when I don’t understand His timing. I choose to stay planted even when the soil feels hard. I choose to serve even when I’m still recovering. I choose community even when I’ve been betrayed by it. I choose worship even when my heart is heavy. I choose obedience even when the outcome is unclear.

Because this is what mature faith looks like. Not the absence of doubt, but the decision to move despite it. Not the absence of pain, but the refusal to let pain have the final word. Not the absence of questions, but the willingness to trust the One who holds the answers.

Paul wrote to the church at Philippi from a prison cell. Chains on his wrists. Uncertainty about his future. And yet his words rang with authority: “I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content” (Philippians 4:11). Not complacent. Content. Not passive. Purposeful. He had chosen, not happiness, not comfort, not ease, but Christ. And that choice anchored him when everything else was shaken.

That is the posture we need today. Not a forced smile. Not a shallow “I’m blessed.” But a deep, settled, Spirit-sustained choice to cling to Jesus when nothing else makes sense.

This series, “I Choose,” is a pastoral invitation back to intentionality. In the weeks ahead, we will explore what it means to choose to move on, to choose to grow up, and ultimately, to choose Jesus above all else. But it begins here. With the acknowledgment that we have agency. That our faith is not fatalistic. That God, in His sovereignty, has granted us the dignity of decision.

So to the grieving mother still showing up to Sunday service even though the seat beside you is empty, I see you. And I’m asking you to choose hope. To the pastor preaching through burnout, wondering if anyone even hears you anymore, I see you. And I’m asking you to choose perseverance. To the young adult navigating a world that feels more fractured than faithful, I see you. And I’m asking you to choose conviction. To the elder who has seen too much disappointment in the church, I see you. And I’m asking you to choose love one more time.

Because the kingdom does not advance on autopilot. Revival does not come through routine. Transformation does not happen by accident. It requires a people who have made a choice. Not once, but daily. Not in theory, but in practice.

Joshua gathered the people and laid it before them plain: “If it seem evil unto you to serve the Lord, choose you this day whom ye will serve… but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15).

He didn’t wait for consensus. He didn’t poll the crowd. He made his declaration. And the people, stirred by his conviction, chose as well.

So I ask you today: Whom will you serve? What will you choose?

Not next week. Not after the storm passes. Not when it feels easier.

Today.

In this complicated, beautiful, broken, hope-filled moment: choose.

Choose faithfulness over fear.

Choose community over comfort.

Choose surrender over self-preservation.

Choose the Christ who chose you first.

And when you do, you will discover what the saints have always known: that the power to choose is not burden, it is blessing. It is the very breath of God in you, calling you forward, calling you upward, calling you home.

Rev. Dr. Fredrick Lemons II is the pastor of St. John MB Church in St. Louis, Missouri, and a voice for spiritual renewal in the African-American Baptist tradition.

Living a fasted lifestyle "Elder Tanya C. Brown"

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 19:38:45 GMT

“Living A Fasted Lifestyle"

“Elder Tanya C. Brown"

Do you want to go deeper in your relationship with God, but something keeps blocking you?

I never wanted to admit the fact that my eating habits had everything to do with blocking my relationship with God.

A fasted lifestyle can make a radical difference in your life and deepen your walk with God quickly. When you fast, your physical hunger can stir your spiritual hunger and foster greater intimacy between you and the Lord.

Biblical Fasting is abstaining from food for a period of time so you can focus on spending time with God. Reading God’s word and spending time in genuine prayer will increase your awareness of God’s presence in your life. Fasting also increases your faith and adds power to your prayers. Anytime you deny yourself certain delicacies in exchange for God’s presence He takes notice.

Fasting humbles our soul, and makes us more sensitive to the Holy Spirit’s presence and promptings, yet most of us never truly experience that intimacy. Why? We eat too much and too often. We never give our internal organs a rest and we never put ourselves in a position of lack to truly hear from God. Gluttony is the killer of spiritual intimacy. Often we are ‘full of roast beef and unbelief’. Gluttony causes us to become dull, sleepy and spiritually complacent. Fasting sharpens our sensitivities, both biologically and spiritually speaking. When we seldom or never fast our bellies become our gods to whom we sacrifice all day long.

We eat to satisfy our emotions and allow food to take the place that God wants to have in our lives. When we are hurt, discouraged, sad, angry, or bored the first thing we do is mindlessly and habitually reach for food. The Lord spoke to me once and said, “If you would reach for me the way you reach for food you would satisfy the real craving within.” Once you stop feeding every craving you will finally crave the Lord. When you allow yourself to feel some hunger your hunger for God will increase.

Early in my walk with God I discovered the biblical power of fasting and prayer. I fasted often and would experience incredible moments in God’s presence. Those moments of unparalleled peace, joy, and intimate fellowship were intense, transformative and incredible. Yet every time I ended the fast my results would disappear. The reason was because when I came off the fast I did nonstop snacking and my hunger for God and for spiritual things dwindled while my desire for comfort and satisfaction of the flesh increased.

Two years ago I cried out to God asking him to sustain my results. That’s when he showed me the difference between periodic fasting and living a fasted lifestyle. Periodic fasting is absolutely of the Lord. But that year I realized that he calls us to live a fasted lifestyle, to deny yourself daily so that your stomach is not your God and to focus on his presence. It has been life changing.

A fasted lifestyle is a daily decision to deny yourself certain foods and to keep your appetite under the control of the Holy Spirit. A fasted lifestyle means that I don’t have to eat til I’m bursting at the seams and I don’t have to eat everything I see. It means every day there is some self denial IN EXCHANGE for His fellowship.

I have engaged in many different kinds of fasts over the years; dry fasting, water fasting, the Daniel fast, the one meal a day fast and even a 40 day liquid fast. Honestly, I have gotten results with each of them when I truly committed to the fast (with no cheating). The results were amazing from breakthrough revivals around the country, to experiencing both corporate and personal healings and victories. Fasting works.

Biblical fasting is not just about cutting out food, but about replacing eating with praying and Bible reading. It’s about seeking the Lord’s presence instead of food. It’s about filling that time and that hunger with God. If you want to regain your spiritual hunger for God, fast!! And whether you start with missing one meal a day or you fast twice a week or longer, spend that time in prayer, reading the word and basking in the presence of God. You can live without eating every single meal every single day, but you will miss out on the unique experience of power and the presence of the Holy Spirit in your life without a fasting lifestyle. Remember, Jesus said, Man shall not live by bread alone but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God!! (Matthew 4:4) It’s not what goes into your mouth that gives you life, but what comes out of God’s mouth. Lord, help us to say as Job said, I have esteemed the words of his mouth more than my necessary food. (Job 23:12)

Strategic Reentry Programming "Alfred Long"

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 19:21:20 GMT

“Strategic Planning For A Powerful Reentry Journey

“Pastor Alfred T. Long Sr.

Reentry is not a matter of luck—it is a matter of intention. A returning citizen who chooses to plan boldly, build structure, and align daily actions with a greater purpose position themselves for lasting freedom, stability, and transformation. Strategic planning becomes the compass that guides the journey from where you have been to where you are destined to go.

1. What Is Strategic Planning for Reentry?

Strategic planning is the intentional act of designing your future before you step into it. It is the blueprint for rebuilding your life with clarity and purpose. This process includes:

• Defining meaningful goals

• Finding barriers with honesty

• Mapping out step-by-step actions

• Building a circle of support

• Checking growth and progress

• Adjusting your plan with resilience when challenges arise

With a strategic plan, reentry shifts from a stressful transition to a mission-driven pursuit of a new life.

2. Why Strategic Planning Matters

Without a plan, it is easy to drift back into old patterns, unstable environments, and reactive choices. But with a plan, returning citizens gain the power to:

• Reduce stress and uncertainty

• Create structure and stability

• Stay focused on what truly matters

• Avoid people, places, and habits that lead to setbacks

• Strengthen discipline and responsibility

• Build healthier, more supportive relationships

• Increase readiness for employment and opportunity

• Support long-term recovery and wellness

A strong plan does not just support freedom—it protects it

3. Core Elements of a Reentry Strategic Plan

a.) Vision & Purpose

Envision the life you are called to build—spiritually, emotionally, financially, and relationally. Your vision becomes your north star.

b.) SMART Goals

Create goals that are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound across every area of your life: housing, employment, recovery, relationships, and finances.

c.) Barrier Assessment

Find real obstacles—supervision requirements, transportation, legal issues, addiction, negative influences, or unresolved trauma.

Then create solutions, supports, and strategies for each one.

d.) Support Network

Surround yourself with people who lift you up: mentors, faith leaders, recovery partners, reentry coaches, family, and accountability partners.

e.) Resource Map

Know where your help is. List community programs, churches, employment services, recovery meetings, and educational opportunities.

f.) Daily Structure

Build a consistent routine that strengthens your mind, body, and spirit—work, recovery practices, prayer, rest, support groups, and wellness.

g.) Risk Management Plan

Find triggers, early warning signs, coping strategies, and a relapse/recidivism prevention plan that keeps you grounded and prepared.

h.) Progress Tracking

Use journals, check-ins, or meetings to measure growth, celebrate wins, and adjust your plan as life evolves.

4. Biblical Foundation for Strategic Planning

Scripture reminds us that planning is not only wise—it is sacred:

• “Write the vision; make it plain.” — Habakkuk 2:2

• “A wise man thinks ahead.” — Proverbs 14:8

• “Commit your plans to the Lord and they will succeed.” — Proverbs 16:3

• “Whoever wants to build a tower must first count the cost.” — Luke 14:28

Planning is an act of stewardship—an expression of faith in the future God has prepared for you.

5. How Strategic Planning Leads to Reentry Success

A strong reentry plan strengthens every area of life:

• Stable housing

• Steady employment

• Restored relationships

• Emotional balance

• Recovery and sobriety

• Confidence and self-worth

• Long-term freedom and purpose

Strategic planning gives returning citizens not just a roadmap, but a renewed sense of hope and direction. Bottom Line, Reentry becomes powerful when it is intentional, structured, and rooted in both wisdom and faith. A strategic plan empowers individuals not only to reenter society—but to rise, rebuild, and thrive.

Pastor Alfred T. Long Sr. Is Founder and Director of Jacob’s Ladder Ministries whose mission is to “Connect Returning Citizens Back to Their Faith, Family and Community”.

He is available for Reentry Workshops, Coaching and speaking engagements.

(314) 282-7220

along@jacobslm.com

This Black History Month, We Celebrate Mr. Michael Patrick McMillan

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 18:58:39 GMT

“This Black History Month, We Celebrate Mr. Michael

Patrick McMillan"

This Black History Month, we celebrate Mr. Michael Patrick McMillan, a leader whose life reflects service, sacrifice, and an unwavering commitment to the people of St. Louis.

Black history is not only written in moments of protest or progress, but in the steady, faithful leadership of those who answer the call to serve. Michael Patrick McMillan is one such figure, a modern example of leadership rooted in purpose, justice, and compassion. His work reminds us that true legacy is not defined by position or title, but by consistent devotion to uplifting others.

Michael Patrick McMillan: A Modern Servant-King for St. Louis

“A king is recognized not by his crown, but by his commitment to his people.”

Michael Patrick McMillan, President and CEO of the Urban League of Metropolitan St. Louis, exemplifies this truth. His life and leadership remind us of the biblical posture of a king, one who serves, uplifts, and empowers his people.

McMillan’s journey began as a volunteer at age 16, and over decades, he has devoted his life to lifting communities and transforming systems. In 2013, he became the Urban League’s seventh president and CEO, overseeing an organization that touches hundreds of thousands of lives annually through programs in education, workforce development, housing, and economic empowerment.

Under his leadership, the Urban League has grown from a modest fifteen to seventeen million dollar budget to over fifty million dollars annually, expanding programs, facilities, and services across the St. Louis region. His vision has turned historic buildings into community hubs, senior living centers, and cultural arts spaces, ensuring that opportunities thrive where they are most needed.

McMillan’s leadership shines brightest in moments of challenge. Following the unrest in Ferguson and during the COVID-19 pandemic, he mobilized resources, programs, and aid, ensuring that the most vulnerable received support, jobs, and hope. After the 2025 tornado in North St. Louis, he again led emergency relief efforts, providing food, housing, and essential services to affected families.

His actions reflect the biblical model of leadership, serving others first, protecting the weak, and guiding with vision and integrity. In every crisis, McMillan embodies the principle that true authority is measured by the well-being of those he leads.

In Scripture, kings like David and Josiah, and leaders like the cupbearer Nehemiah, were celebrated not for crowns or titles, but for their commitment to justice, protection, and the empowerment of the people. Michael Patrick McMillan mirrors this ideal. He creates programs that address systemic inequities, builds lasting institutions, and leads with compassion, wisdom, and strategic vision.

As a servant-king, he inspires all who witness his work to serve others, invest in community, and leave a lasting legacy of hope and opportunity. In a world that often confuses leadership with power, McMillan reminds us that true leadership is service. As believers, we can take this lesson to heart, asking how we can be servant-leaders in our own spheres and how we can uplift those around us while leaving a legacy that honors God. Heavenly Father, we thank You for leaders like Michael McMillan, who mirrors the heart of Christ in their service. Grant us the courage to serve our communities, the wisdom to lead with integrity, and the vision to create lasting impact. May every crown of achievement be laid at Your feet, and may Your kingdom be advanced through our hands. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

No great leader stands alone. The remarkable accomplishments of Michael Patrick McMillan are made possible by the dedicated staff, supportive funders, and committed partners of the Urban League of Metropolitan St. Louis. Their unwavering support, hard work, and belief in the mission allow the League to thrive, innovate, and transform lives throughout the region.

To every employee who serves with excellence, every funder who invests in hope, and every partner who collaborates to uplift the community, we salute you. Together, you reflect the spirit of teamwork, vision, and service that embodies the heart of a true biblical leader.

As we celebrate Black History Month 2026, we proudly honor Michael Patrick McMillan, a modern servant-king whose leadership, vision, and compassion inspire countless lives in St. Louis and beyond. His example reminds us that true legacy is not measured by titles or accolades, but by the impact we make in the lives of others.

May his life continue to ignite hope, foster empowerment, and reflect God’s kingdom on Earth, and may his story inspire generations to serve boldly, lead wisely, and love generously.

“It is Such an honor to serve my community under the great leadership of Michael Patrick McMillan!”

Marilyn Parker

Celebrating Lady Ada Joyce Taylor A Black History Month Tribute to the Woman Behind the Work

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 18:18:50 GMT

“Celebrating

Lady Ada Joyce Taylor

 A Black History Month Tribute to the Woman Behind the Work"

Many know Lady Ada Joyce Taylor as a leader, entrepreneur, and author whose name is associated with successful businesses, community impact, and trailblazing accomplishments. Yet long before the titles, recognition, or public accolades, Lady Ada understood herself to be something far more essential. A servant.

At her core, Lady Ada is guided by purpose rather than position. Everything she does flows from a deep desire to help, heal, and uplift others. Titles may come and go, but purpose remains. Faith, family, and compassion have shaped her life, along with the quiet discipline of doing what is right even when no one is watching. Those closest to her often describe her as generous, a trait she attributes directly to her mother.

Lady Ada’s story begins in the Pruitt Igoe projects, where she was raised as an only child by her mother, Lucille Brown Beard. Though their household consisted of just the two of them, it never felt lacking. Her mother’s love was abundant, intentional, affirming, and deeply nurturing. Her mother always said it was “me and you” against the world, and wrapped in that assurance, Ada grew up feeling safe, loved, and secure. From an early age, Ada felt seen, valued, and confident in the strength of that bond. She describes herself as a happy only child, filled with love, love she would later spend her life pouring into others.

At just six years old, her world was shaken when her mother became seriously ill and was hospitalized. During that uncertain season, a neighbor, Mrs. Jenkins, welcomed young Ada into her home and cared for her with extraordinary kindness. That experience left a lasting imprint. Even in fear and disruption, Ada learned what it meant to be covered by community, compassion, and grace.

Faith entered her life early, not as theory, but as necessity. Her mother’s deep belief in God became Ada’s anchor. She remembers praying earnestly for weeks, crying out for her mother to return home. When her prayers were answered and her mother returned, that moment solidified Ada’s trust in God. A trust she has never lost.

Her mother was a provider in every sense of the word. She taught Ada discipline, responsibility, financial wisdom, and the value of hard work, modeling those principles daily. Combined with Ada’s growing faith, those lessons laid the foundation for her future leadership and service.

Responsibility came early. Life was not always easy, but it was rich with lessons in resilience, perseverance, respect, and standing firm when circumstances attempt to shake you. Ada learned early that she could trust God, and she has never forgotten that He has never failed her.

As a young girl, she did not yet envision the full scope of what God would allow her to build, but she always believed her life would be meaningful. She once told her mother that she would work multiple jobs so her mother would not have to work so hard. Even then, her heart leaned toward responsibility for others.

After graduating high school, what Lady Ada describes as God’s divine order began to unfold. A cousin working as a licensed practical nurse introduced her to the nursing profession, and something immediately resonated. Caring for people, serving others, and being paid to do meaningful work felt like confirmation of her calling. Nursing was not merely employment. It was purpose. Lady Ada followed that path and became an LPN herself.

This journey was not without challenges. She encountered prejudice and challenges common to the era, but she persevered with faith and the life lessons her mother had instilled. Her dedication led to advancement into management roles and eventually into teaching, where she served as an instructor. Her career expanded in both scope and influence, always centered on care.

When her mother later became ill again, Lady Ada’s professional preparation allowed her to care for her while continuing to work in healthcare. God then connected her with an administrator who taught her the operational side of the industry and encouraged her to open an assisted living facility. That mentorship, combined with her education and experience, prepared her to establish Deer Valley Home Health Services, where she now serves as President and Chief Executive Officer.

Today, Deer Valley Home Health Services operates in North County, Olivette, and Kansas City, Missouri. As one of the few Black owned home health agencies in the region, Lady Ada leads with excellence, integrity, and vision, creating pathways for others to see what is possible.

Her life has also been shaped profoundly by love. Her late husband, Chef Henry Taylor, was a steadfast source of encouragement and belief. After his passing, she honored his legacy by opening Ol Henry’s Restaurant, a tribute built on love, remembrance, and resilience. To Lady Ada, legacy is not simply remembered. It is built and shared.

She is equally quick to credit her leadership team, emphasizing that true leadership requires people who serve with compassion and integrity at all times. She believes strong leadership is never singular, but collaborative and rooted in shared values.

Compelled by her journey, Lady Ada eventually felt called to share her story through authorship. Writing required vulnerability, particularly when addressing chapters involving trauma and painful experiences. In her book, she speaks openly about the trafficking that occurred, a difficult but necessary truth to tell. She understood that her story needed to be shared to encourage others who are still finding their way. She wrote for those who feel called but unsure, for those who need to know that beginnings do not define endings, and for her children and grandchildren.

Family remains central to her definition of success. She is deeply proud of her children and grandchildren and is committed to ensuring they are educated, grounded in faith, and in relationship with God. When Lady Ada speaks of success today, she measures it by service. She often says she hopes to hear God say, “Well done, my good and faithful servant.” To her, success means leading with compassion, serving with integrity, and making room for others to rise.

Her message to aspiring business owners is simple and powerful. Start anyway. Preparation comes through obedience. You do not need everything in place. You need faith and willingness.

In addition to her work in healthcare, leadership, and service, Lady Ada is also the founder of the Metro St. Louis Millionaire’s Club. The mission of the organization is to honor and follow the blueprint left by our forefathers to build and maintain wealth within communities. Through economic development, financial education, and sustainable business practices, the Metro St. Louis Millionaire’s Club empowers and uplifts communities by promoting ownership, stewardship, and generational stability.

This work reflects Lady Ada Joyce Taylor’s belief that lasting empowerment includes economic literacy and access. By teaching principles of wealth building alongside faith, discipline, and service, she continues to expand her legacy of leadership and community transformation. Readers are encouraged to purchase a copy of her book and companion workbook on Amazon, where she further shares practical wisdom, lived experience, and guidance designed to inspire purpose driven success and generational impact.

Book or Workbook at Millionairesclubstl.org

This Black History Month, we salute Lady Ada Joyce Taylor, a woman whose life exemplifies service, resilience, faith, and purpose. Her legacy stands as living proof that when service is rooted in faith, it has the power to transform lives and generations.

Sparkman Honors Archbishop Michael A West

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 18:05:05 GMT

“Sparkman Honors Archbishop

Michael A. West"

This Black History Month, we proudly and reverently honor Archbishop Michael A. West, a towering figure in Black faith leadership whose life and ministry reflect more than sixty years of tireless service, spiritual authority, and transformative teaching.

Archbishop Michael A. West has been preaching and teaching the gospel for over six decades. Ordained by the late Reverend Clarence H. Cobbs in Chicago, Illinois, his ministry has been marked by depth, discipline, and doctrinal clarity. From the beginning of his calling, Archbishop West has understood that preaching reaches hearts, but teaching transforms lives. His voice has shaped generations not only through sermons, but through instruction that equips believers to live, lead, and serve with understanding.

He is the founding Pastor of St. Michael’s Temple of the Expanded Mind, where for more than fifty years he has served as both shepherd and scholar. Under his leadership, the church has become a place of spiritual growth, intellectual expansion, and community empowerment. His ministry has consistently provided programs and services that address both the spiritual formation and the physical needs of the people, demonstrating a holistic approach to faith and service.

Archbishop West is widely respected as a prolific teacher of theology, doctrine, and spiritual consciousness. As President of the St. Michael’s Institute, he established a theological seminary designed to educate and equip religious workers who may not have had access to formal professional religious study. Through his instruction, mentorship, and curriculum development, countless ministers, leaders, and servants have been prepared to carry out the work of ministry with knowledge, confidence, and integrity. His commitment to education affirms his belief that the work of God must be carried out with both spiritual insight and disciplined study.

In addition to his pastoral and educational leadership, Archbishop West is the Establishmentarian, Chief Apostle, and National President of the St. Michael’s United Spiritual Churches of Christ, Inc. As Founder and Overseer of multiple organizations with more than fifty years of sustained tenure, his leadership reflects rare longevity, consistency, and vision. These institutions stand as living evidence of his ability to build, govern, and sustain ministries that endure across generations.

Beyond the pulpit and classroom, Archbishop West has served the community for more than four decades as a licensed funeral practitioner. In this sacred role, he has ministered to families during their most vulnerable moments, offering dignity, compassion, and spiritual strength in times of grief. This service further reflects his lifelong commitment to walking with people not only in worship, but in life’s most difficult transitions.

At the heart of his legacy is family. Archbishop West is a devoted husband to Elect Lady Dr. Martha B. West, and a loving father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. His life reflects the values he has taught for decades: faithfulness, commitment, service, and the importance of family as a cornerstone of the Black community.

For more than sixty years, Archbishop Michael A. West has answered the call to serve as preacher, teacher, builder, and steward of faith. His life’s work stands as a powerful testament to enduring Black spiritual leadership, intellectual rigor, and community devotion.

We proudly salute Archbishop Michael A. West this Black History Month for his unwavering faith, prolific teaching, visionary leadership, and lasting contribution to church, community, and history.

Workforce "Melody Fogarty"

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 17:27:57 GMT

“WORKFORCE"

“Melody Fogarty"

America is caught in the middle of a chaotic remix as 2026 opens—an economic sugar high fueled by tax cash-outs colliding with regime-driven political cage matches between Washington power brokers and sovereign states. What looks like momentum on paper feels like instability in real life.

While global blocs like BRICS expand their influence and quietly reposition the world economy, millions of Americans are still tethered to a domestic 9-to-5 model that no longer guarantees security, dignity, or provision. This emerging new world order is not just economic or political—it exposes misplaced trust in fragile systems.

For generations, the American workforce was taught that faithfulness to one employer would yield stability. Work hard. Stay loyal. Retire safely. But reality shows systems rise and fall, while wisdom calls us to discern the season. You do not know what tomorrow will bring, yet many cling to institutions as if immovable.

Federal directives on borders, healthcare, and social services are being challenged state by state, producing political whiplash that spills directly into local job markets. Industries stall while lawsuits fly. Funding freezes. Contracts disappear. Jobs evaporate in the crossfire.

Yes, economists project growth—GDP numbers suggest resilience. But inflation continues to erode household budgets. Groceries, rent, insurance, and transportation tell a different story than headlines. Gig work slows. Wages struggle to keep pace. For working families, resilience is tested not in religious institutions but at kitchen tables.

At the same time, America’s foreign posture has shifted toward transactional alliances, particularly in its rivalry with China. Longstanding partnerships strain. Stability feels temporary. The global economy no longer revolves around one flag.

This moment demands discernment, not fear. Work has always been more than employment—it is stewardship. And stewardship requires adaptation. History shows preparation during plenty pays off. Proverbs commend those who observe conditions and act wisely. Blind loyalty to a collapsing model is not strategy; it is inertia.

The loyalty-to-the-corner-office mindset is fading, and a new workforce reality is emerging. Workers who are thriving now are learning skills online, earning certifications, building portable income, and positioning themselves for remote and global work. They are diversifying income streams, strengthening emergency reserves, and refusing to let geography define their future.

This is not about abandoning responsibility or community. It is about strategic provision, planning, and leading households wisely. Remote work with international employers, global freelance contracts, and digital trade skills are becoming modern equivalents of flexible, mobile tools resilient and adaptable.

The contrast is clear.

Those dependent on a single local employer are increasingly vulnerable. Those building global, skill-based income are gaining margin.

Those saving leftovers are struggling. Those building six-month reserves are breathing easier.

Those ignoring global shifts are reacting late. Those paying attention are positioning early.

This is not a rejection of patriotism. It is a rejection of illusion.

Strategy does not require clinging to failing systems. It requires wisdom and courage to move when conditions change. The political theater will continue. Economic contradictions will deepen. Institutions that once promised certainty are struggling to deliver it.

This season is calling workers and leaders to lift their eyes beyond familiar borders and rethink how provision flows. The exits are not reckless. They are strategic.

The circus will stay loud. But those who listen closely to data, to trends, to the signs of the times can exit early, prepared and unshaken.

And in doing so, they will not just survive this era. They will master it well.

The Mama Joe Project Kicks off 2026 "Herbert Caldwell"

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 17:09:39 GMT

“The Mama Joe Project Kicks Off 2026 with Community Engagement Forum"

“Herbert Caldwell"

Happy 2026! The Mama Joe Project is hosting an educational outreach event to address an issue impacting our mothers, sisters, and daughters: Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias. Women make up two-thirds of those diagnosed with dementia, and Black Americans are twice as likely to receive a diagnosis. Family caregiving for chronic illness is becoming a growing public health concern, as the world’s population ages and the number of people 60 and older is projected to double by 2050. Age is the leading risk factor for dementia, an umbrella term for conditions often including progressive memory loss and cognitive decline. Alzheimer’s disease is the most common and costliest form of dementia in the U.S.

To bring awareness and support to caregivers and families, the Project invites you to its Community Engagement Forum, Sunday, February 22nd, 2–4 PM at Alamo Drafthouse Cinema in St. Louis. The event features:

Screening of the PBS-featured documentary My Mama Joe, Hope & Help, a story of hope and help for caregivers and families.

Audience Q&A with a panel of local experts on caregiving and dementia-related issues.

Mini Info Fair showcasing area agencies and community resources.

Distribution of a custom reference and resource guide for caregivers and families.

This free, family-friendly event includes complimentary popcorn and soft drinks. The goal is to connect individuals and families with vital information, resources, and networks that enhance health and quality of life.

“There are only four kinds of people in the world: those who have been caregivers, those who are currently caregivers, those who will be caregivers, and those who will need caregivers.” – Rosalynn Carter, Former First Lady

We hope you’ll join us for an inspiring and informative afternoon!

Register now: www.mamajoeproject.com/alamos

The Real Rules of AI in Everyday Life "Tracey Hawkins"

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 16:40:33 GMT

“Deepfakes, Scams, and Smart Solutions: The Real Rules of AI in Everyday Life”

“Tracey, The Safety Lady” Hawkins, Safety and Security Source"

Artificial intelligence isn’t coming. It’s already here. It powers your Netflix recommendations, helps your home security camera spot movement, and even takes your order at fast-food drive-thrus. When you scroll through TikTok and see videos perfectly tailored to your interests, that’s AI too. It is quietly working behind the scenes in banking, healthcare, retail, and your daily life.

AI is not replacing us. It is changing how we live and work. The goal is to learn to use it safely and smartly, and protect against cybercriminals using it to scam and defraud us.

What AI Can Do for You

Used wisely, generative AI can:

• Write emails, posts, policies, and reports in minutes.

• Summarize lengthy documents and meetings.

• Review contracts for confusing or risky language.

• Create recipes from photos of what is in your kitchen.

• Turn handwritten notes or whiteboard snapshots into editable text.

• Translate languages instantly or brainstorm new ideas for work or school.

AI is a powerful assistant that can save time and reduce stress, but it must be used with care. Safe AI Use Starts With You. Protect your privacy and your data. A few smart habits go a long way.

• Never upload personal, financial, or confidential information. Redact names, Social Security numbers, and addresses before using any AI tool.

• Always fact-check the results. AI tools can sound confident even when they are wrong.

• Use long, strong passphrases or facial and fingerprint recognition instead of passwords.

• Turn on multi-factor authentication so a hacker cannot access your account with just one password.

• Keep your devices and apps updated automatically to patch security flaws.

• Install trusted antivirus protection on every device you use.

How Cybercriminals Use AI

Criminals love new technology. They use AI to commit old crimes in new ways.

• Deepfakes: Criminals can clone a person’s voice or face using just a short video or audio clip. Victims have received calls that sound like a loved one asking for money or help.

• Fake documents: AI can create professional-looking contracts, invoices, and IDs that appear authentic but are completely fabricated.

• Phishing messages: AI can write convincing emails and texts that look like they are from your bank, boss, or delivery company. One careless click can lead to stolen data or drained accounts.

How to Protect Yourself

• Create a family or workplace code word to verify identity. If someone calls asking for money or sensitive information, do not respond unless they know the code word.

• Keep a contact list with verified phone numbers and email addresses. Caller ID can be faked.

• Take a moment before reacting to emotional or urgent messages. Scammers want you to panic.

• Report suspicious activity to your bank, IT department, local law enforcement, and the FBI's ic3.gov, immediately.

The Bottom Line

AI is a powerful tool that can make your work faster, your ideas stronger, and your life easier when you use it safely. Be aware that the same tools helping us create and connect are also being used by cybercriminals to scam, steal, and deceive. Stay informed, think critically, and protect your personal information.

This is what I teach through my ongoing workshops, seminars, and articles on AI safety and cybersecurity. Join one of my sessions to learn how to harness AI’s potential while staying secure.

Education is your best protection.

Connect with me today to start learning how to use AI with confidence and care.

My Journey Through Lymphedema "Dr. Torri Anthony"

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 23:29:28 GMT

 My Journey Through Lymphedema: From Despair to Empowerment

"Dr. Torri Anthony"

I never thought lymphedema would become part of my story. I never imagined my life would shift from vibrant health to immobility, despair, and pain. But I also never imagined how God would use that same story to rebuild me — stronger, healthier, and more determined to help others rise.

My Journey Through Lymphedema: From Despair to Empowerment

In October 2016, life was thriving for me. I had just celebrated a decade of marriage, and everything seemed perfect. I enjoyed a fulfilling job, had a loving wife, two wonderful children, a dog, and a comfortable home, while my church community was flourishing. However, unbeknownst to me, a condition called lymphedema had been silently developing in my body for years.

After my wife, Varrietta, and I renewed our vows on October 16, 2016, we took a brief trip. Anyone who knows me understands my passion for water and hot tubs. I spent over an hour in the hot tub, blissfully unaware that I was about to embark on a challenging journey. The trip was rejuvenating, and upon returning home that Monday, I sat down for dinner with my family — something we cherish as a family tradition. As I stood up to leave the table, I suddenly lost feeling in my legs. Varrietta asked if I wanted to go to the hospital, but I opted to wait until the morning.

When morning arrived and I still had no sensation in my legs, I went to the hospital. Until that day, I had never spent time in a hospital, but I was soon admitted — marking the beginning of what I consider a God-given journey. Looking back over the past eight years, it feels like I have been on an assignment, facing some of the toughest challenges of my life. With lymphedema being relatively unknown in the African-American community, I was completely unprepared for what lay ahead.

I had never been a small person, but my weight skyrocketed from 350 to 613 pounds within months, leading to a rapid decline in my health. My mobility diminished to the point where I required a wheelchair; simple tasks like walking from room to room or using the bathroom became impossible without assistance from my wife and children. There were instances when I had to check into a hotel just to access a walk-in shower. I reached a dark point, feeling like I no longer wanted to live. While I maintained a façade of happiness, deep inside I was waiting for the right moment to end it all.

Throughout this struggle, my family encouraged me to attend church, and just when I could no longer stand to preach, the COVID-19 pandemic hit, transitioning everything to a virtual format. This allowed me to preach from my chair, but my health continued to deteriorate. In the midst of the pandemic, my doctor suggested exploring weight loss surgery. Though terrified, I recognized it was a matter of life or death. Despite my previous thoughts of despair, I found a renewed will to live and committed to the necessary preparations for surgery.

During my hospital stay, I was alone with only God for support. I promised that if He guided me through the surgery, I would become a living testament for Him in any capacity He wished. Little did I know that this surgery would lead me on an entirely new path, for which I am profoundly grateful. God has restored, revitalized, and empowered me, and I am healthier than ever before.

Now, I have the opportunity to share my story and assist others in leading healthier lives. I refuse to reclaim what the devil took from me; instead, I embrace the new life that God has granted me and strive to help others recognize that they too can change their lives. I never anticipated spending two hours at the gym four to five times a week — something my doctor once claimed would be impossible for me. Yet, by placing my trust in God, I now find myself in a position where that same doctor invites me to inspire her patients with hope.

I am now 40 pounds away from my goal weight of 194 pounds. I am loving life and looking forward with faith and excitement to what God has next!

“What the enemy meant for evil, God turned for good.” — Genesis 50:20

Overseer Dr. Anthony Torri is a pastor, husband, father, and community leader whose life embodies resilience and faith. After an eight-year battle with lymphedema, he has emerged as a passionate advocate for health, healing, and empowerment. When he’s not preaching or spending time with his family, you can find him in the gym inspiring others to embrace their own journey toward wholeness.

empowermentdr75@gmail.com

Discernment Is Deliverance "Bishop Miah White"

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 23:14:10 GMT

Discernment Is Deliverance: When Warfare Is Really Wellness

"Bishop Miah White"

Too often, believers are quick to blame the devil for what is really the body’s cry for wisdom. You are not cursed, you are depleted. Before you cast something out, check your levels. Before you call it warfare, consider your wellness. Before you plan another fast, fix your plate. Before you rebuke the enemy, rest your body.

Some of what we label spiritual warfare is actually nutritional neglect. It’s chronic burnout baptized as intercession. It is adrenal fatigue masquerading as a demonic attack. It is hormonal imbalance, not hell breaking loose. It’s dehydration, not demonization. It’s a sleep deficit, not a spiritual stronghold. Sometimes what feels like an assault from the enemy is actually your nervous system, endocrine system, or gut-brain axis begging you to pay attention.

I know this firsthand. For months, I was constantly fatigued. My thoughts were cloudy, my focus scattered, and my energy felt drained. I kept telling myself it was warfare. That the enemy was attacking my mind and body because of the assignment I was carrying. I prayed harder, fasted longer, and pushed through, convinced that it was a spiritual storm. But one day, Holy Spirit nudged me with a simple truth: “This isn’t the devil, it’s depletion.”

When I finally went to the doctor, my bloodwork revealed that my iron levels were extremely low. What I had been calling warfare was actually anemia. I had to undergo iron infusions to rebuild my levels. Once they rose, the brain fog lifted, the fatigue faded, and my focus returned. It wasn’t deliverance I needed, it was discernment. That experience taught me a crucial truth: sometimes the breakthrough God wants to give us begins with balance, not battle.

Every imbalance isn’t an altar call. Some of it is your body crying out for wisdom, and wisdom is spiritual. True discernment doesn’t only bind; it balances. It doesn’t just war; it warns. It doesn’t only pray; it plans. It doesn’t just shout; it supplements. It doesn’t only lay hands; it lays boundaries.

We must get honest with ourselves. Many are not being tormented, they’re simply iron deficient. That brain fog you’re rebuking could be low B-12 or magnesium. The fatigue you call warfare might be inflammation, dehydration, and overcommitment. The anxiety that feels demonic may actually be your nervous system in overload. The confusion you’ve labeled witchcraft could be blood-sugar instability. The emotional crash that feels like a spiritual collapse might just be cortisol exhaustion.

Even hopelessness isn’t always an unclean spirit. It can be an unbalanced serotonin level.

Wellness, therefore, is not separate from spirituality; it is spiritual maturity. God’s desire is not only for your spirit to experience revival but also for your body to live in regulation. He wants your discernment dialed in, not dulled by neglect. Sometimes the most anointed thing you can do is hydrate, unplug, replenish, and rest. Rest is revelation. Stillness is strategy. Wholeness is warfare.

As 3 John 1:2 (NKJV) declares, “Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.” Prosperity is not limited to finances; it is physiological. Don’t only fast for miracles, let’s fuel for maintenance. You cannot steward glory in a system that is falling apart.

To support your health and holiness, here’s a simple Wellness Toolkit to begin restoring balance to your temple:

• Vitamin D3: sunlight in capsule form mood, bones, and immune strength.

• Magnesium Glycinate: supports calm, sleep, and stress regulation.

• Iron: combats fatigue, hair loss, and brain fog.

• Omega-3s: nourishes the brain, hormones, and joints.

• B-Complex: energizes the nervous system and supports metabolism.

• Probiotics: fortifies the gut-brain connection, vital for mood and immunity.

• Ashwagandha or Rhodiola: adaptogens that stabilize stress and enhance resilience.

• Zinc: essential for immune and hormone balance.

• Electrolytes: restore true hydration at the cellular level.

• And beyond supplements: choose whole food, gentle movement, and Sabbath rest.

Let’s stop calling imbalance the enemy. It’s not always warfare; sometimes it’s wisdom deferred. Your temple isn’t lying to you, it’s talking! The next dimension of discernment requires that you listen, nourish, and honor your body as the sacred vessel it is.

When we take care of our bodies, we sharpen our spirits. When we rest, we realign. When we replenish, we hear God more clearly. Because sometimes, the most spiritual thing you can do… is take a nap, drink some water, and schedule that lab test.

Agape Council of the Blind Honors Mr. Duke Duvall

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 22:57:11 GMT

Agape Council of the Blind Presents

Annual Prayer Breakfast

Agape Council of the Blind Presents

Annual Prayer Breakfast

Honoring Mr. Duke DuVall with the Dr. Bessie Reece Excellence Award

The Agape Council of the Blind, an affiliate of the Missouri Council of the Blind (MCB), is a 501(c)(3) organization dedicated to promoting the overall well-being of all legally blind individuals. Our mission is to be a positive influence throughout the community by providing advocacy, encouragement, and opportunities for personal growth and independence. We actively engage in efforts that promote health, education, and employment opportunities for the blind and visually impaired.

Each year, the Agape Council of the Blind hosts its Annual Prayer Breakfast — a time of fellowship, great food, inspiring music, and powerful testimonies that encourage all to walk by faith and not by sight.

This year, we are proud to honor Mr. Duke DuVall and present him with the Dr. Bessie Reece Excellence Award.

The award is named in loving memory of Dr. Bessie Reece — a true trailblazer, advocate, and Minister of the Gospel. Though visually impaired all her life, Dr. Reece never allowed her circumstances to define her. With unwavering faith and determination, she dedicated her life to empowering others and breaking down barriers for the blind and visually impaired community.

Dr. Reece served faithfully — to her family, her church, the Agape Council of the Blind, and the blind community at large. A lobbyist in Jefferson City for the Blind, she also ministered throughout Missouri prisons and the St. Louis County prison ministries, sharing hope, encouragement, and the message of love and redemption. Her selfless charge to serve truly embodied the very essence of excellence.

This year’s honoree, Mr. Duke DuVall, is President of DuVall Marketing & Development Group, Inc. and Director of Light of the World Ministries. For more than four decades, Mr. DuVall has inspired business leaders and believers across the globe through his Bible-based teachings, leadership seminars, and his daily “Moment of Inspiration” messages — encouraging countless individuals to live boldly in the love and power of Jesus Christ.

Join us for this uplifting occasion as we celebrate faith, service, and excellence! Enjoy heartfelt singing and powerful testimonies from those who are blind or visually impaired, bringing hope and inspiration to all who attend.

Special Guest Speakers:

⦁ Rev. Dr. Alice Price

⦁ Ukeme I. E. Umana, M.D., F.A.C.S. (Ophthalmologist)

Saturday, November 15, 2025

10:30 AM – 1:00 PM

Ferguson Empowerment Center, 9420 West Florissant

For tickets, call Elizabeth Brown at (314) 395-8398 or 314-496-8146

Visit www.agapecouncil.org

Domestic Violence & The Miraculous Journey of Ms. Larissa Camp

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 22:38:06 GMT

Domestic Violence and The Miraculous Journey of

"Ms. Larissa Camp"

Ms. Larissa Camp was raised in Hannibal, Missouri, by her parents, Larry and Nelreece Camp. She has one older sister and two younger brothers. Growing up in church, she attended services several days a week, but by age fifteen, she sought excitement outside of her safe world. After graduating at seventeen, she left home, and alcohol, drugs, and promiscuity soon became destructive forces in her life.

Calling on Jesus became her only hope when she faced life-threatening danger. Early relationships with older men, first jobs as a telemarketer, and later as an exotic dancer led her into a lifestyle that almost destroyed her. With God’s grace, Larissa left that life behind and closed that chapter forever.

At twenty-three, a seemingly perfect relationship turned violent. After enduring abuse and harassment, the danger escalated to a life-threatening attack. Her partner shot her hand, destroying several fingers. Miraculously, she survived, and God transformed what was meant for evil into a testimony of triumph.

Before the attack, Larissa had dreamed of being a hairstylist. Despite the injury to her hand, she discovered a miraculous ability to create extraordinary hairstyles with one hand. What could have ended her dream became her defining testimony. Larissa is doing amazing work and her clients receive an doubt blessing being in her chair. Every style she creates reflects resilience, beauty, and purpose born from pain. If you are experiencing domestic violence, Larissa’s story is a witness that you too can be delivered.

 Scriptures of Hope and Restoration

⦁ Jeremiah 29:11: “For I know the plans I have for you…plans to give you a future and a hope.”

⦁ Isaiah 61:3: “To give them beauty for ashes…garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness.”

⦁ Romans 8:28: “In all things God works for the good of those who love Him…”

You Are Not Alone

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, help is available:

Local – St. Louis, Missouri

⦁ Safe Connections: (314) 531-2003 or text 314-399-2644

⦁ ALIVE: (314) 993-2777

⦁ St. Martha’s Hall: (314) 533-1313

⦁ JADASA: 314-269-0100

National Resources

⦁ National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788

⦁ RAINN (Sexual Assault): 1-800-656-4673

⦁ Love is Respect: Text LOVEIS to 22522

God still has a plan for your life. Healing takes time, but you are worth it. Beauty truly can rise from ashes.

By Ms. Larissa Camp

“Saved and Delivered!”

THE DEMONIC SOURCE "Apostle David Rogers"

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 22:23:48 GMT

THE

DEMONIC SOURCE

"Apostle David Rogers"

I was baptized in the Holy Ghost, in September of 1990. Right after that, I was introduced to the ministry of DELIVERANCE. My journey into this sacred ministry afforded me a behind the scenes look into the demonic kingdom, which forced me to read and study at a ferocious pace. I was in the U.S. Army at the time and GOD increased my insight significantly about the foundation of this nation being rooted in Freemasonry.

THE FACTS

The CAPITOL of the U.S.A. Washington, D.C. is a shroud, dedicated to the dark art of Freemasonry, with the city, a 10 mile by 10 miles, "square", master planned in the shape of the SQUARE and COMPASS, with obelisks, Masonic Lodge, masonic inscriptions, etc. The 50 "EASTERN STARS" on the AMERICAN FLAG, in the "BLUE HOUSE" on the American Flag, all speak to the masonic influence on this country.

The first President of the United States and 24 of the 56 signers of the DECLARATION OF INDEPENDENCE were Freemasons. 41 of the 56 signers of the DECLARATION OF INDEPENDENCE were SLAVE OWNERS. 29 of the 56 signers of the DECLARATION OF INDEPENDENCE, had THEOLOGICAL DEGREES. The level of overlap is astonishing. Freemasonry, in its early stages, was exclusively, a WHITE, MALE, dominated organization. Black Men could never be initiated into their "fraternity". Deeply steeped in racism and the "ENLIGHTENMENT DOCTRINE", these men set a course, to create a "NOVUS ORDO SECLORUM' (NEW WORLD ORDER) through the "HOODWINK" to foster a pseudo-Christian nation dedicated to SATAN.

RACISM AND SACRIFICE

This dedication to SATAN was dedicated in BLOOD. 41 of the signers of the DECLARATION OF INDEPENDENCE were SLAVE OWNERS. They owned, sold, beat, rape, mutilated and murdered BLACK PEOPLE. They waged bloody wars against the Native American and Mexican populations. Hundreds of thousands of people murdered over centuries. They initiated racial assassinations, lynchings, kidnappings, and World Wars, not for righteousness, but as sacrifices to SATAN. WORLD WAR I, WORLD WAR II, KOREAN CONFLICT, VIETNAM, THE BAY OF PIGS, and the endless WAR IN THE MIDDLE EAST, all concocted conflicts, to keep the BLOOD of the INNOCENT flowing in the streets. Here in America, LSD, SPEED, COCAINE, CRACK, and now the FENTANYL/METHAMPHETAMINE launched against U.S. CITIZENS as a means to create GANG WARS, DRUG WARS, and more BLOOD SHED.

THE TARGET- OUR CHILDREN

What is lost is that our CHILDREN are the TARGETS. These demonized people in "leadership" in these political parties, are dedicated to SATAN. They traffic young people to rape, sodomize, and then sacrifice, through ritual sex magic and the drinking of BLOOD. Over 500,000 children a year DISAPPEAR in the U.S. alone. These traffickers in BLOOD, do NOTHING, when CHILDREN are massacred in their SCHOOLS. These SATANISTS, do nothing to find CHILD SEX RINGS, and to mobilize assets to arrest and incarcerate PEDOPHILES. They do nothing to prevent POVERTY which every peer reviewed study in the world says, is the entrance way to criminality. The USA spends beyond $990billion annually on its WAR MACHINE. SEX, BLOOD, and DEATH! Rich, powerful, SATANISTS, dedicated to advancing the satanic agenda, and bending the world to his will.

They have infiltrated the church. They have silenced her true Prophets and Preachers. They have neutered the church with a diabolical false doctrine, of apathy, lethargy, and listlessness, through a "faith" disconnected from true repentance and dedication to the LORD JESUS CHRIST. For centuries, Satan has used these machinations to move us closer to the point of no return. The CHURCH OF JESUS CHRIST, is the last bastion of hope. Only courageous PREACHERS OF ACTION, will be able to stave off the ever emerging evil of our day. The entire world is changing, and another WORLD WAR is imminent. How much more BLOOD will have to be shed, before the CHURCH comes into REFORMATION, and mobilizes against these satanic deceptions buried in the minds of people who idolize a nation that is under the grip of SATAN. You say you love this country, but will you deal with its BLOODY FOUNDATIONS, or continue to ignore the FACT, that SATAN is the god of this country? There is no bible anywhere, that you can show me that authorizes what we are seeing today. I thank GOD for the PREACHERS who are willing to stand and speak TRUTH TO POWER!

90-Day Money Reset After a Layoff "Uchechi Kalu, CFP"

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 22:10:16 GMT

90-Day Money Reset After

A Layoff

"Uchechi Kalu, CFP"

Losing a job can feel like the floor just dropped out from under you. For my friend, 11 years of government service ended with one phone call. Mortgage payments, daycare costs, and uncertainty hit all at once. But panic turned into a plan. This is the 90-day money reset strategy we built step by step to help her stay afloat and regain control.

Her parents are immigrants.

They always said a government job was safe.

Steady paycheck. Solid pension.

But that world doesn’t exist anymore.

She called me close to tears.

Mortgage due.

And don’t even get me started on daycare costs.

And then the fear hit: “I don’t even know where to start.”

So we built a plan.

THE FIRST 72 HOURS

⦁ List essential monthly expenses.

⦁ List cash on hand.

⦁ Create a barebones budget.

⦁ Calculate your cash runway (cash ÷ essentials).

⦁ File for unemployment.

⦁ Call all lenders (mortgage, student loans, credit cards) and ask about hardship programs, forbearance, or payment plans. Document every agreement.

⦁ Pause non-essential subscriptions.

DAYS 3–30

⦁ Pull your free credit reports.

⦁ Confirm health, life, and disability coverage during the furlough or layoff.

⦁ Understand cost of COBRA.

⦁ Explore temporary or part-time work if permitted; check agency or union rules.

⦁ Collect key documents (recent pay stubs, TSP statement, benefits summaries) in one folder.

⦁ Get written confirmation of hardship terms from all lenders.

DAYS 31–60

⦁ Shop for lower rates on auto, home, phone, and internet.

⦁ Ask for loyalty or low-income discounts.

⦁ Apply for SNAP or Medicaid if eligible.

⦁ Consider a 0% balance transfer if your credit is intact.

⦁ Apply to three jobs per week and reach out to five contacts per week to network intentionally.

DAYS 61–90

⦁ If you’re back to work: Restart your normal budget, catch up on deferred bills, and rebuild your emergency fund.

⦁ If you’re still laid off: Continue weekly job applications, networking targets, training or certification options. Note what’s working and do more of that.

⦁ If you’re separating permanently: Decide whether to keep or roll over your TSP after comparing fees, investment options, and access needs.

WHAT TO AVOID

⦁ Payday loans or high-fee cash advances.

⦁ Letting health coverage lapse.

⦁ Withdrawing retirement funds before exploring cheaper alternatives.

⦁ Missing payments without calling first and documenting hardship.

ABOVE ALL ELSE

⦁ Rest.

⦁ Feel the grief. In a capitalist society it’s never “just a job.”

⦁ Lean on community. Ask for help. Don’t go at this alone.

And if you’re looking for a Certified Financial Planner to help you get through it all, c

all me: https://lnkd.in/gHWS5JKD

About the Author

Uchechi Kalu, CFP® , is a Certified Financial Planner who helps individuals and families build financial stability through practical planning, intentional strategy, and community support. She specializes in guiding people through major life transitions with clarity and confidence.

No Father Left Behind "Shaquille Armstrong"

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 21:49:25 GMT

 No Father Left Behind: Restoring Families, Redefining Fatherhood

"Shaquille Armstrong" Founder & President

In a world where the role of fathers is often overlooked or underestimated, one Southern Illinois nonprofit is working to change that narrative. No Father Left Behind, Inc. stands as a beacon of hope and restoration for fathers, families, and communities across the region.

Founded by Shaquille Armstrong, the organization operates with a simple yet powerful mission: “Where Fatherhood is Celebrated.” Their goal is to ensure that every father — no matter his past or circumstance — is seen, supported, and celebrated for the vital role he plays in shaping strong families and thriving communities.

At the heart of No Father Left Behind are three signature events that honor the diverse faces of fatherhood:

⦁ Father’s Day Celebration – honoring fathers who lead their families with love and commitment.

⦁ Honoring the Man Who Stepped Up – recognizing stepfathers, mentors, and father figures who pour into the lives of children not biologically their own.

⦁ Saluting Young Fathers – uplifting young dads who are rewriting the narrative and showing what responsible, loving fatherhood looks like.

This fall, the organization will host one of its most inspiring events — Saluting Young Fathers — on Saturday, November 15, 2025, at the Stonewolf Banquet Center, 1195 Stonewolf Trail, Fairview Heights, Illinois. The event will include a social hour at 2 p.m. followed by a ceremony at 3 p.m., featuring music, food, and celebration. It’s an opportunity to honor young fathers who are breaking generational cycles, leading with love, and showing up every day for their families.

But Armstrong’s vision goes beyond celebration — it’s also about transformation. Through the Guide-Father Program, volunteers mentor and support incarcerated fathers, helping them rebuild relationships with their children and prepare for successful reentry. The program offers parental training, core development, and individual counseling designed to foster healing, responsibility, and reconciliation.

“Our mission is to foster and restore broken relationships between incarcerated fathers and their children,” Armstrong explains. “When fathers are restored, families are strengthened — and when families are strong, communities thrive.”

No Father Left Behind operates on the belief that it takes a village not only to raise a child, but also to restore a father. “Many of these men have been written off by society,” Armstrong says, “but we are here to remind them that they still have a future worth fighting for and a family worth returning to.”

With gratitude, determination, and faith, No Father Left Behind, Inc. continues to build that village — one father, one family, one community at a time.

Welcome Home After Incarceration "Pastor Alfred Long Sr"

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 21:40:17 GMT

Welcome Home After Incarceration

"Pastor Alfred Long Sr."

Coming home after incarceration is more than a second chance—it is a sacred opportunity for healing, renewal, and hope. The journey is not without challenges. Many individuals carry invisible wounds from trauma, broken relationships, and the weight of starting over. But trauma-informed reentry reminds us that people are not defined by their past mistakes; they are defined by their God-given potential to rise above them.

Scripture declares, “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because He has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners” (Isaiah 61:1). This powerful promise speaks directly to the heart of reentry—it is about restoration, healing, and new beginnings.

When we embrace compassion, safety, and dignity in reentry, we partner with God’s redemptive work. Every step toward trust, every act of support, and every open door becomes a testimony that redemption is possible. Lives can be renewed, families can be restored, and communities can be strengthened. Trauma-informed reentry is not just about reducing recidivism—it is about unlocking purpose, instilling hope, and seeing the miracle of transformation.

Successful reentry is not just the work of programs or systems—it is the work of communities, churches, and compassionate hearts willing to walk alongside those who are starting over. Trauma-informed strategies give us the tools to see beyond a person’s past and to speak life into their future. But it takes all of us to create an environment where healing is possible and hope is restored The Bible reminds us, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds” (Psalm 147:3). God’s heart is for restoration, and He calls His people to be partners in that healing. Every church that opens its doors, every mentor who listens without judgment, and every community member who offers a helping hand becomes part of God’s redemptive story.

Now is the time to rise and stand in the gap. Together, we can help returning citizens discover their God-given worth, break free from cycles of trauma, and step into the fullness of who they were created to be. When we embrace trauma-informed reentry, we are not just changing lives—we are transforming generations.

Isaiah 61:1 – “He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives.”

Psalm 147:3 – “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds .”

Romans 12:2 – Renewing the mind is a key element of transformation

These scriptures remind us that healing, freedom, and renewal are possible to all our returning population through faith.

All we must do is suit up and show up!

Pastor Alfred Long Sr has 47 years of Prison Ministry and is certified to help your Church set up a trauma informed Prison and Reentry Program.

Contact him for a free consulting appointment.

along@jacobslm.com

(314) 283-9052

Artificial Intelligence "Donna Scott"

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 21:23:02 GMT

Artificial Intelligence

"Donna Scott"

Blessings All! I recently posted on my personal Facebook some AI Generated images of myself with this caption. “So, there’s a lot of talk about AI and Chat GPT. We have LONG understood that technology was going to be the leverage for the “BEAST” in the end time!! I work in the IT community corporately and the evolution of strategic initiative AI for data analytics has been beneficial for coders, developers and programmers like me! BUT when using it for personal use PLEASE exercise discernment and NEVER use it in place of the VOICE or WORD of God. I understand fully the ramifications of AI in this hour, but meanwhile I LOVE taking what the devil desires to use as a weapon as a vehicle for change and exaltation of the things of God!” Surprisingly, I received some questions and even religious criticism. I am grateful for this opportunity to give more depth on my thoughts and as a prophetic voice to declare the warning of the Lord.

Artificial Intelligence did not just recently emerge, but has been around since mythical days, but saw real-life growth with the invention of the programmable digital computer in the 1940s. Serious discussion of creating an electronic brain quickly followed. By 1956 on the campus of Dartmouth College AI research was founded. The U.S. begun funding initiatives that cost millions of dollars, but by 1974 the government deemed this funding unproductive and stopped supporting the advancement of AI. Subsequently, the Japanese government found success and invested billions. It wasn’t until the 2020’s that the AI boom began to take off further with the development of things like Chat GPT. This development of human-like traits of knowledge, attention, and creativity, was integrated into various sectors, fueling exponential investment in AI.

Today AI has become the shining light in the technology community, but ultimately is a dark spot in the religious/church community. Many believe that AI has and will further become a reduction of humanity and the human experience to a data flow or taping into a digital cloud. The thought that technology and science is tampering with the creation of mankind we see in Genesis 1:27 has become one of the talking points that has ramped up the opposition to the use of AI within the church. While this is not the only talking point, it is my opinion that our emphasis on avoiding this powerful technology would be better used in fueling the ways the church can use this powerful tool as a weapon in our toolbox to reach the world for Jesus.

My first argument would be for any individual to decide if AI would be a natural tool or spiritual one? My unequivocal answer to this question is a resounding NATURAL! I know many will dispute this answer, but my answer is purely based on my belief that the voice of GOD is the sovereign voice for ALL spiritual matters. Grammatical corrections, engaging graphics, historical facts, and revealing and discovering history are all great and should stop there. Once we consider AI to answer in God’s stead or in place of biblical guidance, we have now established altars, where we offer our minds or should I say souls on the altars of technology.

Recently the Christian podcast, Nomad, interviewed the AI bot, ChatGPT, on the implications of using AI particularly in faith settings. ChatGPT came up with some thoughtful comments emphasizing that: “ AI brings new dimensions of opportunity, but this must go hand in hand with responsibility”. The key is RESPONSIBILITY! AI is not going away but rather there are behind the scenes efforts to enhance its capabilities even more. The future of AI is huge. Not just for the technology of it all, but for the lucrative opportunities this one area in the technical community is fostering. Data centers being built in cities throughout the country offer new jobs for the community and huge contracts for energy delivery organizations.

It is my desire to spark conversation and real introspection in this area. By giving the positive aspects is not an attempt to persuade, but to show how like much of what the 21st century new inventions this too can serve as something positive for our everyday life ad life’s responsibilities, but like many of these inventions, in the wrong hands or wrong motives or under the demonic influence it can be detrimental. There is one simple biblical truth that should prompt us to steer away from the desire to take this tool as our spiritual guide. ! GOD IS A JEALOUS GOD! Sisters, Brothers, Friend and Enemies if there is nothing else you remember in THIS article, please remember this one thing putting anything before or in place of God WILL prove to be a deadly mistake. Check your AI use and know if it is of GOD!

John’s Legacy of Faith, Fatherhood, & Fortitude "John Crawford|

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 09:52:48 GMT

“Wired with Purpose: John’s Legacy of Faith, Fatherhood, and Fortitude”

"John Crawford"

Even at 87 years old, John has a spark and a sharpness in his voice that commands your attention making you sit up and listen. He may be retired now, but his life is still full of energy—both the kind that powered a city and the kind that fueled a family.

John’s story begins at 16, working summer jobs with his uncle, a respected electrical contractor in the city of St. Louis. Those summers planted a seed and initiated his love for the electrical trade. After graduating from high school, John entered the Navy, where his technical training and discipline deepened. He served aboard ship as an electrician’s apprentice and quickly rose to the rank of Electrician’s Mate Second Class by the time he was honorably discharged in 1960.

When he returned to St. Louis, John continued working for his uncle, but his path soon took a bold turn. In 1962, Congressman Bill Clay encouraged him to take the city’s electrician exam. At that time, the construction trades were heavily segregated, and Black workers were often kept from meaningful opportunities. John not only took the exam—he scored the highest possible mark.

But even excellence wasn’t enough to earn him acceptance.

Despite his score, John was told he wasn’t qualified. In fact, it took legal support from his family and Congressman Clay to finally open the door. John became the first Black electrician on the International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers (IBEW) team in the city of St. Louis. But instead of being celebrated, he was shunned.

“I was the fly in the ice cream,” he says. “No one wanted to work with me. No one wanted to have lunch with me. It was lonely.”

The rejection was isolating, and the emotional toll was heavy. But John showed up anyway—because he had a wife and three daughters who were depending on him. He endured the abuse not out of weakness, but out of conviction. He knew what was at stake – he had his wife and three girls that were watching.

Over the next several years, the union shuffled him between job sites, but with every move came greater income and growing recognition. Eventually, John joined Anheuser-Busch—first on the bottling line, trouble-shooting complex machinery, and then later at the corporate office. He ended his career maintaining the personal properties of Gussie Busch himself.

But it wasn’t just his career that kept him going. It was his faith.

John shared that his faith provided guidance and gave him hope—especially in the Navy, where early on he was told he’d never be more than a steward’s mate. The military may have been officially desegregated, but old mindsets lingered. It was John’s belief in God—and in his God-given worth—that helped him push past barriers others accepted.

“Faith gave me hope,” he says. “It gave me the desire to do better.”

Now, John looks at his children’s lives and sees the fruit of his labor. They understand the sacrifices he made. They understand what it means to work hard, push forward, and lead with integrity.

His advice to young fathers today is simple and powerful:

“Have hope. Desire to do better. Society might try to knock you down—especially young Black men - but there are more opportunities now than ever. Get an education. Find something you love doing. Work at it. Don’t accept minimum wage—strive to do better.”

More than anything, John wants to be a light—not just in his home, but in his community and profession. He wants young people to see what’s possible. His life may have been filled with hardship, but it has also been filled with purpose—and that’s what he hopes others will carry forward.

Interviewed by Roderick Warren

Responsible Fathers, Responsible Men "Pastor Alfred T. Long "

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 09:43:20 GMT

Responsible Fathers, Responsible Men: A Father’s Day Salute to

Non-Custodial Dads

"Pastor Alfred T. Long Sr."

Father’s Day is a time to honor the men who shape lives, lead with quiet strength, and love without condition. While many tributes will rightly celebrate fathers who are present in the home, today I want to shine a light on a group often overlooked—non-custodial fathers. These are the dads who may not live under the same roof as their children but continue to show up with love, support, and sacrifice.

Too often, non-custodial fathers are painted with a broad and unfair brush. Society tends to focus on the few who fall short and ignore the many who are doing their best, despite challenges. Many of these fathers pay child support, attend school meetings when allowed, make those late-night phone calls to hear about a child’s day, and pray daily for the well-being of their sons and daughters. Though their physical presence may be limited, their emotional commitment is deep and unwavering.

Some are battling legal systems, strained co-parenting dynamics, or financial hardship. Others are dealing with personal recovery, growth, or healing. But through it all, they are still responsible fathers and responsible men. Their consistent efforts—sending support, showing up emotionally, and staying engaged—matter. They count. You count.

To every non-custodial father reading this: do not let your current situation make you feel invisible. You are seen. Your sacrifices are not in vain. You are not disqualified from being a great father simply because of your address. Being a father is more than proximity; it’s about heart, intention, and action.

And yes, while many of you are doing what needs to be done, I want to lovingly encourage you—do not stop there. Make reconciliation and reconnection a goal. If the door is open, step toward building stronger relationships with your children. Write that letter. Make that visit. Schedule that call. If there has been distance, do not lose hope. Healing takes time, but hope can light the way forward.

This Father’s Day, I salute every father who continues to carry the weight of responsibility with dignity, even when it goes unnoticed. I applaud the dads who are climbing uphill to stay connected, who refuse to let their past mistakes define their future with their children.

Let this be your reminder: You are not forgotten. Your love is powerful. Your efforts matter. And your story is not finished.

So, to the non-custodial dads, keep showing up—not always in person, but always in spirit, in truth, and in love. Your children need you. And the world needs more men like you.

Happy Father’s Day!

Responsible fathers.

Responsible men.

Respected and honored.

Pastor Alfred T. Long Sr. is Founder and Director of Jacob’s Ladder Ministries.

He conducts 24/7 Dad programs in our correctional facilities in St. Louis City and County Jails.

Contact him if you are interested in starting a 24/7 Dad program at your church or organization.

along@jacobslm.com

(314) 282-7220

TFCES Celebrates Fathers Day

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 01:32:47 GMT

TRANSITION FOR CHANGE EMPLOYMENT PROGRAM

Celebrates Fathers Day

Father’s Day, we proudly celebrate all fathers including the often-overlooked heroes—our non-custodial fathers who are showing up, stepping up, and staying committed. Through the Urban League of Missouri Transition for Change Employment Services program, these men enrolled are proving that responsible fatherhood is not defined by custody, but by commitment. This program is funded through ARCHS. On June 1, 2025, we started the Father’s Day Celebration month with a dinner and program honoring our participants with special guest and community leaders.

Over the past year, the program has helped many non-custodial parents—primarily fathers—access job training, secure employment, and increase their capacity to consistently support their children financially and emotionally. With guidance from our staff of a program director, case manage and job developer the participants are learning more than just work skills—they’re learning how to rebuild and sustain the foundation of fatherhood.

The program includes more than a good job or meaningful career; it’s about dignity. Every resume updated, every certification earned, every paycheck received—each is a step toward breaking cycles of poverty and disengagement. These fathers are not statistics. They are warehouse workers, delivery drivers, electricians, apprentices, and entrepreneurs. They are men who love their children and are determined to be present in their lives, regardless of the challenges they face.

We know that child support can often feel like a financial burden, but in truth, it's an act of love. It’s a commitment to providing not only financially, but emotionally and spiritually. Our participants are redefining what it means to be a provider. They are proof that with the right support, men can rise above barriers and become the fathers their children need and deserve.

In recognition of this progress, Sam Paige, County Executive of St. Louis County issued a Proclamation honoring the accomplishments of our program and the vital role of non-custodial parents. This acknowledgment reinforces what we already know: when we invest in fathers, we invest in families.

To the fathers in our program: keep going. You matter. Your children are watching, and your efforts are making a difference. To non-custodial parents looking for gainful employment leading you to a career Call 314-782-5607.

This Father’s Day, we salute you—not just for being dads, but for being responsible men.

Marilyn Parker - Program Director

Paula Crawford - Job Developer

Regina McCoy - Case Manager

A Black Mother's Father's Day Vision "Melody Fogarty"

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 01:14:43 GMT

For the Hands That Hold Us Steady: A Black Mother's Father's Day Vision

"Melody Fogarty"

As a Black mother, watching the sunset paint the sky tonight, my heart isn't just filled with love for my own child's father, but with a profound, resonant gratitude for **all** of you. Yes, you. Every single father – Black, white, Latino, Asian, Indigenous, of every faith and every background – who wakes up each day committed to loving, raising, guiding, and protecting a Black child.

Tonight, as I look at my own child sleeping, safe and dreaming big, I see beyond the present. I see the future we are *all* building together, brick by brick, hug by hug, lesson by lesson. And fathers, you are the unwavering foundation.

Thank you. Thank you for showing up. Not just physically, but emotionally, spiritually, consistently. Thank you for the bedtime stories that weave magic and history. Thank you for the scraped-knee bandages and the tough conversations about a world that doesn't always see their brilliance. Thank you for teaching them to tie their shoes, throw a ball, cook a meal, change a tire, and, most crucially, to respect themselves and others. Thank you for the whispered affirmations: "You are strong." "You are smart." "You are worthy." "You are loved, unconditionally."

Thank you for the sacrifices seen and unseen – the long hours worked, the dreams deferred, the patience stretched thin but never breaking. Thank you for modeling integrity, for showing them what it means to be a man who respects women, who handles responsibility, who owns his mistakes and strives to be better. Thank you for teaching them to navigate complexity, to question injustice, to find their voice, and to use it with conviction and compassion.

But my gratitude isn't just for yesterday and today. It's fuel for the vision we share for *tomorrow*. The vision you are actively shaping through your daily love and labor.

The vision I see, the future we are co-creating, is one of Freedom Without Limitation.

I see a future where our Black children step into the world unburdened by the weight of predetermined ceilings or the distortion of harmful stereotypes. I see them walking with heads held high, not because they are defiant, but because their inherent dignity is recognized and reflected back at them in every classroom, every boardroom, every courtroom, every street corner.

I see them pursuing their passions without artificial barriers – whether it's astrophysics or agriculture, coding or carpentry, artistry or activism – guided only by the expanse of their own imagination and effort. I see their brilliance illuminating solutions to global challenges, their creativity enriching culture beyond measure, their empathy forging deeper connections across all divides.

I see a world where their Blackness is not a hurdle to overcome, but a source of strength, history, and unique perspective celebrated as an integral thread in the vibrant tapestry of humanity. A world where their safety is assumed, their potential is nurtured, and their dreams are met not with skepticism, but with genuine support and opportunity.

This is the destination: Freedom Without Limitation. Freedom to be, to become, to thrive, to soar. Unconstrained by systemic bias, unhindered by fear, unlimited by the low expectations of others.

And fathers, you are the architects of this freedom. You build it:

* In the resilience you model: Showing them how to face adversity with grace and grit.

* In the boundaries you set: Teaching them self-discipline and respect, the cornerstones of true freedom.

* In the love you pour: Filling their emotional reservoirs so they know their worth isn't defined by the outside world.

* In the conversations you have: Preparing them for reality while fiercely protecting their hope.

* In the communities you build: Creating networks of support and belonging that amplify their strength.

You are dismantling old limitations with every affirming word, every protective stance, every lesson in self-worth and history. You are planting seeds of boundless potential that will grow forests of achievement.

So, this Father’s Day, we see you. We honor you. We thank you – deeply, powerfully – for the fathers you are today. And we stand beside you, full of hope and unwavering commitment, as we journey towards that bright horizon together.

Keep holding their hands steady. Keep speaking life into their spirits. Keep showing them the way. The future – that glorious, limitless future – is being built right now, in the love and lessons you give each day.

With profound respect, gratitude, and shared vision,

Regards,

Melody Fogarty

We Need to Talk About Mental Health "Roger Whittler"

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 00:38:53 GMT

We Need to Talk About

Mental Health

"Roger Whittler, LPC"

As America struggles with what many call a mental health crisis, I think it is time to advocate for change in how mental health is addressed. As a result of a myriad of decisions made by political leaders, community leaders, organizations and wealthy stakeholders, the overall mental health of Americans has suffered, and mental health services have become harder to get. We need to talk about what works, and a use a question I frequently ask in family counseling sessions, “what is the smallest thing we can do?” As a parent, friend or family member, what can be done? For Black History Month, I want to reflect back on my childhood, a time when mental health services were readily available, no insurance, no diagnosis or appointment necessary – it was free, and came from my PARENTS, FRIENDS, and FAMILY (PFF). For example, mental health clinicians like myself are trained to:

• Show Unconditional Positive Regard

• Assist in Establishing Boundaries (what is off-limits and what is acceptable)

• Set and Enforce Rules

• Confront Clients When Necessary

• Hold Clients Accountable

• Maintain Client’s Confidentiality

• Support Clients In Pursuing Career Goals

• Identify Client’s Strengths and Weaknesses

• Allow Clients to Express their Emotions (clean the chimney I call it)

• Provide A Safe Environment

• Inform Clients on the Benefits of Altruism (helping others)

• Provide Researched and Evidence-Based Treatment/Advice

This is not supposed to be a complete list of everything a licensed professional counselor does during the course of attending to clients. My point here is – this is what a PFF does. I’m certain those reading this can reflect back and recall their parents, friends and family keeping confidence – not talking aloud about shortcomings, or (gossiping about everything). The cornerstone of counseling is confidentiality, otherwise no person would trust the counseling profession. This is the same for PFF’s, maintaining confidential discussions allows people to have trust for the next time they need to talk. We can reflect back and remember we were loved even when we messed up. We had rules and if we didn’t follow them, there were consequences. We had to pursue something, we couldn’t just sit at home and play video games.

We could talk to our PFF’s, and they had time to listen. We felt safe, and what they told us was well researched and in our best interest. We were expected to take their advice and follow through, (there was no rationalization, “I don’t want to do it that way.”) When teachers at school or others were in charge of us – we were never told “you don’t have to listen to them.” Just the opposite, “you had better listen.” Finally – we were taught that giving of what we had, and contributing to others’ happiness made us happy, only taking from others was a bad thing. My hope is that during Black History Month and beyond – we can have a discussion, while we all reflect on our history and know, the effort it takes to be a PFF in this way, may not be comfortable for all in involved.

The short-term can be difficult at times, but the benefits support good mental health; they protect the person from developing mental illness in the first place. In no way am I implicating parents, friends and family as the cause of a person’s mental illness – most have done the best they could, with what they had. I do feel that PFF’s, when given the resources, can help turn the tide of the rise in mental illness. I am speaking provisionally here, we need more discussion on this topic in our communities, and we need more PFF’s.

The Role of A Spiritual Father "Bryan Cutshall"

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 00:12:51 GMT

The Role of A Spiritual Father

"Bryan Cutshall"

This week has been a powerful reminder of one of my divine assignments in this season: the role of a spiritual father. I’ve had the joy of sitting with several young ministers, pouring into their lives, encouraging their calling, and helping shape their future. I have two more of those meetings today.

Just a few nights ago at OCI, we dedicated nine children to the Lord, and I taught on the importance of raising godly children. Moments like these confirm that while I may not be old, I have stepped into a different season—one that I once resisted. After years of traveling, speaking, and training leaders, stepping into the spiritual father role felt, at first, like a step down. But I was wrong. It wasn’t a demotion—it was a divine promotion.

It reminds me of Elijah. At one point in his life, God shifted his assignment—from being a prophet to becoming a spiritual father. That transition happened in a place of prayer and fasting. Elijah entered that moment as a prophet and emerged as a father.

God gave him a new commission:

• Anoint Hazael.

• Anoint Jehu.

• Anoint Elisha.

And with that, God gave him two clear instructions:

1. Return to your ministry.

2. Raise up sons and daughters.

In essence, God said, “Stop focusing only on your journey and start preparing the next generation for theirs.”

From that point forward, everything changed.

Those who had followed Elijah were no longer called the company of prophets—they became known as the SONS OF THE PROPHET.

And Elisha, his spiritual son, carried on the mantle by establishing a school—a dwelling place for young prophets to live, learn, and be equipped. From that school, they were sent out to impact the world.

What a powerful reminder: God doesn’t just use us for a season—He shifts us into new ones to multiply His work through others. This is not a lesser calling; it is a legacy.

What Christian’s Should Know About Hospice "Rev. Dr. Wil Goatley, Jr."

Wed, 18 Jun 2025 00:04:15 GMT

What Christian’s Should Know About Hospice

"Rev. Dr. Wil Goatley, Jr."

It was very difficult to make the decision to put my father on hospice. But when it was needed it was the best decision for him. As a hospice chaplain many people may not understand the care that a hospice program can provide.

Hospice is a program Christians should understand. As a program it is usually financed as a benefit of the Medicare or Medicaid program. It is a benefit paid for by your tax dollars. You don’t have to go to hospice; the program will come to you.

If your loved one has been diagnosed with a terminal illness, and if they qualify for hospice, they will receive help at home, or at a skilled nursing facility. Hospice will pay for your medications related to the terminal diagnosis, medical equipment, and a team of professionals that will work with the family such as a Registered Nurse/Case Manager, a Home Health Aide, a Social Worker and a Chaplain. Many programs also provide the services of volunteers who also make visits to patients and their families.

One reason people should know about hospice is the help people can receive at the end of a terminal illness. Many families are helped knowing that their loved one will receive special services that compliment what they receive from a skilled nursing facility or family members who are serving their loved ones twenty-four hours a day at home.

Dame Cicely Saunders, a London Physician is credited with beginning the modern hospice movement in 1967. She established the St. Christopher’s Hospice in a suburb outside of London in the town of Sydenham. Dr. Saunders emphasized the management of pain and symptoms. She wanted to teach the patient as a living person, not just a collection of dying symptoms.

Just two years later, Dr. Elisabeth Kubler-Ross then a Chicago physician, wrote her ground breaking book on the end of life entitled, “On Death and Dying”. This book told the story of dying patients and how they desired to be cared for.

As a philosophy, hospice care is not about giving up hope. IT is rather a philosophy about living to the best of one’s ability the life one has left. Dying is seldom easy. It requires courage on the part of the terminally ill patient and family to face the enormous physical and emotional challenges of dying. While the hope for a miracle cure is not ruled out, the hope for reconciling relationships, bringing closure to personal affairs, expressing love and saying good-byes can be just as rewarding. For the terminally ill, the time remaining may afford an opportunity for spiritual reflections and growth.

The Old Testament book of Jeremiah offers a wealth of material on the theme of “suffering and dying”. The weeping prophet asks, “Is there no Balm in Gilead? Is there no Physician there? Then why has no new skin grown over their wound? Would that my head were water, my eyes a fountain of tears, that day and night I might weep for the slain of my daughter—my people!” (Jer. 8:22-23). Jeremiah as a prophet of God was both delivering a message of judgment and sharing in the sufferings of the people.

This combination of “love and anguish” is peculiarly seen in the book of Jeremiah. God’s people are broken. The prophet Jeremiah is broken. It is the Balm of Gilead that is the medicine for the healing of a broken people. “But Gilead’s balm and the doctor’s care was not enough for the deep wound inflicted on the people”. Jeremiah is going to identify with the cry of the exiles anticipated in the book.

Hospice takes into account the suffering of the patient and family. For Christians, they should not be afraid of investigating the hospice program when needed. It may offer much needed care to you and your family.

Fighting Forward: The Faithful Father's Call "Pastor Fred Lemons"

Tue, 17 Jun 2025 23:34:41 GMT

Fighting Forward: The Faithful Father's Call

"Pastor Fred Lemons"

"A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling." - Psalm 68:5

The alarm clock hasn't even sounded yet, but I'm already awake at 5:47 AM. Something deeper than caffeine pulls me from sleep. It's the Holy Ghost moving in my spirit, preparing me for another day of warfare. Joshua 1:9 cuts through the pre-dawn darkness: "Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest."

Every father who truly understands his calling knows that faithful fatherhood is war from sunrise to sundown. We're engaged in supernatural combat for our children's souls, standing guard against an enemy who never clocks out. Satan targets our families with laser precision because he understands what we sometimes forget: destroy the family structure, destroy the kingdom.

But here's where the enemy miscalculated. Deuteronomy 31:6 reminds me that I'm not fighting alone: "Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them: for the Lord thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee!" When I'm interceding for my household at midnight, the Creator of the universe stands with me. When I'm making hard decisions about my children's future, divine wisdom guides me.

Last week, I sat across from a father whose teenager had just been arrested. His eyes held that familiar look of defeat I've seen too often. "Pastor," he said, "maybe I'm just not cut out for this." I opened my Bible to Ephesians 6:12 and reminded him: "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places."

His son's rebellion wasn't just teenage defiance. We were confronting demonic forces targeting his boy. We were resisting spiritual powers trying to manipulate his daughter. We were demolishing strongholds threatening his home. Once he understood the real battlefield, everything changed.

That's what faithful fatherhood looks like in 2025. Like Nehemiah rebuilding Jerusalem's walls with construction tools in one hand and weapons in the other, we're simultaneously developing our children's character while defending against cultural corruption. We're building their confidence while blocking confusion. We're establishing their identity while eliminating lies.

I remember a time when my own son came home discouraged after his coach benched him. Society would tell me to coddle him or blame the system. But Psalm 127:1 settled my response: "Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it." When the Almighty architects your family, temporary setbacks become setup for comebacks. I didn't minimize his pain, but I reminded him that his worth isn't determined by playing time.

The statistics want to paint us as failures. Media portrays us as missing in action. But I know what Psalm 112:2 declares: "His seed shall be mighty upon earth: the generation of the upright shall be blessed!" My children carry divine DNA. My lineage flows with heaven's favor. My legacy stands unshakeable, not because I'm flawless, but because I'm faithful.

First Timothy 5:8 hits different for Black fathers navigating systems designed without us in mind: "But if any provide not for his own, and especially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel." Provision transcends paychecks. It includes prayer coverage, demands physical presence, and requires spiritual protection. I provide divine covering through midnight intercession. I provide emotional security by showing up when it matters.

Some mornings, like today, I remember Malachi 4:6: "And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers." This generation demands fathers who pivot from distractions to devotion, from career obsession to family investment. I watch too many men chase worldly success while their children starve for attention.

The enemy whispers that my past mistakes disqualify me. But Second Corinthians 5:17 rewrites that narrative: "Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new!" I represent divine renovation. I embody supernatural redemption. Yesterday's failures don't define today's fathering.

When my daughter faced identity confusion at school, I told her about Isaiah 54:13: "And all thy children shall be taught of the Lord; and great shall be the peace of thy children." She needs divine revelation, not just textbook knowledge. When I teach her God's Word, I'm equipping her for spiritual combat.

Romans 8:28 is still relevant and powerful in 2025: "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." When teenagers rebel, God orchestrates redemption. When marriages struggle, God engineers’ restoration.

So, brothers’ tomorrow morning before your family rises, declare Philippians 4:13 over your household: "I can do all things through Christ which strengthened me!" Your sacrifice matters. Your prayers penetrate heaven. God’s presence shapes eternity.

Fight forward, fathers. Fight forward!

7 Keys to Living a Resurrected Life "James Paine Jr., Ph.D."

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 20:58:25 GMT

7 Keys To Living

A Resurrected Life

#ResurrectedWithHim 24/7/365

By James Paine Jr., Ph.D.

Let’s be honest—Easter, for many, has become just another holiday on the calendar. Bright pastel ads, last-minute retail runs, and overflowing candy aisles often drown out the deeper meaning of the season. Somewhere between the eggs and the brunch reservations, the Church faces a real question: Are we letting culture turn the resurrection into a seasonal backdrop—or are we living like it's the center of everything?

The resurrection of Jesus isn’t just a one-day event to celebrate. It’s an everyday reality we’re called to live. Christ didn’t just conquer death so we could remember it once a year—He rose so that we could rise with Him. The power that raised Him is available to us right now, not just on Easter morning but on random Tuesdays, in tough seasons, and in the quiet moments that shape our lives.

Living a resurrected life doesn’t mean we won’t face struggles. It means we face them differently—anchored in victory, grounded in purpose, and empowered by grace. The resurrection isn’t just a moment in history—it’s a roadmap for your daily walk.

Here are seven practical ways to live that out.

1. Make God's Presence Your Priority

Before anything else—seek Him. His presence is the foundation for everything that follows.

Before God gave Adam purpose, work, or even companionship, He gave him His presence. That hasn’t changed. Your greatest asset in this life isn’t your resume or your resources—it’s your relationship with Him. When you stay rooted in God’s presence, you’ll find that He takes care of your pace, your direction, and even your peace. Don’t let anyone or anything pull you away from that.

2. Live with Kingdom Authority

You weren’t created to survive your environment—you were made to rule in it.

God gave Adam dominion—real authority to shape and steward his environment (Gen. 1:26). That same spirit lives in you. You weren’t made to live at the mercy of your circumstances. The same power that raised Jesus is alive in you, and it enables you to lead, decide, overcome, and thrive.

3. Steward What God Has Entrusted

Everything in your hands belongs to Him—manage it like it matters.

Here’s the truth: it’s all God’s. Your time, your talent, your money, your influence—none of it is truly yours. But He’s entrusted it to you to manage well. Scripture tells us that nothing even grew on the earth until someone was there to steward it (Gen. 2:4-5). God’s looking for people He can trust with His stuff. Let that be you.

4. Build a Circle That Strengthens You

The right relationships will guide, challenge, and keep you grounded.

We’re not built to go solo. Proverbs says there’s safety in good counsel, and it’s true. You need three kinds of people in your life: someone ahead of you to mentor you, someone beside you to walk with you, and someone behind you who you can help bring along. Healthy relationships keep you grounded, growing, and spiritually sharp.

5. Stay Spiritually Connected Through Prayer

Prayer is not a task—it’s your lifeline to power, peace, and direction.

Prayer isn’t outdated—it’s essential. It’s not just something you check off a list; it’s how you stay in sync with God. We live in a hyper-connected world, yet many of us feel spiritually disconnected. Prayer realigns your heart, recharges your spirit, and reminds you who’s really in control. It’s not a backup plan—it’s your lifeline.

6. Invite God Into Your Everyday Work

You weren’t meant to hustle alone—fruitfulness flows from divine partnership.

Jesus said, “Abide in Me, and I in you” (John 15:4). That word “abide” just means stay close—stay connected. You don’t have to grind your way through life. When you invite God into your plans, you tap into something bigger than your own hustle. The branch can’t bear fruit on its own—it has to stay connected to the vine. That’s where the strength and fruitfulness come from.

7. Live Like God is Watching—Because He Is

Your choices matter. God honors integrity and rewards faithfulness.

1 Peter 3:12 reminds us that God’s eyes are on those who live right, and His ears are open to their prayers. God sees it all—the public wins and the private struggles. Nothing goes unnoticed. He honors integrity, rewards obedience, and delights in those who live like He’s watching—because He is. Favor flows through faithfulness.

So as we celebrate Easter and reflect on Christ’s sacrifice and victory, let’s go one step further. Let’s not just mark the resurrection on our calendars—let’s carry it in our hearts. Every day. In every decision. In every season.

Live like He really got up—and like you did, too.

James Paine, Jr., Ph.D. is a native St. Louisan, author, minister, speaker, and executive leader based in New York City. He currently serves as President and CEO of the third-largest community health system in New York City. Dr. Paine speaks and writes on marketplace ministry and is the author of Workplace Worship: How to Practice Your Faith Without Preaching a Word and Grow Your Career in the Process.

A Tribute to Apostle Ricky Floyd

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 20:48:11 GMT

"A Tribute To

Apostle Ricky Floyd"

We Celebrate the life and legacy of Apostle Rickey D. Floyd

"Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints." Psalms 116:15

A Tribute to Pastor Ricky D. Floyd:

The Friend Who Changed My Life

by Dr. Robert J. Watkins, Founder of Kings & Priests, Inc.

Some people leave a mark on your organization. Others leave a mark on your heart. Pastor Ricky D. Floyd did both.

It’s hard to put into words what this man meant to me, to Kings & Priests, and to so many others who were blessed to cross his path. He wasn’t just a board member—he was a cornerstone. Not just a pastor—he was a prophet in sneakers, a comedian in the Spirit, and a mentor to men from every walk of life.

For over a decade, Pastor Ricky never missed a Kings & Priests board meeting. Not one. Whether we were gathering in Atlanta, Orlando, or somewhere in between, he was always there first—usually already sipping coffee and cracking jokes before the rest of us could even find parking. But don’t let the humor fool you: when it came to the things of God, Pastor Floyd was serious. Dead serious.

You’d think a man with such insight, wisdom, and fire would carry an air of spiritual superiority. Not Ricky. He came to every meeting with a servant’s towel, not a title.

He would encourage you, rebuke you (with love and a laugh), and make sure you were walking upright before God—and he'd do it all before the opening prayer. He was transparent, raw, and real—especially when it came to his own struggles. His vulnerability wasn’t weakness; it was a weapon that helped other men drop their guard and start healing.

He and his beloved Sheila—who he literally could not go three minutes without mentioning—were a walking sermon on love, redemption, and loyalty. The man was head-over-heels in love with his wife. Every conversation eventually circled back to “my bride, Sheila.” He said her name like it was a prayer. You’d think they just got married yesterday the way he talked about her—with awe, passion, and honor.

One of my most cherished memories was when Ricky and Sheila hosted our Kings & Priests Valentine’s Weekend. Their honesty about marriage—the good, the bad, the hilarious, and the hard—was so healing for all of us. He didn’t pretend to be perfect. He didn’t preach at us. He opened his life and his heart. And in doing so, he opened ours. That weekend, I didn’t just hear about transformation—I felt it.

But if I’m honest, what impacted me the most wasn’t his public ministry—it was the private friendship. Pastor Ricky took the time to be my friend. He counseled me through moments where I didn’t know if I was coming or going—when the weight of leadership, marriage, and ministry felt like too much. He didn’t give me churchy clichés. He gave me time. He gave me presence. He gave me truth.

There’s a kind of grief that feels like a punch to the chest. That’s what this feels like. Because when a man of God like Ricky Floyd leaves this earth, he doesn’t just leave behind memories—he leaves behind legacy. A legacy of laughter and loyalty. Of wisdom and worship. Of faithfulness and friendship.

I can still hear his voice in my head: “Doc, don’t you let them folks steal your joy. Stay in love with God and in love with Riva. Everything else will line up.”

I’ll never forget those words. I’ll never forget his impact.

Pastor Ricky D. Floyd wasn’t just a board member. He was the heartbeat of the room. The smile in the storm. The reminder that you can be powerful, broken, holy, and hilarious all at the same time—and still be God’s man.

Thank you, Pastor Ricky, for your life. Your love. Your laughter. And your legacy. I miss you deeply. But I hear you clearly.

And I promise—I'll keep building what we started. I’ll honor the God you loved. And I’ll always keep Sheila and your family in prayer, just like you asked.

Rest well, my brother. You ran your race. You did it right.

And you did it with God, a prayer, and a whole lot of love. You are a King & Priest, forever.

Love Letter to My Brother, Apostle - Pastor Rickey D. Floyd

If I were asked to describe you in one word, I would have to boldly declare, “Impossible.” Meaning it’s impossible to describe such a soul in just one word!

I can describe the love that engulfed your soul, the way a warm blanket wraps us on a cold winter’s night. Love enveloped you as if God decided to cover you in extra layers because He knew you would freely give so much of it away. And that’s exactly what you did.

You loved from a place of pure intention. It was your mission to spread as much of it as you could in the days given to you to walk this earth.

You were intentional about caring, sharing, teaching, and giving. You sought out new and unconventional ways to show people love. It didn’t matter if you knew them or not. You possessed a caring heart that overcame all obstacles. You understood your assignment and were determined to see it through. Even in challenging times when it may have been difficult to give love, you continued to pour into others. Often depleting your cup and having to take time to refill it.

You were a true soldier fighting to win souls for the Kingdom at all costs, even to the extent of putting your life on the line.

I’ve had many conversations with God since your departure, asking why you? And God said, “Why not him? His time in the physical has elapsed; I need him here, operating in the spiritual and loving beyond the grave!”

I smiled because you loved in such a loud way; it only makes sense that He chose you to continue that way for eternity!

Accepting that you are gone will take some time, but being grateful that you were here gives me an immediate sense of gratification! You made a lasting impression on the lives of many, including mine. You carried many a cross, literally. Your imperfections were corrected by your sincere compassion for the masses and the least of us.

That loud rumble in your laugh when you were tickled, that quirky sense of humor that made us shake our heads in awe, those unconventional ways of teaching and reaching outside of the box. And that hood-rich, bright pattern mixing, confident classiness that embodied who you are—lives on in each of us blessed enough to carry your love in our hearts.

Thank you for allowing me to be one of those you carried and loved!

Dr. Lydia G. Reynolds, PhD

A Tribute to Apostle Ricky Floyd

"By this everyone will know that you are My disciples, if you have love and unselfish concern for one another." — John 13:35 (AMP)

It is my honor to write this tribute in memory of Apostle Ricky Floyd. Pastor Floyd was a truly unique and remarkable leader—a dedicated pastor, a loyal friend, a columnist for Sparkman Publication and yes, a brother in Christ.

I first met Apostle Floyd at a conference in Quincy, Illinois. From the moment he entered the room, his presence was undeniable. He had a charisma and confidence that naturally drew people in, compelling them to listen whenever he spoke. He carried himself with dignity and anointing, and it was clear that the Holy Spirit dwelled within him. He had love for everyone.

Apostle Floyd was both warm and approachable, yet unwavering in his seriousness about the things that mattered most. He was deeply devoted to his wife, children, and grandchildren, and the unwavering love he had for them was both evident and inspiring. He spoke of them often and with pride, making sure everyone knew how much they meant to him.

Apostle Floyd also had a profound love for the people of God. His compassion, strength, and faith reminded me of the Scripture: “If God be for us, who can be against us?” (Romans 8:31).

Apostle Floyd was a contributing writer for Sparkman Magazine print and online, where he and his beloved wife, Sheila, contributed columns over ten years. Together, they ministered to couples encouraging successful marriages. With transparency, wisdom, and a heart full of compassion, Pastor Floyd poured out his life experiences to uplift and strengthen others.

He also ministered as a presenter at the Sparkman Marriage Bootcamps.

He was not a people pleaser or one to seek the approval of man. He didn’t aim to please people—he aimed to please God. He had a special place in his heart for those the world often overlooks—the so-called "underdogs." He loved boldly, without hesitation, and without shame. He fulfilled the assignments God gave him without waiting for validation from others.

I have no doubt that many unbelievers became believers because of his witness—whether they sat in his church pews or simply observed his life from afar. Apostle Ricky Floyd was, without question, a true disciple of Christ. He served both the spiritual and practical needs of people with intentionality and compassion.

His work in the community was a powerful extension of his ministry. Whether organizing job fairs, providing affordable clothing and housing, or mentoring young men to become strong, faithful husbands, Apostle Floyd’s impact was felt on every level. He understood that meeting one’s needs in the natural realm was also important as ministering to their spirits.

I will always remember Apostle Floyd for graciously writing the foreword to my first book on employment—an act of kindness that meant so much to me. He and his wife, Sheila, extended compassion and unwavering support to our family during a time of deep hardship, and their love left an indelible mark on our hearts. I know without a doubt that we are just one of countless families and businesses that God assigned him to impact.

Apostle Ricky Floyd lived with purpose, and he loved in divine order: God first, followed by his wife, his children, his grandchildren, his family, and then everyone else he could reach—with an enormous, generous love.

As the Scriptures declare:

"By this everyone will know that you are My disciples, if you have love and unselfish concern for one another." — John 13:35 (AMP)

I believe Apostle Ricky Floyd lived this truth every single day.

For all that he was, and all that he gave, we give God glory for the life, legacy, and lasting influence of Apostle Ricky Floyd.

Praying the Lord continues to Bless the family of Apostle Ricky Floyd more than anyone could ever imagine.

Elder Marilyn Parker

President

Sparkman Magazine

Tribute to Ambassador, Apostle Ricky D. Floyd Sr.

Dr. E.L. Warren is the Senior Pastor of the Cathedral of Worship

Dr. E.L. Warren is the Presiding Prelate and the COO of the International Network of Affiliate Ministries (INAM).

For over two decades, I traveled in and out of Memphis, Tennessee, and was always warmly welcomed and greeted by Ricky Floyd. He served my life and my network faithfully as the INAM Tennessee State Liaison. He was the host pastor for our Life Christian University Extension Campus. He visited Quincy, Illinois often and stayed in my home on many occasions.

Many called him friend. Others, Pastor. A few called him Dad or Paw Paw. But I alone called him My Son. And on the day we laid him to rest, I stood proudly and declared, “This is my beloved son in whom I am WELL PLEASED!!”

Words are simply inadequate to describe the love Ricky Floyd had—for me, for his family, and for life. He never allowed anyone to speak incorrectly to me or about me. He was a defender of my honor, my office, and of his father.

Time and again, he would call me about something he believed he had heard from God. He was always open to correction and guidance. While he was not one to chase titles or appearances for the sake of church culture, his reverence for the Word of God was unlike any I’ve seen.

His love for Sheila, his children, and grandchildren was deep and unwavering. He often admired how my wife, Ella, had a way of making everyone in the room feel important and valued.

I will miss his hearty laughter, his jokes, and his passion for good food and sharp fashion. I believe we explored just about every restaurant in Memphis together—including Krispy Kreme Donuts!

Ricky was always humbled by the greatness and generosity of God in his life. I remember us walking together on the grounds of Eden Estates Apartments and praying over the grand opening of the Regroup Upscale Thrift Boutique. His vision and dedication left an indelible mark—Memphis and Frayser will bear fruit from it for decades to come. I’ll forever be grateful for God’s gift to Pursuit of God Church: a beautiful, spacious new campus—debt free.

Ricky’s embrace of the "12 Seasons of Vision" revelation was one of my greatest honors. Every year, he taught from that revelation as a living testament to its impact on his life. He would often say, “How does it fit?” when aligning plans with “our” or “the Vision.”

WOW!!

I am forever grateful for my son, Ambassador, Apostle Ricky Floyd. And I am excited to see what God will do in the Frayser/Memphis area, and through the lives of his wife, Sheila; his son, Brennan; his daughter, Christina; and his son, Lil Ricky.

I am better because of the love, laughter, and generosity of “My Son,” Ricky D. Floyd Sr.

Nicci Roach Interviews Pastor Beverly Jenkins "This Is US"

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 18:29:57 GMT

"Nicci Roach Interviews

Pastor Beverly Jenkins

"THIS IS US MARRIAGE RETREAT 2025

Beverly Jenkins is a dynamic and inspiring leader whose impact spans across the spheres of family, faith, and community. As a devoted wife, mother, entrepreneur, and businesswoman, she brings an unwavering commitment to service and transformation. In her role as President and CEO of Refuge & Restoration NPO Marketplace, Beverly leads a passionate team dedicated to providing holistic services and expanding access to opportunities for individuals, families, businesses, and communities. With over two decades of experience in the nonprofit sector, she has built a reputation for executing results-driven strategies that strengthen operational excellence, enhance organizational design, and elevate business planning—always with a deep connection to mission, vision, and culture.

Together with her husband, Ken Jenkins, Beverly also serves as a pastor at Refuge and Restoration Church in St. Louis, Missouri. They also lead the This Is Us! Building Intimacy Marriage Retreat (BIMR). She holds a Master of Arts in Organizational Leadership and Management from Regent University and is a certified PREP-ENRICH facilitator, empowering others to navigate conflict and build healthy relationships both personally and professionally. Known for her passion for strategic planning and workshop facilitation, Beverly’s ultimate goal is to inspire and equip others to believe in their potential, transform their lives, and build strong, equitable communities through leadership, service, and what she calls “ruthless compassion.”

Nicci Roach: Tell me a little bit about what inspired this vision for the marriage retreat.

Beverly Jenkins: It started in 2003, with me and my husband needing our own personal community around our own marriage. We married in 1996, so it was about seven years into our marriage. I guess, the seven-year itch, were you’re trying to figure each other out, and sometimes you get it right, and most times you get it wrong.

That's really where we were. We were saved, and we knew we needed a community. About 13 couples came together. Some were friends of other people, friends of friends. We decided we would have a Friday evening of just games and fun, and then a Saturday where we sat through some sessions with each other and talked and had some roundtable discussions about marriage and what scriptures pertained to our own growth, personal growth. And then we had a Sunday service - we call it an affirmation service. The goal was to get up and share with the group what was our best takeaways from the weekend with one another. And by the time we had gotten to Sunday, the takeaways overtook us. The Holy Spirit began to download upon all the couples that were there – proof of the importance of having God at the center of your marriage. That’s really were the vision for the marriage retreat started.

NR: I'm assuming that conversation was kind of a cry out for help, maybe a little poke for some help?

BJ: Yeah, it was an incredible poke for some help. We had just moved from our home church having been members for many years, transitioning to a different church. It wasn't that anything was wrong with our home church, it's just that we were on a journey towards community development in 2003, but didn't know what that looked like. We transitioned because they were heavily involved in community development.

We were like, oh, let's go and glean from them and just sit under their tutelage for a couple years. And they graciously took us in. That's where we met these couples and we were like, look, we really need community. We said let's get a group of us and just take a ride up to the Ozarks, get away from here. It was about 13 couples; some from our home church that we came out of and some from the new church - people who were like, hey, ‘let's just pour out on each other over this weekend’. And the Lord took over from there.

NR: Now you find yourselves in community. What were some of the things that caused some angst initially? Because you know how it can be - we don't want people to know our business and fighting with all we have to not show vulnerability.

BJ: Honestly, we didn't believe we were starting a marriage retreat. This didn't even really come up until after we were leaving. And everybody was like, we must do this again. So, we weren't setting out to ever start a marriage ministry. That was not the goal. We literally were saying, let's just go sit in a circle and talk.

I think that the model for transparency was instrumental. By the time it [the couple’s trip to the Ozarks] was over, that's really what happened, transparency. I think that the break happened for all of us on that Sunday, I think we all were tentative up until that Sunday. I think most people talk surface around what's really going on, what's happening, even though we’re in that circle it was not really open. But transparency showed up that Sunday, the moment when those who got up to share their own personal takeaways and honesty about what they needed.

We had a rule that you only are allowed to talk about yourself. You weren't allowed to bash your partner and say all the things you felt was missing in the relationship. That Sunday when people started dealing with themselves is when I believe the overflow of love hit the room and the Holy Spirit was able to really work and say, ‘okay, now that you're really able and willing to deal with yourself, I can deal with your spouse’. One of the biggest takeaways was to deal with YOU. Asking self, ‘what is it that you're bringing to the table that's toxic’? And that's really how it started.

NR: I recall a time growing up when you had to choose - you're going to do work in the church or you're going to do work in the community. Currently you’re leading a church and congregation, you’re leading a massive, active community marketplace development project and more. You and your husband have a unique dynamic - you are lockstep every step of the way. How is it that you and your husband continue to find the proper rhythm to sustain love and laughter despite all the assignments?

BJ: Over time you kind of learn the different spaces. We have become really good at it and this is really through trial and error and through, of course, the Lord pointing out the things that we do well. I feel like my gift is more discernment and prophecy. I'm a pastor as well, but I don't take a lot of pleasure in teaching on Sunday mornings. I don't want to do that, but I recognize my gifts that I know God has endowed me with. I show up and use my gifts in these different spaces.

NR: I love your confidence! I often remind others that there comes a time when we must trust what God has already placed within us - and step outside the four walls of the church to use our gifts to advance the Kingdom.

BJ: Yes, and let that be your guidepost. I'm just going to be transparent. I had to dig my heels in the ground because I think, when a husband and wife are, called together, and people know, they're like, oh, they're both pastors, right? They often push [ask], ‘Well, when are you going to preach? Are you speaking this week?’ And my husband, even at one point, because I also sing, he was very comfortable with my gifts and probably more comfortable with my gifts than I was. He asked, ‘are you going to sing before I preach this week?’ And at one point the Lord was like, ‘NO, I need you to step back completely’. It was very uncomfortable for him because he was like, ‘I'm used to this. This is what you do. This is what we do. You sing, I preach. And then you give a prophetic word’. I was like, I'm not allowed to say anything right now. He [my husband] was like, ‘I just don't think that's God.’

NR: This is good because we can be so deep that it's a detriment to us, right? I am a believer of personal sabbaticals and spiritual sabbaticals. There's a time when we need to press pause. You pour out in so many ways. If you never stop to get refilled and refueled and restored, how can you serve from a place of strength, stability, and clarity?

BJ: That's really great! We all need some refuge and some restoration.

NR: I'm reading between the lines, it seems you and your husband nurture your own private space of communication, not distracted by the outside influences.

BJ: Yes, it takes a lot, and here's what must happen for it to stay in sync - you have to secure each other. And here is where the work comes in. If I'm secure in who I am and my husband is securing that personality or that character and he understands that, okay, she loves the Lord too. I need to take heed and listen and hear what the Lord is saying to her and over her. And I trust that. And I trust her, then I'm secure in that. And so, he can secure himself, knowing that I'm still the biggest cheerleader you got. I'm still with you.

And same thing with me. When we do that, we secure the relationship, and we secure one another and then the outside influences become invalid. Once you secure each other and you're okay with the person actually building from the foundation that the Lord has given, then it's really difficult to sway us as a couple. It's like, no, we know our roles. We know what spots we play for each other.

We go into rooms sometimes and it’s interesting because we'll sit in meetings, and I can tell in the room who doesn't want to hear from a woman. We'll look at each other and it's like, okay, you take lead on this because they're not going to hear me. And it's fine. It's because we're secure. We're securing each other. So, I don't have to flex, I'm like, it's okay. It's all right.

Even with our [Refuge and Restoration NPO] project, I know that I'm the CEO of the nonprofit. My husband runs the church. We know our spaces. If they're not going to hear me, I'm okay. And he's okay. The goal is to get the deal across the table. I will never forget, a guy asked him is it difficult for him to take a back seat to his wife? And he said, ‘I never knew I was in the back seat’.

NR: There is this phrase we toss around about being ‘a boss’. Being a boss comes with a host of interpretations and expectations. I love that you shared you both are secure, you both know your places, and you also know when it's time to role play.

BJ: A lot of it is cultural. We had a meeting and there were a few people from foreign countries. The men didn't have any problems with me being the only woman in the room. Maybe it was because of their culture from their country - they didn't have any problems hearing anything I had to share. They were very inquisitive and asking questions. Sometimes, when I'm in spaces with only American men, I find myself thinking, 'Okay, I get it’. This is a moment where it doesn't take anything away from me. I don't have to flex in the room. I know who I am. I care about getting things done. Let's get it finished.

Also, I'm not going to cower and I'm definitely not going to allow anybody to make me small in the room. But I definitely feel like, hey, if you have a hard time receiving from me, and there’s a better chance of receiving from Ken, my husband, then that's fine.

NR: Social media has become deeply woven into the fabric of our lives. I'm sure this is a topic that you talk about and address in your retreat. Share a best practice for digital hygiene within relationships.

BJ: It’s really interesting you mentioned social media. My husband and I are only social media people when it comes to sharing our work. Now, I have some views sometimes politically I cannot shut up about that. But, when it comes to boundaries in a marriage there are rules. For example, texting. For us, when it comes to text messaging, if there's a man who I know I need to talk to, I will put my husband in the message with me.

There are no spaces where social media should be private. There’s no private social media - my page is my husband's page, and his page is my page. I don't have any problems with social media, but I think people do have these weird boundaries or strange things they do that can causes a ruckus in their marriage. Couples have to establish what those boundaries should look like. Boundaries must be established and upheld.

NR: Research suggests that millennials and generation Z are reprioritizing marriage. How have you seen generational shifts influence relationships in your work with couples and at your marriage retreats?

BJ: I have children and it’s interesting to watch the dynamics with the younger generation. They're a lot more independent thinking in their marriages than how we grew up. I grew up knowing that I could have an independent thought. There was nothing wrong with me thinking independently, but I also grew up with the idea that my husband and I would become one.

That was real, like real biblical understanding what oneness meant. It meant we would come into agreement over how we were going to govern our house and our work. It was just, this is how we're going to live. This generation is very different, and I think a lot of it goes back to, I'm just going to put it plain, this generation is not as connected to scripture as the generations prior. I think there's a need for our [older] generations to really teach and not to scold.

Sometimes the younger generations live in a selfish or self-preservation kind of mode. They don't know how to sacrifice themselves for their marriage, but that's because they haven't been raised that way. They are not self-sacrificers. That's what I'm seeing. One may say I don't like green eggs and ham. I'm not eating it. And that's just the way it is.

NR: You bring up the word some may cringe at – sacrifice. Yes, there is a sacrifice that must be made when we talk about nurturing love and marriage. It is not a feeling and it’s bigger than the wedding. I agree that this teaching is necessary.

BJ: It is. Like for instance, I never forget when I was young in my marriage, I was reading Genesis chapter two and chapter three. I was reading it over and over and over again, trying to get an understanding what the Lord was saying about marriage from the beginning. I remember looking at those scriptures and thinking, I know God is not saying this to me this way. He cannot be saying this, and this does not make any sense to me. I felt the way I was reading it, which was very incorrect was through a filter of what I had been socialized to believe about scripture as opposed to truth of scripture.

As I started reading and eventually, I'm a little embarrassed over this, but I remember reading it and I remember referencing in my heart that movie Coming to America. I thought I will not be whatever he likes. I just know this cannot be what is being said in the scripture. So, I stopped. I would read everything else in the Bible but I would not go back to Genesis chapter two or chapter three.

Eventually the Lord led me back to it. Revelation started breaking forth. I started understanding the role of woman, the role of wife, and the role that she plays and how important she is not only her family, but to her husband. Her role is not diminished. That gave me power and an understanding of how powerful God was through woman, as opposed to she's diminished and she's second tier to man, which is what I'd been socialized to believe.

I was categorizing God in a social setting, as opposed to him being Lord, him being a loving father, him being God, him being Abba. And that was because of my own field of experience. I think a lot of people confuse their own field of experience or their own socialization with who God is. I had to get out of that.

NR: There’s a lot that needs to be unlearned and and things that need to be learned - but in a supportive, healthy community - and it seems This Is Us Marriage Retreat provides just that. What can couples expect from the conference?

BJ: Me and my husband had stopped leading this retreat for many years. We had passed it on to another couple who was running it at our church. This year, we decided to lead the retreat ourselves. This will be the first year that we've been back in probably six years.

NR: And it was God telling you it was time?

BJ: Yes, we agreed we should run it. This is definitely not the most opportune moment, given everything we’re currently managing but we’re obeying God.

The goal of the retreat is to help couples discover and define who they are together in marriage - to clarify the vision for their lives, their relationship, and their family. It’s about answering key questions like: Where are we going? and How do we root our identity in Christ? The retreat encourages couples to embrace their unique journey, rather than adopting the identity of their parents, the couple down the street, or the picture-perfect couples we see on TV or Instagram - because behind those images, we don’t know what’s going on.

The retreat itself follows this format. We found this to really works for men. We’ve always had a real draw for men who wanted to be at our retreats because we made it very relaxed. No couple shares their titles. No one needs to know that you're the bishop. No one needs to know your pastor. Everyone is on a first name basis. We honor those in such positions but we're like, OK, let's take our hats off and dig into an authentic time, an authentic weekend, keeping each other safe. We're going to guard each other. We share those kinds of things when we start the retreat.

Friday night, the goal is just play. It is fun. It’s probably the most nonreligious activities but to me, they're still spiritual. We're going to play games. We're going to laugh. We're going to eat well. We're going to fellowship.

Saturday morning, we get up, we have breakfast together and then we dive into the teaching. We break bread over scripture, and we look at the subject matter that we want to explore. Afterwards is always an application.

There's always some kind of application for the couples to discuss together by themselves, as a couple. And then we come back together for a group discussion. We hear from those who are comfortable sharing with the large group. Usually, it breaks open so much understanding because people start going, ‘oh, we had that problem, too’. Or ‘we overcame that’. And someone may get up and share they experienced the same situation. And ‘we overcame that, and this is how we overcame it’. It just breaks the room open.

We make sure there's free time, usually about five or six hours for the couples to just go and hang out with their spouse. We know most are so busy that they don't even take time to just be together. So, we break that time out where you go have lunch. You can have lunch with friends, but you still are taking time to be with each other.

That evening, again, it's one of those most nonreligious things we can do but we think it's very spiritual and very heartwarming - we have a beautiful dinner dance. Some of the couples have told us that they hadn't danced with their spouse since their wedding. Even those that have been married maybe 20 years, 30 years. Some will say ‘we hadn't held each other on a dance floor in 30 years. And so that dinner dance is really important to the evening.

And then Sunday we have an affirmation service. The couples get up one by one, whoever wants to, we don't force anybody, to just share how the weekend impacted them. We’ve had couples get up and say, ‘we were divorcing and now we're, going to seek counsel’. ’We're going start over’. ‘We're going to find a church home, because we didn't know that God was so important to our relationship’.

So, that's the kind of structure we anticipate for the weekend. And it bears really good fruit.

NR: How can couples learn more about the retreat? And what's the dates?

BJ: This Is Us Marriage Retreat will take place April 25 – 27, 2025. Couples can show up on Thursday if they'd like. The retreat will be held at the Doubletree Hotel in Chesterfield, MO. More information can be found by visiting Building Intimacy Marriage Retreats (BIMR): https://www.facebook.com/BIMRWorks

For registration: https://thisisus.pushpayevents.com/booking/attendees/new

NR: Please share one meaningful insight that can help restore and nurture lasting love.

BJ: We always say this, me and my husband both, really invest in your marriage, invest in each other the way you invest in stocks or the way that you invest in your own time. Put your phone down and invest the time in each other and it will pay off. It really does. We often invest in our weddings, investing thousands of dollars, but when it comes to investing in our marriage, the average couple invests in a 10-year period about $300.00 into their marriage. And, probably invested $50,000 to get married, but fail to invest in things that will build and bring love and joy and excitement to their marriage. So, invest in one another.

Learn more about Beverly Jenkins https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverlyjenkins/

Learn more about the author, Nicci Roach: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicciroach/

The Testimony of Gerome Crayton

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 17:57:54 GMT

"The Testimony of

Gerome Crayton"

January 3, 2021, at Blessing Hospital in Quincy, Illinois, after over six hours in the ER and numerous blood draws and testing, I was informed by the doctor:

“Mr. Crayton, they were admitting you, and we're just waiting on a room before moving you upstairs.” I never would have thought I was going to hear these words from the nephrologist (kidney doctor).

After the consultation with the nephrologist that my kidneys had taken a severe hit, I was advised to strongly consider Dialysis Treatment. My entire world and mind SHIFTED. My wife asked me whether she should inform my family and friends, but I refused.

I replied to her, “I'll let them know when I'm ready.”

After two weeks in the hospital and much consideration from the doctors, a temporary treatment was administered, and a fistula was implanted in my body.

Fast forward to December 17, 2021, the first day of Kidney Dialysis Treatment, I watched my blood circulate from my body through a machine to clean my blood and rid it of all the toxins that my kidneys were unable to filter out. My mental state started to weaken and to add insult to misery; the first three potential donors were denied respectively. The first person was disqualified because their kidney was too small. The second person was overweight, and the third person had an issue with their heart. The feeling of hopeless settled in, and my faith and desire to serve God dwindled to an All Time Low that I hadn't experienced in over twenty-five years since completing my journey of Hope Program through Hope Ministry, The Door of Faith in Des Moines, where I graduated, or even before completing my G.E.D. and returning home to be united with my family and start my new life living for the Lord.

As I remembered God’s promises to us in His word that:

He will not leave nor forsake us, When the enemy comes against us, He will raise a Standard in us that no gates of hell can prevail against, and;

God has a plan to Prosper us and not harm us, giving us a future filled with hope.

My faith grew far beyond my fears, courageously facing everything and rising above them. Today, I can proudly testify that I, Gerome Crayton, am an OVERCOMER by the “words of my testimony and the Blood of the Lamb,” Jesus Christ, who died and rose on the third day with all the power and glory.

When God be for any of us, can’t NOTHING be against us—we win endlessly. As my bishop, Dr. Eddie E.L. Warren, says, “God is in our future, and our future is in God; we can't go back, we will not go back, but we will go on with God because we are in it to win it all.” As I wait upon the Lord, my strength has been RENEWED, and I trust God will bring the perfect match for my kidneys any moment from now, in Jesus’ name.

I'm thankful to each of you for your prayers and love through this challenging situation.

To God be all the GLORY for this testimony.

The Testimony of Alexis McClendon

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 17:38:48 GMT

"The Testimony of

Alexis McClendon"

I was seven the first time I hid a crack pipe. It was used, still warm, and I slid it under the big blue sectional before my big brother could open the door. He was at the front, shaking. “My mom said not to let anybody in,” he kept repeating.

But BOOM. BOOM. BOOM.

“Let us in or we’ll let ourselves in.”

Even he—usually fearless—had no choice but to open the door.

Three or four officers walked in. My four brothers and sisters and I huddled together in the living room. I was scared. Not of the police—but that they might find the pipe. That Mama could get in trouble. That she might go to jail. And I didn’t want to lose her.

They whispered. Talked into walkie-talkies. Then they told us: “You’re leaving. Grab something quick.”

I ran to my mom’s closet and grabbed her silver sequin Michael Jackson hat. I loved that hat. That night, my twin brother and I were taken to a Mexican family. I remember being made to stay outside in the playhouse while their family was inside. We ate separately. The other kids made fun of my kinky hair and ashy skin until I cried. I even tried to style my hair like theirs, but mine was short and brittle. Aqua Net will only take you so far before your hair breaks off.

We later found out the drug dealer—Bonnie—was the one who called foster care on my mom. She told them our lights were off and we were eating off a barbecue pit. What she didn’t say was that she moved us into that abandoned house. And back then, people stayed in places like that until the police caught on.

In three years, we were taken away three times.

During that period, my mom had a child with our caseworker, so we were taken again. I stayed in foster homes and a children’s shelter. The five of us were always separated.

I was scared.

But I prayed.

I remembered God.

Mama used to have women come over to our house in England to pray in tongues. That stuck with me. So I whispered my own childlike prayers:

“Hello? God? Are You there? Are You ever gonna let me out of here? Will I ever see my family again?”

In 1992, I returned to my mom’s care. I was 10 years old.

But nothing could’ve prepared me for what I was about to endure.

From 1994 to 1997, I wasn’t allowed to go to school. Mama said school was a privilege—and I had to earn it back. So I stayed home and raised my siblings. At 11, 12, 13 years old. I endured beatings with extension cords, emotional and verbal abuse, and behavior from my stepfather no child should ever have to navigate.

Still, I held on to my faith.

Oddly enough, the same woman who hurt me was also the one who introduced me to Jesus. And it was Jesus who kept me sane.

I told my twin brother, “One day, I’m leaving this house. I’m going to become educated.”

And I did.

After a moment where I had to protect myself, Mama sent me to live with my biological father. She said it was “to hide the evidence.” She filed a police report—but she still loved her husband. The police never found me.

I started a new life in Centreville, Illinois. I was fifteen. That was my turning point.

I went on to earn a Ph.D. in Education. And today, I travel the world telling my story—not for pity, but for purpose. Because the truth is: most kids who grow up like I did don’t make it. Many fall into addiction, the streets, or worse. But another road presented itself to me.

And I fought forward. In Honor of Child Abuse Prevention Month

Today Alexis is a PhD, Poet and Prophetic Voice, married to James McClendon

May is Mental Health Awareness Month "Dr. Donna Scott"

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 17:24:18 GMT

"May is Mental Health Awareness Month"

Dr. Donna Scott, ThD, BCMHC

May is Mental Health Awareness Month and an opportune time for us to examine where we are as a people as well as a church when it comes to the stigmatization that continues to follow this critical area of our well-being. While society overall has begun trending toward more awareness, there has not been that same movement in churches, especially congregations that are historically houses of worship for people of color. Because there remains significant opposition to the topic of mental health in our communities, it is hard to eliminate the stigmas attached. This is crucial as this same stigma enhances the reluctance get the mental health care that is needed.

The rate of experiences of mental health challenges in the African American community is as frequent as most other people groups, while 40% of white people seek treatment in contrast to 25% of Black Americans. This is not a new phenomenon as it has been reported that Martin Luther King Jr. suffered severe depression several periods in his life but was reluctant to seek psychiatric care because of the stigma attached. It was also mentioned that some of his staffed attempted to get him to seek help, but he refused treatment. This kind of perception must be addressed and become a focal point for the church to take notice. Some of the same people included in these statistical numbers are also part of our church congregations. Somehow, we have avoided the scripture text that encourages us to give care to the soul, which is the seat of many of life’s trauma. We find the writer of 1 Thessalonians 5:23 saying Now, may the God of peace himself cause you to be completely dedicated to him; and may your spirit, soul, and body be kept intact and blameless at our Lord Jesus Christ’s coming. (CEB) giving a clear picture of the 3 intricate parts of our being. And yes, God is concerned about the WHOLE of mankind. Our souls do matter!

Following the pandemic the increase of individuals seeking mental health assistance started to increase significantly. With a deeper look at the people groups, the next generation of our young people are in crisis and the professionals have begun to have conversations as to what should be done. Those in their teenage years have reported that they are experiencing increased levels of depression, anxiety and suicidal ideation. Even if these specific young people are not part of our congregations, often their parents, grandparents and friends are. If our focus is on souls, this group is just waiting to be rescued by the gospel of Jesus Christ. For the church to become the support, source of education and health resource that is needed there has to be an understanding of the conditions of mankind and a passion to see ALL SOULS healed!!

Faith Leaders have operated as first responders for their congregations for years but have been weakened by the lack of resources in addition to the stigma that exist regarding mental health. Most congregants will seek out their Pastor before going to a professional. This can afford churches an amazing opportunity to help our young people that may be struggling. The church can provide an environment where young people can express their feelings and receive help without criticism. Addressing their mental health openly we can provide much needed coping mechanisms to help as they approach adulthood. This is how we can help one another as we are encouraged to do in Galatians 6:2 Carry each other’s burdens and so you will fulfill the law of Christ.

As a mental health paraprofessional and CEO of a not-for-profit organization which focuses on suicide ideation, I see the opportunity for the church to reach souls in a new and profound way. The American Association of Christian Counselors report that this is an ideal time to start mental health ministries. Creating a culture where young people can feel understood and accepted can go a long way in young people feeling comfortable in sharing. AACC have worked hard in this area by training peers, parents and mental health coaches to provide critical “first responder” care. Unmasking Suicide, Incorporated have been a recipient of these amazing resources.

We at US, Inc. are working diligently in the community to bring opportunities to area churches to become the mental health safe havens needed. By partnering with Behavior Health Network of STL, we are providing suicide intervention and Pastoral Compassionate Care training for congregations interested in becoming a light in this area. A congregation that has a burden for souls suffering in silence could provide education, partnerships with professionals in the area, offer resources and referrals, and address the ugly head of mental health stigma.

In addition to the discipleship efforts mentioned, promoting spiritual growth is essential in the work of a ministry of this sort. Bible studies and prayer groups can help individuals fighting mental health issues to grow in faith. Part of growing in faith is being assured that God cares for them. This teaching will provide and increase hope. When we understand that our souls matter as much as our spirit, we will focus intentionally on issues of the soul. In addition, we will find satisfaction in assisting individuals who may be suffering. The Bible shows us in 1 Peter 5:7 Throw all your anxiety onto him, because he cares about you, that God cares about our soul.

A mental health ministry will provide a great resource but does not eliminate the option to encourage an individual to seek professional-level help from a licensed therapist or counselor. In the hour in which we live all opportunities to win a soul is critical. Considering the environmental, political, financial and societal ills we face, we are all challenged to maintain a healthy mental state. This is the hour we NEED one another to walk the journey of our faith. Our soul plays a significant role in that success. A traumatized soul will inevitably affect the spiritual success we all seek to maintain. As we examine our ministries and areas of discipleship, remember my soul matter, your soul matter, ALL SOULS DO MATTER!

Dr. Donna Scott, ThD, BCMHC

https://www.dmsministry.org

evangelist@dmsministry.org

314-719-6505

THE APOSTOLIC PERSPECTIVE "Apostle David Rodgers"

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 17:17:47 GMT

"THE APOSTOLIC PERSPECTIVE- THE CHURCH AND MONEY:

 1 Timothy 6:10 (KJV) "
Apostle David Rodgers

“For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.”

The scriptures are CLEAR that the LOVE OF MONEY, not MONEY itself, is the root of all evil. Financial ignorance, along with financial manipulation, has become a barrier to the church adopting healthy financial practices. Further, it engenders financial education and investment to empower GOD’s people and GOD’s church to make a significant impact in the community and in the nations. Poor people, those who have been oppressed and impacted by the lack of financial means, tend to take financial injustice or the appearance of financial injustice more seriously than the financially stable ones.

As Apostles and Apostolic People, we have an awesome task of rewriting the financial narrative for the church and making a clear distinction between US and the BABYLONIAN COUNTERFEIT CHURCH, whose god is Mammon! You don’t have to TEACH GIVING—giving is a natural result of a transformed heart! What we MUST TEACH is personal economic stewardship, small business development, and Group Investment Strategies!

The true church of JESUS CHRIST must build economic engines that create opportunity, employment, and tangible investment in our community, both in the church and the community at large! We must create educational institutions that focus on building business leaders to dominate creativity, innovation, and technology! We can’t continue to ride horses while the world around us is flying in jets! Our theological construct around tithes and offerings must be sacrificed for a New Testament Model that encompasses sustained and growing financial investment! If we are unwilling to make the necessary changes, we will be arguing about outdated giving models until the church eventually dies from financial starvation.

If your commitment to “tithing” is stronger than your commitment to building an ECONOMY, you are the problem!

Lesson 3: Balance in Marriage "Pastor Fredrick Lemons II"

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 17:13:43 GMT

"Lesson 3: Balance in Marriage: Building Together Without Breaking Apart"
Pastor Fredrick Lemons II

Marriage is ministry. It’s not about who leads, who follows, who talks louder, or who works harder. It’s about two people walking in agreement under God’s covering, carrying the weight of life together, and building a love that honors the Lord.

Too many couples are under one roof but living separate lives. One person is overwhelmed, while the other feels overlooked. One is carrying the emotional weight and the spiritual pressure, while the other is just going through the motions. But God didn’t design marriage to look like that. Marriage is not meant to be a balancing act where someone is always trying to keep the other from falling. It’s meant to be a partnership where both people are giving, both are receiving, and both are rooted in the Word.

The Apostle Paul said in Ephesians 5 that we are to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. That’s a powerful principle. It means we don’t serve each other based on mood or merit. We serve each other because we love God. We honor each other because we want to honor Him. And when we do, we find a rhythm, balance, and flow that allows our relationship to be fruitful and faithful.

One of the ways balance is nurtured is through communication. I don’t mean surface-level talk. I mean heart-to-heart, eye-to-eye, real communication. The kind that says I care enough to listen to what you’re not saying. James tells us to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry. That’s the Word, and that’s wisdom. When one person does all the talking, and the other feels silenced, that’s not balance. When we’re so busy making our point that we miss their pain, that’s not balance. But when we take time to really hear each other, when we speak truth in love and listen with patience, we make room for peace to grow.

Scripture teaches that our bodies belong to each other, but that goes far beyond the physical. Our hearts belong to each other. Our minds, our dreams, our fears—these are things we share when we are building true intimacy. And when one person is always pouring, and the other is just receiving, that imbalance will create frustration. Intimacy requires mutual pursuit in that both partners reaching, giving, and showing up.

Let’s talk about responsibility. Marriage can quickly become unbalanced when one spouse is doing the lifting while the other is just coasting. We are helpers to one another. A helping or mutually beneficial relationship doesn’t mean watching your spouse struggle while you relax. It means stepping in, showing up, and doing your part even when it’s not your preference.

This is where respect comes in. Respect doesn’t mean agreement all the time. It means, “I see you, I value you, and I appreciate what you bring to this marriage.” It means I honor the way you serve, the way you lead, the way you sacrifice. When we lose respect, we lose balance. However, when we speak life into each other and celebrate instead of criticize, our homes become a place of rest, not resistance.

Conflict is another place where balance can either be built or broken. Every marriage will face tension. That’s just real life. However, how we handle that conflict says everything about the maturity and the ministry of our union. Paul said don’t let the sun go down on your anger. That’s not just about time—it’s about intention. Don’t let issues linger. Don’t let bitterness grow. Deal with it, pray about it, forgive, and move forward.

You’re not enemies; you’re not opponents; you’re partners—you’re on the same team. Forgiveness must flow endlessly in a balanced marriage because you will both need it—not once, not twice, but repeatedly.

Note this:

Balance in marriage doesn’t mean everything is split equally—right down the middle—every day. There will be seasons when one spouse is tired and the other carries more. There will be moments when one is in need, and the other has to pour more. That’s life. But a balanced marriage recognizes the shifts and moves with grace, not resentment.

Ecclesiastes tells us that two are better than one—and when one falls, the other is there to lift them. That’s not just poetry; that’s the principle. That’s how you survive and thrive in marriage.

Balance in marriage takes work and intentionality, but most of all, it takes Christ. With Him at the center, with grace as your guide, and love as your foundation, you can find your rhythm. You can restore your balance. You can build something that not only lasts but gives glory to God.

Pastor Fredrick Lemons II

St. John Missionary Baptist Church, St. Louis, MO.

10 Ways to Start a Prison Ministry "Pastor Alfred Long"

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 16:56:39 GMT

"10 Creative Ways To Start A

Prison Ministry "
Pastor Alfred Long

When most people think of the Prison Ministry, they think of going inside the correctional facilities. That is my passion, and I’ve done it for forty-seven years; however, I realize that other people find going into a facility intimidating.

With that said, there are other ways to involve your church in Prison Ministry.

Starting a prison ministry can be a powerful extension of a church’s mission to bring hope, healing, and restoration. Remember, Jesus said in (Matthew 25:36-40) that when we minister to prisoners, we are ministering to Him.

Here are ten creative ways to get it off the ground and make it impactful, which can involve everyone in your church.

1. Vision Casting and Storytelling Sunday

Idea: Dedicate a Sunday to casting the vision for prison ministry. Share real stories from returning citizens or current prison chaplains.

Creative Element: Use video testimonies, dramatic monologues, or even a “virtual prison visit” experience to immerse the congregation in the need to participate in Prison Ministry.

2. Adopt-a-Facility Program

Idea: Start small by adopting a nearby—juvenile, jail, or prison facility—and build a consistent relationship.

Creative Element: Send cards on birthdays and holidays, provide care packages, or host family reunification days.

3. Arts Behind Bars

Idea: Offer creative arts classes—writing, music, painting, and drama.

Creative Element: Create a “Freedom Art Show” at your church displaying inmates’ artwork with written reflections.

4. Correspondence Bible Study Team

Idea: Launch a team that facilitates Bible studies by mail with incarcerated individuals.

Creative Element: Include encouraging notes, prayer prompts, and spiritual journal pages as part of the study packets.

5. Inside-Out Book Club

Idea: Host a book club where free citizens and inmates read the same spiritual or personal development book and exchange letters or video messages discussing it.

6. Life Skills + Spiritual EQ Classes

Idea: Offer classes on goal setting, conflict resolution, parenting, or emotional intelligence from a spiritual lens.

Creative Element: Create a branded curriculum or workbook series (like “Behavior Changes for Successful Re-entry”) for our returning incarcerated populations.

7. Family Connection Events

Idea: Help facilitate family strengthening through virtual visitation days, letter-writing stations, or parent-child reading programs.

Creative Element: Record incarcerated parents reading children’s books, then send the recordings and books to their kids.

8. Prayer Walks Around the Facility

Idea: Organize prayer walks around the perimeter of the prison or jail with local law enforcement’s permission.

Creative Element: Use chalk art, worship music, or scripture banners as part of the prayer experience.

9. Re-entry Kits and Welcome Home Ministry

Idea: Prepare “welcome home” kits with hygiene items, devotionals, job leads, and gift cards for newly released individuals.

Creative Element: Include handwritten notes of encouragement and invitations to church events.

10. Pen Pal Ministry with a Twist

Idea: Launch a church-wide pen-pal initiative focusing on discipleship and mutual learning.

Creative Element: Each inmate-church member pair has a “spiritual challenge” they do together each month (e.g., memorize a Psalm, write a reflection on grace).

Pastor Alfred T. Long Sr. Is available to help your church start a robust and flourishing Prison Ministry. Contact him at:

along@jacobslm.com,

jacobslm.com.

(314) 283-9052

The Passing Of The Mantle "Bishop Calvin Scott"

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 23:41:31 GMT

"The Passing Of The Mantle"
Pastor Leandre Green &

Bishop Calvin Scott

To everything, there is a season. As one season comes to a close, another begins. Just as Moses passed the mantle to Joshua, I am honored to pass the mantle of leadership to Evangelist Leandra Green as the new pastor of Believers Temple Word Fellowship.

I am profoundly grateful to God for blessing me and His kingdom with a modern-day Joshua. After serving as Senior Pastor of Believers Temple Word Fellowship for the past thirty-two years, I now transition to the role of Pastor Emeritus with full confidence that Evangelist Leandra Green has been called for such a time as this.

She has consistently demonstrated faithfulness and dedication to God’s will, not only in ministry but also in her roles as a wife, mother, and leader. Her character and integrity are unwavering, but what I admire most is her humility and eagerness to receive wisdom and instruction as she leads God’s people. The Bible teaches that humility precedes honor, and her hunger and love for God have positioned her for this moment.

Every leader seeks to entrust their legacy to someone they believe in, and as both her pastor and father, I wholeheartedly trust Evangelist Leandra Green to lead God’s people and steward the business of His kingdom with wisdom and grace. It is with great joy and confidence that I pass the mantle of Believers Temple Word Fellowship Ministry to my daughter, Evangelist Leandra Green. I am certain that the favor and anointing upon her life will impact generations to come.

May God bless this new season of ministry.

His Grace,

Bishop Calvin Scott

Celebrating Mrs. Joy Blair: A True Empowered Entrepreneur

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 23:34:29 GMT

"Celebrating Mrs. Joy Blair:

A True Empowered Entrepreneur
Joy Blair

Celebrating Mrs. Joy Blair: A True Empowered Entrepreneur

This March, in honor of Women's History Month, we proudly celebrate Mrs. Joy Blair, an exceptional entrepreneur whose businesses embody the essence of beauty, wellness, and compassionate care. Through her unwavering faith and dedication, Mrs. Blair has built flourishing ventures: Glory Glory and Joy Home Health Care & Grace CDS, both grounded in her personal commitment to serving others.

Glory Glory: Empowering Beauty, Inside and Out

At Glory Glory, Mrs. Blair’s beauty and wellness brand offers much more than skincare; it’s a movement designed to empower individuals to embrace their true, God-given beauty. With a focus on inner beauty and self-expression, Glory Glory’s products range from nourishing skincare to body-enhancing accessories, all crafted with love and devotion. The brand’s mission is clear: "Embrace your beauty. Embrace your God-Given Glory."

Through carefully formulated beauty and wellness solutions, Glory Glory encourages individuals to celebrate their unique qualities and shine with confidence, all while honoring the glory of God in their lives. Mrs. Blair's motto, inspired by 2 Corinthians 3:18, speaks to her belief that beauty begins with a humble heart and a willingness to reflect the divine light within us all.

Joy Home Health Care & Grace CDS: Compassionate Care for Every Stage of Life Mrs. Blair’s heart also truly beats for those in need of personal care and home health services. Joy Home Health Care & Grace CDS was founded in 2014 with a mission of providing a comprehensive range of home care services, from in-home personal care to specialized care for veterans and children with special needs. Her services include everything from medication reminders to respite care, ensuring that individuals can live independently while receiving the support they need. This is a much-needed service in our community.

The company also offers Consumer Directed Services (CDS), allowing families to choose caregivers who provide services like meal preparation, medication reminders, and errands, all tailored to the unique needs of each client. Mrs. Blair’s business ensures that clients are treated with the utmost respect and compassion, with a mission to cultivate both physical well-being and peace of mind.

A Life of Service and Dedication

As a mother, a businesswoman, and a leader, Mrs. Blair exemplifies what it means to thrive as a solo entrepreneur. She oversees operations, manages human resources, ensures regulatory compliance, and crafts training programs—all with the goal of providing excellent care and service to the community. Her deep commitment to the welfare of others, rooted in her faith, shines through in every facet of her work.

With over twenty years of experience in the healthcare field, Mrs. Blair has dedicated her career to making a lasting impact in the lives of her clients, both in beauty and wellness and in healthcare. Through Glory Glory and Joy Home Health Care & Grace CDS, she has built businesses that not only improve lives but also empower individuals to embrace their unique beauty and live their best lives.

Mrs. Joy Blair’s journey is a testament to the power of faith, service, and entrepreneurial spirit. This Women’s History Month, we honor her dedication, her businesses, and her enduring belief that beauty and care come from within and are meant to be shared with the world.

The DEI Backlash A Deliberate Attempt to Reverse Progress "Melody Fogarty"

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 23:28:10 GMT

"The DEI Backlash:

A Deliberate Attempt To

Reverse Progress"
Melody Fogarty

Dear Reader:

As we continue celebrating International Women’s Month, we do so against the backdrop of a national backlash against Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI). Corporate rollbacks, legal challenges, and political opposition have put gender and racial equity efforts under siege, threatening hard-won progress. However, history has taught us that women do not yield—we adapt, we fight, and we build new pathways forward.

Rather than seeing this moment as a defeat, we must use it as an opportunity to redefine equity on our terms. This means ensuring that women retain their economic and legal rights, pushing for structural reforms like the Equal Rights Amendment, and resisting any attempt to return to a past where white men held unchecked dominance over business, politics, and society.

The DEI Backlash: A Deliberate Attempt to Reverse Progress

Over the past year, corporations and institutions have faced mounting pressure to retreat from DEI commitments. Some companies have dissolved DEI-focused ERGs, eliminated Chief Diversity Officer roles, and deprioritized equity-based hiring, promotions, and supplier diversity initiatives. This has disproportionately impacted women, particularly Black, Brown, and Indigenous women, who have fought for decades to gain access to leadership, funding, and fair contracts.

The goal of these efforts is clear: to restore systems that benefit a white male-dominated power structure at the expense of everyone else. But this fight is not just about representation in boardrooms—it’s about economic autonomy, legal protections, and fundamental human rights.

The Silver Lining: Five Critical Areas for Action

Despite these setbacks, International Women’s Month reminds us that the fight for equity is far from over. Women and allies must take action in these key areas to ensure that the progress of past generations is not erased:

1. Protecting Women’s Economic Rights: Contracts, Banking, and Business Ownership

Economic independence is power. With increasing attacks on DEI, we must ensure that women—particularly women of color—retain their rights to secure and maintain government and corporate contracts, access capital, and grow their businesses.

- Supplier diversity programs must be defended.

- Fair banking and lending practices must be enforced, preventing discrimination that limits women’s financial autonomy.

- Women must leverage their economic power, recognizing that they control over 85% of consumer purchasing decisions—companies that ignore this do so at their own risk.

2. Insisting on the Publication of the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA)

It is time to finally publish the Equal Rights Amendment (ERA) and enshrine gender equality into the U.S. Constitution. The ERA, which has been ratified by the necessary number of states, has been stalled for decades due to political resistance.

Without constitutional protection, women remain vulnerable to legislative rollbacks on issues ranging from equal pay to reproductive rights. Women’s Month should serve as a national call to action to demand the immediate publication of the ERA—because equality should not be up for debate.

3. Resisting Any Effort to Reinstate White Male Supremacy

The push to dismantle DEI is not just about budgets and policies—it is about power. It is a coordinated effort to return to a time when white men held unquestioned dominance in business, finance, government, and society. We must be clear: we are not going back.

- Women must run for office, serve on boards, and claim leadership positions to prevent decision-making from being dominated by those who seek to erase our progress.

- We must support intersectional movements that recognize that gender and racial justice are inseparable.

- Allyship must be active, not passive—men who believe in equity must stand up and challenge those who seek to reinstate exclusionary power structures.

4. Redefining DEI as a Business and National Security Imperative

Corporations may retreat from DEI in response to political pressure, but smart companies know that diversity is a competitive advantage. Organizations that integrate equity into their business models consistently outperform their less diverse counterparts.

Moreover, inclusion is not just a business issue—it’s a national security issue. Countries that suppress women’s economic and political participation weaken their economies and global standing. The U.S. cannot afford to backslide while the rest of the world moves forward.

5. Strengthening Grassroots Networks and Alternative Economic Systems

If corporations and government agencies fail to uphold their commitments, women must build their own systems of support.

- Professional and business networks like the National Association of Black Women in Construction (NABWIC) are critical lifelines, ensuring that Black women in male-dominated industries continue to thrive.

- Women-led investment funds and cooperative business models provide alternative pathways to capital, ensuring that women-owned businesses are not dependent on discriminatory financial institutions.

- Community-based advocacy groups must remain vigilant in holding institutions accountable and ensuring that progress is not reversed at the local, state, or federal levels.

The Work Continues: A Call to Action

International Women’s Month is not just a time for reflection—it is a time for action. The DEI backlash is not an isolated trend; it is part of a broader effort to weaken the economic, political, and legal power of women and people of color. But history shows that every attempt to silence us has been met with greater resistance and innovation.

The way forward is clear: we must protect women’s economic autonomy, demand legal equality, and reject any return to the past. This is not just about keeping the doors open—it’s about building a future where those doors cannot be shut again.

The fight for equity is far from over. And if history is any indication, we are just getting started.

Regards,

Melody

It's Women's Equal Pay Day This Month "Bernie Frazier"

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 23:17:37 GMT

"That's right, It's Women's Equal Pay Day This Month"
Bernie Frazier

....but are you getting paid what you know (or even think!) you deserve?

If you're a Black woman in America, I presume the odds aren’t in your favor, you’re probably not paid adequately, at least not according to the experts.

While March is Women's History Month and March 8th, specifically, is International Women's Day, I want to focus on March 25th, which is Women's Equal Pay Day.

Women's Equal Pay Day will be remembered and celebrated with plenty of social media posts, lunches, and maybe even a shout-out or two from a few men. However, all of the reports and stats state that Black women are still some of the lowest-paid workers in this country. Are you surprised? If you are, that surprises me.

Black women are some of the highest educated, hardest working employees in many organizations, yet raise your hand if you know that working hard isn't an automatic ticket to earning more.

Exactly!

The first job offer I made to a candidate was in 1990. Considering I still dabble in recruiting from time to time, can you imagine how many offers I've made in THIRTY-FIVE YEARS? Yes, A LOT.

Of course, we all know discrimination is real; however, I can tell you from first-hand experience that the reason why we often make less isn't always because of discrimination. I've been in discussions with hiring leaders where they were ready, willing, and able to pay the Black female candidate $5K-$15K more than what the initial offer was going to be, but guess what?

THEY DIDN'T ASK FOR MORE!

I know some of you might be thinking, "Well Bernie, why didn’t you just offer her more from the get-go?"

Great question. The reason why is because it wasn't my budget, so I couldn't dictate the term$. I would work to get the hiring leader to offer as much as I could, but at the end of the day, I couldn't make the final call.

That's why I'm so passionate about lamenting and spreading the knowledge of this topic to my sistahs. A few of you have heard me teach on this, so you know I mean business!

Marilyn, aren't you tired of working your butt off, thinking, and hoping you're being compensated fairly? Do you know the devastating feeling of 'accidentally' finding out your mediocre colleague makes more than you? Do you want to do something about it but don't know what or how?

That's where I come in.

I want to teach you how to negotiate a job offer so you can earn what you're worth and ensure greater financial $ecurity for you and your family.

On Tuesday, March 18th, from 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm CDT, I'm going to share tips and insights to teach you how to ask for and earn more.

Marilyn, this is NOT the webinar to miss!!! In just two hours, and for a small inve$tment of $47.00, you can learn how to earn THOU$AND$ more!

For just $47.00, here's what you'll get:

⦁ Specific tips (and more!) that will help you get THOU$AND$ more with your next job offer!

⦁ A list of items that can be negotiated that you never thought of or knew about!

⦁ Insights for answering the most dreaded interview question, "So, what compensation are you looking for?" without cheating yourself or pricing yourself out of the job!

⦁ A 15-page workbook you can use during and after the training for reference and practice!

⦁ Live Q&A at the end!

And if you register and participate, you'll receive a special surprise during the webcast!

It's time to invest in you so you can reap the reward$!!

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No More Cranky Pants "Kacie Starr Long"

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 23:08:05 GMT

"No More Cranky Pants"
Kacie Starr Long

"Do everything without complaining and arguing." Philippians 2:14

With a big sigh, I heaved the final, heavy box of fabric onto the table.

I was tired.

Frustrated.

Annoyed and stressed.

I had been working many days—back to back without a true Sabbath, and I was tired. I began to complain to my friend. I complained about how my car was full of odd and ends of remnant fabrics that had been donated and how I hadn't found a good home for them. I complained about how an open bottle of liquid coolant had accidentally leaked onto a jacket in my car trunk months ago. I went on and on for a bit, and finally, my friend told me:

"Quit your whining."

I stopped in my tracks to process what she had just said.

"Quit your whining."

She didn't say the words viciously. She didn't say them dispassionately; she simply told me what I needed to hear at the moment.

As I reflect on this recent encounter, I am grateful for a friend who felt comfortable telling me the truth. This friend, who is also like a mentor to me, allowed God to speak through her. There are times in our lives when we need to vent, times when we need to exhale to a friend who is gentle, compassionate, and reassuring. There are also times when we need friendships that will tell us the truth—in a loving manner so we can really see (and hear) ourselves.

The truth is, I have been complaining- a lot.

Complaining about work.

Complaining about my finances.

Complaining about my feelings.

Lately, I have been a grumpy pants and have witnessed firsthand how complaining can open a door for the enemy to wreak havoc. I've seen my complaints morph into stagnancy, complacency, heaviness, oppression, and even a bit of depression.

I know it's the holiday season, and it's a time for everyone to be merry, but maybe, like me, you need a friend to lovingly and directly speak God's truth to you:

Change your thoughts.

Change your words.

It's not easy. Sometimes, it can be really hard to change how we think, especially, when our feelings of stress, agitation, and holiday blues are so loud, but we must focus on the truth that:

God is with you, and God is with me.

God is with us, and that is worthy of praise.

Our feelings are just what they are—feelings.

God gave us feelings as human beings, but our feelings don't have to control us.

While you may feel stressed, agitated, or frustrated about things that are happening (or aren't happening) in life, are there areas where GOOD is happening in your life that you can focus on?

Recently, I began to list ten things for which I am grateful before I get out of bed. Every morning, I search my mind for ten things for which to express gratitude to God. Sometimes they are things like my health, my husband, my mother, a relationship with God, a warm bed to sleep in... literally anything I can think of. In all, I give God praise. The consequence of this daily action has helped tremendously to focus on God’s goodness and grace.

Whenever I find negative thoughts creeping into my mind and attempting to exit through my mouth, I have learned to convert them to a prayer request rather than whining.

It takes a form like this: "God, things are really tough right now. I am frustrated because this situation seems like it just won't change. Can you please give me your perspective as I go through this challenge? Help me to remember your truth—that you are with me and you will never leave me. That you will use this hard situation for my good."

Truthfully, complaining and whining have never been known to help a situation. It might feel good temporarily to the flesh to unleash a verbal tirade, but as believers, we know that we eat the fruit of our words (Proverbs 18:21). Why would I want to eat a bunch of nasty, negative, nary-filled words and thoughts?

I also know that it doesn't help to suppress my thoughts or ignore my true feelings. When I am feeling upset, discouraged, or defeated, I need a healthy outlet to process my thoughts and feelings. Hence, I am sure to share my feelings with God, a therapist, or safe friends. Also, I find myself engaging in some helpful exercises like journaling or taking a "walk and talk." I go out for a walk and talk things out with God or a friend. My experience has always been wonderful.

I share this because I think it's important to know that while God doesn't want us to grumble and complain, He also wants us to allow Him into the tough places in our lives. We don't have to pretend that we aren't aggravated, stressed, or frustrated. The purpose of this script is to encourage you (and myself) that when we feel this way, we should focus on key areas where God is working IN our lives and the GOOD that is happening to us. Also, when we feel like whining is the only solution, we should endeavor to be honest and real with God by expressing our thoughts to Him in a manner that allows Him to bring peace, comfort, and resolution to us.

About the Author

Kacie Starr Long Is an author and speaker who loves to use her voice to direct people to Jesus. When she’s not writing, she is either working out at Orange Theory Fitness or sewing. She’s in the recovery process from compulsive overeating and has outstandingly positive results to show. She also runs a thriving sewing ministry called the Sew Hope Community Sewing Room. She is most proud to be the wife of Alfred T. Long, Sr., and together, they lead a non-profit that positively impacts and serves prisoners and their families. Connect with her at Kacie@SewHopeSTL.com and via her YouTube page for Christian teachings and encouragement.

Remain Blessed.

Power and Potential of Christian Counseling "Rachel C. Conliffe"

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 23:00:23 GMT

"The Power and Potential of Christian Counseling"
Rachel C. Conliffe

Life is tough. Whether it's emotional issues, family issues, past wounds, or spiritual conflict, we all have seasons in our lives when we need help, healing, and restoration. As believers, we are encouraged to look to God, His Word, and those He has appointed to serve us. Christian counseling is a powerful tool that addresses the whole person—spirit, soul, and body—providing biblical wisdom, prayer, and faith-based counseling to guide us through the trials of life.

Why Christian Counseling?

Most Christians avoid counseling, assuming they can "pray it away" or solve it themselves. However, the Bible teaches that wisdom is displayed through seeking advice: "Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety." — Proverbs 11:14

Christian counseling is not a lack of faith; it's an act of faith. It entails believing that God will work through trained therapists who offer confidentially guided help and utilizing scripture, prayer, and faith-based interventions.

If you're struggling with anxiety, depression, marriage and family problems, addiction recovery, or self-esteem, counseling offers a safe place to heal and grow. The Benefits of Faith-Based Therapy Compassion Christian Counseling has been providing biblically grounded, Spirit-guided counseling since 1998.

Through prayer, scripture, and a faith-based recovery model, Christian counseling can assist in the following ways: Restore self-esteem and confidence Heal past hurt and traumas. Enhance family and marriage relationships Eliminate addiction and self-destructive habits Gain spiritual clarity and direction.

God wants you to be complete—body, soul, and spirit (1 Thessalonians 5:23).

If you've been struggling, I encourage you to draw the line today. Begin the journey to healing today. Schedule an appointment with me, Rachel Conliffe, at the link below. You don't have to struggle alone!

https://www.coachaccountable.com/offering/PX465BCSAXQmhkLQ7gnBrepNE3BbcaX

Pastor Alfred Long Presents "The Testimony Of Billy"

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 22:45:28 GMT

Pastor Alfred Long Presents

"The Testimony Of Billy"

“My name is Billy Meier, born on March 17, 1969, in Torrance, California. After my parents’ divorce when I was eight, my mother moved my two brothers and me to Vancouver, Washington. I began experimenting with alcohol and drugs at twelve and faced my first incarceration at fourteen. Sadly, I spent over thirty years of my life in incarceration. At twenty-two, while in maximum security prison, I was assaulted, a traumatic event I have since forgiven and taken positive steps to move forward.

Despite suffering a forty-year meth addiction, I have been sober for 33 months by God’s grace. I’m currently pursuing a Bachelor of Science in Criminal Justice with a Human Services concentration, maintaining a 4.0 GPA after thirty-eight years away from education. Since August 2024, I’ve been attending Reach KC Church, where I also serve in the children’s ministry.

Recently, while visiting St. Charles, Missouri, to address some legal matters, I was present during a SWAT raid at my brother’s house. Although unrelated to the incident, I helped calm the situation and prayed with the officers, who recognized the positive changes in me.

My journey exemplifies that God looks for the broken to transform them. If He can renew my life after decades of addiction and incarceration, He can do the same for anyone. I encourage those still struggling to surrender to Jesus to take that leap of faith and trust in Him, as tomorrow is never promised.

Keep Billy in your prayers for continued re-entry success.

Pastor Alfred Long Sr. is available to help churches and other organizations start prison ministries. He has forty-seven years of experience ministering in our statewide correctional facilities.

You can reach him at:

along@jacobslm.com

(314) 283-9052

Jacobslm.org

STILL NIFTY AFTER FIFTY: FLOURISH AFTER 50 PLUS

Building Blocks of a Strong Marriage Part 2 "Pastor Fred Lemons"

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 22:20:33 GMT

"Building Blocks Of A Strong Marriage Part 2"
Pastor Fredrick Lemons

Marriage is like a house; it needs a solid foundation and intentional maintenance to remain strong. The good news is that God has already provided the blueprint. Scripture gives us clear guidance on the essential building blocks for a thriving marriage, and it all starts with love and respect.

Ephesians 5:33 says, “Each one of you must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” These two principles, love and respect, are foundational to a godly marriage. Husbands are called to love their wives sacrificially, just as Christ loved the Church. This implies putting her needs above your own, being patient when she’s overwhelmed, and showing her the same unconditional love that God shows you. For wives, respecting your husband involves honoring his role as the leader of your home, speaking to him with kindness, and supporting him as your partner in life.

Love and respect are not just feelings; they are choices. There will be days when it feels easier to criticize or withdraw, but those moments are opportunities to choose grace instead. When you love and respect your spouse as God commands, you create an environment where trust, intimacy, and unity can flourish.

Another essential cornerstone of a strong marriage is communication. James 1:19 reminds us to be “quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.” Effective communication isn’t just about talking; it’s about listening with an open heart and seeking to understand rather than to win. Misunderstandings can often be avoided when couples take the time to really hear each other.

But what happens when communication is broken? That’s where forgiveness comes in. Colossians 3:13 says, “Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” Holding onto grudges or keeping score of past mistakes can poison a marriage. Instead, couples must learn to extend grace and move forward together. Forgiveness doesn’t mean ignoring the issue, but it does mean choosing reconciliation over resentment.

Intimacy is another essential component of a strong marriage, whether emotional, physical, or spiritual. Emotional intimacy is built through vulnerability and trust—and by sharing your thoughts, fears, and dreams with your spouse. Physical intimacy, as designed by God, is a beautiful expression of love and unity that strengthens your bond. Spiritual intimacy, perhaps the most important, involves growing together in your faith. Praying together, studying Scripture, and attending church as a couple create a strong spiritual foundation that sustains your marriage through every season.

One of the biggest threats to intimacy is the tendency to fall into autopilot. Over time, it’s easy for couples to prioritize work, kids, or other obligations over their relationship. However, marriage requires intentionality. Philippians 1:6 reminds us that God finishes what He starts. The same is true for marriage; it’s a lifelong journey of growth. Make time for date nights, celebrate each other’s achievements, and keep pursuing your spouse as you did in the beginning.

Couples, beware of comparison. Galatians 6:4 advises, “Let each one test his own work… and not in comparison to another.” Every marriage is unique, and comparing your relationship to others will only breed discontentment. Instead of focusing on what you think your marriage lacks, celebrate its strengths and commit to growing together.

Ask yourself: What steps can you take today, this week, this month, this year to strengthen your marriage? Whether it’s improving communication, forgiving a past hurt, or simply spending quality time together, small, intentional actions can make a big difference. Marriage is not about perfection; it’s about progress. When you build on God’s blueprint, your relationship will stand strong through every storm.

What Is Happening "Apostle David Rodgers"

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 22:15:33 GMT

"What Is Happening"
Apostle David Rodgers

On February 28th, THE BOYCOTT launched a ONE-DAY FINANCIAL BOYCOTT against companies who removed DEI (DIVERSITY, EQUITY, INCLUSION) from their CORPORATE STRUCTURE.

The consequences of the Boycott caused corporations like TARGET to lose almost 8% of their foot and online traffic, and WALMART lost 5% of their customers. Still, a bigger impact of the BOYCOTT movement is the recent multicultural organizations that are springing up around the country that support and commit to decentralizing their financial spending to community-based stores.

Detractors THOUGHT that the BOYCOTT was a BLACK PEOPLE movement! However, it is clear from the numbers that people across the racial spectrum have jumped on board and have refused to support these multi-billion dollar corporations that don’t neglect DIVERSITY, EQUITY, and INCLUSION as essential pillars in their corporate culture.

More boycotting is planned for the spring season. As these splinter organizations continue to organize, strategize, and mobilize their forces and redirect millions of dollars to community retailers and stores, the power shift will be felt. The emergence of new stores with diverse and inclusive cultures will grow, and those who oppose diversity will eventually disappear!

People are tired of being taken advantage of. People are tired of supporting racist corporations that lack any moral backbone. The cross-pollination of communities in terms of business processes, funding sources, and growth strategies is taking place every day.

There is an abundance of ZOOM and GOOGLE CLASS MEETINGS with excited people who are joining forces to build new economic opportunities. The BILLION DOLLAR BOY’s CLUB is in trouble. They had the opportunity to stand for JUSTICE, and they didn’t! They had the opportunity to stand for their LOYAL CUSTOMERS of every stripe, but they didn’t!

There will be a long-term price to pay for their cowardice. There is a serious reckoning coming to this nation! For all of its hatred, racism, and classism, the PEOPLE are no longer accepting it as a norm!

People who are being laid off illegally to VETERANS who are having their benefits ripped off, all the way to people who couldn’t get hired because of the color of their skin, sexual identity, or cultural background, are coming together to form a force.

The enemies of justice are in trouble! There will be some difficult days ahead, but AMERICA is finally seeing it for what it is and standing together! Perhaps, just maybe, AMERICA will live out its creed that says ALL MEN ARE CREATED EQUAL!

APOSTLE DAVID RODGERS

Kingdom Women Leading in Business in 2025 "Kira Chereé Cobb"

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 05:23:37 GMT

"Kingdom Women Leading in Business In 2025"
Kira Cheree Cobb

God is calling for a return to excellence in 2025, specifically for those whom He has blessed with talents, gifts, and skills. Proverbs 22:29 tells us to look for those in business who are excellent at their work and not only to look at them but also to look at their positions. Leaders must lead with excellence.

“Do you see a man who excels in his work?

He will stand before kings;

He will not stand before unknown men.” ~ Proverbs 22:29 (NKJV)

Unfortunately, our society has slowly come to devalue excellence and defraud those who demand it. However, it doesn’t remove this biblical principle that precedes leadership and audiences with kings and decision-makers. Notice that the text does not suggest the accumulation of awards, quid pro quo, acquired followers, amassed likes, or dishonest gain. Being a child of the Kingdom of God creates an unfair advantage that we call “favor.” But even God’s favor must be handled and worn properly. We should not expect God to promote us or businesses when we fail to operate within excellence. As a businesswoman seeking to represent the Kingdom of God, we should first seek God and then excellence.

A familiar text, Proverbs 31 makes clear descriptions of a woman of virtue. While the text is commonly referred to when speaking of marriage and the duties of a wife, the wisdom of this Proverbs transcends marital status and leaves great clues of a Kingdom Businesswoman.

As we move further into the first quarter of 2025, here are six tips from this passage to incorporate into your business as a Kingdom Woman:

1. UNDERSTAND YOUR WORTH: v.10 “For her worth is far above rubies.” v.18 “She perceives that her merchandise is good.”

Operating in excellence requires you to understand your personal and intellectual worth as well as the valuation of your business. Tip: Do not undersell yourself or your products/services. Excellent Kingdom Women lead knowing who they are.

2. PRACTICE FINANCIAL STEWARDSHIP: v.16 “She considers a field and buys it;

From her profits, she plants a vineyard.”

Operating in excellence requires you to practice financial stewardship. Currency is a powerful tool in leadership. Look for ways to practice stewardship throughout the year. Tip: Reinvesting back into your business will position you to take full advantage of upcoming opportunities.

3. PARTICIPATE IN PHILANTHROPY: v.20 “She extends her hand to the poor,

Yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy.”

Operating in excellence requires you to extend beyond yourself and your gain. Giving signals the compassion and obligation of a great leader. Tip: Align your giving efforts with issues in the community. Become a leading giver this year by starting small and increasing your impact over time.

4. OPERATE WITH DILIGENCE: v.27 “She watches over the ways of her household,

And does not eat the bread of idleness.”

Operating in excellence requires diligence. Leaders cannot lead from behind but must build teams and watch over the effectiveness of that which they lead. Tip: As you spend time building your team, remain watchful of those you place on your team. Demonstrating productivity will encourage an atmosphere where idleness is unexpected.

5. PRIORITIZE PHYSICAL WELLNESS: v.17 “She girds herself with strength, And strengthens her arms.”

Operating in excellence includes prioritizing our physical wellness. You cannot lead without a healthy body that houses your greatness. Physical fitness does not equal extreme fitness; avoid comparison. Tip: Make small adjustments to your daily routine to include physical fitness. Walk further, stand longer, stretch more frequently, add a new veggie or protein to every meal, and treat yourself in moderation.

6. ABOVE ALL, SEEK WISDOM: v.26 “She opens her mouth with wisdom,

And on her tongue is the law of kindness.”

Operating in wisdom is the most important component of business leadership. Wisdom will guide you to speak, not speak, and/or choose your words during certain business decisions. Wisdom is a keeper. Tip: Leave room in your plans for wisdom to make edits, suggestions, and eliminations in your business. You don’t have to go it alone; invite wisdom early on and often.

Lastly, give yourself grace. Leading a business is difficult and can be a lonely task. You will make mistakes, you will get it wrong, you will fail to launch great ideas, and you may even lose money. Remember this: failure only happens when you quit. Pivot, pause, but whatever you do in 2025, do not quit.

Honoring the Life and Legacy of Dr. Frederick K.C. Price

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 05:03:05 GMT

"Honor the Life and Legacy of" Dr. Frederick K. C. Price

This Month in Black History we Honor the Life and Legacy of Dr. Frederick K. C. Price

Throughout our nation, we celebrate Black History Month, we recognize the transformative impact of a great individual whose legacy transcends time and continue to inspire future generations. Dr. Fred Price's life and work have left an indelible mark on the Black community and the broader landscape of faith, leadership, and achievement, as well as, undeniably and remarkably, the Kingdom of God.

Dr. Price married the former Betty Ruth Scott, whom he met while attending Dorsey High School in 1953. They had five children (one child died during childhood). Today, his grandson, Allen Crabbe, is a professional basketball player.

Fred Price Jr. succeeded his father as pastor of CCC.

Dr. Fred Price's journey is a testament to resilience, faith, and the power of vision. From humble beginnings to becoming one of the most influential pastors and leaders in the nation, Dr. Price's unwavering dedication to his calling has shaped countless lives. His work as the founder of the Crenshaw Christian Center in Los Angeles, California, exemplifies his commitment to uplifting his community, both spiritually and socially.

As the first African American to be featured on the cover of Charisma Magazine, Dr. Price broke barriers in the Christian world, demonstrating the depth and breadth of his influence. His leadership went beyond the pulpit—Dr. Price used his platform to advocate for education, self-empowerment, and unity within the Black community.

Dr. Price’s accomplishments are numerous, and a few are listed below by his Spiritual son, Bishop Charles Waters. A few stand out as symbols of his lifelong dedication to excellence and service. As a sought-after speaker, author, and teacher, he delivered messages that bridged cultural divides, encouraged personal growth, and expanded the horizons of those who heard him.

Dr. Price's accomplishments include the following:

Forty thousand members in attendance (in person)

Crenshaw Christian Center received Over one million in tithes and offerings WEEKLY (not including mail in seeds, and ECT) there was no electronic giving back then...

Bought a college Campus for $14,000,000.00 in cash and added a custom-built Dome (10,000.00 sitting capacity) on the property valued cost of construction at $15,000,000.00, paid in cash (Never had a mortgage)

STILL THE LARGEST PRIVATE LAND OWNERS IN LA!

Dr. Betty and Apostle continued tithing a whopping 40% of their personal money monthly

Never had a scandal

Never cheated on his wife (ABSOLUTELY had many offers)

Ran his ministry like a Fortune 500 JUGGERNAUT (ABSOLUTELY NO EXCEPTIONS IN EXCELLENCE)

Jets, multiple locations, buildings, and all.

His entire ministry was planted in THE HOOD!!!! CRENSHAW!!!!!! NOT HOLLYWOOD HILLS!!!!

He turned gangsters into Kingdom AMBASSADORS

Best friends with Bishop Blake from COGIC (bet you didn't know that… lol) hung out at the movies and all.

The Father of the Black WORD OF FAITH MOVEMENT, though ALL RACES followed him.

He wasn't into titles but was forced—in love—by his spiritual sons to be Affirmed an Apostle (he did more as a Pastor than others of hierarchy)

Loved and raised his kids

Absolutely relentless in structure and organization

NEVER EVER FOLLOWED TRENDS!

- REFUSE TO HAVE CHARISMATIC STYLE PREACHING IN HIS PULPIT... He told me to "Hang that up," the people won't change...lol...

- THE FIRST AFRICAN AMERICAN PREACHER ON TV MAINSTREAM THAT IS, OVER FIFTY CONSISTENT YEARS!!!

- First African American Pastor with a lapel mic and Bible in hand walking and teaching on TV and in person.

Bishop Charles Waters shares also Dr. Price taught to follow excellence and not TRENDS.... THEY DON'T LAST! (Bishop Waters proclaims) I'm still learning... His voice still speaks!

His groundbreaking work in The Word concerning prosperity focused on the alignment of faith and financial success, which sparked global conversations about how faith can empower individuals to thrive, not just spiritually but economically. His legacy as an educator and mentor remains as strong as ever, with a new generation of leaders continuing to carry the torch of his teachings.

Even after his passing, Dr. Fred Price’s influence remains alive through the institutions he founded, the lives he touched, and the community he built. His teachings continue to inspire pastors, business leaders, and individuals who strive to live with purpose and power.

We thank God for His servant and great leader in the person of Dr. Frederick K.C. Price and for the selflessness he showed in pouring throughout his life for the sake of the kingdom. We celebrate his life and legacy this month in black History!

Bishop Charles Waters

What do you want to be when you grow up "Amilia Aida"

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 04:43:04 GMT

"What Do You Want To Be

When You Grow Up"
Amilia Aida

You might be rolling your eyes right now and thinking, “I’m already all grown up…” but I encourage you to look deep into your heart and search through all of the files in your brain. Maybe you want to finish college; perhaps you just want to keep a house and be a homeowner. Maybe you want to get out of your apartment and live a little. Whatever it is, maybe you should just go for it!

The other day, I watched a documentary called To Dye For It, which was about what synthetic dyes can do to a child’s body - particularly the brain. The family that created the documentary saved their money for years to produce this movie. When it was premiered, synthetic food dyes were banned from the United States the following day, which should have been banned a long time ago. But the fact that it took years to make that movie is what makes this story amazing.

Your dreams, however, do not have to take years! All you have to do is put your mind to it. After all, God made us humans pretty amazing, too, and if we think we can do almost anything, imagine what God knows we can do. Jeremiah 29:11… “For I know the plans that I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not harm you. Plans to give you a hope and a future!”

God knows you—every inch of you and has detailed out your beginning all the way to the ending. So, are you going to “go for it” and open the door to your future? The choice is yours to make.

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Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month "Cynthia Bennett"

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 04:38:11 GMT

"Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month:

Understanding Healthy Vs Unhealthy Relationships"
Cynthia Bennett

Understanding the differences between healthy and unhealthy relationships is essential for teens navigating the dating stage. This knowledge will empower them to build strong, respectful connections and recognize a relationship with harmful tendencies.

Healthy Relationships will display characteristics such as Respect: Where both partners value each other’s feelings, opinions, and boundaries; there’s no pressure to change or conform to someone else’s expectations. Open, honest Communication is needed where both parties feel heard and understood and know that disagreements should be handled calmly and respectfully. Another important characteristic is Trust: both partners should feel secure and confident in the relationship without the need for constant checking or monitoring. This will foster Support by encouraging each other’s goals and dreams and being there for each other in the good and challenging times. Shared decision-making breeds Equality and a balance of power between the two individuals where both partners feel equally valued. Finally, both parties should be able to maintain their Independence in the relationship. It is okay to have different interests and friendships or participate in activities apart from one another. You are who you are, and you should not have to conform to the other person’s ideology and interests. Each person in a relationship has their own set of experiences, ideas, and dreams that make up who they are.

On the contrary, those relationships that are Unhealthy take away from your identity, demean you, and attempt to usurp Power and Control over you. One person in the relationship should not make all the decisions and dictate how the other person should act, behave, or respond. This characteristic can also be Constant Monitoring of the other person’s activities, friendships, or social media use. When you have a personal interest in the person you are dating, naturally, you would want to see them do well. However, if the relationship is toxic, there is often Jealousy, which leads to accusations or restrictions on social interactions or your partner feeling as if others are a threat to the relationship, male or female, family or friend. Another unhealthy trait is their display of Lack of Respect for your ideas, your space, your time, your individuality, what you want to do in life, or any suggestions or ideas you may have. They also tend to dismiss or belittle their partner’s feelings, opinions, or boundaries. Often using insults, sarcasm, and criticism about you, how they dress, talk, wear their hair, or nails. In their mind, everything about the other person is about tearing them down and controlling them, which is a form of Emotional Abuse.

When a partner wants to address something, but the discussion is always avoided, it results in Poor Communication. Their response is always expressed through feelings of anger or withdrawal, frequent interruptions, or dismissing the other person altogether, as if what a person has to say is not important, or they simply don’t care. These relationships often display some form of Manipulation. This is when one partner tries to coerce their partner to do something they don’t want to do, and you pressure them or try to place guilt on them to have your way. More often than not, this will usually escalate with the other person using threats to gain control. Toxic relationships involve Dependency or Isolation: demanding constant attention, where the one person don’t have time for themselves or the activities they desire to be involved in because the other person always has a ‘concern’ about their being away. They make their partner feel that they cannot function without them. When the partner feels as if they are losing control, they will often resort to Violence or Threats like physical harm, threats, or intimidation, as well as coercive behavior, including sexual pressure or force.

This is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, and there are ways we as a community can promote Healthy Relationships through Education: teach teens what respect, trust, and equality look like in relationships. It further discusses the importance of boundaries and consent. Encourage Self-Awareness by helping teens reflect on their feelings and actions in relationships. This will foster self-respect and self-esteem.

As adults, we have work to do as well. We must model healthy behaviors by demonstrating respect and communication in our relationships. We must combat and speak against people and industries who normalize toxic behaviors in media as well as music in daily life.

Provide Support: Create a safe space where teens can talk about their relationships without fear of judgment. We were once teens, too; we should share our struggles and our victories with teens. They will be open to receiving from adults and as a reminder to them that we are ‘human’ and have made mistakes as teens. Offer guidance if you notice teens who are experiencing unhealthy dynamics in their relationship, and remind them their mistakes are not final.

If a Teen is in an Unhealthy Relationship, recognize the signs, such as changes in their behavior, mood, or social interactions. Grades are dropping in school. Encourage Open Dialogue: LISTEN without judgment and validate their feelings. Acknowledge what they feel and help by connecting them to resources, like the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233); loveisrespect.org offers online chat and resources for teens or local agencies, such as JADASA (Journey Against Domestic and Sexual Abuse) domestic violence, sexual violence, teen dating violence, and stalking advocacy agency, provide education, intervention, and group support 314-269-0100.

By understanding and promoting healthy relationship practices, we can help teens build strong, respectful partnerships and protect them from the harm of unhealthy or abusive dynamics.

The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center "Monica Peterson"

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 04:32:55 GMT

"The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center Transforming Lives from Victims to Victors"
Monica Peterson

Monica Peterson is an inspirational speaker with an incredible message of transformation. She is also a published author of numerous articles in magazines and newspapers. She is a former freelance journalist and PR consultant. As the #NarcCoach, Monica helps women overcome abuse and transform their lives.

As the Founder and Chief Executive Officer of the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center (N.A.R.C.), a 501c3 non-profit and Social Enterprise, they provide personal and professional development, one-on-one coaching, non-therapeutic spiritual counseling, and support groups.

At N.A.R.C., they focus on the Four Pillars of Health: Mental Health, Physical Health, Financial Health, and Spiritual Health, to help men, women, and youth overcome the lasting effects of narcissistic abuse. Our programs have proven highly effective in addressing these obstacles and empowering people to rebuild their lives.

Monica earned a B.A. degree in Mass Communication from Rust College (‘95), a historically black college in Mississippi. She also holds an M.B.A. from Fontbonne University (‘01) located in St. Louis, Missouri, and an M.Div. degree (Summa Cum Laude) from the Interdenominational Theological Center in Atlanta, Georgia. In addition, Monica has been an ordained minister since 2008. She also has certificates in Domestic Violence, Boundary Training, and Narcissistic Abuse.

After recognizing she had been in an on-again-off-again abusive relationship with a narcissist for over fifteen years, Monica Peterson is now determined to bring awareness to this abuse in all forms. As a result of working with her nonprofit, women transform their lives from victims to victors through education, awareness, and prevention of narcissistic/psychological abuse, which is a rampant form of domestic violence.

She has created workshops, seminars, programs, retreats, and conferences that help women recognize the signs of toxic relationships, build self-confidence, set healthy boundaries, and achieve their goals. Her passion for helping people - men, women, and children has led her to work with other non-profit organizations such as Mentor St. Louis - Elementary School Youth Literacy Program, Women’s Connection - Girls 5-18 Life Skills Mentoring program, and The Salvation Army Boys and Girls Clubs - Youth 6-18. Her work with My Redeemer Lives Ministry, a non-profit drug and alcohol recovery agency, led her to work with men—providing classes on spiritual life skills, managing anger, and job readiness skills.

She has served as a minister and staff at St. Paul A.M.E. Church in St. Louis, Saint Philip A.M.E. Church in Atlanta, and she currently serves at the Embassy of Heaven located in St. Louis. Monica Peterson has provided speaking, training, education, and personal and professional development.

In January 2021, Monica Peterson became the Founder and President of the Narcissistic Abuse Institute LLC, a for-profit research organization that is registered with SAM to conduct government contracting.

Transforming people's lives after narcissistic abuse has become Monica L. Peterson's goal since 2017 when she founded the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, a 501c3 non-profit.

The mission of the Narcissistic Abuse Institute LLC is to bring awareness, education, and prevention of narcissistic abuse through study and research by providing educational support services, materials, and training.

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This year, N.A.R.C. is looking for a location for our N.A.R.C. Center to be a place of retreat for those overcoming emotional and psychological abuse. Monica and the organization are looking for an old church or school in the heart of North St. Louis. Monica proudly states “I was born and raised in North St. Louis. I went to church in North St. Louis. I worked in the old Commerce Bank on Natural Bridge and Newstead. I also worked in the Old Sears Building. I attended Sumner High School, and my mother and other relatives attended Beaumont High School. I remember Sara Louis Shrimp and Billy Burks Hamburgers. North St. Louis was a place where we had pride in ourselves. We took care of our neighbors and the children in the neighborhood. Our neighborhoods can get back to that greatness and even surpass it, but it's going to take work on everyone’s part. It is time for God's people to stand up and take back our city! It’s time to take authority of the jurisdictions God has given God’s people. My Pastor, Bishop A. Wayne Jones at Embassy of Heaven says this year is the year for us to walk in the SUPERNATURAL. “Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the Lord of hosts.” Zech 4:6 (KJV)

Join Us in Transforming Lives from Victims to Victors

The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center is more than an organization — we are a movement of empowerment, education, and transformation for people affected by narcissistic abuse. Our holistic approach addresses the deep and lasting impacts of emotional and psychological abuse, offering people the tools to rebuild their lives with dignity and purpose. But we can’t do it alone. We need partners, advocates, counselors, and supporters to help expand our impact and reach more people in need.

Ways You Can Support Our Mission: Partner with Us: Collaborate on workshops, retreats, and community events to reach more survivors.

Sponsor a Program: Help fund trauma-informed coaching, wellness programs, and financial literacy workshops.

Provide In-Kind Support: Contribute services such as legal advice, job placement assistance, or wellness programs.

Spread Awareness: Share our mission through your networks and help break the stigma surrounding narcissistic abuse.

Join Our Training Initiatives: Help us educate police, judges, and legal professionals to ensure survivors receive the protection they deserve.

Why Partner with Us?

When you support N.A.R.C., you are helping people in St. Louis and beyond break free from the chains of abuse and reclaim their lives. Together, we can build a community where survivors are empowered to thrive — mentally, physically, financially, and spiritually.

Transform Lives. Be Part of the Solution.

Contact us at: narcabuserecovery247@gmail.com , or visit our website at: www.thenarcenter.org , or give us a call at 314-475-2361 to learn more about partnership opportunities and how you can make a lasting impact on the lives of survivors. Let’s work together to turn survivors into victors and turn St. Louis around.

Teen Mental Health "Patricia Sylve"

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 04:13:38 GMT

"Teen Mental Health"
Patricia Sylve

Hormonal changes, environmental stressors, traumatic experiences, academic pressure, peer pressure, substance use, and genetic factors contribute to teen mental health issues.

A growing number of teens are not only experiencing behavioral concerns typical of adolescence but are also navigating through anxiety, depression, eating disorders, mood disorders, and self-esteem issues.

Symptoms of mental health issues include changes in academic performance, the teen becoming withdrawn or exhibiting anger outbursts, fatigue, excessive worrying or anxiety, suicidal thoughts, and overall changes in behavior. More specifically, these symptoms manifest as a loss of interest in activities once enjoyed, changes in appetite, weight loss or weight gain, persistent sadness or feelings of hopelessness, insomnia, excessive sleep, difficulty concentrating or making decisions, and withdrawal from family and friends.

Many teens undergo the pressure to excel in school to meet the expectations of their parents, peers, or their self-imposed marks of excellence. Then, there is high pressure to fit in, which may include engaging in risky behavior. Anxiety is often the byproduct of the pressure to meet peer and societal expectations and the fear of failure.

As a parent or support person, if you observe your teen exhibiting increased irritability or agitation, a decline in school performance, unexplained physical symptoms, withdrawal and isolation from family and friends, intense worry and anxiety, or your teen is expressing feelings of hopelessness, or worthlessness starts with an open nonjudgmental conversation. If you are not able to reach your teen, you may need to seek professional counseling services for them. It is better to seek a licensed provider/counselor who specializes in working with children and adolescents.

Understand that prioritizing your teen’s mental health is necessary to nurture resilience and emotional balance. Do not be afraid to get help for your adolescents if they need it.

Patricia Sylve

Growing Wise Together

First Day Release "Pastor Alfred T. Long Sr."

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 03:54:12 GMT

"FIRST DAY RELEASE"
Pastor Alfred T. Long Sr.

The first day of returning home from prison is often a whirlwind of emotions, challenges, and small victories. Here is a detailed look at what such a day might feel like:

Morning:

• Release and Freedom: After being officially processed out, the individual might step outside the prison gates feeling a mix of relief, anxiety, and anticipation. For some, there might be family or loved ones waiting with open arms. For others, they may face the world alone.

• First Moments of Freedom: Insignificant things—like feeling the sun on their face without supervision or riding in a car—can feel overwhelming after years of confinement.

Midday:

• Adjusting to the Outside World: The first stop might be home, where they are reunited with family or find themselves in a halfway house. Basic experiences like navigating a smartphone, seeing how much the neighborhood has changed, or being in crowded spaces can feel disorienting.

• Meeting Parole Officers: Those on parole might have an immediate meeting with a parole officer to go over rules, expectations, and next steps. This can feel like a stark reminder that while they are free, they are not entirely unburdened.

Afternoon:

• Reconnecting: The individual may spend time catching up with family or friends and hearing about milestones they have missed. This can be bittersweet—joyful yet filled with a sense of loss.

• Simple Luxuries: Many returning citizens often indulge in their first “real” meal, whether it is a home-cooked dish they have craved or fast food they have dreamed about.

Evening:

• Reflection and Uncertainty: As the day winds down, the weight of their new reality sets in. They may face fears about finding a job, stigma, and reintegrating into society.

• Overwhelming Choices: Even deciding what to watch on TV or choosing what to wear can feel like monumental tasks after years of limited options.

Night:

• Finding Rest: Sleep may not come easily. The adjustment to a soft bed, the absence of prison noises, and the looming uncertainties can be unsettling.

Overall Challenges:

• Reentry Barriers: Depending on their support network, access to resources like housing, healthcare, and job opportunities can vary widely.

• Mental and Emotional Struggles: Reentry often brings anxiety, shame, and the daunting task of rebuilding a life from scratch.

Despite these challenges, the day can also be filled with hope—each step forward is a reminder of the second chance they’ve been given. With support, guidance, and resilience, this first day marks the start of a new chapter.

The church can play a critical role in supporting an individual on their first day after being released from prison, offering both practical and emotional aid grounded in compassion and faith. Here are some impactful ways the church can help:

1. Warm Welcome and Emotional Support

• Provide a Safe Space: Arrange for church members to meet the individual at the prison gates or nearby and welcome them warmly, showing they are not alone.

• Offer a Listening Ear: Assign a compassionate mentor or spiritual counselor to spend time with the individual, listening to their concerns and offering encouragement.

• Prayer and Encouragement: Begin the day with prayer, asking for guidance, peace, and strength as they start their new chapter.

2. Meet Immediate Needs

• Basic Necessities: Provide a “welcome home” care package with essential items such as clothing, toiletries, food, and a Bible or devotional.

• Transportation: Ensure they have a reliable ride to get home, attend parole meetings, or run necessary errands.

• Meals: Arrange a hot meal for their first day, whether it is a home-cooked dish or a meal at a welcoming local restaurant.

3. Address Practical Challenges

• Housing Assistance: Help secure temporary housing if they have no place to stay, such as a church member’s home, transitional housing, or a referral to a shelter.

• Parole and Documentation Support: Go with them to parole check-ins or aid with obtaining essential documents like IDs or social security cards.

• Job Resources: Begin discussions about job readiness by connecting them to church-led or partnered employment programs.

4. Build Connection and Community

• Fellowship Opportunities: Invite them to a small group or prayer meeting where they can connect with supportive individuals in a safe environment.

• Assign a Mentor: Pair them with a mentor from the congregation who can walk with them in their reentry journey, offering guidance and accountability.

• Celebrate the Milestone: Acknowledge their release as a new beginning, focusing on the hope and opportunity ahead.

5. Provide Spiritual Support

• Personal Devotional Guidance: Offer resources like devotionals or Bible study plans tailored to help with emotional healing and spiritual growth.

• Encourage Regular Church Attendance: Invite them to attend worship services to nurture their faith and find a sense of belonging.

• Reassure Them of God’s Grace: Emphasize messages of forgiveness, redemption, and new beginnings rooted in scripture.

6. Plan for Long-Term Support

• Reentry Programs: Connect them to ongoing church programs that provide life skills, addiction recovery, counseling, or job training.

• Check-ins: Schedule regular follow-ups to ensure they feel supported and cared for in the days and weeks ahead.

• Advocacy: Work with local organizations to help them navigate reentry barriers such as legal issues or employment discrimination.

Example Scripture for Inspiration

• Isaiah 61:1: “He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners.”

• 2 Corinthians 5:17: “If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!”

By showing Christ-like love through both practical aid and spiritual encouragement, the church can be a cornerstone of hope and renewal for individuals on their first day of freedom!

Ready to Start Your Prison Ministry?

Contact me today to schedule a free consultation and discover how our coaching and consulting services can empower your ministry to make a greater impact.

Contact Information:

Pastor Alfred T. Long Sr.

Email: along@renewedmindlc.com

Phone: (314) 282-7220

Website: renewedmindlc.com

Pastor Alfred Long Sr. AGAC; CPS; BMin; FSP

Pastor|Author|Life Coach| Change Agent

Director and Founder of Jacob’s Ladder Ministries

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314.282.7220

Why did I get Married? Part 1 "Dr. Fredrick II & Lady Cathryn Lemons"

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 03:39:50 GMT

"Why Did I Get Married? Part One"
Pastor Fredrick Lemons II & Lady Cathryn Lemons

Session 1: Marriage as a Divine Covenant

Let me ask you something: Why did you get married? Maybe it was love at first sight. Could it have been the emotional connection you felt, a bond so strong you knew you couldn’t live without this person? Or maybe it was the idea of building a life together, sharing dreams and challenges along the way. Whatever your reason, one thing is certain: marriage is far more than a contract, a romantic arrangement, or entanglement. Marriage is a divine covenant, a sacred promise between you, your spouse, and God.

From the very beginning, God established marriage as a covenant. Genesis 2:24 tells us, “A man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” This is not just a poetic sentiment. It is a foundational truth about the unity, commitment, and sacredness of marriage. It’s no coincidence that Scripture compares marriage to the relationship between Christ and the Church. In Ephesians 5:25-32, Paul writes, “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” This love is sacrificial, selfless, and unwavering.

But what does it mean for marriage to be a covenant? Unlike a contract, which is based on conditions and can be broken, a covenant is unconditional and everlasting. A contract says, “I will hold up my end of the deal as long as you hold up yours.” A covenant says, “I am committed to you, no matter what.” Malachi 2:14 calls marriage a “covenant of companionship,” emphasizing that it is not only a legal union but also a spiritual partnership. When you stood at the altar and said, “I do,” you weren’t just making a promise to your spouse. You were making a vow before God, a vow to love, honor, and cherish this person through every season of life.

Understanding marriage as a covenant changes everything. It shifts the focus from “What can I get out of this?” to “What can I give?” It reminds us that marriage is not about personal fulfillment but about reflecting God’s glory. It challenges us to love sacrificially, forgive readily, and serve faithfully, even when it’s hard. When we see marriage as a covenant, we realize that our commitment is not dependent on feelings or circumstances. It is rooted in the unchanging character of God, who is the ultimate example of covenant love.

Of course, this doesn’t mean marriage is easy. There will be seasons of struggle, times when you feel like giving up. But it is in these moments that the covenant becomes most powerful. It reminds us that our vows are not just for the good times but also for the hard times. It reminds us that love is not just an emotion but a choice. It’s a choice to stay, to fight, to grow, and to trust God’s plan.

Think about the story of Hosea and Gomer in the Old Testament. God tells Hosea to marry Gomer, a woman who is unfaithful to him, as a living illustration of His covenant love for Israel. Despite Gomer’s infidelity, Hosea continues to love her, redeem her, and bring her back into his home. This story is a powerful reminder that covenant love is not based on merit. It is based on grace. In the same way, God calls us to extend grace to our spouses, to love them not because they are perfect but because we are committed to them.

But what does this look like in practical terms? It simply means making God the center of your marriage. Ecclesiastes 4:12 says, “A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” When God is the third strand in your marriage, He strengthens your bond and helps you weather any storm. Second, it means prioritizing your spouse above all other relationships. This includes your parents, friends, and even your children. Genesis 2:24 reminds us that marriage requires leaving and cleaving—leaving behind old priorities and cleaving to your spouse as your primary partners in life.

So let me ask you again: Why did you get married? Was it to fulfill your desires, or was it to honor God’s design? Was it for convenience, or was it for covenant? My prayer is that as you reflect on these questions, you will gain a greater understanding of God’s purpose for your marriage. Don’t see it as a contract to be maintained but as a covenant to be cherished.

Marriage is not always easy, but it is always worth it. When you view it through the lens of covenant, you begin to see that it is not just about you and your spouse. It is about reflecting the glory of God. It is about showing the world what His love looks like.

And that, family, is why you got married.

The St. John Missionary Baptist Church Covenant couple’s ministry seeks to help couples build a strong foundation through Christ and provides guidance instruction and biblical insights for Christian couples.

2025 and Beyond: Where Is the Workforce Headed "Melody Fogarty"

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 03:19:29 GMT

"2025 and Beyond: Where Is the Workforce Headed?"
Melody Fogarty

As we move further into 2025, the workforce is experiencing a rapid transformation driven by technological advancements, shifting cultural expectations, and the evolving needs of a global economy. These changes are reshaping how businesses attract, retain, and engage talent, and they present both challenges and opportunities for organizations across industries. Here are the key trends shaping the future of work.

1. Technology and Automation: Empowering, Not Replacing

Automation and artificial intelligence (AI) are no longer futuristic concepts; they are integral to today’s workplace. However, instead of simply replacing jobs, these technologies are augmenting human capabilities. Workers are now required to develop digital fluency and learn how to collaborate with AI-powered tools.

In fields like manufacturing, healthcare, and even creative industries, AI is helping employees work smarter, not harder. This shift underscores the importance of continuous learning and upskilling, as workers must adapt to an environment where technical skills and human creativity converge.

2. Flexible Work is Here to Stay

The COVID-19 pandemic accelerated the adoption of flexible and remote work arrangements, and they remain a significant feature of the modern workplace. Hybrid models—where employees split time between the office and remote locations—are becoming the norm. Companies that embrace flexibility not only attract top talent but also improve productivity and employee satisfaction.

For businesses, this trend means rethinking office spaces and investing in technology that fosters collaboration across distances. For employees, it demands a higher level of self-discipline and adaptability to succeed in decentralized environments.

3. The Rise of the Gig and Freelance Economy

The traditional 9-to-5 job is no longer the sole option for many workers. The gig economy, characterized by short-term contracts and freelance work, continues to grow as workers seek more autonomy and work-life balance. Platforms like Upwork, Fiverr, and TaskRabbit are thriving, providing opportunities for individuals to monetize specialized skills.

Businesses, in turn, are leveraging this trend to access a global talent pool and scale their workforce on demand. However, this shift also brings challenges, including navigating legal frameworks and creating equitable benefits for non-traditional employees.

4. Workplace Diversity and Inclusion

Diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) are no longer widely practiced. Studies consistently show that diverse teams outperform their counterparts in innovation and decision-making. However, companies are moving back to the segregation and exclusionary practices and tactics experienced prior to the Civil Rights Movement.

If you are a black American candidate looking for opportunities in the United States, particularly corporate America, move in the direction of entrepreneurship or seek international experiences where your talent and skills will be valued.

5. A Focus on Employee Well-Being

The pandemic highlighted the importance of mental health and overall well-being. In 2025 and beyond, successful companies will prioritize holistic wellness programs, including mental health resources, financial education, and flexible benefits tailored to individual needs.

Leaders are also redefining productivity metrics to include employee well-being. By fostering environments that emphasize trust and psychological safety, companies can mitigate burnout and retain top talent.

6. The Leadership Evolution

The demands placed on leaders are changing. Tomorrow’s leaders will need to excel at empathy, adaptability, and cross-cultural communication. They will also need to champion innovation, lead diverse teams, and navigate the ethical implications of new technologies.

Leadership development programs are increasingly emphasizing emotional intelligence and fostering inclusive decision-making processes. Leaders who embrace these skills will be well-positioned to guide their organizations through complexity and change.

7. Sustainability and Purpose-Driven Work

As the climate crisis becomes more urgent, employees are demanding that their companies prioritize sustainability. Organizations are responding by embedding environmental, social, and governance (ESG) principles into their operations and culture. For the workforce, this means greater opportunities to engage in purpose-driven projects that align with their personal values.

Sustainability is not only a recruitment and retention tool but also a business necessity. Companies that fail to address environmental and social issues risk losing both talent and market share.

The Road Ahead

The workforce of 2025 and beyond will be defined by its adaptability, resilience, and commitment to innovation. For businesses, staying ahead means not only adopting new technologies but also fostering a culture that values diversity, inclusion, and well-being. For employees, success will hinge on continuous learning and the ability to navigate change.

In this evolving landscape, the organizations that thrive will be those that view their workforce not as a cost center but as a strategic asset capable of driving growth, innovation, and societal impact. The future of work is not just about what we do—it’s about how and why we do it.

Christmas Devotion "Pastor Tommy Simons"

Wed, 18 Dec 2024 00:20:32 GMT

"Christmas Devotion "
Pastor Tommy Simons

The world is indifferent to birth of Christ—Joseph and Mary are featured at bottom left—background players in greatest event in human history.

Brueghel visualizes birth of Jesus Christ, as it was in reality—with added snow and contemporary setting of Netherlands in 1563. The city is bustling with travelers from

throughout kingdom returning to city of origin—singing up for census. The Holy Family is another face in the crowd—weary from long travel and seeking shelter.

The painting is intentionally “blurry” and “out of focus”—shadows of armed military, parents searching for children, seeking refreshment from stream and searching for wood—building a small fire—seeking relieve from bitter cold.

And surrounding all characters and structures is persistent, driving snow—and as hour pass—it seems entire scene will be covered with snow—everything will fade away.

Advent in our post Christian world has placed birth of Christ on outlines of our culture—driving snow of indifference has covered true meaning of Christmas.

Let’s melt away snow in your Advent journey in order to see clearly the meaning of the Season.

I encourage you to be still, look and listen to blessings surrounding your story. Place your focus on Jesus Christ and condemn any politician, religious leader or political pundit encouraging you to disconnect with family during this Holy Season because of an election.

Focus your time and energies on cultivating fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, hope, peace, patience, kindness and long-suffering. The Word became flesh this Holy Night—as God’s solution to sin and death. And you are called to lifetime of spiritual formation—mirroring image of the Holy One born in Bethlehem.

The Christmas Season is an opportunity to melt away snow, through your witness of word and deed, not to reveal your own righteousness, but Jesus Christ—humbly entering humanity in bottom left of Brughel’s painting.

Frederick Buechner reminds you to embrace mystery of life and open doors to share joy and pain with others:

Listen to your life. See it for the fathomless mystery it is. In the boredom and pain of it, no less than in the excitement and gladness: touch, taste, smell your way to the holy and hidden heart of it, because in the last analysis all moments are key moments, and life itself is grace.

Focus on the birth of Christ—in all of its mystery and overwhelming simplicity—God’s answer to problem of sin and death—through birth of Jesus Christ in Bethlehem.

Let the love of Jesus Christ, assisted by beloved friends and family, embrace and warm you in midst of bitter cold.

And pay particular attention to those in your beloved community navigating first

Christmas season, without loved one, separated by death or distance.

Build a comforting fire in your home and exercise your gift of hospitality for dear ones traveling a difficult road this Christmas season.

Follower of Jesus, melt away snow blurring true meaning of Christmas.

Do you remember A Charlie Brown Christmas?

The Christmas play is in chaos. Nobody is paying attention because nobody really cared—everything was blurry and out of focus.

And Linus walks to center of stage. Asks for a spotlight and begins to read:

Then an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid; for see—I am bringing you good news of great joy for all the people: to you this day is born in the city of David a Savior, who is he Messiah, the Lord. The present culture of isolation, loneliness and echo chambers desperately needs focus and direction.

And maybe you can receive best of both occasions:

A snowy Christmas Eve outdoors, with determination to melt snow of another’s heart, revealing love beyond measure in birth, life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

Merry Christmas to all.

Grace and Peace,

Dr. Tommy Simons

Pastor

Third Baptist Church of Saint Louis

Celebrating The Life Of Bishop James E. Blue

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 23:06:00 GMT

"Celebrating The Life Of Bishop James E. Blue Cincinnati

 Bibleway Church "

Bishop James E Blue of the Cincinnati Bible way Church served in great power, authority and humility. A husband, father and grandfather. A family member and friend to many will be sorely missed and forever remembered in loving memories.

We met in August 1976 at the Ambassador for CHRIST camp. I was sixteen, and James and Grace Blue were my youth counselors. James could teach the rightly divided Word of GOD with power and dramatize it so well that I was captivated! I readily received it due to James’s easygoing manner, transparency, and, most of all, his humor.

Being a young Christian was actually cool! I was a babe in CHRIST, but my spirit bore witness to the power of the Holy Spirit that lived and worked in James. His love for THE LORD, GOD’s Word, GOD’s people, his wife, Grace, his family, his Bishop, Dr. Patricia T. Whitelocke, his church family, and everyone he met was truly evident and remarkable.

He is a mighty man of GOD whose life and ministry were an example and inspiration to me and so many for decades; Bishop James E. Blue, Jr. will always be remembered with honor and love.

Sending love to you, Bishop Grace Marie Blue.

Pastor Carol Jacobs Allen, Assistant Pastor St. Louis Bible Way Church, Inc.

Dr. Marilyn Maxwell

Bishop James E Blue was a mighty man of God. He was trained from a child in the way of the Lord, and he never departed from it. (Proverbs 22:6) He walked in the five-fold ministry, being an apostle, prophet, evangelist, pastor, and teacher. (Ephesians 4:11) He blessed so many people, including my family and me.

God is saying to him, "Well done, good and faithful servant."

Pastor Blue was a very special man with an extraordinary gift. Not only could he hear from God, but he also could see inside of those he ministered to. I had the pleasure of meeting Pastor Blue when I was asked by Marilyn Parker, the owner of Sparkman Magazine, to interview this extraordinary man about the upcoming event he was having in his hometown, Cincinnati, Ohio.

He had the voice of a teacher, the eloquence of a preacher, and the heart of a friend. Pastor Blue's enthusiasm for talking about the goodness of the Lord was evident, and I could have listened to him all day.

However, halfway into the interview, his attention shifted. He abruptly asked if he could give me a word from the Lord. Although I was shocked, I didn’t hesitate to say, “Of course.” This moment was not supposed to be about me. I’m the interviewer. I never imagined the words this man of God was about to speak over my life would manifest almost immediately. He shared that the doors that were opening in my life were going to be Global opportunities! He mentioned that I would have opportunities that others could not, and it would lead to more opportunities for me to build and move ahead He encouraged me to be ready to expect the unexpected! As this was my SEASON!!!

Immediately, the flow of blessings came! I have had a chance to grow my company Nationally and Internationally. I have had paid speaking engagements in Spain and Japan. I have become an anti-gun violence community advocate for the White House. In addition to being named as one of the top 2024 Global Evolutionary Leaders. (EL) The Evolutionary Partners Network includes over 60 organizations, conscious businesses, and movements. Who knew that in less than two years, all these would come to pass? Pastor Blue knew. He saw it in my life; he prayed for me and checked in regularly to let me know he was covering me every step of the way. His dedication to people, along with his prophetic gifts, made him extraordinary and inspiring to anyone who was blessed to experience him. I’m grateful that I had a chance. I know his legacy will always remain with us and that he will always be remembered for his extraordinary gifts!!! Thank you, Pastor Blue. The job is well done. Now rest, man of God, rest.

Dr. Marty K. Casey,

Evolutionary Leader

The Joys of Befriending Bishop Blue

By William & Yolanda Powell

We embraced Bishop James Blue at our Heads of State Congressional event in Washington, DC in the fall of 2022. This convening was uniquely slated to bring female leaders to the frontlines of global issues like Human Trafficking and to learn how we could be educated and aligned to address this great ill and evil both at him and across the continents. Too often the church is clueless about issues that are most critical for the times in which we live, move and have our being. We convened to assess and defeat this great threat among women and girls across the globe.

Although apostolic women lead the charge, there were a few ‘mighty men of valor’ who had accompanied their wives; and Bishop Blue was among them. These male champions also addressed the issue of women being “female leaders” in the government of God and not second-class citizens. The discussions became lively exchanges as the elder men intersected with the younger in these age-old conversations.

Bishop shared his concerns tenderly and was reserved on a lot of pieces, but he remained open and honest about his positions. We respected his ability to meet new challenges with sound wisdom and to realize that things were rapidly changing in both church culture and society. He listened intently and we respected his years of leadership, strength and wisdom. We truly gained a friend in ministry at Heads of State and Bishop became a great ally.

The following fall of 2023, we spent my birthday with The Blues along with Apostle Linda Ubeku, while on travel in Ohio. It was a sweet joy to dine together that evening in both celebration and conversation. Once again, we witnessed the pensive thoughts and strong positions of this Kingdom Giant. Bishop was clearly a man of deep convictions and doctrinal truth; and was both tough and tender at the same time. We admired these traits and the strong character he displayed. In retrospect, we bless the Lord for that special evening of good food, much laughter and sweet fellowship among the saints. Such times are precious and measured with extravagant love from above.

Indeed, our hearts are heavy at this hour. From those brief times in Bishop Blue’s presence, our hearts grew very fond of him. What a great man of stature and honor. Clearly, we don’t often have enough opportunities to fellowship with men of tremendous stature, who carry “deep wells’ of longevity with timeless grace. Yet, Bishop Blue was, indeed, one of those “national treasures filled with “eternal power.” He will be greatly missed. Our times together were few and far in between—but they were memorial and life-giving.

So, we extend our deepest and heart-felt condolences to his lovely wife, Bishop Grace Blue, his immediate family and entire congregation. Surely, the God of All Comfort will blanket each of you in His own warm and tangible ways. Here at the end of 2024, we salute a Mighty General and bid a loving husband, father, and friend to his eternal rest. Surely, it is filled with splendid rewards and many crowns.

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William & Yolanda Powell are Apostolic Leaders and Marketplace Ministers who lead Kingdom Legacy Investors and have a global call to build nations for Christ. They have been married for 40 years and reside in Southern Maryland.

Minister Nannette Mason Gattis

The Legacy of Bishop James E. Blue

“Those who know their God shall be strong and do great exploits” Daniel 11:32

How do I begin to talk about someone who has made such a significant impact on your life in 650 words? Well, I don’t quite know, but I’m going to try. Bishop Blue (and his beautiful wife, Grace) entered my life in December 1975. I had just started attending Saint Louis Bible Way Church, and the first event I attended was “Snow Camp.” I won’t go into details, but let’s say that the trip was a spiritual awakening that I’ll never forget. The next time I remember this “larger-than-life” man was at Summer Camp the following year. Bishop Blue was always drawn to the youth at church. He was the boys’ camp counselor, and Grace was the girls’ counselor. They were “courting” at that time, with plans to marry. We would tease them every time we got a chance, but we also discovered that we were witnesses to the beginning of a great love that would span almost fifty years. Bishop Blue played the guitar in those days, so he understood the power of praise and worship. Second only to one of our guest speakers at camp that year, Colonel David Kithcart, Bishop Blue had a commanding voice that shook heaven and hell when he spoke. Bishop Blue came from a generation dedicated to the advancement of God’s Kingdom. When he married Grace, he also said “yes” to the plan of God and began as the founding pastor of Cincinnati Bible Way Church.

Bishop Blue was a very popular speaker wherever he went. He always had a “now” word that was “on point” for the people present. God used him in extraordinary ways to get the gospel to the people. He had a unique ministry of using music and humor. We would laugh so hard that we didn’t recognize how much we were bleeding from the truth being spoken to us. God used his sense of humor to bring us to true deliverance and healing. He was dedicated to the youth and presided over every youth camp. He always supported me in spirit and Word, and he always encouraged me to do the “hard things” and take territory for God.

Bishop Blue, along with Bishop Grace, always walked with great compassion. I remember receiving their call a day after my mother passed. Shortly after that tragic event, they traveled to North Carolina to visit family. He contacted my husband and me and invited us to share a meal and fellowship before returning to Ohio. He was never too busy. I remember being on a Hawaiian cruise, and I was in Oahu for one day. I got off the ship and met my bestie, Vanessa Gattis, at the dock, and we proceeded to walk to a restaurant for lunch. As we stopped at a light, we look over and saw Bishop James and Grace walking down the street. We later discover that they are celebrating their 25th Wedding Anniversary (at that time). Again, not knowing their plans. They join us for lunch and sweet fellowship. Only God could have arranged that!

Bishop James and Grace Blue were always transparent concerning their marriage. Every year, they would celebrate by streaming a Facebook Live. They would discuss topics that helped strengthen Godly marriages and share the challenges and lessons learned through the years. They would play romantic songs and end the session with a toast to one another and a prayer. They were always smiling, joking, singing, and rejoicing in their love for one another.

Like my mother, I thought Bishop James would live forever . . . or at least until Jesus returned. Bishop Blue, we will never forget you or the lessons learned under your tutelage. To God be the Glory for the GREAT THINGS He has done in and through your life.

Elder Marilyn Parker

Bishop James E Blue

'Truly he Understood his Assignment"

Many years ago, I recall meeting Bishop Blue when I was fifteen years old. I was at a summer camp program with St. Louis Bibleway Church. Pastor Blue was an older teen than I and a "CHOSEN AND called man of God." I can truly say that for over fifty-five years of His ministry, certain things about Pastor Blue never changed until he left to be with the Lord.

⦁ He was always serious about worshipping God and seriously in love with his wife, Grace.

⦁ He walked in the authority of a child of God

⦁ He was always prepared to teach/preach and cast out a demon(!)

⦁ He was very stern yet gentle

⦁ If he gave you a word from the Lord, it would come to pass

There are certain things I will always remember that he either taught in a workshop, preached in a message, or shared with me.

⦁ Bishop Blue was a facilitator at one of Sparkman Institute of Marriage and taught us something very valuable by sharing that he and his wife's bedroom was always a sacred place; no disagreements were allowed or anything that could lead to a disagreement in their bedroom.

⦁ I shared with him some struggles in business and ministry I was having, and he strongly helped me by encouraging me emphatically, "Whatever you do, don't you drown." His advice was that powerful; he understood my commitment and my love for my business and ministry, but he reminded me to take care of myself.

⦁ When my son transitioned, he shared with me the need for counseling, not just Christian counseling but therapeutic counseling. There is a difference.

God truly blessed my family with the relationship of Bishop James and his wise and graceful wife, Grace. We are forever thankful for the life of Bishop James E. Blue.

Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of His saints.

Psalm 1:1-2 KJV states, “Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the Lord; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.”

Apostle James E. Blue Jr. was a man after God’s heart! He desired to know the Word of God and be in His presence particularly when he taught and preached locally, nationally and internationally. I admired Apostle Blue’s comical manner when he delivered a sermon. He could easily be a contestant on “The Voice” when he shared his singing talents. He could break into a song quicker than a “magician could pull a rabbit out of a hat.” This mighty prophet of God would speak a Word of prophecy over you and you better believe it would come to pass!!! I am so blessed and honored to have known Apostle James E. Blue as a friend, teacher, visionary co- laborer in Christ, man of integrity, loving husband and father and a strong courageous leader. You are highly appreciated and missed.

Pastor Donna Patton St. Louis Bibleway Church

Bishop Patricia T. Whiteocke has been the Pastor of Bishop James E, Blue from the beginning of his ministry. We honor God for this example in the body of Christ of the love, respect and honor between A Spiritual mother and son.

When God's Answer Isn't What You Hoped For "Kacie Long"

Tue, 17 Dec 2024 22:40:27 GMT

"When God's Answer Isn't What You

Hoped For "
Kacie Long

I pressed down harder on the gas pedal and clenched my teeth with resolve. I was going to church that evening—whether my weary flesh felt like it or not.

Have you ever felt that kind of determination? The type that overrules the temptation to stay in bed, scroll through Instagram, or binge-watch TV all day? My husband and I had already attended our usual Sunday morning service, but this particular evening, there was a special prophetic gathering on the other side of town. Something deep inside urged me to go, and despite my body's resistance, I was determined to be there.

But why, you might wonder? What would compel me to leave the warmth and comfort of my home to drive over 30 miles in the crisp, cool autumn air?

I needed a word from God.

I was desperate to hear what was on His heart concerning my life. This season had been particularly tough—one where I felt stretched thin and weary. I knew that the encouragement and direction a prophetic word could bring would be the sustenance I so desperately needed.

Over the years, prophecy has been a lifeline in my walk with God. Time and again, He has used His faithful servants to speak words of comfort, wisdom, and clarity into my life. The Bible even urges us to "earnestly desire to prophesy" (1 Corinthians 14:1), and I've always been open to receiving words breathed by the Holy Spirit.

So, there I was, driving across town, determined to hear from God. The service was filled with high praise, fervent prayers, and a powerful sermon. Near the end, the minister began to speak a word over my life. I was prepared—I had my phone ready to record every word. I wanted to pray over it later, to let it soak into my spirit. The message was not what I had hoped for.

Yes, the preacher acknowledged the difficulty of my current season. Yet, instead of proclaiming a swift end to my trials or a breakthrough just around the corner, he spoke of endurance. He said God was with me and that He would carry me through, but I would need to lean on His grace—not my strength—to make it to the finish line. I was not at the beginning of this journey, nor was I at the end. I was in the middle. At that uncomfortable, in-between place, God was doing a deep work in me.

Friends, let me be honest—I didn't want to hear that!

I wanted to hear that God was about to flip my circumstances, that He would reward my faith with double for my trouble, and that the tears and frustrations I had endured were finally coming to an end. I craved a word of instant deliverance, not one that asked me to keep holding on.

But God knew what I needed to hear, even if it wasn't what I wanted. Sometimes, we expect one thing—a breakthrough, a miraculous turnaround—only to receive something completely different. It's like stepping into an ice cream shop craving your favorite butter pecan flavor, only to find that the only option left is black licorice. It's disappointing, isn't it?

Yet, God's ways are higher than ours. As I drove home, replaying the prophetic word, it slowly sank in. God wasn't ignoring my cries or withholding comfort. Instead, He was inviting me to trust Him deeply. The hard season, though painful, was producing something precious—a fragrance of humility, surrender, and dependence on Him. This season was cultivating an anointing that would not only sustain me now but also prepare me for what was to come.

Maybe it's not a prophetic word you're waiting on. Perhaps it's a door you're hoping will open, a phone call, or an opportunity that you've been praying for. And when it finally came, it wasn't what you expected. It left you feeling disappointed, maybe even heartbroken.

But let me encourage you: God always gives us what we need, not always what we want.

Looking back, I am grateful I made the effort to attend that service. Even though the word I received wasn't the one I desired, it was exactly the encouragement I needed to keep going. This journey is still hard, and the challenges still press in, but now I have a strategy—to lean not on my own gifts, talents, or sheer willpower but to lean fully on God's grace.

So today, wherever you are in your journey, take heart. God is faithful. He doesn't always give us the answers we want, but He always provides the strength we need. And that, my friends, is more than enough.

A Leader’s Characteristics "APOSTLE LEONARD ROBINSON"

Mon, 16 Dec 2024 23:06:52 GMT

"A Leader’s Characteristics"
Matthew 21:1-17

Apostle Leonard Robinson

What does it mean, in practice, to ‘lead like Jesus’?

Lead from who you are more than your position

Who you are is far more important than what you do or what you have, in terms of possessions or position. Jesus’ authority did not come from having a high position in some hierarchy. It came from who he was as a person. He had a natural authority. He had total confidence that all he needed to say was, ‘the Lord needs them’ (v.3). No threats or promises were required.

Be gentle and unassuming

‘Your king comes to you, gentle…’ (v.5). This is not a characteristic of leadership that the world expects. Yet it was right at the heart of Jesus’ leadership. The Greek word for ‘gentle’ means considerate, unassuming. It is the opposite of aggressive or self-seeking.

Avoid arrogance and ostentation

Jesus entered Jerusalem on a donkey. What a contrast to so many other leaders in history, secular and religious, who have travelled with pomp and ceremony and ostentatious entourages. Jesus’ mode of transport was a sign of great humility. It is the opposite of pride and arrogance, which can so easily creep into human leadership.

Have the courage to confront

People sometimes think that gentleness and humility mean giving way in every situation, but Jesus was not afraid of confrontation. He ‘entered the temple area and drove out all who were buying and selling there. He overturned the tables of the money-changers’ (v.12). One of the hardest aspects of leadership is to know the right moment for confrontation.

Failure to confront is in itself a decision with consequences. Conflict and confrontation are never easy but, wisely applied, they are a necessary part of good and courageous leadership.

Seek spiritual, not worldly power

The power of Jesus was so different from many of the leaders in the world. ‘The blind and the lame came to him at the temple, and he healed them’ (v.14). Spiritual power is far more important than earthly power. It cannot be manufactured. It can only come from the kind of relationship Jesus had with God.

Make prayer your number one priority

In Jesus’ confrontation with the money-changers we see how passionate he was about prayer (v.13). And throughout the Gospels, we read of Jesus withdrawing (v.17) to be on his own with God. This was the source of his strength. Like with David, prayer was at the heart of Jesus’ leadership.

Lord, help me to lead like Jesus with authority, gentleness, humility, courage and power. Like Jesus, may my strength come from my personal relationship with you.

The Power of Collaboration "Pastor Rhonda Pettigrew"

Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:45:00 GMT

"The Power Of Collaboration "
Pastor Rhonda Pettigrew

The most effective leaders at this time are those who understand the power of collaboration. Although you have vision and strategies, you cannot overlook the fact that they are more successfully executed with teams, partnerships, networks, and even mergers. Collaboration creates a communal brain that renders a greater magnitude of success because each person’s contribution turns into collective intelligence, not to mention that it automatically increases your resources, energy, gifts, and talents.

Plurality in leadership can only be obtained with heightened emotional intelligence, and this is synonymous with Kingdom behavior. God’s work is too massive and complex to be accomplished by one person or entity. To be Kingdom-minded is to commit to growing beyond leading with low self-esteem, jealousy, offense, and territorialism.

Here is some wisdom:

1. You can have a vision that looks complete in isolation, but it could be a piece of God’s intention. Someone else holds the other components.

2. Be careful of those who continually prophesy Words of disconnection and discord. They could be prophesying with an agenda or from a place of hurt. It is dangerous to make a move prompted by someone else’s pain instead of God’s purpose.

3. Many people want to see you win more than you realize. Don’t fall for the chatter. The hater gospel has caused paranoia that is stagnating the growth of many leaders.

4. Make sure you have wise counsel and a pastor who challenges your perspectives, stretches your paradigms, and holds you accountable. Iron sharpens iron.

A Kingdom leader should not be consumed with individual success. Even God said, “Let US make man…” Rhonda Pettigrew

Project 2025 and Navigating the Dark Hole "Melody Fogarty"

Mon, 16 Dec 2024 22:34:09 GMT

"Project 2025 and Navigating the Dark Hole Ahead"

Melody Fogarty

As we prepare to welcome the new year, the looming uncertainties of *Project 2025* invite both caution and opportunity. Whether the initiative refers to business goals, societal transformations, or personal milestones, the transition to 2025 brings its own set of challenges and potential pitfalls—what some might call a "dark hole" of unpreparedness or misdirection. The key to success lies in proactive planning, adaptability, and resilience. Here's how we can navigate these complexities and emerge stronger.

The Main Issues at Hand

1. Unclear Objectives and Misdirected Focus

Many individuals and organizations enter the new year with lofty goals but lack a clear roadmap. Project 2025 may encompass ambitious targets, but without specificity, resources and efforts may scatter, leading to frustration and stagnation.

2. Economic and Resource Constraints

With global economic fluctuations and rising costs, securing funding, managing resources, and meeting deadlines can feel like an uphill battle. This could derail even the most well-thought-out plans.

3. Technological Disruptions and Adaptation Gaps

Emerging technologies like AI, renewable energy solutions, and adaptive tools are redefining industries. However, keeping pace with these changes requires foresight and ongoing investment in education and innovation.

4. Change Resistance and Cultural Misalignment

Whether in the workplace or at home, people often resist change, especially when it challenges long-held practices. Misaligned goals between leadership and teams can amplify this resistance.

5. Mental and Emotional Fatigue

As the pace of change accelerates, individuals and teams are prone to burnout, which can lead to decreased productivity, innovation, and overall well-being.

Solutions to Avoid the "Dark Hole"

1. Set Clear, Achievable Goals with Measurable Milestones

Break down the broader scope of Project 2025 into smaller, actionable steps with defined timelines. Tools like SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-Bound) goals can help maintain focus and track progress.

2. Invest in Scenario Planning and Risk Management

Anticipate potential obstacles by conducting SWOT (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats) analyses. By understanding what could go wrong, teams and individuals can build contingency plans and avoid being blindsided.

3. Leverage Technology Thoughtfully

Rather than rushing to adopt every new tool, focus on technologies that align directly with your goals. Invest in training and upskilling so teams feel confident and empowered to use these tools effectively.

4. Foster an Adaptive, Collaborative Culture

Encourage open communication and create environments where experimentation and feedback are welcomed. Regular check-ins and alignment meetings can ensure everyone is on the same page and moving toward a shared vision.

5. Prioritize Well-Being and Resilience

Incorporate well-being initiatives, such as flexible schedules, mindfulness programs, or mental health support, into your planning. Recognize that sustainable success requires both high performance and personal balance.

6. Embrace Incremental Wins

While the overarching goal of Project 2025 may seem overwhelming, celebrating incremental successes can help maintain morale and momentum. Acknowledge progress, no matter how small, and adjust course as needed.

Vision Beyond 2025

The "dark hole" that may appear before us isn’t inevitable; it’s a reminder of the need for clarity, intentionality, and flexibility. Approaching the new year with a blend of vision and grounded practicality ensures that 2025 becomes not just a milestone but a stepping stone toward a brighter future.

By addressing challenges head-on and equipping ourselves with the tools and mindset to adapt, we can turn potential pitfalls into opportunities for growth and transformation. As we close one chapter and begin another, let Project 2025 be a testament to resilience, innovation, and the power of purpose-driven action.

Let’s walk boldly into the new year—not as individuals staring into the void, but as creators shaping what’s ahead.

Regards,

Melody

Heritage Council of the Blind "Wilma Chestnut House "

Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:24:18 GMT

"President of the Heritage Council of the Blind"

Wilma Chestnut House

Heritage Council of the Blind and why we chose the tree as our logo.

The mission and purpose of our Heritage Council is to provide an anchoring foundation of knowledge and values through the personal experiences and cultural teachings of previous generations. These strong, stabilizing, roots feed the multicolored leaves of today’s generations through a supportive and information-rich highway of dynamic techniques mixed with celebrated traditions.

Heritage is about progression and growth, connecting and flourishing, and we strive to develop a community of individuals fully able to reach the heights of their potential and activate their power, sharing and continuing the cycle from roots to leaves. If you know someone visually impaired, we are looking to serve them. Please call 314-873-9022.

President:

Wilma Chestnut-House

1st Vice President:

Tyrika Walton

Second Vice President:

Ronnie Dowell

Marco Bernard

We welcome the public to our first “Black History” program and we hope that you can join us in some rich and entertaining History of the “Chitlin’ Circuit” and “Juke Joints”. Listen to the “Mississippi Delta Blues”. Meet other visual impaired individuals and members of the band. There will be resources and information available to all. February 16, 2025.

Doors open at 2:30

3:00pm-7:00

Zukas Juke Joint is actually Zukas Art Gallery

2701 N 14TH St. St. Louis, MO 63106

Transitioning Into Society After Incarceration "Alfred Long"

Mon, 16 Dec 2024 19:37:08 GMT

"Transitioning Into Society After Incarceration "
Alfred Long

Faith-based communities play a vital role in helping individuals safely transition into society after incarceration. Here are several ways we can provide meaningful support:

1. Spiritual and Emotional Support

• Mentorship Programs: Pair returning individuals with mentors or coaches who can provide guidance, encouragement, and accountability.

• Support Groups: Create safe spaces where individuals can share their experiences, struggles, and victories.

• Prayer and Counseling: Offer spiritual counseling and prayer to help individuals navigate their challenges.

2. Practical Assistance

• Housing Support: Partner with local organizations to provide transitional or long-term housing.

• Job Training and Placement: Offer skills training or connect individuals with employers willing to hire returning citizens.

• Transportation Assistance: Provide rides to work, probation meetings, or faith-based gatherings.

3. Community Integration

• Welcoming Services: Host re-entry celebrations or ceremonies to affirm their return and inclusion in the community.

• Volunteer Opportunities: Engage individuals in meaningful community service to rebuild self-worth and social ties.

• Peer Networks: Foster relationships with others who have successfully reintegrated, serving as examples and support systems.

4. Education and Resources

• Workshops: Offer classes on financial literacy, parenting, and life skills to help with reintegration.

• Legal Aid and Advocacy: Provide access to resources for expungement, rights restoration, or navigating probation/parole requirements.

• Family Reunification Programs: Help rebuild relationships through counseling and family-focused activities.

5. Advocacy and Awareness

• Community Education: Raise awareness about the challenges faced by returning citizens to reduce stigma.

• Policy Advocacy: Advocate for systemic reforms such as fair housing laws and criminal justice policies that support reintegration.

• Collaboration with Organizations: Partner with re-entry programs, nonprofits, and local agencies to amplify support.

Faith communities are uniquely positioned to address both spiritual and practical needs, offering a holistic approach to re-entry. Through compassion, commitment, and collaboration, we can help individuals rebuild their lives and contribute positively to society.

Pastor Alfred Long Sr is a Christian Re-Entry and Recovery Consultant and Coach with forty-six years of experience.

If your organization is interested in starting a Prison Support Ministry, contact him at:

along@jacobslm.com

jacobslm.org

(314) 282-7220

My God is a Healer "Pastor Kimberly Applewhite"

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 23:10:57 GMT

My God is a Healer

“I Am A Walking Miracle”
Pastor Kimberly Applewhite

Hi, my name is Kimberly Applewhite, and I was born in St Louis, Mo., on October 10th, 1965. I am here to boldly testify that God is a healer, and He is willing to heal us several times. I am blessed to have been married for over thirty years to the most loyal, faithful, and loving husband: Leroy Applewhite. He is the Pastor of Healing Waters FW CC and has been my human support and help since we met. Although he is my second husband, the Lord permitted us to go forth with our union, and since February 2006, we are still standing. Pastor Leroy Applewhite and I have raised two amazing sons, retired Chief Petty Officer Keithan Smith (Deanna) and Kenneth Smith (Ciara); they are married and blessed with children.

God’s faithfulness over my life cannot be overemphasized. As a young girl, I have been through a lot physically, mentally, and emotionally; however, God kept me through it all. At the age of eleven, I was raped by my stepfather, who at the time was a pastor and leader. As a result of coping with the trauma, I became very stubborn and mean and grew in an instant. This sudden change in my behavior was simply because I didn't get the therapy that I needed. At the age of sixteen, I was determined to move out of my mother's house and eager to get married. However, I didn’t know how to be a wife. As a result of my ignorance in marriage, I endured some physical, mental, and verbal abuse from my first husband. When I had enough of the abuse, I walked away. The Lord had me return to my first husband when he told me that he was sick and needed my help. During this challenging experience, healing began to take place in us, and the Lord healed our marriage. Despite my husband being diagnosed with a Tumor on the brain and contracting AIDS—which was devastating to us and our two-year-old son at that time. The Lord allowed us to heal together until 1986 when He called my first husband home. I was still young, yet the doctor said I was the next to be buried and advised my mother to be prepared to care for my son. Well, like Sarah, I tried to help God and started dating another man who had a similar health condition to me, and out of that relationship, I was blessed with another son.

Today, I stand as a living testimony of God’s faithfulness to say that there is no trace of HIV or full-blown AIDS in my body. This miracle extended to my sons, and none of them ever tested positive for this virus. To this day, people don't understand how this happened—all I tell them is God is a healer. Well, here we are now, and God is still working miracles. In 2018, I had my sleeve done because of being overweight, Diabetic, Gout, IBS, Fatty liver, High Blood Pressure, and other related issues. The doctor told me my body was so toxic that it was best I avoided the surgery. However, my husband, whom God has blessed me with, decided to proceed with it. We did it, and we did good. In 2020, the Lord called my brother and my mother home six months apart, and I struggled to cope with everything. I felt sick and was suffering from IBS. We thought the first surgery would mitigate the pain I suffered, but it didn't, so we did another surgery, and it still didn't help. In 2021, my gastroenterologist told me that they needed to check my colon well. After the examination, my large intestine was severely damaged, so they decided to remove it. I went into surgery thinking it was going to be something temporary. However, after six hours, I came out of the theatre to learn that I had to wear a bag on my side for the rest of my life. Wow! Depression and anxiety set in really big. Faithfully, and yes, I was still called to lead God's people, and He had to remind me that if I healed you before, I would do it again. I began to speak over my life repeatedly, saying that all was well and I was healing from this. In July of 2022, my health started declining to the point that couldn’t eat or drink anything. My weight went from 185lbs to 120lbs within five months, and I became dehydrated, malnourished, and was having memory loss. My body organs were failing me, and in November 2022, my doctor told me that I was dying and they didn't know what was happening. Again, I was going to help God, and I began to plan my funeral. I started telling my family goodbye and telling the church what I needed them to do. Most of the people around me didn’t understand what I was doing. Then the Lord spoke again, saying, if I did it before, I will do it again. You shall live and not die; walk in your healing. One day, I was sleeping in the hospital, and the Lord came and instructed me to tell the doctors to open me up, and they would find the problem. Well, the doctors refused because of possible legal actions that could ensue. God dealt with my doctor, and they decided to proceed with God’s instruction. When they did, my small intestine had twisted and was restricting blood flow. Once they fixed the issue, my health improved, and I was placed on TPN for nutrition and weight gain. Today, I am a walking miracle, and I stand on the absolute fact that God is a healer and that All is Well.

Kimberly Applewhite is the Pastor of

Healing Waters Free Will Christian Church

2122 Woodson Rd Overland, MO.63114 Sunday service 1:30pm

Domestic Violence "Larissa Camp"

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 23:06:11 GMT

Domestic Violence
Larissa Camp

Domestic violence is an issue that affects people from all backgrounds. It can be physical, emotional, psychological, or financial abuse and often goes unnoticed due to fear, shame, or love for the abuser. Abusers often use a variety of techniques to manipulate their victims, undermine their confidence, control their behavior, and limit their access to others who can help. Domestic abuse can often be subtle and difficult to recognize, especially for those who are not directly involved in the relationship, such as family members, friends, and colleagues. When family members are aware of the situation and respond with compassion and action, they can be a powerful force in helping victims escape abusive relationships and start the healing process.

In the early stages of a relationship, an abuser may shower their partner with excessive affection, attention, gifts, and declarations of love, with the intent to create a sense of urgency for commitment in the relationship. Often, what appears as a small harmless request, such as wanting to spend more time together or knowing the partner’s whereabouts for safety reasons, turn into demands that dictate who the victim can see, where they can go, or what they can wear, furthering their control over the victim.

Abusers may share stories of their difficult pasts, such as childhood trauma or previous heartbreaks, to gain sympathy and further create an emotional bond with the victim to cover for the abuse that is happening. They do this to purposely justify their reason for abuse, making the victim their support system and punching bag. As a result of this affection and aggression dynamic, it creates conditions that make it harder for the victim to leave the relationship.

Abusers often deploy intimidation tactics and threats of abuse to maintain power and control over the victim should they consider leaving the relationship. This includes but is not limited to displaying weapons, destroying property, threats to inflict harm on the victim’s family, and self-harm or suicide. The intended goal of an abuser is to completely dominate every aspect of the victim’s life, creating total dependence upon the abuser.

Below are some of the signs of abuse but are not limited to;

Physical Abuse:

Visible injuries: Bruises, cuts, burns, or broken bones
Unexplained absences from work or school
Changes in appearance or behavior
Fear of being alone
Deliberate isolation.

Emotional Abuse:

Constant criticism or belittling
Isolation from friends and family
Controlling behavior
Threats or intimidation
Gaslighting (making the victim question their own reality).

Psychological Abuse:

Constant monitoring or tracking
Excessive jealousy or possessiveness
Threats of self-harm or suicide
Attempts to control finances or access to resources.

Financial Abuse:

Denying access to money or credit cards
Preventing the victim from working
Forcing the victim to give up assets.

Remedies to Mitigate Domestic Violence

Family members can play a critical role in supporting or unintentionally harming victims of domestic abuse. Families can assist victims of abuse in healing by reaffirming who they are, reminding them of their strengths and past achievements, which serves as a source of encouragement, and listening when the victim is ready to come forward with any questions or concerns about their relationship. Many times, the victim may not have fully made the decision to leave. However, family members must remain supportive and available to provide a safe environment for the victim should they need a place to stay temporarily. This will aid in reducing the victim’s fear of leaving and, in turn, influence them to worry less about where they will go should they lack access to resources to start over immediately. Also, family support will provide a sense of safety and time for rest to the victim.

Families also must avoid blaming the victim for not leaving or for taking the side of the abuser, regardless of how well they think they know the abuser. To a victim of abuse, the feelings of shame and guilt reinforce and recreate the atmosphere of isolation all over again. The victim, who is now physically free from the abuse, would have to endure being made to feel as if they deserved what they experienced at the hands of their abuser. Furthering the attack on their self-esteem and ability to make positive decisions.

Conclusion

Domestic violence affects people from all walks of life. It is a complex problem with consequences both for victims and their families. It is important to remember that victims of domestic violence are not to blame for their situation, and the goal of abusers is to use manipulation and control tactics to isolate their victims to further perpetuate violence. Families play a vital role in providing support, encouragement, and a safe environment for victims as they find their way out of abuse and onto a road of recovery.

The AGAPE Council of the Blind "Patrick Patton"

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 23:00:33 GMT

The AGAPE

Council of the Blind
Patrick Patton

A G ateway to A dvocacy P erseverance, and E ducation

We would like to extend an invitation on behalf of AGAPE Council of the Blind, an affiliate of the Missouri Council of the Blind (MCB), to our 26th Annual Gospel Fest.

AGAPE Council of the Blind, an affiliate of the Missouri Council of the Blind (MCB), is a 501(c)3 organization. We are here to promote the overall well-being of all legally blind individuals and positively influence the entire community. We actively enlist individuals to participate in the legislation of health, education, and earning opportunities for the blind and visually impaired.

The AGAPE Council of the Blind, partnering with Third Baptist Church, would like to cordially invite you to our Gospel Fest. The Annual Gospel Fest will be hosted on Sunday, October 27, 2024, by 3:30 pm at Third Baptist Church, located at 620 Grand Blvd, St. Louis, MO 63103. We would love to have you join us in an afternoon of inspiration, praise, and worship.

Our featured choir will be The St. Louis Gospel Choraleers. Our Awardee for our Dr. Bessie Reece Excellence will be Bishop Wilfert Lee of Tabernacle of Life Church. In excitement, we announce that Elder Michael Hayes of Zion Baptist Church will be our Master of Ceremony.

Please bring your family members, neighbors, and those who are visually impaired with you to learn about the many resources in our community.

Won’t you please come and be a part of our event and rejoice in song and fellowship with us?

If, unfortunately, you are unable to attend and would like to make a donation towards our cause, you can use our Cash App option $Agapecouncil, or you can make your check or money order payable to AGAPE Council of the Blind and send it to the address listed below:

AGAPE Council of the Blind

4446A Floriss Place

St. Louis, MO 63115

Thank you so much; God Bless you, and we hope to see you there!

Patrick Patton, President, (314) 780-3332

Elizabeth Brown, Committee Chairperson 314-496-8146

Email: Agapecouncil@gmail.com Website: Agapecouncil.org

Understanding Project 2025 "Melody Fogarty"

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 19:30:04 GMT

The Importance of Understanding Project 2025, the Democratic Agenda, and the Independent Gender: A Call for Vigilance
Melody Fogarty"

As the political landscape in the United States evolves, the upcoming "Mandate for Leadership Project 2025" is set to bring transformative changes that will impact every aspect of American life. Concurrently, the Democratic agenda continuously proposes significant reforms aimed at addressing systemic issues and promoting inclusivity. Meanwhile, the rise of independent voters and gender diversity adds another layer of complexity to the political discourse. In this rapidly changing environment, it is crucial for all citizens to pay close attention to these developments to ensure an informed and engaged electorate.

Understanding Project 2025

Project 2025, spearheaded by conservative think tanks, outlines a comprehensive strategy to reshape the Federal Government according to conservative principles. Key elements include:

1. Economic Policies: Emphasizing free-market principles, reducing federal regulations, and implementing tax reforms to stimulate economic growth.
2. National Security: Strengthening the military, enhancing border security, and adopting a more assertive foreign policy.
3. Administrative State Deconstruction: Reducing the size and scope of federal agencies, which could lead to significant changes concerning how federal programs are administered.
4. Social Policies: Shifting focus towards traditional values, potentially impacting policies on gender equality, LGBTQ+ rights, and reproductive health.

The potential impact of these changes on marginalized groups—such as women, non-white individuals, non-heterosexual individuals, and non-Christian communities—cannot be overstated. The rollback of DEI initiatives and the redefinition of gender-focused programs may lead to reduced support and protections for these communities.

The Democratic Agenda

In contrast, the Democratic agenda often focuses on expanding social programs, promoting equity, and enhancing regulatory frameworks to address systemic inequalities.

The key areas include:

1. Healthcare: Expanding access to affordable healthcare and strengthening the Affordable Care Act.
2. Climate Change: Implementing comprehensive policies to combat climate change and promote renewable energy.
3. Social Justice: Advancing DEI initiatives, criminal justice reform, and protections for marginalized communities.
4. Economic Equality: Raising the minimum wage, promoting worker rights, and addressing income inequality.

Understanding these policy proposals is essential as they starkly contrast the principles outlined in Project 2025. The Democratic agenda seeks to address disparities and promote inclusivity, which are critical for advancing a more equitable society.

The Independent Voter and Gender Diversity

The growing influence of independent voters and the increasing recognition of gender diversity add another layer of importance to this political dialogue. Independent voters, who do not align strictly with either of the major parties, play a pivotal role in shaping election outcomes. Their preferences often reflect a desire for pragmatic solutions over partisan politics.

Moreover, the recognition of gender diversity and the inclusion of non-binary and gender non-conforming individuals in the political discourse highlight the need for policies that respect and protect the rights of all individuals, regardless of their gender identity.

The Importance of Paying Attention

In this dynamic political environment, paying attention to the proposals and policies of Project 2025, the Democratic agenda, and the independent voter perspective is crucial. An informed electorate can:

1. Hold Leaders Accountable: By understanding the implications of these policies, voters can hold their elected officials accountable and ensure that their actions align with the best interests of the public.
2. Promote Inclusivity and Equity: Engaging with these issues helps promote a more inclusive and equitable society where the rights and needs of all individuals are considered.
3. Foster Informed Debate: An informed electorate can engage in meaningful discussions and debates, leading to better policy outcomes and a healthier democracy.

As the United States approaches a pivotal moment in its political history, understanding the implications of Project 2025, the Democratic agenda, and the perspectives of independent voters and diverse genders is more important than ever. By staying informed and engaged, citizens can ensure that their voices are heard and contribute to shaping a just and equitable society for all.

Losing A Child "Patricia Sylve"

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 19:24:48 GMT

Losing A Child
Patricia Sylve

The infant mortality rate is approximately 5.4 deaths per 1,000 live births (per the CDC data). The top five leading causes of infant death are congenital disabilities, preterm birth and low birth weight, SIDS, injuries, and maternal pregnancy complications.

Regardless of its cause, the death of an infant is shattering for surviving parents. The initial shock and devastation are immediately followed by profound grief. For most who are thrust into this crushing reality, all that was right and joyous with the world becomes wrong and insurmountable. Surviving parents often wonder if they will ever feel better as they try to navigate their unimaginable anguish.

Losing a child is an incredibly painful and complex experience. Parents often have many questions as they navigate their grief. Here are some common ones:

1. Why did this happen? - Parents may struggle to understand the reasons behind their child’s death, especially if it was sudden or unexpected. This question is a normal reaction and often reflects the deep need for answers and closure.
2. Could I have done something to prevent it? - Feelings of guilt and self-blame are common, as parents wonder if there was anything they could have done differently. It’s natural to wonder if different actions could have changed the outcome. It is important to remember that many factors are beyond our control. Self-compassion is vital when processing this type of loss.

How do I cope with this pain? – Managing this type of intense grief and emotional pain can be overwhelming. However, by choosing to seek support from friends, family, or professional counselors, they can easily find comfort in coping with the blow life has dealt them. Engaging in activities that honor your child’s memory may lessen your pain and decrease the number of days that are filled with grief.

How do I support my other children? - Balancing your grief while helping surviving siblings cope can be challenging. Creating a safe space for them to express their feelings and encouraging open communication that is age/emotionally appropriate may help your other children process their loss. Seeking family counseling may also be beneficial.

What should I tell people who ask about my child or children? Expect that you may be caught off guard by those unaware of your loss or where you are in the grief process. You may be asked questions that are difficult to answer and that trigger intense emotions. It’s okay to prepare a response that feels comfortable for you or set a boundary about what you prefer not to discuss.

Will I ever stop grieving or feel “normal” again? - The loss of a child can profoundly alter your sense of normalcy and cause an emotional and spiritual shift in you. While life will not be the same, many parents eventually experience moments of joy and develop a new normal in time.

How will this affect my relationships? - The strain on marriages and other relationships is a common concern and often a reality. Open communication and seeking counseling are good choices to help navigate this challenging reality.

Should I seek professional help? - There can be a stigma around seeking professional help, but it can be very beneficial to maintaining peace, harmony, and normalcy in the family. Grief counselors, therapists, and support groups can provide a safe space to process your emotions and thoughts and find support from others who are skilled and understand.

The questions above touch on the deep emotional and psychological impact of losing a child. Grieving is a deeply personal process. It is important for parents and loved ones to remember to practice self-care and allow themselves to grieve in their own way and time.

Growing Wise Together

Patricia Sylve

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Challenges of Child Support "Minister Alfred Long"

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 19:12:53 GMT

The Challenges of Child Support

and Re-entry
Minister Alfred Long

In my forty-six years of prison ministry, one of the largest obstacles to successful re-entry is the laws that pertain to child support. I believe every man is responsible for providing and supporting his children, and I’ve paid my share. However, the laws surrounding our incarcerated men are draconian at best.

The intersection of child support obligations and re-entry into society after incarceration presents significant challenges for many individuals. Here are some key points outlining these difficulties:

Financial Strain

1. Accrued Debt: Many individuals accrue child support debt while incarcerated since they have little or no income to make payments. This debt continues to grow, often with interest and penalties.

2. Limited Employment Opportunities: Upon release, finding stable employment can be challenging due to a criminal record, making it difficult to meet child support obligations

3. Wage Garnishment: If an individual does find employment, their wages can be garnished to cover child support arrears, leaving them with insufficient funds for basic living expenses.

Legal and Administrative Barriers

1. Modification Challenges: Incarcerated parents often struggle to get their child support orders modified due to a lack of legal representation or understanding of the process.

2. Lack of Coordination: There is often poor coordination between child support enforcement agencies and re-entry programs, leading to conflicting priorities and a lack of support for recently released individuals.

Social and Emotional Strain

1. Family Relationships: Incarceration and the inability to pay child support can strain relationships with children and other family members, complicating reintegration efforts.

2. Mental Health: The stress of managing child support obligations, finding employment, and reintegrating into society can take a toll on mental health, exacerbating the challenges of re-entry.

Potential Solutions

1. Suspending or Modifying Child Support During Incarceration: Policies that allow for the suspension or modification of child support orders during incarceration can help prevent debt accumulation.

2. Employment Programs: Re-entry programs that include job training and placement services can help individuals find stable employment, enabling them to meet their child support obligations.

3. Legal Assistance: Providing legal aid to help with child support modifications and understanding legal obligations can alleviate some of the administrative burden.

4. Coordinated Support Services: Integrating child support enforcement with re-entry programs can ensure that individuals receive comprehensive support to meet their financial and family responsibilities.

Addressing these challenges requires coordinated efforts from policymakers, legal systems, and social services to create a more supportive environment for individuals transitioning back into society while fulfilling their child support obligations.

I am starting an appeal to our elected officials to change some of these laws to help men become fathers who can provide for their kids without the burden of heavy-handed laws that ultimately hurt families more than help them.

Pastor Alfred Long Sr. is available to teach workshops about Prison Ministry, Addiction Recovery, Building Resilience, and other topics.

Contact information:

along@jacobslm.com

(314) 282-7220

jacobslm.com

Daily Success Boost "Alan Carnoil"

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 19:00:32 GMT

Daily Success Boost
Alan Carniol

As you know, I advocate "irons-in-the-fire" approach to job seeking.

This means that—instead of putting all your eggs in one basket and pursuing one job opportunity, you can get involved in running for two or three serious job opportunities simultaneously.

Below are five reasons to support my position:

(1) You're less dependent on the outcome of a single opportunity, so you'll feel more confident and relaxed when you walk into the interview (This makes it more likely that you'll get the job).

(2) Because you're not counting on just one opportunity, you won't give off unconscious signals of neediness. This increases your perceived value as a candidate. (Again, this makes you more likely to get the job.)

(3) If an opportunity doesn't work out, you always have at least two other opportunities to fall back on. Invariably, the possibility to feel more secure is probable.

(4) When it's time to negotiate your salary, you can negotiate from a position of strength — since, chances are, you have other job offers behind you. This means there's a good chance you'll get a bigger salary than if you were relying on one job opportunity to get you back into work.

(5) And when you start the job, you won't feel "lucky" to be there. You'll know that there's always another job you can take instead, so you'll carry yourself in a way that inspires confidence and commands respect—rather than being pushed around, like a lot of new starts.

This is why I believe in and advocate for the "irons-in-the-fire" approach to getting a job.

So, how can you put more irons in the fire?

MINISTERS OF THE NEW TESTAMENT "Dr. Leonard Robinson"

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 18:46:41 GMT

WE ARE TO BE ABLE MINISTERS OF THE NEW TESTAMENT

2 Corinthians 3:5-6

Dr. Leonard Robinson

What is the New Testament without the King, the Kingdom, the Blood, the Cross, Redemption, Salvation, Restoration, and the Crown? What is the New Testament without the Covenant, the Fruit, the Gifts, Grace, Mercy, Truth, and Power? What is the New Testament without Righteousness, Peace, and Joy in the Holy Ghost? What is the New Testament without Faith, Faithfulness, and Truth? What is the New Testament without the provision of the King for a people who are submitted to His reign? What is the New Testament if it is not about One Nation, A Holy Nation, both Jew and Gentile Made One in Christ Jesus? What is the New Testament without Dominion over our flesh, over sin, the devil, and our circumstances as we live life in the Spirit? What is the New Testament without the Glory of God being made manifest? What is the New Testament without Jesus being King of Kings and Lord of Lords? What is the New Testament without Jesus returning to Rule and Reign, having received us up to heaven and returning with us to earth again? What is the New Testament without Holiness, that no man will see God? What is the New Testament without Healing and Deliverance? What is the New Testament without Sanctification? What is the New Testament without Transformation? What is the New Testament without Apostles, Prophets, Evangelists, Pastors, and Teachers, equipping the saints for Kingdom living and global evangelism as we carry the same message Jesus and His disciples preached? What is the New Testament without Bishops, Deacons, and Elders who know the Kingdom message Jesus came and preached, lived for, died for, and called all to go to all the ends of the world serving in the ministry and Word of reconciliation? What is the New Testament without Husbands who love their Wives and Children who submit to their Parents? What is the New Testament without the Authority of the Scriptures that Teach us how to live and how to Represent the King and His Kingdom as Ambassadors who are also Sons and Daughters of the Most High God? What is the New Testament if it is not about the Blood of the Covenant that has made both Jew and Gentile one Nation of Kingly Priests, who are a Royal Priesthood and Holy Nation, having been washed from our sins and brought into the Royal Family?

We are to be able ministers of the New Testament, not the Old Testament concepts of the priesthood or the practices and protocols of a Jewish nation. We are to adopt the principles and practices of being obedient to the commandments of our King. Yet, we live as neither being the circumcision nor uncircumcision, but as those who have been made free by the plan of God hidden in the New Covenant that gave us a better hope, Christ in us—the Hope of Glory!

What is the New Testament? It is not about apostolic lording over the flock of God. The New Testament is not about private Kingdom building? The New Testament is not about schisms in the Body; that’s the result of a lack of understanding of purpose and identity in the Lord, who brings Jew and Gentile together in One Body.

The New Testament is not about developing ministry as a business or brand to find your place in the marketplace of ministry—all vying for the same Christian audience. The New Testament is not about a people who are all right in their own eyes.

The New Testament, as is the Old Testament, is about a King, His Kingdom, and His Royal family. The New Testament is not about the religious practices of this group over that group or a returning to anything other than returning to God’s original purpose for man. That man would be RESTORED to what Adam lost, so man again would have DOMINION over his circumstances and would REIGN with Christ in this life as we’ve been made HEIRS of the COVENANT of PROMISE.

You cannot be an ABLE MINISTER OF THE NEW TESTAMENT if you do not understand you are now HEIRS with Christ. JOINT HEIRS with God and the SAINTS who are the HOUSEHOLD OF GOD and that GOD IS YOUR FATHER!

Are you an able minister of the New Testament? Are you preaching and teaching the same Kingdom message Jesus preached, taught, and demonstrated, the same message He delegated to His disciples to carry throughout the world as a witness to every nation that He would return? Are you training and equipping the saints to do the same, according to Ephesians 4:12?

Are you teaching the Kingdom of God, the only message that unites all under Christ as He is in His rightful place as King of kings and Lord of lords? As an able minister of the New Testament, are you renewing your mind to the truth and work of the HOLY SPIRIT who is the GOVERNOR of the Kingdom of God on earth today?

Every APOSTLE, PROPHET, EVANGELIST, PASTOR, AND TEACHER must be highly developed in the knowledge of the Kingdom of God, its keys, principles, practices, and protocols to properly represent the New Testament.

The KINGDOM IS ALIVE as RIGHTEOUSNESS, PEACE, and JOY in the HOLY GHOST. And it produces for us daily as we are alive to the truth of all that the KING and the KINGDOM is.

[ABLE] MINISTERS OF THE NEW TESTAMENT understand and agree to these truths, having the knowledge that has been set forth by the FATHER through HIS SON and THE HOLY SPIRIT.

To fight these truths is to fight being made to be an ABLE MINISTERS OF THE NEW TESTAMENT.

What is the New Testament?

Religion teaches that the central theme of the New Testament is salvation. However, under closer examination, the central theme is the Kingdom of God, and salvation is the means of seeing and experiencing the Kingdom now and eternal. You and I, having overcome by the grace of God, every sin and the deception of the enemy who would seek to distract and detour us from submitting to the activity of God’s royal rule, order, and the act of reigning in our lives—moment to moment, day to day.

What is the New Testament?

It is the last will, the last covenant of a King to the inhabitants of the earth, who have voluntarily joined themselves to Him, having repented from their deeds—including religious deeds, having submitted to His way of doing and being right, who are now entitled to all that God has willed for His creation.

What is the New Testament?

It is the unfolding of the mystery and majesty of the King and His Kingdom to a people He’s chosen for Himself, who have been restored to His image and likeness, His imprint, through the Blood of the Covenant that washed us from our sins and made us to be a nation of kingly priest, a royal priesthood who walk in the God-kind of righteousness, living according to the God-kind of love that makes the God-kind of faith work as we live the God-kind of life that the Father sent Jesus to give us through the Gift of Righteousness.

Are you an able minister of the New Testament, or are you off preaching apostate, profiting lies off people coming into their season and divine destiny because you are inspired by your favorite apostles and prophets who all tell the same lies, having not been trained to be ABLE MINISTERS OF THE NEW TESTAMENT?

Today, the Lord says, “No longer allow yourself to be tossed—to and for—with every wind of doctrine but return to My covenant of love for My creation. Receive again the engrafted Word with Meekness, which will enable you to save your soul. Walk in the truth of My Testament established for you through the blood of My Son and know that I’ve loved you and do love you with everlasting love. Only be quick to repent and receive the fullness of what I purposed for you from the beginning, and that is that you would be restored to My image and likeness again that as objects of My love, you would rule and reign with Christ in this life and in that to come.”

You must be ABLE MINISTERS OF THE NEW TESTAMENT, or all you are and have become—are ministers after the myriads of ideas of religious men and women who were never taught to make God’s Kingdom and righteousness their number one priority. Recover yourself from the blind who have led the blind. No more ditch ministries. What is the New Testament? It is the will of the King for Kingdom people and the pronouncement of judgment against all who disobey God’s Kingdom mandate for humanity. The same King who sent Jesus as King because of His love for us is also the same King who sent Jesus to judge those who would disobey Him. The Bible is about a King, His Kingdom, and His Royal Family.

Apostle Leonard Robinson-

Kingdom Vision Ministries International-

School of The Kingdom,

6101 Limekiln Pike-

Philadelphia, PA 19141

267-357-9816.

Ascending to New Heights "Bishop Miah White"

Sat, 07 Sep 2024 01:00:32 GMT

"Ascending to New Heights: Bishop Miah White’s Historic Role, Impact and Influence"

Bishop Miah White is the Lead Pastor of The Worship Center STL in Saint Louis, MO., and a daughter of The Full Gospel Baptist Church Fellowship International. In 2024, she attained yet another historic milestone by becoming the youngest consecrated African American female Bishop in the Lord's Church.

Bishop Miah White joined Nicci Roach for a conversation about her recent consecration as a bishop and her unique leadership approach. They also delved into strategies for fostering intergenerational worship, the vital role of empathy and compassion in leadership, and the evolving church landscape in the post-pandemic era. Additionally, their discussion highlighted the importance of education and empowerment, the need for rest and self-care, and the fragility of life. Conclusively, they underscored the value of mentorship, dedication, and consecration within their faith.

[Nicci Roach] Congratulations on your recent elevation! Tell me more about your elevation to bishop.

[Bishop Miah White] Thank you. Gladly, on July 11, 2024, I was recently consecrated as a bishop in the Lord's Church in Full Gospel Baptist Church Fellowship. I'm so excited and just so honored.

[NR] What does this mean because you’ve served and are still serving in roles such as songwriter, singer, worship leader, pastor, advisor, and other related positions? I could go on….

[BMW] It gives me access to different tables and rooms, but it also re-affirms my effort and work done. I believe it brings even more legitimacy and credibility to just who I am in the kingdom and what God has graced me to do. Also, on the flip side, it provides an avenue for not just me, but for those I reach to see representation in the highest biblical office in the church. I believe that it amplifies all that I am and what I have done and lays a solid foundation for all that I will do.

[NR] So, we have this ‘daddy-daughter dynamic,’ the baton has been passed (from your father Bishop George White, Jr.), and you are now leading as the head of the congregation. I'd like to know what kind of expectations or demands you have had to navigate.

[BMW]: It's quite an interesting and dynamic question. Of course, based on the daddy-daughter dynamic, many members have watched you grow up. Some of them watched and still remember when you were born. Already, they know you from a certain perspective, but after my consecration to this office, they have to learn to unlearn their ideologies about me and embrace this new aspect of me. In essence, they have to re-learn me in my new role, not expecting me to be a replica of my father, but to be myself. I find it fascinating because it is synonymous with an 18-wheeler. If the driver negotiates a bend too fast, the truck flips over. However, if the driver negotiates a bend slowly and follows the right precautions, he/she can successfully turn and go in the direction of God’s instruction.

With that mindset, I believe that I've been blessed to have my father by my side and in an advantageous, beneficial position as the mantle was passed. As with any position in ministry, the people will have to re-learn you in a new way and, over time, learn to trust you. I have strengths and weaknesses, but overall, it's been a good thing to see the people learn to trust me as it relates to this new position.

My father has large shoes to fill. Not only do we have the father-daughter dynamic, but we have the father-daughter-bishop dynamic. We’re the only ones with such a dynamic. I’m taking on a new legacy of father and daughter bishops, serving in the same reformation with the same apostolic succession.

I’m confident I will approach this new terrain as best as I can. With what I have learned from my first tenure as a father-daughter-pastor, I'll use the wisdom that comes from that space with new innovative concepts to advance forward.

[NR] Yes, it's good that you bring up that dynamic. And the two of you have served in similar capacities, yet at different times. For the first time in history, we have five generations working side by side in the workplace, but the sixth generation is in the pews of our congregations. We have the Silent Generation (Traditionalist) 1927—1945; the Boomers Generation, 1946—1964; the Generation X, 1965—1980; the Millennials, 1981—1996; Generation Z, 1997—2012; and finally, the Generation Alpha, 2013 to the present.

Considering all these, how do you create a worship experience that speaks to multiple generations simultaneously?

[BMW] Well, for one, thanks to my father, we have always had an intergenerational church. Hence, I grew up in intergenerational planning and things of that nature. Also, I have a blueprint for studying, but I'm not stuck on that.

My best approach is to take some foundational principles and build upon them. I have a team with every generation on it who can speak to each generation, so we feed everyone and no one feels left behind. Personally, I dislike the idea that we went through this era as a church and as a kingdom, but everything was addressed to the Millennials.

Sometimes, we forget that we need the wisdom, stature, and discipline of the baby boomers to pass down to this generation. We can't forget about anyone, but I want to ensure that I always let the older generations know how valuable they are to me and how valuable they are to ministry.

I don’t operate based on the values of a generation but create a space so that their voice is heard and that you have an opportunity to be ministered to. Personally, the best way to do that is to have a team that represents each generation to help ensure that we don't have gaps. And if we do have gaps, they can help fill them and ensure we do better.

Most importantly, I can't do it by myself, and I don't know a pastor who can. If they say they can, they will be stressed out. In my opinion, teamwork makes the dream work. Who holds your hands up is vital to your progress.

[NR] Interesting. Unpack that a little bit more for me. Who's holding your arms up?

How have you defined what’s needed to hold your arms up during this season?

[BMW] I'm always searching for that answer because there's so much transition happening in my life this season. So, I have to really trust my prayer time and meditation on what the Lord is saying as it pertains to me and being an asset to the kingdom of God and those that He has brought to help. One of my prayers is asking the Lord to send me destiny helpers and destiny investors, people who will see the vision and support it, and that He doesn't allow me to miss them.

I pray for character and grace, not to disrespect them, and for what they bring to help me. Rather, I would open my eyes so I could see and appreciate it. So, I try to create a space—like a pastor's council. I have a Wise Council, and then I have Overseers. My Wise Council is my father’s generation—the baby boomers, those who have served in ministry for longer than myself. The overseers consist of Generation X through Generation Z. They provide insight and perspective to help us create a healthy and well-rounded church. Being able to trust them and God functioning within them when they bring ideas to the table is essential. Also, it is imperative to trust them to lead while I'm gone or when something comes up, and I believe that they will resolve whatever issue arises and preserve every check and balance. I feel like if I do that as far as pouring into them, then they'll successfully hold up my arms and not be hit.

[NR] I listened to some of your past sermons. Yes, I poked around a little bit as I prepared for our time together. In December of 2019, you preached to a congregation in Alabama on the topic, “I Am a Disruptor.”

In that sermon, you said, “You can't get upset because God is using something to position you in a place where you can disrupt not only your current status but everybody that's around you.” What would you say that God has used to prepare you for such a season as this Ms. Disruptor?

[BMW] Yes, I've been a disruptor my whole life. But I would say the Lord prepares me in such strange ways. I feel that because I'm a born prophet, my senses typically trigger me and help me prepare for things. It's like having several emotional and physical seasons of suffering. I'm not saying this is the Lord doing. That will be a negative remark about God. However, I encounter different times of suffering that produce oil and a sight that can only come from times of crushing. So, I have encountered different seasons in my life that are either health-wise, relationship-wise, or financially-wise. As a matter of fact, the Lord would use several means to push and to pull things out of me just to prepare me for, to have that grit, to suffer well, to be able to lead well and to know how to lead people who are experiencing things that they may not be able to talk about. So, I have those personal encounters; I wouldn't say they're trials and tribulations. Rather, I would say that they are times of preparation because every time, every issue, every circumstance, and every situation has produced another aspect of me, which allowed me to see another aspect of God, which strengthened me holistically as an individual. And so, I allow God to disrupt my life because I'm a disruptor. Hence, I can't be a disruptor without expecting God to disrupt me.

[NR] I always say, “You can't lead where you've not been.” And I tell people to check the receipts and the source.

[BMW] Yeah, absolutely! You lead better when you can have sympathy, and you can sympathize and empathize with people when you know what it feels like to a degree. You might not understand everybody's story and everybody's situation, but you have a heart. In my opinion, it matters when we have a heart for people. It exudes through everything we do. You're more compassionate. You're more understanding. You're able to lead with grace and mercy.

[NR] You talked about having compassion, empathy, and mercy and then extending that to others. It is interesting to me that we live in a time where there is a shift in leadership, and I find myself asking how these new leaders could lack a heart for the people. Far too many have the focus on self and not the people.

[BMW] Absolutely, I agree wholeheartedly. It's a part of the transition that God is working on right now.

All that you said about the guards changing, all that we see happening with the heart and without the heart of God, is all a part of the disruption that He is using to reset us. It has to happen.

We have to experience those who could lead without compassion and empathy. So, we can appreciate those who lead with a heart for people. It all has to happen because of what God is doing right now in the spirit. Well, it's already done in the spirit, but it's manifesting in the natural.

We must stick through it until we get to the other side. However, I believe it's essential to experience because it will illuminate so much that's needed for where we're going, really where we're at.

[NR] After researching you, I discovered some themes that ground who you are as a bishop. Those words were mindfulness, shifts and setups, ownership, positioning, influence, operable faith, and unapologetic urgency.

[BMW] Hmm, I like that.

[NR] You are a profound speaker, and one of the things that sets you apart is your ability to acknowledge and expose relevant life experiences. Where do you tap to get that? Because I see a generation that’s really close to you, but I see another that upholds you.

[BMW] I think it's just me. I don't even know if I can answer your question correctly. I think part of it is how I was trained, as it pertains to just being relevant and influential, knowing what God is saying, and making that palatable for people to receive. Also, I like to stand on business. I don't know. That's a good question.

I work hard at just trying to be what people want to receive. My father would sometimes say, “You got to know the Bible, by listening to Miah because she's so deeply versed.” I know Miah belongs to one generation that is stellar. Yet, another generation finds it novel and difficult to accept. So, I am intentional about merging the two because I know there's a generation that I'm called to that no one else can reach. My authenticity in the word and culture has to merge for them to see the light of God through me. Because they will not get it by coming to church or reading the Bible by themselves. It's the way that the Lord has just designed me to deliver His message. I just try to work on being an effective communicator.

[NR] Yes, the work comes across.

[BMW] I work hard. Whether or not I know the setting, I am genuinely intentional about the rooms I enter— and ensure that I know what God is saying and how to deliver His message to that room, so everyone leaves impacted.

[NR] I think that's exactly what people are looking for, considering we're coming off the pandemic four years now, and a lot of people left (the church) and haven't returned. Yet, I believe that’s because some things were exposed, and some things were introduced that will forever change the church. However, it doesn't take away from the Kingdom work we’re called to do and our ability to convey the messages in a palpable manner, as well as that which can be interpreted and then walked out.

[BMW] Yes, I'm very intentional about that. I appreciate you for acknowledging that you can pick it up and can tell. I just don't want anybody to not receive Christ because of religious systems, lack of understanding, or feeling that you're not loved, like there's no space for you.

In my church, I’m currently trying to figure out new ministries that aren't your typical ministries, so I meet people who don't do typical ministries. However, they can still be in ministry in a different facet because I don't want anybody to feel left out.

[NR] I think the church as we knew it and the norms of how it was are no longer, but it’s noticeable with those who are struggling in this space. For example, you can see it in congregations without youth or young adults. It’s very startling to notice such gaps. So, it's great to know that you're aware of that.

I'm a huge advocate for education and empowerment, and I understand you are, too. Also, you have a degree in Social Work; to me, it is an all-things-work-together situation, and it causes you to stand out. I'm not knocking anyone who has not completed a formal process of education, not at all. However, I will say it makes a difference when you have a teacher who teaches yet understands there are different learning styles and capabilities in their congregation. I applaud you for being intentional. It matters to you, and it shows.

[BMW] It does matter. I am a reader, and I love education and empowerment, as you stated. One thing I believe is that we need to educate our people.

It’s not just your typical Bible study; go deeper and help them learn the word for themselves and how it applies to every area of their life. So, one may ask how that relates to economic development. Or how do you take these principles and also learn what they didn't teach you on finance or health? So, I try to merge those capacities into the teachings, preachings, or just how I set things up because I believe it is impactful. Also, when you can make it practical and educational, you empower them to make a transformation.

[NR] What would you say is making your heartbeat fast, meaning it brings you some joy now that you're in this new season?

[BMW] Oh, my goodness. I'm just excited to do the work from a new seat. I have a new area that I'm leading in Full Gospel, which is Prophetic Development in the School of the Prophets.

I'm excited to birth that and to see people grow in understanding of the prophetic, whether they're prophets or not. But gain an understanding and an awareness and not make it spooky. Make it so that everybody understands what all flesh means and pneumatology and how the Holy Spirit is working, alive, and active. So, building this new space and the authority that it gives me to release it makes my heartbeat.

[NR] On the flip side, what's making that heartbeat irregular? Is the pace of that heartbeat slowing down, meaning a little heartbreak or a little strain?

[BMW] Well, right now, I don't, I haven't gotten it. I thank God, nothing has gotten me to this space. Like I said, I'm fresh into it. I don't have anything right now. It’s been an accelerated season since I've been in Episcopal school. So, it's just a grind, and I just got off of rest, so I'm just really getting back into the swing of things. I haven't had that encounter yet.

[NR] As we know, leading is very demanding. In the past, it has not been the norm to consider a sabbatical, a season of retreat, or summer breaks; as you said, you've been resting. However, more leaders have come to understand that rest is needed to serve excellently and to protect our well-being. Hence, what is Bishop Miah White's strategy for rest?

[BMW] I believe rest is a weapon. It's essential to me to stay top tier. I try to schedule time away before I put stuff on the schedule. So, as I prepare for 2025, I already scheduled when to take breaks, so I pull away before I pull away. Apostle Hilliard will always say in a sense, “Pull away before you break away.” He means…, “take care of yourself before you try to do too much and take care of others.”

And so, every quarter, I try to take a couple of days off just to rest. One thing I have taught my church is July is our sabbatical month. And so, we do church differently in July. This year, we did two weeks in person and two weeks virtually. In July, we had no meetings and no rehearsals. The only thing we did was a fellowship to bring us together. We had family time activities such as movies on the outdoor screen. Another activity was breakfast with the bishops—with me and my dad.

They are now used to July being our rest month. And that's the time I'll just give the word. There's no singing. It's a little bit different this year, but typically I get up, I lead prayer, and then we go straight into the word or hold an online fellowship. I'm trying to get them to understand that rest is a weapon. I want them to know that I value them and give them rest because ministry is not just taxing for me. It's taxing for all of those who are helping to carry the vision forward. So, when I take a break, I want them to take a break as well. Outside of July, I try to do a little something every quarter. I pull away to go either out of town to just rest, but I typically am gone in September. That's my time to rest. That's my time to prepare for the next year that's coming in. I'll take two weeks for vacation, as you could say, and then the last two weeks to hear what the Lord is saying for the coming year.

Having a therapist is vital. I try to do something every week that just caters to me, whether it's a massage, whether it's the movies, whether it's absolutely nothing or the park so that I at least have a small reset every week. But I try to do at least something for a couple of days, once a quarter. And then September, I typically, I'm gone.

[NR] In navigating all this, you named a couple of people, and you've talked about intentionally setting up the councils and the advisors. How has mentorship influenced your journey to this point?

[BMW] I think mentors are essential. Personally, I can watch and learn from my mentors, so I don’t undergo a similar negative experience. It allows the capacity within me to be deepened by gleaming from them and allowing them to pour into me.

Of course, I'm pouring out all the time. So, I need to have people who can pour into me. I don't just limit it to my mentors—my close friends and those around me who have capacities in different areas that might be deeper than mine can pour into me as well. Not necessarily as my mentor, but I believe it exudes some mentorship value from which I can grow my capacity. I believe that it's essential to have mentors, but impactful people are also around you because they are vital to growing your capacity.

Apart from your efforts, who you allow in your inner circle and who you allow to pour into you impacts you. Hence, ensuring you're always getting fed so you're not pouring from an empty well is vital.

[NR] Please share one key insight for a new pastor in ministry. What would you share with them?

[BMW] I would say take your time, hear God, pray, meditate. But take your time. It's exciting when you're a new pastor with a big vision, having a new seat of authority. Indeed, it is exciting.

However, take your time, and spend a lot of time with God, a lot of time in prayer so that the Lord is using you to shift the church, to bring a new perspective, and to bring the church into a new space, you're seeing clearly and understanding God's timing. Your fellowship with God is vital to everything you do as a pastor. Once you know God's timing, you can keep your cadence; no matter what people say or do, you can keep your cadence because you know what God says. You understand His timing and are able to abide by His will—the perfect will of God and the permissive will of God.

[NR] Based on your current knowledge, what advice would you give yourself about leadership if you could go back five years?

[BMW] I would have told myself five years ago, don't take it personally. These are God's people, and when you deal with people, you have to look at them like broken glass. When glass is broken, its edges are sharp and it's very fragile. So, you have to be careful how you handle it and handle it carefully. If you handle it knowing that this is a broken piece of glass, that this is a broken life, this is a broken person, then they can get whole a lot faster. Don't take it personally but be responsible.

[NR] What’s one word to describe the season of life you're in right now? What would that one word be?

[BMW] Acceleration.

[NR] What scripture do you go back to for encouragement, strength, and re-centering?

[BMW] Ooh, just one? Psalms 34, Psalms 27, Psalms 91. Any of these Bible verses tend to remind me of my place in God, to remind me who God is to me, and to remind me He's in control. I’m centered and I’m safe.

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Growing Wise Together "Patricia Sylve"

Eldermarilynparker59@gmail.com (Marilyn Parker) — Sat, 07 Sep 2024 00:42:34 GMT

"Growing Wise Together"

Patricia Sylve

Hello Community,

I am excited to join the group of regular Sparkman contributing writers. My name is Patricia Sylve. I am a native of St. Louis, and have resided in Texas for the last twenty-seven years. My goal is to offer meaningful information in this column, Growing Wise Together. With that said, let’s talk about annual check-ups for children returning to school.

3 John 1:2. “Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy good health and that all may go well with you, even as your soul is getting along well.”. John's prayer ...With that said, let’s talk about annual check-ups for children heading back to school.

Returning to the classroom after summer break is an exciting time of the year for both children and parents. As children head back to school, it is important to check their overall health. Most schools require that children receive a physical examination if they are participating in sports. However, children should complete at least an annual well-child examination.

The benefits of children receiving a physical examination are numerous. First, a check-up visit gives your child’s doctor or healthcare provider a set point to monitor your child’s growth and development and confirm if your child has met key milestones. A physical examination can also help detect potential health issues early, such as vision or hearing problems, which can be addressed promptly. Additionally, these visits are also an opportunity for children to receive vaccinations to protect them from various illnesses and diseases. The doctor’s appointment also offers a chance for you as a parent to discuss any concerns you might have about your child’s health, behavior, or development with a healthcare professional.

Further, it is important to highlight the need for children to maintain healthy eyes, teeth, and hearing as part of the formula for a successful school year.

A vision check is important to detect vision disorders that can impair healthy development, interfere with learning, and even lead to permanent vision loss. Regular eye screenings are recommended at least annually. A vision screening can be completed by your child’s pediatrician, the family doctor, an optometrist (completes routine eye and vision care), or an ophthalmologist (provides advanced eye care and surgery). Remember, if children are participating in sports, they should use protective eyewear—goggles or a face mask if recommended for the sport.

Hearing is equally important to a child’s success in the classroom. Hearing loss can affect your child’s ability to develop speech, language, and social skills. Early detection of hearing issues is crucial because the earlier children with hearing loss start receiving services, the more likely they are to reach their full potential. Regular hearing screenings can help identify issues early on, allowing for timely intervention and support. If you suspect your child might have hearing loss, it is important to speak with your doctor or a provider and get a hearing test as soon as possible.

The beginning of the school year is a great time to pencil in a visit to the dentist. Cavities and tooth decay—most often—turn into a toothache, which can take your child’s focus away from learning until it is mitigated. Remember to follow your dentist’s recommendation for cleanings. After this visit, most dentists will bring a smile to your child’s face with a new toothbrush and toothpaste.

Finally, nutrition and hydration are equally important. Good food and drinks help keep the brain functioning at peak capacity. Most nutritionists and dieticians will recommend replacing sugary drinks with low-sugar beverages or water and processed foods with fruit and vegetables. Let’s ensure our children have the fuel—good food, and water to learn and play throughout this school year. Wishing all our children a healthy and successful school year!

Growing Wise Together

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THE POWER OF EDUCATION "Apostle David A. Rodgers"

Sat, 07 Sep 2024 00:37:25 GMT

"THE POWER OF EDUCATION"

Apostle David A. Rodgers

John 14:26- “But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all things that I said to you.”

In over 2000 years of the history of Christianity on planet Earth, much of its foundational doctrines, principles, and theology have been replaced with secular humanism or just ignored altogether. One of those invaluable principles is that of discipleship. Discipleship was the primary focus of the Great Commission, given by Jesus Christ to the church. Soul-winning, married to strong discipleship was the strategy that propelled the church to grow and thrive despite centuries of persecution. However, this strategy is a scarce commodity in most churches today. According to Barna.org, a Christian Research Company, less than 7% of churches in the world today have a structured, strategic discipleship system woven into the fabric of their church. This simply means that 93% of Christians worldwide are partially or completely ignorant of the scriptures and incompetent in the skills of preaching, teaching, praying, and disciplining the next generation of Christians.

Hosea 4:6- “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. Because you have rejected knowledge, I also will reject you from being priest for Me; Because you have forgotten the law of your God, I also will forget your children.”

Ignorance is an enemy of your destiny. Allowing yourself to be taught and trained is directly connected to how far you elevate your life. Anyone in leadership in the church must be discipled first. You can’t lead people into a realm you haven’t entered yourself. As the world systems have dramatically changed with the inception of the internet and artificial intelligence, it is imperative that we do not forget nor neglect the pillars of education. The first textbook in the public schools of America was the Holy Bible. GOD is intelligent and has sent His Spirit to function as a teacher in the lives of His children. The Ivy League Colleges were started by many different Protestant Church denominations. Almost all of the universities in America and England were founded by religious institutions and leaders. The rich history of Christianity in the fields of science, music, reading, writing, and technology is well documented. It is imperative that the Saints of GOD recommit to our heritage in education and ensure that the next generation is educated and discipled to be the voices of tomorrow.

Teamwork vs. Collaboration "Dan Lovekamp"

Sat, 07 Sep 2024 00:27:59 GMT

"Teamwork VS Collaboration When Coaching Matters"

Dan Lovekamp

Recently, a good friend of mine decided to begin coaching 8–10-year-olds in baseball. In the description, he spoke of collaborative effort and celebrating everyone's successes, not just the top performers. I wanted to spend a minute on this.

Yes, there is a difference between teamwork and collaboration, though the two terms are closely related and often used interchangeably. Here's how they differ:

Teamwork:

Definition: Teamwork involves a group of people working together towards a common goal. Each member typically has a specific role and responsibilities, contributing their part to the overall objective. I've never believed in the "participation trophy" mentality. Reward the high performers, coach and support all others to make them the best they can be. You will lose your most gifted if they are not recognized.

Focus:

The focus is often on coordination, division of labor, and collective effort. Teamwork is about combining individual strengths to achieve a goal. Structure: Teamwork tends to have a more structured approach, with defined roles, tasks, and often a leader who directs the team's efforts. This could be a coach, or it could be an on-field player who has shown leadership ability.

Example:

A sports team where each player has a specific position and role, working together to win a game. Their skill sets will be different, therefore, they will have different responsibilities within the team structure. Each player must understand his role and its importance.

Collaboration:

Definition: Collaboration involves people working together, often across different roles, disciplines, or organizations, to solve a problem or create something new. It emphasizes joint effort and sharing of ideas.

Focus:

The focus is on co-creation, innovation, and synergy. Collaboration often requires open communication, shared knowledge, and mutual respect.

Structure: Collaboration can be less structured, with a more fluid exchange of ideas and responsibilities. It encourages input from all participants, regardless of their role or expertise.

Example:

A cross-functional team from different departments working together to develop a new product. Teamwork is more about a coordinated effort within a group with defined roles, while collaboration emphasizes working together across boundaries to create or solve something through shared input and creativity.

To all my "Coaches" out there. Thank you for your time and effort. It is appreciated more than you know. Your greatest impact will materialize long after the interaction.

Make today and everyday a masterpiece.

Mandate for Leadership Project 2025 "Melody Fogarty"

Sat, 07 Sep 2024 00:21:03 GMT

"Mandate for Leadership Project 2025"

Melody Fogarty

The "Mandate for Leadership Project 2025" outlines several changes that are likely to have significant impacts on marginalized groups, including poor people, women, non-white, non-heterosexual, and non-Christian individuals. Key areas of concern include:

1. Impact on Women

- The plan proposes to rename the USAID Office of Gender Equality and Women’s Empowerment (GEWE) to the Office of Women, Children, and Families. It aims to refocus resources on these groups and eliminate gender advisors and points of contact within USAID.

- It also suggests rescinding policies that address gender diversity and equality, including removing references to terms such as “gender,” “gender equality,” and “gender diverse individuals” from official documents and policies.

- Additionally, the plan calls for the elimination of the promotion of abortion rights and controversial sexual education materials, which may affect reproductive rights and access to healthcare for women.

2. Impact on Non-White Individuals:

- The project criticizes the current Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) infrastructure within USAID, claiming it racializes the agency and creates a hostile work environment for those who disagree with identity politics.

- It recommends dismantling the DEI apparatus, eliminating positions such as the Chief Diversity Officer, and removing DEI requirements from contracts and grants. This could negatively impact efforts to promote racial equality and support for non-white communities.

3. Impact on Non-Heterosexual Individuals:

- The plan expresses opposition to what it describes as the “bullying LGBTQ+ agenda” and proposes halting the promotion of DEI agendas related to LGBTQ+ issues within USAID.

- This could reduce support and protections for non-heterosexual individuals within the agency and its programs, potentially leading to increased discrimination and marginalization.

4. Impact on Non-Christian Individuals :

- While the document emphasizes partnerships with faith-based organizations, it is primarily focused on Christian values and traditional family structures. This emphasis could marginalize non-Christian individuals and organizations.

5. Impact on Poor People:

- The focus on reducing federal involvement in social welfare programs and emphasizing personal responsibility could reduce support for poverty alleviation programs. This shift might exacerbate economic challenges for low-income individuals and families.

So, what do you have to lose? You stand the chance of losing democracy plus the right to be a full citizen with all the rights enumerated within the constitution and under state, local, and federal law. If you choose not to vote or you choose to vote for an independent, or you choose to vote Republican, it means the implementation of Project 2025 and the following:

The end of no-fault divorce
Complete ban on abortions without exceptions
Ban of contraceptives
Higher taxes for the working class imply additional tax breaks for corporations and the one percent
Elimination of unions and worker protections
Increase in the retirement age
Cut down on Social Security and Medicare
Elimination of the Affordable Care Act
Hike in the prices of prescription drug
Elimination of public education while using the funds for public or taxpayer-private religious schools
Mandatory Christian religious beliefs in schools
End free and discounted school lunch programs
End Civil rights and DEI protections and government
Ban African-American and gender studies at all levels
Ban books and curriculum about slavery
Climate protection and increased Arctic drilling
Deregulate the big business industry
Promote and expedite capital punishment
End of marriage equality
Condemnation of single mothers while promoting only “traditional families”
Defund the FBI and Homeland Security
Use of the military to break up domestic protest
Mass deportation of immigrants and use of incarceration camps
The end of birthright citizenship
Ban Muslims from entering the country
Eliminate federal agencies like the FDA, EPA, NOAA, and more
And they will continue to pack the Supreme Court and lower courts with right-wing judges

Overall, the "Mandate for Leadership Project 2025" proposes significant policy changes that could adversely affect marginalized groups by reducing support for gender diversity, racial equality, LGBTQ+ rights, and social welfare programs.

Vote! The future is depending on you.

Get Your Doctrine from Jesus "Dr. Leonard Robinson"

Fri, 06 Sep 2024 23:44:47 GMT

"Get Your Doctrine from Jesus"

Dr. Leonard Robinson

While all the promises of God are yes and so be it, recognize that some scriptures are written to a specific people for a specific time and then there are scriptures written that are perpetual and for our believing.

This is truth, not opinion or subjectivity.

Become like a child, like you don’t know anything, and with a childlike teachableness, return back to the gospels beginning with Matthew through to John, as though Jesus is talking to you as one of His disciples, because He is.

“Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3) Witness Him preach the Kingdom and demonstrate its power, teach you the attitudes that you are to be having as the beatitudes for Kingdom living and get your identity from Him as the salt and light that you are as a son of God.

“Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled.”

(Matthew 5:3,6)

“Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hid.”

(Matthew 5:14)

Learn the parables of the Kingdom as treasure hid in a field, a pearl of great price, and the mystery that the Kingdom is as yeast and a grain of mustard seed.

“Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto treasure hid in a field; the which when a man hath found, he hideth, and for joy thereof goeth and selleth all that he hath, and buyeth that field.”

(Matthew 13:44)

“Again, the kingdom of heaven is like unto a merchant man, seeking goodly pearls: Who, when he had found one pearl of great price, went and sold all that he had, and bought it.”

(Matthew 13:45-46)

“The kingdom of heaven is like to a grain of mustard seed, which a man took, and sowed in his field: Which indeed is the least of all seeds: but when it is grown, it is the greatest among herbs, and becometh a tree, so that the birds of the air come and lodge in the branches thereof.”

(Matthew 13:31-32)

By the time you’ve gotten to the 5th or 6th verse on the Kingdom of God the Holy Spirit will join you in your search and start connecting the dots for you.

“But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.”

(John 14:26)

You’ll soon discover that Jesus was and is teaching that the Kingdom as the active reign of God as our number one priority as we live the righteousness that marks our lives as possessors of God’s nature. In other words, get your doctrine from Jesus first.

“But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”

(Matthew 6:33)

Lastly, of the many epistles you could read, choose to read the epistles of John (1 John chapter 1 to chapter 5 and learn how a true disciple refuses to live in sin because they know God and belong to God.

“Whosoever abideth in him sinneth not: whosoever sinneth hath not seen him, neither known him.”

(1 John 3:6)

My friend, the hardest learning is unlearning, but those who hunger and thirst after righteousness, those who are poor in spirit (humble and teachable) theirs is the Kingdom of God."

“Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”

(Matthew 5:3)

“Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled.” (Matthew 5:6)

Selah

Body Scanners "Missouri Department of Corrections"

Fri, 06 Sep 2024 23:35:57 GMT

"Body Scanners

Implementation"

"Missouri Department

of Corrections"

Screening for Staff, Visitors, Volunteers Starts August 1

Supporting the effort to safeguard our facilities and protect staff and residents from dangerous contraband, on August 1, 2024 , the Missouri Department of Corrections will begin using body scanners for staff, visitors, vendors, contractors and volunteers entering adult institutions.

The Intercept full-body scanner will be used in conjunction with walk-through metal detectors, hand-held metal detectors and X-ray baggage scanners to keep out weapons, drugs and other prohibited items that may compromise safety and security.

The name and ID number of each person entering a facility will be entered into the body scanner system and stored before the first scan. Visitor ID numbers serve as the scanning ID numbers for visitors. The ID number of a driver’s license, non-driver’s license or passport will be used for all other non-staff members.

Before a person steps into the full-body scanner, the device takes a photograph that is stored within the body scanner system.

Body scanning starts:

⦁ August 1, 2024: ERDCC, PCC, SCCC, MECC

⦁ September 1, 2024: WRDCC, FCC, JCCC, CRCC

⦁ October 1, 2024: ACC, NECC, MCC, SECC

⦁ November 1, 2024: TCC, BCC, FRDC, WERDCC

⦁ December 1, 2024: CCC, MTC, OCC, TCKC, TCSTL

How It Works

The person being scanned stands inside the Intercept and remains motionless as the operator initiates a four-second scan. The image displays on the workstation monitor, and the operator inspects the image for concealed objects.

Who May Be Scanned

Anyone 18 or older is subject to a scan using the full-body scanner unless they have an approved exception, such as a verified medical condition or pregnancy. Non-staff members, such as offenders’ visitors, vendors and contractors, may submit a request for an exception to the warden or superintendent of the facility. Clarification: Although scanning for corrections staff and contracted staff will be randomized, all adult visitors who do not have an approved exception will be scanned.

Safety

The Intercept is safe. It operates as a general-use system under guidelines defined by ANSI/HPS N43.17 (American National Standards Institute / Health Physics Society). Intercept acquires images by using an extremely low level of transmission X-ray. According to the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA), which regulates the Intercept, the dose from one screening with a general-use X-ray security screening system is so low that a person would have to be screened more than a thousand times in one year in order to exceed the annual radiation dose limit for screening that has been set by expert radiation safety organizations.

Breaking Into A New Career "Alan Carniol"

Fri, 06 Sep 2024 23:21:58 GMT

"Breaking Into

A New Career"

Alan Carniol

Breaking into a new career can feel impossible. Often, there is little or no way to move directly to a dream job.

However, amid the limitations and difficulties of transitioning, the doors open when you make this transition in two or three steps.

This is particularly true if you are one of the 80 million Americans with a criminal background.

As I shared a few weeks ago, I am working on a book to help job seekers with criminal backgrounds get hired. The book is designed to empower coaches and career advisors to better help justice-involved clients.

One important step is finding the best next job.

Sometimes, that next job is the dream job. Often, the next job is a stepping stone to eventually getting that dream job.

What does a stepping stone look like?

One recent re-entrant dreamed of running a restaurant kitchen. But she had little experience. She got hired as a prep cook and was quickly fired.

She then took a job washing dishes in a restaurant kitchen. She performed excellently and easily excelled at this job. Soon, she was given opportunities to get some training and practice cooking. She got hired as a cook. She's on her way…. A client of mine worked in logistics at Staples for a long time. He wanted to land a job as the ministry coordinator at a church, a job often held by ministers. A stepping stone for him was volunteering part-time coordinating at his church. He is building the experience to break in.

A stepping stone job can be something like working at an Amazon warehouse. It's unrelated to their dream, but it pays the bills and helps pay for the education being pursued to make the switch.

Sometimes, a stepping stone job for a recent re-entrant is just a simple job with no background check that meets parole requirements and gives space for readjustment. It establishes a job history and positive proof of employability. The next job might be that dream job, or it might be another stepping stone.

The most important pieces are to have a destination in mind, identify a path to get to that dream job, and patiently and persistently work towards it.

Until next time,

Alan Carniol

Founder of Interview Success, Inc.

Re-entry into society after incarceration "Alfred Long"

Fri, 06 Sep 2024 23:11:46 GMT

"Re-entry Into Society After Incarceration"

Alfred Long

In my forty-six years of prison ministry, one of the largest obstacles to successful re-entry is the laws that pertain to child support. Also, I believe every man is responsible for providing support for his children, and I’ve paid my share. However, the laws surrounding our incarcerated men are draconian at best. The intersection of child support obligations and re-entry into society after incarceration presents significant challenges for many individuals. Here are some key points outlining these difficulties:

Financial Strain

1. Accrued Debt: Many inmates accrue child support debt while incarcerated since they have little or no income to make payments. This debt continues to grow, often with interest and penalties.

2. Limited Employment Opportunities: Upon release, finding stable employment can be challenging due to a criminal record, making it difficult to meet child support obligations.

3. Wage Garnishment: If an individual does find employment, their wages can be garnished to cover child support arrears, leaving them with insufficient funds for basic living expenses.

Legal and Administrative Barriers

1. Modification Challenges: Incarcerated parents often struggle to get their child support orders modified due to a lack of legal representation or a poor understanding of the process.

Social and Emotional Strain

1. Family Relationships: Incarceration and the inability to pay child support can strain relationships with children and other family members, thereby complicating reintegration efforts.

2. Mental Health: The stress of managing child support obligations, finding employment, and reintegrating into society can take a toll on mental health, exacerbating the challenges of re-entry.

Potential Solutions

1. Suspending or Modifying Child Support During Incarceration: Policies that allow for the suspension or easy modification of child support orders during incarceration can help prevent inmate debt accumulation.

2. Employment Programs: Re-entry programs that include job training and placement services can help individuals find stable employment, enabling them to meet their child support obligations.

3. Legal Assistance: Providing legal aid to help with child support modifications and understanding legal obligations can alleviate some of the administrative burden.

I humbly appeal to our elected officials to change some of these laws to help men become fathers who can provide for their kids without the burden of heavy-handed laws that ultimately hurt families more than help them.

Pastor Alfred Long Sr. is available to teach workshops about Prison Ministry, Addiction Recovery, Building Resilience, and other related topics.

Contact information:

along@jacobslm.com

(314) 282-7220

jacobslm.com

Celebrating 25 Years "Marilyn Parker"

Thu, 11 Jul 2024 02:16:14 GMT

"Celebrating 25 Years of Media Ministry"

Marilyn Parker

Sparkman Your Christian Classified Publication

Is named in honor of the late Ida M. Sparkman (03-24-1918 - 03-09-1999)

A Female Minority Owned Business

Today, I am grateful and thankful that God counted us faithful and established us into ministry. As we mark a significant milestone in Media Ministry—twenty-five years in business—I consider this the perfect moment to pause and give gratitude to God for this incredible, remarkable journey. He not only called me but also called the late Dr. Bessie Reece—my mom, who became my partner. My adorable and loving hardworking diligent mom transitioned on 02-28—2020, she was steadfast in her faith in God and serving God through serving people. What an amazing, priceless journey we had together.

Also, I wish to use this opportunity to express my appreciation to our supporters and staff who worked diligently with us (my nephew, Eric Brown, my aunt, Dale Harris, and Mr. Willie Moore, MaDonna Yong and Laura Henderson). Most importantly, I must acknowledge those writers who contributed monthly (Dr. Donald McNeal, Pastors Ricky and Sheila Floyd, Dr. Dorothy Haire, Dr. Elijiah Hankerson, Kathy Lane, Roderick Warren, Marquita Jones, Apostle David Rodgers, Melody Fogarty, Pastor David Battle) and so many others who contributed their written articles. To our many Pastors that are not names above who wrote our main articles throughout the years we say thank you. To Dr. Patricia T. Whitelocke and the Board of Directors I thank you for your unwavering support, To Thomas Jr. and Debra Reece. and Elizabeth Brown for every kind of support I thank you. To our promoters, advertisers and individuals who faithfully read and share the publication, I sincerely appreciate it, may God bless you all abundantly.

Mrs. Jacqulynn Dillard Rodriguez, my graphic designer, has been with me for over twenty years, Mr. Demetrius Davis for fifteen years, and Mr. Mike Jones (their time, knowledge, commitment and expertise is indescribable) and Ms. Lillian Johnson, who worked in graphics for six months. I am grateful. To my amazing delivery team, I’ll never forget the earlier days of DistribuTECH when this all began. They were the delivery company that delivered mainly to all the grocery chains and secular spots. We started delivering with 50 churches, which later grew to over 1500 churches. The delivery team that served the churches and ministry sites consists of Mr. Larry Parker Sr., Mr. Stanley Kopp, Mr. Gary Ambus, Larry Parker II., Toney Young, Jeremy Harris, Eric Brown, LaTaunia Parker-Scott and MaDonna Parker-Young, Tony Young III., Amal Parker Scott and Marcus Young and David Brown. It’s my esteemed privilege to have worked with you all. After 3 years Sparkman took over the entire delivery distribution.

Sparkman, while in print (1999-2020), was available in grocery chains, hospitals, small businesses, and over 1500 churches. The Online Sparkman became a National Publication with readers and writers from around the world. We’ve published articles about many topics. Our monthly publication has many sections such as wisdom, knowledge, encouragement, housing information, medical alert, mental health, job opportunities, and marriage sections—and most importantly, the highlight sections of our magazine, “The Church Directory.” It is our vision and conviction that if you are without a church home, it is our mission to provide you with a great listing of church homes so you will not be homeless in any manner!

There is also “The More Than a Conqueror” section where individuals share their personal success stories to encourage our readers to believe in and hope in God for all their needs. Through this section, the Sparkman Job Talk show emerged; we were first “invited” to be a weekly guest, and subsequently, necessity pushed us to become a full-fledged talk show. Thank you, Laurie Faulkerson, for such an iconic invitation!

This magazine began strictly as an employment guide that meets individuals where they are before presenting them with the resume of Jesus Christ! Bishop E.L. Warren, Pastor John Rouse, Bishop Wyatt Greenlee, Archbishop Arthur Kelley, Bishop James Holloway, Dr. Charles Roach and Nathaniel Johnson (Reentry Expert) presented the Sparkman Lecture series supporting the employment section also in the magazine. Sparkman Publication is a tool of evangelism and employment that has matured into a vehicle that serves the whole man—economically, physically, and spiritually.

We began our radio show, which waxed stronger by the day and added the Employment Job Talk Show. This also grew the employment segment of the publication beyond measures. We also used this medium to share strong Job Talks with the listening audience. Including Human Resource and Workforce leaders from across the globe. We sincerely express gratitude to KXEN and Jubilee 690, which aired our radio show for over seven years. My hosts on the Sparkman Job Talk radio show were Dr. Charles Roach (Motivational Job Coach) and Ms. Sharon Bateman (Job Coach), who were amazing coaches and impactful speakers. Ms. Niki Roach and Pastor Miki King, Karen Fowler and Sheryl Stampley who also made the show inspiring. Mrs. Meichie Hutt and Deanna Champagne were the job roll call DJ’S. We also seize this opportunity to thank Mr. Nathanial Curry and every individual who impacted the lives of our readers and listeners. If your name is not listed do know you are appreciated.

Sparkman The Pathways to Career Television Show Came next. I interviewed Human Resource and Workforce Leaders from across our region that brought information and opportunity to the jobseeker. Demetrius Davis (E4CVideo) our video Guru was always readily prepared yielding excellence to all of our productions. Priceless is the relationship of E4CVideo and Sparkman.

Sparkman also worked with the welfare to work program. Allowing individuals to obtain job training while being paid through the state and also working an intern program with St. Louis Public Schools for high school seniors to obtain working skills.

The Institute of Marriage Bootcamps, an arm of Sparkman Publication, is a specialized event for families and was presented with Bishop Pamela Dillon, Bishop Calvin Scott, Archbishop Arthur Kelley, Dr. Charles Roach, Bishop E.L.Warren, Dr. Wanda Davis Turner, Pastor James and Grace Blue, Pastors Ricky and Sheila Floyd, Linda Sue James, Charmaine Simpson and Jack Daniels. Our volunteers for events (Mildred Young, Angie Coleman, Mr. Robert Holt, LaTaunia Scott and MaDonna Young) and leaders who helped to make every added resource available—are our heroes and truly celebrated—just as we celebrate what the Lord has done for us. We include every divine connection that helped in any way to help make these 25 years such a great journey. Stay locked in at www.esparkman.com

The honor we experience serving in the Media Ministry is limitless. The esteemed honor that I have experienced while fulfilling God’s purpose with my partner and co-owner utterly cannot be expressed in words. Dr. Bessie Reece was a strict administrator, full of wisdom and knowledge, and most importantly, she was a trailblazer working on her next community service assignment.

Due to her blindness, my mom would often boast it took her eight years before she received her Doctorate of Divinity degree, and fortunately, I was privileged to sit in the same office and reap the benefits of her efforts in this profound and rewarding marketplace ministry. Dr. Bessie Reece served diligently and faithfully, with her talking computer helping Sparkman grow in every area of the Media Ministry.

I am also eternally grateful for how the Lord rooted us in all denominational churches throughout the land. He gave me numerous opportunities to meet Pastors of all denominations, both male and female, of diverse races. Entering the sanctuary of one church at 8:30 am, another at 10 am, and the next at 11 am, (while delivering the magazine) observing that they have the same worship song but different denominations, was an absolutely amazing experience.

I, have experienced many transitions in my personal and business life. The transition of my one and only son, Larry Lionell Parker II, in 2018, my beloved father, Mr. Thomas Reece, two weeks later, and my mother and business partner in 2020. Also, I have experienced the transition of a few noble individuals in my business: my pastor, Archbishop Arthur Kelley, who was one of many who encouraged her to start the publication and always encouraged me throughout the years. Dr. Charles Roach, a devoted spiritual advisor, writer, and co-radio host, and Theodore Boykins, who had been the web designer of Sparkman for over 15 years. Mr. Boykins designed the Sparkman Flip magazine and the now-new www.eparkman.com. Only with the grace of God and the prayers of the saint and support of my family and friends have I encountered and conquered all while serving in media ministry. According to the word of God “Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.” Don’t ask me how- it’s through Christ Jesus! He continues to lead, guide and allow me to serve and I am grateful for His grace and favor over my life. There is so much joy in serving in the Media Ministry in every way.

By the grace of God, the past two and a half decades have been truly record-breaking and, indeed, one for the books. We give glory to God and Him alone for every reader who has been positively impacted through Sparkman, Your Christian Classified Publication

With all of the forms of mass media, Sparkman endeavors to continue serving in the media ministry and make an impact on the lives of the reader and the kingdom of God! It is our hope to spread the gospel and serve mankind to the best of our ability, providing information on housing, jobs, healthcare, and mental wellness, as they are highly essential in our daily lives. Therefore, providing hope and encouragement to man.

We thank you for the privilege to serve you.

With utmost humility, I, Marilyn Parker, thank Christ Jesus our Lord for enabling me, (and Dr. Bessie Reece) for that he counted us faithful, putting us into the ministry to serve. For every work established To God be All the glory!

Dr. Bessie Reece

September 30, 1938 - February 28, 2020

Ida M. Sparkman

March 24, 1918 - March 11, 1999

Bible Trivia "Pastor Jimmy and Lady Jeri Prather"

Thu, 11 Jul 2024 01:55:01 GMT

"Bible Trivia"

Pastor Jimmy and

Lady Jeri Prather

Liberty Christian Church’s Christian Education Dept is hosting its first Bible Trivia Night. Join us on Saturday, August 24, 2024, from 4-6pm at The Tango Center located at 212 E. Elm St., Alton, IL 62002 for fun, fellowship, food and a little bit of competition! Doors will open at 3pm to give you plenty of time to get settled before the Trivia starts. The top winning team, which each team consist of 4 members, will receive a cash prize! Prizes will also be awarded to the first & second runner ups! Registration is only $10.00 per person!! Limited VIP parking will be available onsite for a small nominal fee! There will also be plenty of free parking just a short walk across the street at the Alton Little Theater. Be on the lookout for some wonderful items in the Silent Auction, a boundless number of giveaways, along with a great lineup of vendors, and of course amazing food and beverages!

To give you a bit more details about our Trivia Night there will be 10 rounds and each round will have 10 questions. The question will be read out loud by the MC as well as presented on a large screen. The teams will have a limited amount of time to answer the question but after question 10 is read, you will have time to review your answers before the answer sheet is picked up by the runner. Each round of questions will be more difficult than the previous round. Don’t fret! You may purchase mulligans before the Trivia begins and use when you don’t know the answer to the question. But only one mulligan may be used per round so make sure to use it wisely.

Most Bible Trivia Nights focus on only one book of the Bible. We, on the other hand, will have questions from the whole entire Bible. Again, the questions will start off pretty easy and progressively get more difficult. Don’t worry, you have plenty of time to form your team and study. Each member of the first team to register at

https://LCCBibleTriviaNight.eventbrite.com

will receive a nice prize.

See you on Saturday, August 24th!

Be ready to have loads of fun and let’s see who will walk away with the bragging rights “Bible Trivia Winner!”

RELUCTANT LEADERS "Pastor Larry W. Lee"

Thu, 11 Jul 2024 01:16:58 GMT

"RELUCTANT LEADERS"

Pastor Larry W. Lee

Delegation "Pastor Bryan Cutshall"

Thu, 11 Jul 2024 01:00:09 GMT

"Delegation"

Pastor Bryan Cutshall

A delegate is a person representing an organization at a meeting or conference. Consider this word in the verb form; to delegate. Delegating responsibility means to appoint a person who will represent the organization. Some people view delegation as just giving away their assignments to another a person. Delegating entails far more than that. Delegating requires recruiting and training a person who can do the job as well as you can. True delegation involves sending someone out as a representative of you.

When you delegate something, be careful that you're not just asking others to do things that you haven't done yet or aren't willing to do yourself. You may find yourself expecting too much from others if you are asking them to do their job in addition to completing your unfinished "to do" list.

You must not be afraid to delegate. Most of the time people are afraid to delegate because they haven't taken the time to train anyone. Many people are always afraid to give responsibility to someone who may not represent them well. When you feel that a person is trained - it makes it easy to delegate tasks to them. People that are afraid to delegate use the excuse, "if you want something done right, you have to do it yourself." You must examine this statement to see if you are the only one who can do things right or if you can't delegate because you haven't trained anyone.

You must embrace the diverse perspectives and methods that are in your environment. Some people can't delegate because they haven't learned that "doing things different, doesn't mean that they did it wrong. The bottom line is that the job is completed. Each person will approach things differently and you have to celebrate differences in order to delegate properly.

Recruit, Train and Release
Recruiting will be done differently according to the size of your group and how many people you have to recruit from. Some leaders work with what they have until what they need comes along. Others have many resources so they use ministry fairs, applications, and such to recruit.

My Three Step Remedy:

1. Show them how to do it
2. Allow them to do it with you
3. Watch them do it by themselves

You may need to do something several times in order for it to be how you want, but this works!

Training is the key to feeling comfortable in having other people take over responsibilities. Most people want their delegate to perform with excellence. The key to excellence is repetition.

Happy delegating!

Preplan Today and Touch the Lives "Ozella J. Foster-Robinson"

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 23:12:55 GMT

"Preplan Today and Touch the Lives That Touched

Yours on Yesterday"

Ozella J. Foster-Robinson

The Essence of a Leader "Becky Parker"

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 22:57:16 GMT

"The Essence of a Leader"

Becky Parker

Owner and Master Stylist, Rezults Salon

I had the pleasure of meeting Owner and Master Stylist of Rezults Salon, Becky Parker. When I first learned that I was interviewing her I was ecstatic, as I have admired her from afar for many years. When you encounter her, it’s easy to notice her style, grace, and beauty, but to meet her is a true delight. Becky has been in the industry for 27 years and an owner of her salon for 21 years. With that kind of track record you must have great wisdom, business acumen, and a strong will to succeed. Becky has been and still is a mentor to up and coming stylists in the industry. Her passion is to help and see others grow in their craft. When women leave Becky’s chair, they look and amazing and feel amazing!

My personal take away from this interview is to truly believe in myself and my gifts, never shortchange my accomplishments, have faith in God, always be a blessing, share my knowledge, and be consistent in all that I do. Well, enough of my thoughts I want to share with you a snippet of Becky’s take on her career, hair, and personal tips!!!

Many would be surprised that being a hairstylist was not Becky’s first dream career. I was shocked to learn that she wanted to be an international flight attendant! I found it funny when she said “At that time, I had never even been on a plane!” It was not until the age of 12 that she knew she wanted to be a hairstylist. It all started with her mother. Her mom, who was not a stylist, would cut and style her hair and she would bring her friends home so that she could do their hair! She then began to tell herself, “I can do that!” When in high school, she would get fake passes to go to the bathroom to cut hair for $15 a head! What a hustle!

She also recalled going to Parson’s salon with her mother and while waiting she watched them do hair and again said to herself, “I can do that!” As she explored her interests she realized styling hair was a gift because it was effortless. “I could not explain it to others, I could just do it”, she said. It was only befitting for her to make it official and learn the techniques and technical terms by going to cosmetology school.

Reminiscing on her time in class, she remembered her instructor’s question, “Who is your clientele? Do you portray that?” Becky knew that she wanted the working woman because she knew that she could provide a certain atmosphere for them. At that moment she knew she wanted her own business. When she opened her salon in 1995 she created a befitting atmosphere for women, it is so elegant and her clientele are definitely fabulous women! She has proven her words be true, “How you present yourself is what you will attract.”

Becky worked in four salons before she decided to step out on her own, which was a serious act of faith. She said that she did not worry about how to do it or where the money would come from, she just made the move. The amazing part is that she did this without the guidance of a mentor. But it is not because she did not try. She tried to get a mentor that she admired for years however, that person did not make themselves available for her. This was a blessing in disguise. That experience motivated her and pushed her forward but it also made it her mission to share her knowledge with others. She tells stylists to squeeze everything out of her. She explains her keys is success as “Wanting to be a blessing to others and watching them grow. Being a blessing has keep me in this industry this long.”

Some have asked, “Becky you still love doing hair?” Her response, “Yes! I love making women feel amazing about themselves! I love styling a woman that thinks she can’t look a certain way, because when I get done with her she will become a believer.”

Although Becky continues to have an amazing career that does not mean that she did not have her challenges. She mentioned how she got through the tough times, “I was on autopilot and I did not like that but God helped me overcome that. I wanted to quit at times, but I am not a quitter. I just could not do it. Even in the midst of wanting to quit, I prayed because I knew that God had something for me.”

God definitely does have more in store for her! Becky is in the midst of transitioning to another type of business model with a well-known and respected Makeup Artist, Nettie Kelley. Her face lit up when she mentioned Nettie, she said, “I never thought I could find someone like her, she is a woman of integrity and she is about her business!” Together their goal is to pamper women and still getting them out in a timely manner. After completing this project she has plans to set up franchises in surrounding areas.

Being in the industry this length of time and growing in her success proves that she has great wisdom to share with others. Becky shared this advice for new stylists, “You can make a lot of money but stay humble. This money is fast and it can leave fast. You must be consistent and humble. Take care of your clients to the best of your ability every day. I even pray that my last client would look like my first. When you come in the building, it is time to perform and you cannot let life affect your work. Having a bad attitude is unacceptable. Of course we sometimes have off days, but there is a job to be done. In regards to styling, stick to the basics but know the trends. Hair should have movement! When cutting hair, know your angles, and make that hair dance!”

Becky has such rich business acumen and decorum. From listening to her I learned about how I could improve my business, but I could not leave this beautiful woman without asking for beauty tips! Becky insisted “Women should pay attention to details. Invest in yourself. It’s not okay to just look any kind of way. Ask yourself where are you going in life? The way you present yourself is what you will attract in life and in men. There are a lot of women out here but be a lady.”

I asked Becky if she had any parting thoughts and this is what she had to say, “Thanks Marilyn for this opportunity. You have always believed in me, I appreciate you and for that I am grateful.”

It was truly a blessing to sit at the feet of a great woman! I appreciated this experience!

Marquita Chanel Chapman

More Than A Conqueror "Stephanie Fitch"

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 22:49:42 GMT

"More Than A Conqueror"

Stephanie Fitch

Being Fabulous @ Forty; a time of reflection. Looking back over my life, I now appreciate my Christian upbringing. I can remember a time ~ if I wasn't going to church, I was coming from church, by way of my mother (Delores Evans) or grandmother (Mother Hattie Conaway). If that wasn't enough church; when I would go to school each morning, I had to hear my preschool teacher (Bishop Tony Lane) talking about the bible.

With all that teaching, you would have thought I would have had enough sense not to fight at vacation bible school. I can recall (Bishop Arthur L Kelley) whooping me and the girl involved in the fight. By the time I was 18 years old, I was a mother, and a newlywed. Divorced by the age of 24, I was now a single parent raising my daughter (Britney Robinson). At this point in my life, I knew there was something missing; however I was too busy in the clubs trying to fill a void. All of this left me filled with optical illusions, which landed me right back where I started, 'Ground Zero.' If it wasn't for a spirit filled mother and grandmother, praying for me, I don't want to imagine where I would be.

Who would have thought; my mother dragging my siblings and me to church on Sundays would provide the protection needed during my periods of wilderness; and now, those same teachings are now sustaining me in my latter years. I have passed those same teachings on to my daughter, and now that she is a young adult, I can see how my prayers have provided coverage for her. Through all my many trials and tribulations, I've

faced, I want the world to know that God's grace and mercy has kept me.

To the young mothers who may read my story, know that God can do all things but fail. I'm eternally grateful! The bonus is that I'm still here, willing and able to do God's work under the leadership of (Pastor Steven G Thompson) where we don't look like what we've been through!!!!

This is only because its beauty from the inside out! I am now 54 and I’m still a member of the New Leonard Missionary Baptist Church I’ve watched our Arch Bishop Steven G Thompson Sr pass the torch to his son Pastor Steven G Thompson ll what an amazing eventful time. I can truly say that God has truly been Faithful, He’s kept me, He’s taught me and the Best is yet to come, just you wait and see.

Thanks be unto God who has given all of us the Victory.

'I can do all things through Christ which strengthened me'.... Philippians 4:13

That's the real way to be Fabulous @ Forty

Stephanie Fitch

The Promotional Principle "Pastor Charles Roach"

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 22:31:18 GMT

The Promotional Principle: Stay in the press until you possess!

Pastor Charles Roach

Some things in life we need to give up, turn loose, leave alone; however, there are some we should never give up, never turn loose, and always hold on to. A major thing to tightly grip is to stay in the press until you possess. Let’s provide definitions to some vocabulary.

PRESS – to go forward with determined effort with the intent to acquire some specific desire.

POSSESS – take ownership; to lay hold of

All of us deal with laying hold of that which we desire most in life. Simply gaining those things that are necessary to sustain life can be a life-long struggle. Matthew 6:25-26 tells us to observe the following:

Because of this, I say to you, do not be anxious for your life, what you shall eat or what you should drink; nor for your body, what you should put on. Is not your life more than these? Look at the birds of the air, they do not sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? For your heavenly Father knows that you have need of all these things.

For a moment, consider the birds. They do not sow or reap; but, they do “press.” Each day, they move forward with determined effort with the intent to find food to eat, the grass to pad their nest and shelter for their young. They succeed because they stay in the press until they lay hold of their desires.

THE APPLICATION

You and I must trust God to take care of our needs. Paul assured of this in Philippians 4:6-7, 19:

In nothing be anxious, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God which surpasses every man’s understanding will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.

And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.

Out part is to press into these promises until we lay hold of them. Resist all doubts and fears. If God said He would, you can believe that He will. He is waiting for us to press into the manifestation.

A MESSAGE TO JOB SEEKERS "BONNIE FORKER"

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 22:06:32 GMT

"A MESSAGE TO JOB SEEKERS"

BONNIE FORKER

A message to jobseekers that have been in the job search for quite a while. I know it is very frustrating and quite frankly, exhausting! I wish there was a magic wand I could cast so you didn't have to continue going through the torment! That being said I would like to offer some pointers in the process:

1. Are you getting responses to your applications/resume' submittals? If you are great! At least you know your resume' is doing what it is supposed to do! If you aren't--you need to have a someone look over your resume' and then take their advice! And don't ever pay for resume' development or review there are a lot of individuals and agencies willing to take a look for free.

2. Are you getting interview requests from recruiters for jobs you aren't interested in? For this all I can say is really read the job description, don't apply just because you like the salary or location (yes people do this).

3. Are you getting interviews but never a job offer? This is tricky. Sometimes its the interviewer, maybe they have a unconscious bias against you. Maybe they have too many candidates and you got lost in the shuffle, OR maybe unbeknownst to you, you were carrying the frustration and anger from your long job search into the interview. Make sure you leave your frustration and anger outside the door of the building, not just the office of the interview. Support staff may have the ear of the interviewer or hiring manager if they witness anything perceived as negative. As far as getting lost in the shuffle, it is imperative that you follow up weekly until they tell you no or hire you. After the initial follow up the day of the interview, keep reaching out so you don't get lost in the shuffle!

Interview Success "Alan Carniol"

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 21:56:54 GMT

"Interview Success"

Alan Carniol

Let's say you find yourself always struggling to create a good first impression when you first walk into the interview room. (You're intuitive, so you sense that interviewers take an instant dislike to you.)

Now, your average, frustrated candidate will say something like:

"Nobody will give me a break! For some reason, every time I go for an interview, they dislike my personality and it stops me from getting the job."

But a diamond candidate will think:

"Ummm... something I'm doing, either consciously or unconsciously is causing interviewers to go cold right away. If I figure out what that is, I can make sure I stop it and create a positive impression instead."

Do you see how simply looking at your problems from a different paradigm completely changes what's possible for you?

The first point of view makes you a victim, but the second makes you a winner (even if it takes a bit of work to fix whatever is wrong).

Diamond candidates think like winners.

They don't feel comfortable relating to themselves as a victim.

I hope this helps.

And if, on reflection, you decide that it's your interviewing skills that stop you from landing your dream job (rather than "unfair interviewers"), then you might want to take a look at Interview Success Formula.

This video over here shows you how it works;

Here's where you can learn more about this method:

>> Interview Success Formula: Master These 20 Questions, Ace Any Interview, and Land the Job of Your Dreams

Until tomorrow,

Alan Carniol

Founder of Interview Success, Inc

The problem with parenting "Pastor Tanya C. Brown"

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 21:38:44 GMT

The Problem With Parenting

Pastor Tanya C. Brown

Someone once said that the problem with parenting is that by the time you figure out how to do it your children are grown. Children really do grow up fast even though it doesn’t seem like they ever will during the days of diaper changes, bottles, school activities, sibling rivalry and seasons of growing pains. As parents we often look back on those child rearing years with fond memories of the special times we had, yet, more often than not we also look back with regret over the things we wish we had done differently. My very wise husband has a remedy for those regrets citing that, “If we had known differently, we would have done differently”. Thankfully, children are merciful, forgiving, and love us unconditionally. By the time they become adults we may feel that there is no retracting or fixing those areas we didn’t have quite figured out when they were little. The truth of the matter is that we have more opportunities than we realize to re- build or fix relationships with our adult children. Now before you put on your self- righteous robe and claim that you have done nothing worthy of asking your children’s forgiveness, don’t be so sure that you are not just smelling your own putrid air. Step outside for a moment and get a whiff from their point of view. If the truth be told your children may feel they have much to forgive you for. Pride, arrogance, insensitivity to their real experiences keeps even the self - proclaimed “model parent” in denial and in refusal to fix what may need mending. The good news is that even when they become adults and no matter whom else has entered their lives you still matter. They are still concerned about what you think about them, (ignore those comments made during the teenage years such as, “I don’t care what you think”). Truth is, they really do care and they still want and need your unconditional love and acceptance and to know that you are proud of them and their accomplishments no matter how small. Even with their flaws adult children still need validation. Acceptance, too, of those they love translates as acceptance of them in the same way that rejection of those they love spells rejection of them in their estimation. Many parents continue a pattern of failure even after their children are grown because they do not learn from their past mistakes and when they do they refuse to fix what is broken. This refusal translates as lack of concern and that spells continued disaster for the relationship. Parenting is a necessary role that never ends; it only shifts. It is constantly changing. We must continue to grow as parents and learn to shift when seasons change. The old maxim that says, “When they are little they lay on your lap, when they are grown, they lay on your heart demonstrates this truth. Your children are always your children. And, though, your parental role is constantly shifting do not abandon it. Embrace it, own it, value it, and do not fail to love, respect, accept, forgive and be forgiven by your children.

The Testimony Of "Pastor Sharon Nesbitt"

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 21:15:44 GMT

The Testimony Of

Pastor Sharon Nesbitt

The Church and Re-entry "Alfred Long Sr. "

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 21:06:10 GMT

The Church and Re-entry

Alfred Long Sr.

That challenges awaiting formerly incarcerated men and women can be overwhelming. In prison they had little control over their daily lives. Once outside the gates, they will be making many critical choices in a world they might not even recognize.

Each year, over 600,000 people are released from prison and of that number, within three years, two-thirds will be arrested again. Prison becomes a revolving door that tears at the fabric of families and communities.

Many become discouraged and feel that it’s easier in prison than out. What is really devastating is that the prison mentality is passed down through generations repeating itself over and over.

The question is, “How can the Church break the cycle of a lifetime of crime, addiction and prison”? In my forty-five years of prison ministry, I’ve found that three components work together to provide a successful re-entry. They are faith, family and community, all of which the Church can provide. They remind me of a three-legged stool. If any leg of a three-legged stool is missing the stool is unstable and unsuitable to sit on.

The first leg of the “stool of reentry” is faith. There are thousands of prison ministries preaching the Word of God in the prisons. There are also thousands of prisoners introduced to God through faith in Jesus Christ in prison.

Their hope in life is restored, they are introduced to a new way of living because they become reborn in their spirits which trickles down to every area of their lives.

(2 Corinthians 5:17 NLT)

“This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun”!

It is important, upon release, that the justice involved individual find a Church that welcomes them and disciples them to mature in Christ. Ideally, there is a seamless transfer from prison to Church and Churches should proactively open their arms to those returning home from prison.

More importantly the Church can show love which lays the foundation for a successful re-entry.

(John 13:34-35 NIV)

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

The second leg of our “stool of reentry” is family. Ask yourself, “is there anything else needed besides a declaration of faith in Jesus for a successful reentry”?

I pose this question because I’ve seen so many people on fire for Jesus, while locked up, yet lack the ability to transfer that fire to a successful reentry.

What happened?

Neither I nor you are in a position to judge the validity of anyone’s salvation yet scripture teaches us to add to our faith.

This is where Church becomes the family that helps the person returning to society grow in the knowledge of God. This alone cuts recidivism, because it’s very unlikely that a person returning to dysfunctional families will stay out long.

This also involves discipleship, which is the work of the Church.

(2 Peter 1:5-7 NIV)

“For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love”.

The third leg of our “stool of reentry” is community. A successful Reentry requires that the returning person knows about and takes advantage of the resources available in the community.

Some will need housing, substance abuse treatment, mental health treatment, identification, job training, access to medication and other needs.

Most Churches aren’t equipped to satisfy all of those needs but it can provide Mentors or Reentry Coaches to pray, encourage and make referrals for those who need them.

This also is a part of discipleship.

When all three legs of our “stool of reentry”, faith, family and community are intact, it will greatly reduce recidivism rates and restore stability to our families and communities.

And The Church plays a huge part in making this happen!

Alfred Long Sr.

Alfred Long Sr. Is a Pastor, Author, Biblical Counselor, Life Coach, and Consultant.

He is the Founder and Director of Jacob’s Ladder Ministries and the proud husband of Kacie Starr Long. Pastor Al is available for speaking engagements and consulting on “how to grow a successful prison ministry”.

Trauma "Pastor Miah White "

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 21:01:49 GMT

"TRAUMA"

Pastor Miah White

Christian spirituality, without an integration of mental, physical, and emotional health, can be deadly—to yourself, your relationship with God, and the people around you. Pastors and Mental Health Professionals must partner in care to promote mental health awareness. It is well overdue for the church community to bring awareness and recognition to the importance of psychological well-being. Mental health includes our emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and act. It determines how we handle stress, relate to others, and make decisions.

Most Christians find that pretending is safer than honesty and vulnerability. No one wants to appear weak. Many of us were actually taught to never show signs of weakness. It’s easier to wear a tough exterior, and to pretend that you have it all together than to be honest about what is really going on inside. We hear and tell people that strength lies in your ability to smile through tears and suffer in silence. This couldn’t be any further than the truth. Strength is being brave enough to talk about what’s hurting you on the inside and opening oneself up for healing. I believe now more than ever that the Lord is highlighting the need for healing from trauma, and He is bringing insight as to how emotional health will bring freedom to His people. The church must prioritize mental health awareness and the benefits it will bring to truly having spiritually, mentally, physically, and emotionally healthy people. You will find out that spiritual growth, though apparently growing on the outside, can be stunted because of the lack awareness mentally and emotionally. There are things on the inside that we know exist, but ignore, because acknowledging them would mean that we were not as holy as we want to portray, or that we did not have it as together as we wanted ourselves to believe.

Mental health is one of the most vital and important areas of deliverance ministry that we cannot overlook. While it is important to cast out demons, it is just as important, if not more important, to minister to the emotional wounds and mental state. These are the most common reasons that deliverances can fail. The goal is not to forget a hurtful event or trauma, but to receive healing for that event. When we look back upon a healed wound, we can see it in a different way, because it has been healed and is no longer painful to look back upon. Therefore, it is important for the church to partner with mental health professionals as well as making sure that there is awareness. Therapy and any type of rehabilitation process or facility is the training of managing a heal state.

Our current difficulties tap into unhealed and unresolved traumatic events of the past. Every one of our memories carries with it a stored emotion, and a lot of these emotions are undesirable and damaging if we do not do the work that is needed mentally. Having Jesus, and a therapist is a winning solution to bring exposure and healing to trauma. What we have found is that the lack of mental health awareness coupled with biblical guidance leaves an unnecessary struggle, and people become convinced that their inability to commit and build healthy roots had been authorized by God. They flounder and stay trapped in cycles of lack and despair! Don't stay trapped!

Pain demands a response. For every blow You live beyond, you become a more formidable foe and a force to be reckoned with. True healing allows you to see that every hurt helps you if you process it correctly. Unfortunately, you won’t ever be free from pain, but you can be free from the prison it creates. Experience it, respond to it, release it, and be free of it! Our souls need saving not only from Hell but also from the many dark attacks that may come our way during life. The pain of healing is better than the pain of hiding. If we want better results for our people, we must focus on our internal systems. Partnering and providing resources that present opportunities for true health and wholeness. As James Clear wrote in his book, “Atomic Habits”- You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”

Pastor Miah White

Lead Pastor

The Worship Center STL

The Power of Voting "Melody Fogarty"

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 20:48:41 GMT

The Power of Voting:

Shaping Our Future
Melody Fogarty

In the fabric of democracy, voting stands as a crucial thread that binds the system together. It's more than just a civic duty; it's a powerful tool that allows citizens to influence the direction of their government and society. In light of the upcoming 2024 election, it’s important to understand that this election isn't just about individual personalities or partisan battles. At its core, it is a choice between dictatorship and democracy.

**Dictatorship vs. Democracy**

The fundamental difference between a dictatorship and a democracy lies in the distribution of power. In a dictatorship, power is concentrated in the hands of one or a few, often leading to the suppression of dissent and the erosion of individual freedoms. Conversely, a democracy thrives on the active participation of its citizens, ensuring that power remains distributed and accountable. Voting is the primary means by which we uphold democratic values, ensuring that our leaders are chosen by the people and for the people.

**The Impact of Voting for a Third-Party Candidate in U.S. Elections**

In the United States, the two-party system dominates the political landscape, with the Democratic and Republican parties holding the majority of power. This binary structure often leaves third-party candidates at a significant disadvantage. While voting for a third-party candidate can be seen as a way to express dissatisfaction with the main parties, it can inadvertently lead to outcomes that are not aligned with the voter's intentions, particularly in a highly polarized and tightly contested election.

The Reality of the U.S. Electoral System is simply…the U.S. operates on a first-past-the-post electoral system, where the candidate with the most votes wins, even if they do not secure an outright majority. This system inherently favors the two major parties and marginalizes third-party candidates, making it extremely difficult for them to win significant numbers of votes.

Further, there are significant consequences of Third-Party Voting such as:

1. **Vote Splitting**: When voters choose a third-party candidate, they effectively split the vote of their preferred ideological camp. For instance, if a significant number of left-leaning voters opt for a third-party candidate instead of the Democratic nominee, it could dilute the vote share needed to defeat the Republican candidate. This vote splitting can result in the Republican candidate winning with a plurality rather than a majority.

2. **Trump’s Built-in Support**: As noted, former President Donald Trump has a substantial base, accounting for approximately 45% of the electorate. In a close race, the remaining 55% of voters are divided among various candidates, including the Democratic nominee and any third-party candidates. If even a small percentage of this 55% opts for a third-party candidate, it can tip the balance in favor of Trump.

3. **The Heritage Foundation’s Project 2025**: Voting dynamics have significant policy implications. For instance, if Trump were to win due to third-party vote splitting, the policies outlined in the Heritage Foundation’s Project 2025 could come to fruition. This project includes a comprehensive plan for conservative governance, which may not align with the values and priorities of voters supporting third-party candidates. Therefore, inadvertently contributing to such an outcome by voting for a third-party candidate could lead to policies that contradict their intentions.

Given the stakes, strategic voting becomes crucial. This involves casting a vote not just based on personal preference, but also on the broader impact that vote will have on the election's outcome. In a two-party system, voting strategically often means supporting the candidate with the best chance of winning against the least preferred candidate, even if they are not the voter's ideal choice.

While voting for a third-party candidate can be a statement of principles and dissatisfaction with the major parties, it can also have unintended consequences, particularly in a tight race. In the context of the 2024 election, where Trump’s substantial base could easily secure a win with the right conditions, voting for a third-party candidate could inadvertently contribute to an outcome that many voters might want to avoid. Understanding the dynamics of the U.S. electoral system and the potential repercussions of third-party voting is essential for making informed decisions at the ballot box.

**Not Voting is Still a Vote**

One common misconception is that abstaining from voting is a neutral act. However, not voting indirectly supports the candidate you least prefer. Every election has significant consequences, and every vote counts. By not participating, you effectively increase the chances of an outcome you might oppose. It’s imperative to recognize that your silence in the ballot box speaks volumes and shapes the future just as much as a cast vote.

**Religious Freedom and Mutual Respect**

Inflicting your religious beliefs on others only opens the door for others to impose their beliefs on you. In a pluralistic society, the freedom to practice one's religion is protected by ensuring that this freedom is equally extended to all. Democracy is built on mutual respect and the understanding that freedom for oneself cannot be maintained by denying freedom to others. Voting is a way to protect these principles, promoting policies that respect and uphold individual rights and freedoms.

**The Future is in Your Hands**

The future is not a distant, abstract concept; it’s shaped by the decisions we make today. If the choices presented to you are unsatisfactory, it's a call to action, not apathy. Democracy is dynamic, and it requires continuous engagement. Complaining about who’s running for office without being willing to participate or even run yourself only perpetuates the status quo. Active involvement, whether through voting or running for office, is essential in creating the change you wish to see.

That said, if you choose dictatorship, or you simply choose not to vote for democracy, understand you are voting for Project 2025 which includes the following:

1. **School Discipline and Title VI Enforcement**

- The mandate recommends continuing the Trump Administration’s policy of rescinding Obama-era guidance on school discipline and correcting alleged overreach in Title VI enforcement. This could reduce federal oversight of discriminatory practices in schools, potentially leading to increased disparities in disciplinary actions against Black students.

2. **Disparate Impact Standard**

- The document suggests that the next administration should clarify that Title VI of the Civil Rights Act does not include a disparate impact standard. This change would mean that policies or practices that result in a disproportionate adverse effect on African-Americans, even if unintentional, would no longer be subject to federal scrutiny, potentially allowing discriminatory practices to persist unchecked.

3. **Equity in IDEA Regulations**

- The mandate calls for rescinding the regulation requiring states to consider race and ethnicity in the identification, placement, and discipline of students with disabilities. This could lead to less attention to racial disparities in special education, potentially exacerbating inequalities in access to necessary educational resources for Black students.

4. **Civil Rights Act Enforcement**

- The document advocates for significant action to prevent the Civil Rights Act from being used to address disparities through the disparate impact standard. This would likely reduce the effectiveness of civil rights enforcement in addressing systemic discrimination affecting African-Americans.

While these policies do not directly call for a return to Jim Crow segregation or slavery, they could significantly undermine protections against racial discrimination. The cumulative effect could lead to increased systemic inequality and reduced federal oversight, potentially allowing discriminatory practices to flourish, which would disproportionately harm African-Americans.

In closing, voting is a powerful act of civic engagement that shapes our government and society. It’s a safeguard against dictatorship, a protector of mutual freedoms, and a testament to the value of democracy. In the upcoming 2024 election, remember that your vote matters. It’s not just about choosing a candidate; it’s about choosing the future. Embrace your role in this democratic process, and make your voice heard. The future is up to you.

Regards,

Melody

Father of the YEAR "Barry Roberson"

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 16:09:06 GMT

FATHER OF THE YEAR

A Journey from Injustice to Entrepreneurship
Barry Roberson

Barry Roberson's life was upended in March 1996 when he faced a devastating injustice in a Saint Louis County courtroom. Wrongfully convicted of a crime he did not commit, Barry's refusal to accept a five-year plea deal led to his conviction by an all-white jury and a harsh 37-year prison sentence. The prosecution and trial judge, both white, systematically excluded all African American jurors from the trial, marginalizing Barry and treating his life as if it did not matter.

Raised in a strict Pentecostal family as the fifth of nine siblings, Barry was the only member of his family to experience incarceration. While enduring the shock of a maximum-security prison, he sought solace through prayer, leading to a profound spiritual awakening. Over two decades of proclaiming his innocence, Barry contacted numerous innocence projects, but his case, devoid of physical evidence, remained unresolved.

After his release in November 2018, Barry embarked on a journey to rebuild his life. Despite initially working low-paying jobs, he remained determined to start his own business. Inspired by his own experience of catastrophic injustice, Barry developed a passion for creating job opportunities for individuals facing rejection and obstacles in rebuilding their lives.

In April 2019, with the support of a childhood friend who owned a business and a $14,000 investment from his wife, Barry founded a commercial business through Jan Pro, a nationwide company with a strong presence in Saint Louis County. Barry's resilience and entrepreneurial spirit have turned his painful past into a mission to support and uplift others who have faced similar challenges.

The Vital Role of Fathers "Melody Fogarty"

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 16:01:16 GMT

The Vital Role of Fathers: Nurturing Families and Balancing Work
Melody Fogarty

In today's dynamic society, the role of fathers extends far beyond being providers; they are crucial pillars in nurturing families and contributing to the workplace. As we celebrate Father's Day, it's essential to acknowledge their influence on family dynamics, their health, and their significant presence in professional settings.

Fathers: The Heart of Family

Fathers play a pivotal role in family dynamics, offering not just financial support but emotional stability and guidance. Research consistently highlights the positive impact of involved fathers on children's cognitive development, social skills, and overall well-being. Their presence contributes to a balanced upbringing, where children learn diverse perspectives and skills essential for their future.

Moreover, fathers are increasingly involved in household responsibilities, challenging traditional gender roles and fostering egalitarian relationships. This shift not only supports mothers in their professional pursuits but also enhances familial bonds and shared responsibilities, crucial for children's holistic development.

Men's Health: Prioritizing Well-being

Despite their significant contributions, men often neglect their health. Societal expectations of stoicism and self-reliance can deter men from seeking medical assistance, leading to delayed diagnoses and poorer health outcomes. It's crucial for fathers to prioritize their physical and mental well-being to continue fulfilling their roles effectively.

Regular health check-ups, balanced nutrition, and exercise are fundamental to maintaining optimal health. By actively engaging in preventive healthcare measures, fathers not only set positive examples for their children but also ensure they can continue providing support and stability within their families.

Men in the Workplace: Achieving Balance

In the professional sphere, men face unique challenges in maintaining work-life balance. Long hours, high stress levels, and limited parental leave policies can strain their ability to be actively involved fathers. Employers play a crucial role in supporting male employees by implementing flexible work arrangements, parental leave policies, and promoting a culture that values work-life integration.

Additionally, addressing workplace mental health is paramount. Encouraging open discussions about stress management and providing access to mental health resources can alleviate the pressures men face, both at home and in their careers. By fostering a supportive environment, workplaces can empower fathers to thrive professionally while maintaining their roles as nurturing caregivers.

Looking Ahead: Embracing Change

As we celebrate fathers and acknowledge their contributions, it's essential to advocate for policies that support their multifaceted roles. This includes promoting gender equality in caregiving responsibilities, advocating for comprehensive health initiatives tailored to men's needs, and fostering inclusive workplace cultures that accommodate diverse family structures.

By recognizing and supporting fathers in their journey to balance family life and professional aspirations, we empower them to continue positively shaping the lives of their children and contributing meaningfully to society. This Father's Day, let's celebrate fathers for their unwavering dedication and commit to creating a world where their well-being and contributions are valued and supported at every level.

Regards,

Melody

A FATHERS BLESSING "Marquis Randolph"

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 15:49:37 GMT

A FATHERS BLESSING
Marquis Randolph

*"And he shall turn the heart of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers."* – Malachi 4:6

1. **Guidance and Wisdom:**

A righteous father seeks divine wisdom to lead his family. He imparts knowledge, teaching his children the ways of righteousness, justice, and compassion. His guidance is like a lamp, illuminating their path.

2. **Protection and Shelter:**

Just as God shelters us under His wings, a father provides safety and refuge. He shields his family from harm, both physical and spiritual. His love is a fortress, unwavering and strong.

3. **Steadfast Love:**

A father's love mirrors God's love—a covenant that endures. He forgives, encourages, and remains faithful. His heart reflects the Father's heart, embracing his children with grace.

4. **Provider and Steward:**

Like the Good Shepherd, a father provides for his household. He works diligently, managing resources wisely. His labor sustains not only their physical needs but also their spiritual growth.

5. **Legacy and Blessing:**

A father plants seeds of faith, hope, and character. His legacy extends beyond his years, influencing generations. His blessing echoes through time, shaping the destiny of his lineage.

*"Honor your father and mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you."* – Exodus 20:12

May every father strive to embody these virtues, reflecting the divine Father's love and grace.

Did Our Parents Give Us Bad Advice? "Jeannette Johnson"

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 15:39:56 GMT

Did Our Parents Give Us Bad Advice???
Jeannette Johnson

All I need is $10K…..No $25K…….No $40K and all my financial problems would be over! If you are reading this and have put yourself in this equation, do you believe this statement to be true? What would you do with a large sum of money? What?..... Really? I heard your

response and it sounds like you already changed your mind and then altered your answer all within 23 seconds! I thought I heard you say that you would payoff all your debt with the first answer and then you changed it.

I’ve counseled hundreds of people with serious financial problems and most of them tell me the same line on their first visit “If I only had $10K or $25K or $40K, I would be financially healed and my problems solved!” I call this my new client mission statement. So my question to them is, what would you do with the money? The first answer given is “I would payoff all my debt”. I then watch them squiggle around in the chair, still thinking about a large sum of money in their hands and within 1 ½ minutes they say “Ms. Jeannette, I know exactly what I would do with that money.” This is when I get entertained so I lean back in my chair for a nice fun ride. My client has now announced major revisions which includes some much needed purchases like buying their spouse something nice because, you know, they deserve it and purchasing new furniture because what they have is really old. The list continues to go on and on and right before they finish they tell me, “But I will still pay my nagging debt, I may not give them all of it but I will give them a good chunk.”

Is this financial healing?

After extensive counseling, my clients come to realize that they would have been in even worst financial shape had they received a large sum of money at that time. O.k. how is that possible Ms. Jeannette? Let me explain; If an obsessed person had tummy tuck procedure done but never changed their eating habits, the weight would pile back on. Same scenario with financial debt, remember you created the debt and unless your way of thinking has drastically changed, you’re going to be in deeper debt. Initially you say you will payoff all your debt but you never do. You do pay a portion of the debt but the majority of the large sum of money is spent on things that you really, really need. You need clothes, a vacation trip, furniture, and a flat screen television. Speaking of furniture, this is the biggest misconception that has plagued people, “We need furniture.” Most people are in serious debt today because they purchased or rent to own furniture they couldn’t afford. It’s simple, if you don’t have a surplus after paying rent, mortgage, auto,

insurance, groceries, utilities and etc. this mean you cannot afford it. I’ve asked my clients why did they get so far in debt, and the responses from hundreds tell me, “I was instructed by my PARENTS.” Per my clients, their parents advised them that they need to buy furniture to fill their house and also open some credit cards. I’ve had one lady tell me that her DAD told her to buy something for the house every time she got paid, therefore

you will be showing something for your hard work. I’m still shaking my head on that one. As a result of this great advice from her parent, she now have in her possession a 27 page credit report loaded with collections, judgements, and past due debt, all to show that she works hard for her money. She now realizes that she was given poor financial instructions from her parent and sadly, she’s not alone.

I pray that there are parents reading this article who may have unintentionally given some of the same advice to their child. So many parents are unaware of the damage caused by their advice and our children actually listen to us. They also watch how we handle our finances and repeat the cycle. Please know that you are still instructing them even without speaking. I’m a parent and I don’t always get it right in one area or another, but when I see that my parenting skills have caused harm to my children, I work on correcting the problem which is often followed with family discussions. My children are

grown now and I still call family meetings in which you’ve probably heard their sighs from your house because they love them so much. Remember, you don’t just luck up on a good credit standing and being financially sound. It’s a learned behavioral and requires discipline. Alright, back to the mission statement, If I had $10K or $25K or $40K, my financial problems would be over. This statement will only work for the people who are already disciplined in their finances. I pray this is you but if it isn’t, give me a call, I would love to talk to you. May God bless you and your household!

Are You A Soul Winner? "Dr. Leonard Robinson"

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 15:05:42 GMT

Are You A Soul Winner? Are You An Ambassador of The Kingdom of God?
Dr. Leonard Robinson

While many apostles, bishops, pastors and other religious leaders are fighting over imaginary territory that they don’t really have, denominational ecclesiastical jurisdictions, diocese and regions, the enemy has moved into our elementary, high school, colleges and universities to teach homosexual lifestyles as being normal, in effect stripping the innocence from our babies’ minds while further confusing the minds of students before they even get to learn how to think.

The vast majority of apostles, prophets, evangelists, pastors and teachers, bishops and elders who are Biblically charged with equipping the saints to do the work of the ministry don’t even know what the work of the ministry really is, because they believe the work is to get people to submit to their authority, show up at church regularly, serve on any number of auxiliary groups and give the tithe and offering money faithfully.

The leaders in some groups are raking the cash in, as they spin their inspirational messages selling hope to each generation while keeping people under their control. While these leaders buy luxury cars, private jets and villas in the Caribbean and wear Rolex Watches as symbols of success in ministry and go on TV in programs like the Preachers of LA, Preachers of Detroit, Gospel Divas and almost anywhere they can go where their ego (Easing God Out) needs are appeased the people are continually robbed of the identity the New Birth gives to every true follower of Jesus and the responsibility that goes with having become Born Again.

Revelation 3:17-18

17 ‘Because you say, “I am rich, and have become wealthy, and have need of nothing,” and you do not know that you are wretched and miserable and poor and blind and naked, 18 I advise you to buy from Me gold refined by fire so that you may become rich, and white garments so that you may clothe yourself, and that the shame of your nakedness will not be revealed; and eye salve to anoint your eyes so that you may see.”

There is an estimated 2 billion Christians, (mostly Catholic) and 800 million more people of every denomination (42,000 groups and counting) who profess Christianity, and yet 95% of them or more know little to nothing about the urgency, power or priority of the preaching, teaching and demonstrating of the Kingdom of God message Jesus came preaching and delegating to His disciples to preach. But we are somehow shocked at society’s slide into the abyss. But as prophesied these are as the days of Sodom and Gomorrah.

Jude 1:5-7

5 Now I desire to remind you, though you know all things once for all, that the Lord, after saving a people out of the land of Egypt, subsequently destroyed those who did not believe. 6 And angels who did not keep their own domain, but abandoned their proper abode, He has kept in eternal bonds under darkness for the judgment of the great day, 7 just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities around them, since they in the same way as these indulged in gross immorality and went after strange flesh, are exhibited as an example in undergoing the punishment of eternal fire.…

Former U.S. president Jimmy Carter said that he believes that Jesus Christ would approve of same sex marriage. Many of us thought that Jimmy Carter was a devout Christian. Now we are learning that though one may seem to be devout, if they don’t know their Bible or believe the Bible they claim to know, then they are only devoutly deluded to believe heresy as truth and will totally disregard what God calls abomination and through their popularity deceive many people to believe erroneously the very things that God is against.

The Episcopal Church weeks before called a Synod and voted to approve same sex marriage ceremonies by its priests although individual priests are not under obligation to perform these services if they choose not to. This same denomination a few years earlier acknowledged an openly, practicing gay Bishop as being accepted to serve in the denomination in spite of their confession of sexual immorality.

Several years previously Bishop Carlton Pearson authored the book “The Gospel of Inclusion” which in effect says that all people are going to heaven because a loving God would not condemn anybody to hell, regardless of sexual orientation. And churches are emerging in Maryland, Georgia and other places around the country where openly gay male and female pastors are leading their faithful to believe that God loves them (which He does) and that He condones their relationships with loving and committed partners of the same gender (which God doesn’t condone).

And as we all know, President Barak Obama, Michelle Obama, Hillary Clinton and so many of the Democratic party, and a few of the Republican party and almost all of Hollywood actually celebrate same sex marriage as a civil right without even a hint of sexual immorality and debauchery…..and many of these people claim to be devout Christians like former president Jimmy Carter.

What does the Word of God say, both Old and New Testament, and therefore what are you to say, as an Ambassador of the Kingdom of God? Leviticus 18:22

22 ‘You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination.

Romans 1:27

In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.

1 Timothy 1:10

for the sexually immoral, for those practicing homosexuality, for slave traders and liars and perjurers–and for whatever else is contrary to the sound doctrine

1 Corinthians 6:9-10

9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.…

1 Corinthians 5:11

But now I am writing to you that you must not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister but is sexually immoral or greedy, an idolater or slanderer, a drunkard or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.

1 Corinthians 6:18

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.
1 Corinthians 15:33

Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”

1 Corinthians 15:50

I declare to you, brothers and sisters, that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable.

2 Corinthians 12:21

I am afraid that when I come again my God will humble me before you, and I will be grieved over many who have sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual sin and debauchery in which they have indulged.

Galatians 5:19

The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery;

Galatians 5:21

and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.

Galatians 6:7

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.

Ephesians 5:5

For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person–such a person is an idolater–has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.

Colossians 3:5

Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.

1 Timothy 1:10

for the sexually immoral, for those practicing homosexuality, for slave traders and liars and perjurers–and for whatever else is contrary to the sound doctrine

Hebrews 13:4

Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

James 1:16

Don’t be deceived, my dear brothers and sisters.

1 John 3:7

Dear children, do not let anyone lead you astray. The one who does what is right is righteous, just as he is righteous.

Saints of God the next time you are at a pastor’s birthday and/or anniversary celebration, or at a denomination or non-denominational group’s convocation celebrating the history of that organization ask yourself, has any of the leaders really taught me how to do the work of the ministry? Do I really know what the work of the ministry is, or have I joined myself to what amounts to little more than a religious, fraternal or sorority organization or other group like the Masons or Kiwanis Club?

Ask yourself “do I really know what it means to serve in the ministry and word of reconciliation as an ambassador standing in Christ stead beseeching men and women that they would be reconciled to God”?

Ask yourself if you’ve somehow allowed the tribal mindset of group thinking to seduce you to believe you are being effective, when in effect all you’ve really been doing is marching time, waiting for Jesus to come back though you are not really ready for His return because there is no oil in your lamps. (Matthew 25:8) Ask yourself, what do I know about how to win souls personally, and touch people’s lives and rescue people from hell as you restore them back to the dominion Adam lost? Do I really know anything at all about the gifts of the Spirit or the power of God to use me to impact society? If I were asked to share my testimony and lead someone to Jesus am I really equipped to do it? And then ask yourself, what do I really know about the Kingdom of God, the message Jesus preached? Can I preach and teach the Kingdom just as Jesus commanded His disciples to do?

See if you read the back of the Bible you will find that the Church has locked Jesus out, and established for itself a self righteousness that falls far short of Jesus purpose for building His Church. Jesus is knocking at the door of the Church today.

Revelation 3:19-22

19 ‘Those whom I love, I reprove and discipline; therefore be zealous and repent. 20’Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and will dine with him, and he with Me. 21’He who overcomes, I will grant to him to sit down with Me on My throne, as I also overcame and sat down with My Father on His throne, 22 ‘He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches.'”

This is not a verse for winning sinners to the Lord. This is a verse the Lord has given to tell us all that Jesus has been locked on the outside of your church, no matter how moving your praise and worship, no matter how thunderous your preaching, and even no matter how much you may think you are being used of God….Jesus could very well be locked out of your Church.

2 Timothy 2:12

if we endure, we will also reign with him. If we disown him, he will also disown us;

Revelation 2:26

To the one who is victorious and does my will to the end, I will give authority over the nations– Become actively involved in soul winning today. Become victorious in your personal life and make your life count. Represent the King and His Kingdom as you impact society with the truth of God’s Word and not the traditions of men who have not learned any more than what their denominations teach about the stories of Jesus and grace that absolves us of the responsibility of being obedient to the commandments of the King. Study the Kingdom of God first and foremost out of the mouth of Jesus as you discipline yourself as a child to seek the truth from the gospels. I promise you that you will discover truths you’ve never seen and your mind will become renewed and you will become free.

Mark 8:34

34 And He summoned the crowd with His disciples, and said to them, “If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross and follow Me.

John 8:31-32

31 So Jesus was saying to those Jews who had believed Him, “If you continue in My word, then you are truly disciples of Mine; 32 and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.”

John 8:36

So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.

Romans 6:18

You have been set free from sin and have become slaves to righteousness.

Romans 6:22

But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life. The word “Free” means that you have been liberated from sin, and made to be “unrestricted, unrestrained and free to move about, living the life that only Jesus could give as you fulfill the assignment, the good works God predestined you to walk in from before the foundations of the world.

Luke 9:62b

“No one, after putting his hand to the plow and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.”

Friends, good is the enemy of right, and some leaders biggest success materially is their greatest failure spiritually. Unless you are truly being equipped to do the work of the ministry of reconciliation and are being trained to know and understand the Kingdom as an ambassador, you are not walking in the fullness of the divine destiny God has for you as a citizen of the Kingdom who is a son and daughter of the Most High God. Jesus is knocking at the door. Will you open up and let Him in?

Ambassador, Dr. Leonard Robinson

Thoughts "Michael Walker"

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 02:29:56 GMT

Thoughts
"Michael Walker"

As I reflect upon the goodness of our God, one of many thoughts comes to mind. Any idea I’ve ever had that worked for my Good didn’t come from me.

This is when the Holy Spirit, the Spirit of truth, enlightens and guides us into all truth. He never speaks on His authority. But whatsoever He hears, He speaks to us and brings all things back to our thoughts, whatsoever our Lord has spoken to us.

Others have said a light bulb went off inside my head, or I just had a great idea, or why didn’t I think of this before?

When life's trials start to weigh us down, and we can’t seem to pick ourselves up or get ourselves out of certain situations, He tells us to encourage ourselves in the Lord.

He tells us we’re looking in the wrong direction and guides us down the right path because His thoughts, God the Holy Spirit, are the thoughts of Christ revealed.

Like every perfect gift, no one can purchase it for us because every good act of giving and every perfect gift is from above and comes down from the Father of lights.

With whom there is no variableness nor shadow of turning, for He remains the same yesterday, today, and forever more.

Music & Passion Collide "Dan Lovekamp"

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 02:10:24 GMT

Music & Passion Collide
"Dan Lovekamp"

Trainer, Speaker, Enthusiastic Presenter of Useful Info For my music-loving friends.

Reflection in process refers to the act of stepping back and examining the actions, decisions, and outcomes of a process. It involves critically analyzing what happened, why it happened, and what can be learned from the experience. Reflection allows the ability to assess performance, identify areas for improvement, and make adjustments for future iterations of the process. It's a key component of continuous improvement and learning.

Passion in music can be defined as an intense emotional connection to the art of creating or performing music. It's a profound love, enthusiasm, or devotion to the craft that drives individuals to express themselves creatively, connect with others, and pursue excellence in their musical endeavors. Passion in music often involves a strong emotional response to melodies, rhythms, lyrics, or the act of making music itself. It motivates musicians to dedicate countless hours to practice, to strive for mastery, and to share their musical expression with others.

Our motivation for doing what we do comes from emotional engagements that we leverage. I've examined the impact of music and passion for decades, and have determined that one does not exist without the other. The next time you experience someone or a group of people trying to share their passion, take the time to listen, support, and encourage. Your impact is greater than you know.

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Re-entry Before Parole "Pastor Alfred Long Sr. "

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 02:00:22 GMT

Re-entry Before Parole
"Pastor Alfred Long Sr. "

Starting re-entry before being paroled is crucial because it allows individuals to begin preparing for life outside of prison, both mentally and practically. It allows them to address potential challenges such as finding housing, and employment, reconnecting with family, and accessing support services. Additionally, starting re-entry early can help individuals develop the essential skills and mindset necessary for a successful transition back into society, reducing the likelihood of recidivism.

It is important to prepare individuals spiritually, mentally, and practically for re-entry. It’s like a three-legged stool, if one of these components is missing, the stool will likely teeter, eventually causing one to fall.

Successful re-entry programs are comprehensive and offer all three of these components and where they may lack, they collaborate with other programs.

Our ministry (Jacob’s Ladder Ministries) offers a class, “Behavior Changes for Successful Re-entry” in our local and state institutions to prepare individuals to mentally, emotionally, and spiritually navigate the rocky terrain of re-entry.

We teach five key components necessary for successful recovery:

Overcoming Criminal Thinking

Replacing criminal thinking with right thinking is crucial for individuals transitioning out of the criminal justice system because it helps them adopt positive attitudes, behaviors, and decision-making skills necessary for successful reintegration into society. Criminal thinking often involves rationalizing illegal behavior, minimizing the consequences of actions, and blaming others, which can hinder personal growth and lead to further involvement in criminal activities. Right thinking, on the other hand, involves taking responsibility for one's actions, developing empathy, and making constructive choices that align with societal norms and values. By replacing criminal thinking with right thinking, individuals can build a foundation for a law-abiding and productive life post-release.

Anger Management

Anger management plays a crucial role in reentry because it helps individuals navigate the challenges of transitioning back into society without resorting to destructive behavior or conflicts. Many individuals reentering society after incarceration may face triggers or frustrations that can lead to anger, such as difficulty finding employment, rebuilding relationships, or dealing with stigma. Effective anger management techniques empower individuals to recognize and manage their emotions constructively, communicate effectively, and resolve conflicts peacefully. By learning to control anger and respond to challenges in a healthy manner, individuals can build positive relationships, avoid conflict with the law, and successfully reintegrate into their communities.

Addiction Recovery

Addiction recovery is paramount for successful re-entry into society because substance abuse issues can significantly hinder an individual's ability to reintegrate effectively. Addressing addiction allows individuals to regain control over their lives, make healthier choices, and rebuild relationships damaged by substance abuse. Additionally, substance abuse often co-occurs with criminal behavior, and overcoming addiction reduces the likelihood of relapse and recidivism. By prioritizing addiction recovery during re-entry, individuals can access support networks, develop coping strategies, and gain the necessary skills to navigate life without turning to drugs or alcohol. This not only improves their chances of successful reintegration but also enhances overall well-being and quality of life.

The Importance of Spirituality

Spirituality can play a significant role in successful recovery by providing individuals with a sense of purpose, connection, and support during challenging times. For many, spirituality offers a framework for understanding personal values, finding meaning in life, and cultivating resilience in the face of adversity. Incorporating spirituality into recovery can provide individuals with a sense of hope, inner peace, and guidance as they navigate the challenges of overcoming addiction. Additionally, spiritual practices such as meditation, prayer, or participating in religious communities can offer emotional support, foster a sense of belonging, and provide opportunities for self-reflection and personal growth. By embracing spirituality as part of their recovery journey, individuals can develop a strong foundation for long-term sobriety and holistic well-being.

Planning and Goal Setting

Planning and goal setting are essential for successful reentry because they provide individuals with direction, purpose, and a roadmap for achieving their aspirations post-release. By setting specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART) goals, individuals can identify areas of focus, break down larger objectives into manageable steps, and track their progress over time. Planning and goal setting also help individuals anticipate potential challenges, develop strategies for overcoming obstacles, and stay motivated throughout the reentry process. Furthermore, having clear goals can provide a sense of empowerment and control over one's future, reducing the likelihood of recidivism and increasing the chances of successful integration into society.

We now teach this class in St. Louis City Jail and St. Charles County Jail and have a proposal to teach it at MECC in Pacific, MO.

Pray for our men!

Alfred Long Sr. (Pastor Al) is available for Addiction Recovery coaching and consulting, speaking engagements and coaching and consulting for “Starting and Maintaining a Prison Ministry”.

along@jacobslm.com

jacobslm.org

(314) 282-7220

Harps and Bowls "Dr. Bryan Cutshall"

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 01:50:36 GMT

Harps and Bowls
Dr. Bryan Cutshall

The Melodious Prayer

Introduction - Song and prayer has always gone hand in hand, but usually not together. I remember the first time I ever hear a person sing in the spirit. It was not in a different language, it was in my own language.

I will never forget as the whole church soaked in the song about the coming of the Lord, sung by a woman who never sang a special. We were not even listening to her voice, but

rather her spirit and her words. I have since learned that singing in the spirit, is simply about allowing your spirit to sing, regardless of your prayer language.

Revelation 5:8-10: 8 Now when He had taken the scroll, the four living creatures and the twenty-four elders fell down before the Lamb, each having a harp, and golden bowls full of incense, which are the prayers of the saints. 9 And they sang a new song, saying: “You are worthy to take the scroll, And to open its seals; For You were slain, And have redeemed us to God by Your blood Out of every tribe and tongue and people and nation, 10 And have made us kings and priests to our God; And we shall reign on the earth.”

A. I want you to picture this scene. (Revelation picture of Elders casting crowns)

1. There is a scroll in the right hand of God the Father. No one is worthy to take it and open it. John begins to weep. But one of the Elders got up off his throne and said to him, “Do not weep, there is One who is worthy.” Jesus steps up and takes the scroll.

B. Look again at these 4 living creatures and the 24 Elders. Each has two things: A harp and a bowl. The harp is a symbol of praise and the bowl is a symbol of prayer.

C. Then a very unusual phrase enters the scripture. It is so unusual, it seems impossible. It says, A They sang a new song. @ How is this possible? How can 24 different people sing a new song spontaneously? This is where we begin to understand the harps and bowls ministry to the Lord.

D. Most of our music is written, edited, rehearsed, arranged and performed. God loves that type of praise, but is also looking for a harps and bowls praise. Harps and bowls praise is a prayer that is sung to the Lord. It is a spontaneous melody that flows from the heart. Ephesians 5:19-20: 19 speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord, 20 giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

A. This verse tells us how to speak to each other, and also how to speak to God.

B. This verse implies that there are spiritual songs that come from making melody in our heart to the Lord.

1. Nothing rehearsed. Nothing written. Just a response to God. Psalm 33:2-3:

2. Praise the LORD with the harp; Make melody to Him with an instrument of ten strings.

3. Sing to Him a new song; Play skillfully with a shout of joy.

A. God wants the melody of your heart.

B. Harps and bowls are not just about praise and worship and praying. It is about singing your prayer to the Lord from your own heart. That is the new song He describes in Scripture. The song that others have written, perfected and arranged are wonderful, but God wants something from your heart.

My Legacy as a Teen Mother "PASTOR JULIA BYAS"

Fri, 17 May 2024 02:35:32 GMT

My Legacy As A Teen Mother
PASTOR JULIA BYAS

As I sit in front of my computer, I am unsure if I want to undertake this task requested by a great lady I admire at the highest.

HERE WE GO!

At age seventeen, I learned I was pregnant, and it was a scary reality. I felt I was not in a good position at home. Truthfully, I felt alone and by myself—I felt I was not getting enough attention at home, which prevented me from yearning for more. Getting pregnant was never in my plan. I was in a catholic school, enjoyed my education, and was doing well. I was in church and in no way fathomed that I would be a mother.

My having to bring this news to my mom was terrifying. I was horrendously fearful of telling my mother because of what she would say, do, and think of me.

I was unsure about how I would explain this to my mom. How would I tell her he was just a friend who saw “me for me.” He thought I was important and made me feel that way. He had time for me, listened to me, and cared and showed he cared. More importantly, how could I say, “I never felt this attention before?”

Finally, I got the courage to tell her, but she was agitated. I vividly remember when she told me—I would not be able to finish school and get my high school diploma. This was the time when pregnant teenagers could no longer attend school. During our teenage years, we find ourselves stepping into our careers, climbing the social ladder, staying in school, and becoming successful. She was very disappointed in me and made sure to let me know. She thought this ended my opportunity to have a good life or better life than she had.

I was placed in an even more dangerous position while caring for a wonderful human being because I did not fully understand the complete picture of what it meant to be high-risk. I studied and learned the importance of getting prenatal care early to prevent malnutrition.

There are so many emotional problems associated with teen pregnancy. Also, teenage girls are prone to low birth weight (however, she was 5lb 3oz and a healthy baby). Becoming a mother as a teen, worldwide status, pregnancy complications are the leading cause of death for women and girls fifteen to nineteen years old. Learning all these facts was a lot to think about while pregnant at age seventeen.

Owing to the grace of God, I have a testimony today. All the statistics of teen pregnancy never affected me because He allowed my boyfriend and his wonderful mother to be of support. However, I am not in any way promoting teen pregnancy.

I understand the mercy and goodness of a kind God has kept me. My boyfriend married me, cared for me, and supported me. This made my pregnancy a lot better. His mother became my mother, and we also had a solid bond. My precious mother-in-law provided the much-needed counseling and psychosocial support for my family system. I cannot say enough how important it was to be able to have a church home that provided me with a great foundation. Contrary to statistics on teen pregnancy, having a baby didn’t ruin our lives because of the mercy of God.

I was derailed in my education, but as soon as I could, I returned to school and got my G.E.D I am thankful that despite my teenage circumstances, God did not allow me to be a statistic. He forgave me and had mercy on me. Again, I do not promote teen pregnancy, but I thank God for being with me through my teenage ordeals and allowing me to flourish in this life, even as a teen mom, for His glory. He blessed me to have a very successful career. I earned my GED and graduated from Nursing School at Saint Louis Community College, Forest Park, with a high GPA in 1977.

My husband, Martin Jr. died four years after our marriage—leaving me with three children, of which the youngest was my three-year-old son. Being a young parent made me a new person and opened me up in many unimaginable ways. It has grounded me into the woman that I am today. As I evolved, I learned to balance motherhood with the help of my dear husband and my precious mother-in-law. My mother-in-law provided much-needed counseling and psychosocial support for my family system and helped me get a church home, which was a great foundation. I maintained my roots in my Catholic foundation and received much help while raising my children; they all went to private schools. I was maturing and growing while being exposed to real realities about myself as I grew into motherhood. All around me, my friends were on a different path. I agree that this new life comes with many sacrifices.

Maturity has shifted me into a pretty ambitious, go-getter type of woman since becoming a mother of two sons and one daughter, grandmother, and great-grandmother. On my journey, I have helped to raise nine grandchildren, keeping them every summer and weekend to impart and help them grow to be outstanding adults. I deeply appreciate knowing that I am my children’s foundation in this tough and unpredictable world we all live in, which inspires me as a parent to be a better person every day—I wake up and remember my name, MOTHER. I remember the beauty of knowing how my children feel. I know they have to feel love and affection, and I am responsible as a mother to give them that at all times. From experience, I know how I became a teen mom. I did not want my children or grandchildren ever to feel like I did when I met Martin at seventeen.

I stayed with God and my foundation, and having my children did not stop my dreams. My amazing mother-in-law would tell me to take care of myself and my children. She would say they are at your knees, but later in life, they will be in your heart; hence, train them while they are young. Being a young mother didn’t prevent me from being a successful Black woman with a career that has sustained me even in my seventies. I am living my best life with my amazing career. I’ve discovered so much about myself and my passions while raising my children. I have sustained a healthy family, allowing my children to get the best education I could give them, and held down two strong marriages to allow them to see and mirror from. Most of all, I have been able to make time for myself and accept my calling as a leader. Looking at that seventeen-year-old teenager, I could not see the great things ahead for me as a young teen mom.

Time truly heals.

I sincerely thank God for being with me and loving me even when I was a teen mom for the world. Sometimes, family can treat you so coldly, but God’s love is perfect. He makes me smile when I think of, “yes, I was a teen mom, and God saved me!”

Gratefully.

FROM THE DESK OF THE AUTHOR “PASTOR JULIA BYAS”

We Are Better Together: "Rev. Fredrick Lemons II"

Fri, 17 May 2024 02:14:20 GMT

We Are Better Together:

The All District's City

Wide Revival
Rev. Fredrick Lemons II

In the heart of St. Louis, a transformative event is on the horizon, poised to invigorate spirits and unite communities in a shared celebration of faith and fellowship. The All Districts City Wide Revival, organized by the Antioch, Berean, Philadelphia, Progressive, and Union Districts, promises to be a monumental gathering that embodies the essence of togetherness and spiritual renewal.

Under the theme "We Are Better Together," this revival serves as a rallying cry for believers to set aside differences and embrace the power of unity in Christ. In a world often marked by division and discord, this event offers a sacred space for believers to come together in worship, prayer, and mutual support.

As Moderator Dion Randolph of the Union District aptly puts it, "This revival gives Union District an opportunity to rise from the ashes of Covid-19. We are excited to bring our communities together for a great cause of winning souls." In the wake of unprecedented challenges brought on by the pandemic, this revival symbolizes a new beginning—a chance for communities to heal, grow, and rediscover the joy of fellowship.

Moderator Clifton Graham of the Berean District echoes this sentiment, expressing gratitude for the opportunity to gather intentionally in praise, worship, fellowship, and the hearing of the preached Word. "This is a blessing," he affirms, "to come together in unity and lift our voices in worship and adoration."

Throughout the week-long event, attendees will have the privilege of hearing from dynamic speakers and preachers who will deliver messages of hope, inspiration, and spiritual awakening. From the exuberant praise of Pastor F. James Clark of Shalom Church City of Peace to the soul-stirring sermons of Pastor Brandon Blake of New Sunny Mount Missionary Baptist Church, each speaker brings a unique perspective and insight into the theme of togetherness.

At the heart of the All-District’s City-Wide Revival lies a deep sense of love and compassion for one another, as believers unite in a common purpose—to glorify God and uplift one another in faith. Through powerful worship services, heartfelt prayer gatherings, and meaningful fellowship, attendees will experience the transformative power of community and the boundless love of Christ.

As we eagerly anticipate the All District’s City Wide Revival, let us be reminded of the words of Psalm 133:1, which declares, "How good and pleasant it is when God's people live together in unity!" May this revival be a beacon of hope and inspiration, igniting a renewed passion for unity, love, and faith among believers in St. Louis and beyond.

Blessings,

Moderator St. Louis Progressive Missionary Baptist District Association

It’s Time! “To Emend: The broken walls, and fight for our families” Nehemiah 4:1-15

Rev. Fredrick Lemons II

Empowering Women "Melody Forgort"

Fri, 17 May 2024 01:20:22 GMT

Empowering Women: Breaking the Cycle of Poverty and Embracing Independence
Melody Fogarty

Dear Women,

In today's world, the traditional roles of wife and stay-at-home mother, while deeply valued, can inadvertently contribute to a cycle of poverty for many women. While these roles offer a sense of fulfillment and purpose, relying solely on a partner's income or sacrificing one's career for caregiving can pose significant financial risks, especially in an era marked by economic uncertainty and the evolving landscape of employment.

The harsh reality is that even the most loving and supportive partner may leave, or circumstances may change unexpectedly, leaving women vulnerable to financial instability. This is why it's crucial to recognize that "a man is not a plan." Depending solely on a partner's income can leave women exposed to poverty in the event of separation, divorce, or even the loss of income due to unforeseen circumstances.

Moreover, the rise of artificial intelligence (AI) and automation is reshaping the job market, particularly impacting no or low-skill jobs. Many traditional roles that once provided stable employment opportunities are being replaced by machines, leaving individuals without specialized skills at risk of unemployment or underemployment. Gone are the days of baggers, cashiers, receptionists, and even administrative assistants. There is a rising tide of multi-level marketing (MLM) and Ponzi schemes.

In this rapidly evolving job market, it's essential for women to keep their knowledge, skills, and abilities evergreen. This means continuously learning, upskilling, and adapting to new technologies and industries to remain competitive in the workforce. While it may seem daunting, especially after a hiatus from the job market, it's never too late to invest in yourself and your future.

Returning to the job market after a 17-year hiatus, particularly without a degree or trade, can feel like a daunting task. However, it's important to recognize that parenting skills are valuable assets that can be leveraged in the workplace. Skills such as multitasking, problem-solving, communication, and time management, honed through years of caregiving, are highly transferable to many professions.

Here's a strategy to consider for re-entering the job market:

Self-Assessment: Reflect on your strengths, interests, and past experiences. Identify transferrable skills gained from parenting and consider how they align with different career paths.
Education and Training: While you may not have a formal degree or trade, consider pursuing online courses, vocational training programs, or certifications in industries that interest you. Many resources are available online, making learning accessible from the comfort of your home.
Networking: Reach out to your personal and professional network for advice, mentorship, and job opportunities. Attend networking events, workshops, and industry meetups to expand your connections and learn about potential job openings.
Volunteer Work: Consider volunteering or freelancing in your desired field to gain practical experience and build your resume. Volunteering can also help you network with professionals in your industry of interest.
Flexibility and Persistence: Be open to temporary or part-time opportunities as you transition back into the workforce. Stay persistent and resilient in your job search, recognizing that setbacks are a natural part of the process.

Just a few other thoughts. Once the children are off to school consider starting a business or returning to work part-time or starting/completing your higher educational goals. Here are a few businesses or jobs that do not require certifications: hair braider, hotel maid, restaurant server, call center operator or remote customer service agent. Also consider non-traditional trades like plumber, electrician, or mechanic apprenticeships. While the kids are in school, you can also go to school for cosmetology, coding, medical billing, nurses aid, dental hygienist or finish up your undergraduate or graduate degree.

Remember, your journey toward financial independence and empowerment is unique to you. By embracing lifelong learning, leveraging your skills, and remaining adaptable, you can break free from the cycle of poverty and forge a path toward a brighter future.

With determination and courage, you have the power to create the life you deserve.

RE-ENTRY BEFORE PAROLE "Alfred Long"

Thu, 16 May 2024 21:58:37 GMT

RE-ENTRY BEFORE PAROLE
Alfred Long Sr.

Successful re-entry programs are comprehensive and offer all three of these components and where they may lack, they collaborate with other programs.

We teach five key components necessary for successful recovery:

Overcoming Criminal Thinking

Anger Management

The Importance of Spirituality

Planning and Goal Setting

We now teach this class in St. Louis City Jail and St. Charles County Jail and have a proposal to teach it at MECC in Pacific, MO.

Pray for our men!

Alfred Long Sr. (Pastor Al) is available for Addiction Recovery coaching and consulting, speaking engagements and coaching and consulting for “Starting and Maintaining a Prison Ministry”.

along@jacobslm.com

jacobslm.org

(314) 282-7220

SERVING AS AN IMPACT LEADER "Apostle David Rogers"

Thu, 16 May 2024 20:46:53 GMT

SERVING AS AN IMPACT LEADER
Apostle David Rogers

Leadership in the Kingdom, unfortunately, has been reduced to visibility, popularity and sound bites. When one is truly committed to advancing the Kingdom, a platform is not the primary objective. Kingdom Ambassadors are driven by the WORK and its impact on transforming lives and regions! Someone recognizing it, affirming it or even appreciating it, is not a priority!

IMPACT LEADERS, want to see people saved and converted. They aren’t ambitious for fame or fortune! Their heart burns to see JESUS CHRIST made known to the world at the cost of their own name and notoriety! If you are serving out of pure motives, the only thing that matters is pleasing GOD. That’s doesn’t mean you’ll never let people know what you’re doing, but letting people know what you’re doing for the sake of your personal recognition will not be an option!

“Take heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them. Otherwise, you have no reward from your Father in heaven. Therefore, when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory from men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward. But when you do a charitable deed, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, that your charitable deed may be in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will Himself reward you openly.

In Marriage Teamwork "Pastor Ricky and Sheila Floyd"

Thu, 16 May 2024 20:43:01 GMT

In Marriage Teamwork Makes

The Dream Work

Work It Out Team
Pastor Ricky and Sheila Floyd

In my quest to be a relevant pastor I have noticed similar scenarios between marriage and employment relationships. Many companies are looking for good employees and are unable to find them. There are people who desire godly relationships and are equally unsuccessful. Some are already married and can't find God in their relationships. There was a time when 40 year marriages and 40 years of employment with the same company was a way of life. Few people know anyone like this now. It may seem that because of the ills of society and the progress of technology that the 40/40 Club has become a thing of the past.

Just like in some employment relationships, some marriage relationships may be considered now that would not have been considered in the past. You may have had your Denzel Washington, LL Cool J, Halle Berry, or Beyoncé posters on your wall, but the reality is you may end up with a Forest Whitaker or a Whoopi Goldberg. They may not look the role, but they may be the help that is suitable for you. We need to begin to look at marriage the way we look at jobs. Many spouses won’t submit to or comply with the human resources available to them. Potential spouses fail to obtain background checks on their partners and don’t investigate their job/salary history or view credit reports. They get a “good feeling” and dive in. Some spouses treat their employment relationships better than their family relationships.

If many would apply the team concepts they use on the job and bring them home, family life would be more pleasant. They wouldn’t think of showing up to the job late or missing a day. They might give 6 months advanced notice for time off. If asked to do overtime, they look at it as an opportunity for favor and advancement. But if a wife asks her husband to go into overtime by returning to the store because she forgot to put bread on the list, husbands might use language they wouldn’t want church members to know they knew. Some are committed to jobs where they have been passed over for promotions and have trained their younger replacements, all while wearing a smile. Then they go home and get angry because dinner was not hot or on time, making the rest of the evening miserable for the entire family.

Below are 4 suggestions to help you become a successful spouse as well as a successful employee.

1. Find out what your strengths and weaknesses are. I once had an interview for a sales position and the interviewer asked me what my strengths were. I did a tremendous job of selling myself, but then he asked what my weaknesses were. A stuttering frenzy came upon me and I didn't want to share them for fear he would not hire me. Many have not identified or shared their weaknesses with the person they are entering into covenant relationship with. Unfortunately, these divine connections are probably with someone who is strong in areas where they are weak.

2. Find out the needs of the company or the person you are entering into covenant relationship with. Even though we may have immediate needs of our own, we should not enter into covenant relationships based on getting our needs met. You may have bills due today, but it doesn't mean that you quit one job and take on a new job with just any company because they promised you a raise or a few more benefits. Too many relationships are formed out of desperation instead of divine inspiration. It’s lustful to think only of what you can get from the relationship. Love says, “This is what I can do for you.” Make sure you marry for passion, not convenience.

3. Be willing to submit to Human Resources. The Human Resources Department is responsible for doing background checks/training to determine your work, integrity, and accountability level. Excellent resumes don’t always mean excellent employees. The Human Resource department is responsible for finding out if this is the type of person that will help the vision come to pass. Many spouses make costly mistakes by refusing counseling and wonder why it seems as if their marriage doesn’t fit the vision. The average HR Department spends up to $7K to make sure you are the right fit for the company.

4. Make decisions based on what's profitable for the company or the marriage. Be not conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Renew your mind to think that if it’s good for the team it’s good for me. On the job you can’t always have it your way. TEAMWORK MAKES THE DREAM WORK.

INTRODUCING THE LIFE FOCUS PLAN "Alan Carniol"

Thu, 16 May 2024 20:17:13 GMT

INTRODUCING THE LIFE

FOCUS PLAN
Alan Carniol

Isn't it astonishing how we meticulously plan a one-week vacation, from choosing the destination to scheduling activities, yet we often neglect planning our lives?

Most of us drift through life without a clear destination in mind, only to be surprised when things don't turn out as expected.

But it doesn't have to be this way.

That's why I'm a firm believer that EVERYONE should create a written life plan.

Here are seven compelling reasons why:

1. Clarify Priorities

Your life plan helps you identify what truly matters. It's about your priorities, not what others expect from you.

2. Maintain Balance

With a life plan, you can excel in multiple areas like your career, health, and relationships. It's about thriving, not sacrificing.

3. Saying "No" with Confidence

When you've said "yes" to your life plan, you can confidently say "no" to less important distractions.

4. Face Reality

Your life plan prompts you to address your current realities honestly and work on areas where you fall short.

5. Envision a Better Future

It empowers you to visualize your ideal life, setting exciting goals in each major category.

6. Road Map to Success

A life plan is your roadmap, guiding you toward your life's aspirations with actionable steps.

7. No Regrets

By following your life plan, you're less likely to reach the end of your journey with regrets and unfulfilled dreams.

Now, here's the exciting part.

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It's like turning your life plan into a thrilling adventure.

With prompts, examples, and a fun approach, LifeFocus takes the boredom out of planning and infuses excitement into your future.

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Until tomorrow,

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More Than A Conqueror "Tiara Johnson"

Thu, 16 May 2024 19:50:08 GMT

More Than A Conqueror
Tiara Johnson

In 2014, I married my husband and like many young adults who get married, we planned to have a child. Once we conceived, I had a normal pregnancy until the last week when my blood pressure became elevated. My OBGYN decided that the best option would be to induce. After a successful delivery, I felt something was off. I could not breathe properly, and lying down or sitting up didn’t alleviate it. I went to the local hospital, and I was told everything was fine with me and that my discomfort was a result of fluid overload. After the fluid was released from my body, I still felt like something was not right. I sought help from medical professionals from August 2015 to October 2015 without getting any assistance; I just being dismissed by physicians.

Finally, on October 9th, 2015, I was diagnosed with end-stage heart failure. From July 31st until October 9th, my heart function had declined to less than 10%. I was immediately put into a life vest in the event I went into cardiac arrest at home. Physicians and specialists put me on a variety of medications in hopes that my heart function would recover. In June 2016, my cardiologist implanted me with an internal defibrillator, and I underwent my first open heart surgery. Following this surgery, we had hopes of my heart function returning as I was otherwise healthy before giving birth. Unfortunately, that was not the case. After three years, my cardiologist informed me that he could no longer help me and that I would need to consult with the advanced heart failure team at the University of Michigan. At this time, I met my cardiologist, Reema Hasan. She told me that, unfortunately, options were slim for me, and if my heart were to fail entirely, I was not eligible for a mechanical heart or a transplant because I was overweight.

This is where my gears shifted within me. My heart was not going to restore its function if I was not an active participant in my care. I began to do the work! I started researching heart failure, treatment options, medications, and holistic treatments. My constant thought was, “What is within my control?” I can control what I eat and do with my body every day. With imminent heart failure, I was unable to exercise, so my option was to lose weight through nutrition. I stopped eating fast food, cut out fried foods, and ate smaller portions. In February 2019, my heart went into a bad rhythm, and I was rushed to the hospital. The on-call cardiologist told me I still was not eligible for a mechanical heart even though I had lost 20lbs. At this moment, I cried out to God, asking why…. why me? It had been years, and I had not gotten better. I could barely walk from my bedroom to my bathroom, couldn’t play with my kids, and my quality of life deteriorated every day. I left the hospital against medical advice, and when I arrived home, a nurse called me and said, “I’m not calling you as a nurse; I am calling you as a mom. Tiara, you have to return to the hospital.” I cried and explained to her that I felt like a lost cause; doctors couldn’t help me. Nurse Val sent an Uber to my home, and I was once again admitted to the hospital. On the ride there, the Uber driver told me, “God said you are going to get a new heart.” At that moment, I was still hurt; however, I thanked her for her kind words and asked the holy spirit to be my comforter this second time at the hospital.

Now, a new Dr. was rounding, and she said, “Tiara, I think you would be a good candidate for a mechanical heart device.” We finally completed all the testing on March 20th, and my surgery was scheduled for March 25th. Everything went well, and I now had what’s called a LVAD. Although life looked a lot differently, I was grateful God saw fit for me to receive an LVAD. I could tolerate walking, playing, and driving again. I could cook for my family and go on outings. All with a mechanical heart coming out of my chest and the large device in my bag around my shoulders. After this experience, I began my advocacy journey, teaching others how to advocate for themselves when they aren’t receiving proper medical care. How to navigate complex medical systems and get insurance to pay for necessities. I found purpose in this journey; it revealed my calling. I spoke at numerous events, was honored at Ford Field in Detroit as a survivor of the year, and was also the honoree at the 2021 American Heart Association Heart Ball. In the midst of this all, I had gone to the transplant board three times and was denied. I began to pray to God for the right heart and at the right time, and I committed everything to Him. Little did I know that God had arranged everything in my favor. That same day, I was honored at the Heart Ball; I was listed for a transplant! I was ecstatic! I had overcome COVID, Steven Johnson syndrome, and other ailments during this time—afflictions the devil tried to use to make me doubt God and myself. I decided to make memories with my family and not worry about when the heart was coming.

Twenty days later, I got the call for a heart. My husband rushed me to the hospital, and many tests were performed. At this moment, I was not afraid or scared. There was an eerie peace in my heart. I knew God was going to take care of me. The doctors told me that the heart was coming from an IV drug user, and I began to think about what this person’s life consisted of. Did they have a family? I thought about how, even in the midst of our mess and turmoil, we still can think outside of ourselves to bless others. This person, amid their addiction, still chose to check the box on their ID application to save the lives of others in the event that they passed. My surgery went well, and I have not had any complications with my new heart. I am now two years post-transplant, and I am grateful for every moment God has blessed me with. Although I was raised in the church, I strayed away in my young adult years. This journey brought me back to God. Taught me to trust in God alone, and not doctors. There are many other hurdles, open heart surgeries, and more throughout my 7.5-year journey. It would take many more pages to explain how God has always sustained me. After healing, I went to work in detox and recovery as a way to give back to those in need and honor my heart donor. I do not know who this person was, whether a man or a woman. However, I do know that I am extremely grateful for the second and third chances at life, and I know my purpose is to serve and help my community. I pray the fire from my passion lights the torches of many and inspires them to keep going, trust GOD, and relinquish control. He knows what we need exactly when we need it, not a minute sooner!

November Is Coming "Dr. Leonard Robinson"

Wed, 15 May 2024 21:51:26 GMT

November Is Coming
Dr. Leonard Robinson

The question was asked, What Should Christians Think About Trump, at the Religious Broadcasters Convention 2024?

My answer:

When you equate Paul, Jesus, and John the Baptist as saying some "mean things" and equating that with the mean things that Donald Trump says you are engaging in a misapplication of proper exegesis to support one's political position.

Why don't we share that Proverbs 12:22 says, "All liars are an abomination to God."

Why use the argument that there were Christian presidents who weren't good and that it is not about personalities but policies?

In 2024 let's do an interview on Trump's broad policies aimed at marginalizing immigrants, homophobia, and neofascism, and nationalism.

Does anyone realize that God is A-political? He's no respecter of persons and therefore not Republican or Democrat and no nation can be under God that is not a Born Again nation?

Why didn't Jesus push back against Herod's evil but instead establish the Kingdom of God in the hearts and minds of believers?

Abortion is not the only issue with God. Homosexuality is not the only issue with God. But evangelicalism has "selective outrage" that at best is disingenuous and at worse is outright deceptive.

God is a globalist, not a nationalist. When we miss that the majority of the forefathers were not Christians, they were Masons, even some were Atheists and Diest and we understand that, if need be, then being killed for our faith means not to stand against the governments of men but dying for the cause of Christ while the government takes your Bibles and guns if that becomes the result.

We act like God is losing America to the Devil, but scripture reveals that Jesus already taught what the end will be and it's as though the people are fighting against what Jesus prophesied and making Jesus into a liar. Matthew 24:2-14.

Truth is that we should be more focused on getting Trump saved for real, or we are only showing our religious selfishness at the risk of Trump's eternal life.

If the former President Trump was to suddenly die during a speech his blood could be on the hands of every evangelical who was more concerned with political power than with the soul of one man who is perceived as having power. Suppose the spiritual leaders around him are only content that he watches Christian television and seems to have done more for Christianity by some people's estimation. Still, you are not concerned with his soul and are not reproving and rebuking him for the unrighteousness of lying, and yet you have access to him and are in his counsel? In that case, you are not a friend of God, you are a political opportunist who is no better than the apostle Paul when he was Saul. You think that you are serving the cause of Christ, but you are really serving in a self-righteousness thinking that God is pleased with the former President in the persistent sin he commits by lying incessantly.

Is it not true that anyone who is ruled by lies, their father is the Devil?

Instead of using biblical themes and political philosophy, we need real Bible doctrine and great theologians seem to have thrown the Bible away in a quest for imaginary political power.

What did Jesus preach about the righteousness of the Pharisees? What did Jesus say about loving our enemies and what did Jesus say about the Kingdom of God present and eternal to come and what it will take to enter in, in His own words?

Whenever the truth becomes half-truth then the truth becomes a lie, no more truthful than Truth Social, and we know that the owner of Truth Social is under the father of lies.

Think about it, before you complain about what I am saying. Evangelicalism, even nationalism, the New Apostolic Reformation with its adherents Dutch Sheets, Lance Walnau, Bill Johnson, and televangelist Kenneth Copeland, Jesse Duplantis and others seems to have developed selective outrage. Many side with the enemy we are supposed to be defeating on every hand. And now leaders are actually leading to please men and political ideologies.

John the Apostle said that "No lie comes from the truth." Let's return back to Jesus doctrine of the Kingdom, humbling ourselves as children, that we would become converted and able to enter into the eternal Kingdom on Jesus terms, which we find in Hebrews 5:9. Let's obey Jesus doctrine saints.

It may very well be that you can't vote for anyone, but whatever you do, don't mistakenly believe that God is such a respecter of person that He is more concerned about the moral condition of an America that is yet unredeemed than He being interested in salvation for every man.

You cannot legislate righteousness, nor are we to live in fear of the end times. Instead, we are supposed to live by faith, preach the gospel of the Kingdom and salvation through Jesus Christ, and we are to meet the needs of those who have less than we have, and we are to remember the strangers in our midst, as well as care for the fatherless and widows and those who are in prison as caring for Jesus' brothers. Now my aim is not to convince you of Biden or anyone as the next President. My aim is to help you to not lie to yourself about what Christian nationalism really is and it's relative misuse of scripture to justify neofascism. Come let us reason together.

Selah

The Central Figure at Calvary "Bishop Patricia T. Whitelocke"

Sun, 31 Mar 2024 20:17:55 GMT

"The Central Figure at Calvary"
Bishop

Patricia T. Whitelocke, D.D.

The earth shattering, history-altering crucifixion of JESUS CHRIST was foreordained by GOD; many historical events were to transpire. Many dynasties and kingdoms were to rise and fall before this great and notable day was fully come.

Prophets had lived and spoken of the sufferings and the glory of CHRIST and died, never realizing the fulfillment of their prophecies. Thousands of generations contributed to the fulfillment of this momentous day at Calvary, until all the necessary characters were ready; then the stage was set for this cataclysmic drama: “The Passion of JESUS the CHRIST”.

JESUS came to give HIS life a ransom for sin and was called the Second Adam; HE was sinless and perfect in body, soul and spirit. HE offered HIMSELF to redeem the whole world unto GOD. No one took HIS life from HIM, but HE laid it down of HIS own will and took it up again at HIS resurrection.

HE was a willing and determined sacrifice for the sins of the world (John 10:18). Neither Jew nor Gentiles are ultimately responsible for HIS death. It pleased the LORD to bruise HIM, for HE gave HIS life for our sins. Isaiah 53:5 says: “For HE was wounded for our transgressions, bruised for our iniquities, the chastisement of our peace was upon HIM, and with HIS stripes we are healed.” And John 3:16 says: “For GOD so loved the world that HE gave HIS only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in HIM should not perish, but have everlasting life.” The Jewish supreme national council, the Sanhedrin, was composed of 71 men skilled in the law of Moses. They were considered fair and just. Yet the LORD JESUS CHRIST was unjustly tried and sentenced to die though HE had committed no crime worthy of death. Not one charge brought against HIM could stand up in court. (Acts 4:26,27).

JESUS did not defend HIMSELF (Mark 14:60-62) but revealed HIS identity in the statement about sitting on the right hand of power and coming in clouds of glory. This statement meant that HE was the one spoken of in Daniel 7:13-14. MESSIAH indeed!

JESUS was blind-folded, bound, and the beating started. We see brutality on a level that could only be engineered by Satan himself (Matt 26:65, 66 Matt 27:29-30; Mark 14:65; Mark 15:17-19; Luke 22:63-65; John 18:22; John 19:1-3; Lev. 24:16). JESUS was then led from Caiaphas to Pilate the next morning.

HE was led away with two malefactors to be put to death at 9:00 in the morning on the 14th day of Nisan. Enroute to Calvary, Simon of Cyrene, a black man, was compelled to bear HIS wooden cross. There they crucified HIM with the two malefactors (who were arrested with Barabbas in the insurrection against the Roman government) and the two thieves, whose lives were touched by JESUS that day. It was at 9:00 am when the daily sacrifice was offered up for the nation of Israel. JESUS, our LORD, hung on the tree from 9:00 am until 3:00 pm The Passover lamb was killed between 12:00 noon and 3:00 pm. When JESUS CHRIST, the Lamb of GOD, gave up HIS life on Calvary, it was 3:00pm. During this time, Psalms 113 to 119 were being sung in the temple declaring the wonderful works of GOD toward HIS people.

They pierced HIS hands (wrists) and HIS feet (ankles), parted HIS garments, and cast lots. No doubt (as JESUS looked down on HIS bloody, mutilated body, which was so marred and HIS flesh did not resemble that of a man) HE thought of the coccus worm from which scarlet dye was obtained, for HE was drenched in HIS own blood. (Psalm 22:6). JESUS suffered physically and psychologically as the people derided HIM. Psalm 22:14-18 records the words HE must have spoken and Psalm 69:4, -9.20,21 also describes his sufferings.

JESUS made seven statements when nailed to the tree on Calvary, the most profound of these being: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do,” and “Eli, Eli, Imana shabackthani!” (Matthew 27:46 Lamsa). The interpretation or translation of these Arameic words has been debated and misunderstood. First of all, these words are misspelled in the King James Version. When accurately translated from the Aramaic, the word “lmana” is a declaration of triumph...a statement of fact, never a question! The word “Shbakthani” means for this purpose I was spared; it was my destiny to die this kind of death. GOD would not forsake HIS only begotten Son, WHO came into the world to die for the sins of all mankind (John 12:27, John 10:11-15). JESUS said “I and my Father are one“ in agreement, on one accord. (John 10:30, John 16:32. Matt. 26:53, 56).

The WORD confirms GOD's will for HIS Son (Isaiah 53:10-12). GOD never forsook YESHUA; HE was right there. HE saw the travail of HIS only begotten Son, but it was for us. “For HE has not despised, nor abhorred, the affliction of the afflicted; neither has HE hidden HIS face from HIM; but when HE cried unto HIM, HE heard.” (Psalm 22:24).

Every word in the Word of GOD pertaining to the suffering of JESUS CHRIST has been fulfilled. In John 19:34 when the soldiers pierced HIS side, forthwith, immediately gushed out blood and water, which was symbolic of the sprinkling with blood and cleansing of water from the First (Old) Testament. (Heb. 9:12-14, 19-22, Ex. 24:8).

The solider pierced the sack in which the heart is encased (the pericardium). The pericardium is a membranous sack which has an inner and outer section. The internal section of this sack is closed and envelopes the heart. It is filled with a clear fluid. Upon death, a certain portion of blood remains in the right ventricle of the heart, and the red corpuscles separate out of the blood. This process is known as stasis. The water in John 19:34 is in actuality hydro-pericardium, a product of stasis. Once the separation has taken place, there are two distinct colors present: clear and red (water and blood). This blood and water which gushed forth from the heart of JESUS sprinkled many nations and has reconciled both Jew and Gentile together unto GOD. (Ephesians 2:18) through HIS precious, sinless blood.

Nine glorious exchanges were made at Calvary: 1) HE forgave and we received forgiveness of sins and redemption (Eph. 1:7; 1 Cor. 15:3,4). 2) HE was wounded and we received our healing (Isaiah 53:5; I Peter 2:24). 3) We received righteousness in place of our sins (Philippians 3:9; 1 Cor. 1:30). 4) We received eternal life in place of death (John 3:16; I John 5:11, 12; Rom. 3:23), 5). We received blessings in place of curses (Gal. 3:13; Heb. 2:9). 6) We received abundance in place of poverty (III John 2; John 10:10). 7) Glory in place of shame (Phil. 3:20, 21; Col. 3:4; I Cor. 15:52, 53). 8.) Acceptance in the beloved in place of rejection (Eph. 1:6, Eph. 2:4-6). 9) The new man in place of the old man -- CHRIST in you the hope of glory (Eph. 4:24; Col. 1:27) creating a new body --The Church of GOD.

JESUS said, “I lay it down and I will take it up.” Up from the grave HE arose and dwelt among us for 40 days, being seen of over 500 brethren (I Cor. 15:1-6). CHRIST JESUS ascended into heaven and promised HIS followers that HE would send The Comforter to lead and guide them into all truth. (Acts 1:1-8; 2:1-16). YESHUA also promised to return for them (John 14:1-18). Angels are witness to this truth (Acts 1:9-11, 1 Thess. 4:13-18).

YESHUA HA MESSIAH IS COMING SOON!

Building Bridges: Coaching for Successful Reentry "Alfred Long"

Sun, 31 Mar 2024 20:09:13 GMT

"Building Bridges: Coaching for Successful Re-entry"

Alfred Long

Re-entry from prison or any correctional facility is challenging and sometimes just plain scary. For it to work the reentrants need, safe housing, clothing, medical care, substance abuse recovery, employment, reentry mentor, relationship counseling and prayer.

I’d like to add one more item to the list, Re-Entry Coaching.

Re-Entry coaching offers several benefits, including personalized support, goal setting, skill development, accountability, and encouragement. It provides a structured framework for individuals to clarify their goals, overcome obstacles, and maximize their potential. Additionally, Re-Entry coaching fosters self-awareness, enhances decision-making abilities, and promotes continuous learning and growth.

Re-Entry coaching can be incredibly beneficial for individuals reentering society after incarceration or facing other significant life transitions. It provides personalized support tailored to their unique needs, helping them navigate challenges, set realistic goals, develop essential skills, and rebuild their lives. Re-Entry coaching can also offer accountability, encouragement, and a nonjudgmental space for individuals to reflect on their experiences and make positive changes. By empowering reentrants with the tools and confidence they need to succeed, coaching plays a crucial role in facilitating successful reintegration into society.

A Re-Entry Coach sets the parameters of the conversation, listens and contributes observations and questions, provides a roadmap for success, and assists the client as a team to achieve their desired goals. An action-based Re-Entry Coach accelerates the client’s progress by providing greater focus and awareness of choices, actions, and responsibility. Here are some benefits of having a Re-Entry Coach:

Clarity and Goal Setting: A Re-Entry Coach helps you gain clarity about your specific goals and supports you in achieving them.
Accountability: They hold you responsible for your actions and keep you on track toward your goals. Regular check-ins and progress evaluations, ensure that you stay committed and motivated.
Personal Growth and Development: Through introspection and self-reflection, a Re-Entry Coach helps you uncover your strengths, overcome limiting beliefs, and unlock your full potential.
Increased Self-Awareness: Re-Entry coaching promotes self-awareness. A life coach helps you get to know yourself better through reflection and introspection.

Improved Self-Confidence: By helping you recognize your achievements and strengths, a Re-Entry Coach helps you build a positive self-image. They also assist you in overcoming self-doubt and negative thoughts and negative self-talk, empowering you to take bold actions and embrace new opportunities.

Enhanced Focus and Clarity: Re-Entry coaching helps you gain clarity of thought. They provide valuable techniques and strategies to improve your productivity and concentration, enabling you to make progress faster.
Improved Relationships: A Re-Entry Coach can help you improve your communication skills, resolve conflicts, and build stronger connections with others.
Stress Reduction: Re-Entry coaching helps you manage stress. A Re-Entry Coach assists you in identifying stress triggers and developing effective coping mechanisms. They provide support and guidance to help you prioritize self-care, manage your time effectively, and reduce overwhelm.
Improved Decision Making: Re-Entry coaching enables you to make better decisions by helping you gain clarity and perspective.
Overcoming Obstacles: Re-Entry coaching provides you with the tools and strategies to overcome obstacles and challenges. A Re-Entry Coach helps you identify and address limiting beliefs, fears, and self-sabotaging patterns.
Pushing out of Comfort Zone: Re-Entry coaching pushes you out of your comfort zone. A Re-Entry Coach challenges you to step outside of your familiar routines, behaviors, and bad habits, encouraging you to take risks and embrace new experiences.
Overall Well-being: Life coaching contributes to your overall well-being. By addressing various aspects of your life, such as career, relationships, health, and personal growth, a Re-Entry Coach helps you create a balanced and fulfilling life.
Support and Encouragement: A Re-Entry Coach provides you with support and encouragement throughout your journey. They are there to listen to your concerns, celebrate your successes, and provide guidance when you face setbacks.
Spirituality: A Re-Entry Coach will help guide you in your quest to improve your conscious contact with God.

Alfred T. Long Sr is available for organizational and individual Consulting,

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Holding On For Those Who Can't "Dr. Dorothy J. Haire"

Sun, 31 Mar 2024 18:53:45 GMT

"Holding On For

Those Who Can't "

Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

I have a loved one suffering from undiagnosed mental health issues. It breaks my heart. I have been praying for them for years, witnessing roller-coaster results. I recently read two insightful articles by David Murray PhD published in September 2023 by Crossway (a bible publishing company). If you love a Christian who has mental health issues, these articles may encourage you to hold on for those who can’t. Allow me to condense/paraphrase each article:

Article #1: Can a Christian Have Mental Illness?

· Because mental illness is condemned as a sin, many Christians will not admit to being depressed, anxious, or bipolar.

· If they do admit they have problems, Christians often turn to the secular world for understanding, sympathy, and help. Secular approaches can sometimes lead to further spiritual difficulties and complications.

· Christians can have mental illness because their brains can break, their chemistry and electricity can malfunction, their hormones can be imbalanced, and so on.”

· Christians live in a broken world. They have accidents, are abused, are wronged, are lied about, and are traumatized.

· Christians get stressed. Excessive and continuous amounts of the stress chemicals adrenaline and cortisol become extremely dangerous to our physical and mental health.

· Christians can have mental illness because serious and/or unrepentant sin causes damage to the body and mind.

· Christians can save mental illness because they are Christians: targets of the devil, affected by all the sin and suffering in the world. and in agony because people are being swept into eternity without the gospel.

Article # 2: How to Pray for a Loved One Struggling with Mental Illness

· Pray with Hope, Patience, and Love. Hope because we are praying to the God of hope ( Rom. 15:13 ). Patience because changes for the better can take a long time. Love because it will be reflected in your relationship with the person.

· Pray that they would see their need, and accept that their need is so great they should seek help.

· Allow them space to talk about what they are going through, which is essential and a massive step on the road to healing.

· Give them a holistic team of helpers. Depending on the severity of the condition, the team may consist of all or several of the following: a doctor, the pastor, a counselor, a psychologist or psychiatrist, and a life coach.

· Give them an increasing sense of personal responsibility. Pray for and help them begin to make good daily decisions about lifestyle such as sleep, exercise, diet, media intake, daily devotions, church attendance, fellowship, etc.

· Give them insight into sin (theirs and others against them), their Savior, and hope in heaven.

I realize that these two articles will not fully equip you to engage with your loved one daily, but they are helpful. Things happen that we cannot anticipate. And to be honest, it gets tiring and discouraging sometimes. Take time to pray for yourself too. Sitting in the presence of God when things get especially rough can strengthen us to hold on to and for our loved ones who can’t.

Dorothy J. Haire

Pastor Emeritus, Speaker, Teacher, Writer

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Article # 2: How to Pray fo

r a Loved One Struggling with Mental Illness

God’s Got You! "Apostle Brian Keith Williams"

Sun, 31 Mar 2024 18:41:05 GMT

"God’s Got You, As Long As You’ve Got Him!"

Apostle Brian Keith Williams

There lived a man whose business grew to 1,400 stores. His net worth of 18 million was lost to Financial ruin during the Great Depression. The stores collapsed, soon thereafter. It took a huge toll on his mental health and he was committed to a sanitorium. Gripped by despair, while there, he was walking in the halls and overheard a group of church women singing the great Hymn: “GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU!” He entered the room. He was so moved, he gave his life to Christ

and was born again.

His mental health was immediately restored and he was soon released. God favored him to rebuild his business. It grew “bigger than before.” His wealth returned and doubled what it was before he lost it. It grew massively to 35 million dollars. God gave him “DOUBLE FOR HIS TROUBLE!” He was determined to live of of 10% and give God’s Work 90%. HE KEPT HIS VOW! GOD KEPT HIS PROMISE! His stores remained profitable long after his death in 1970. His name was James Cash. You might have heard of JC Penney. #25SayDouble

Moral of the story: “God’s Got You, As Long As You’ve Got Him! Be not dismayed, whatever betide, God will take care of you!” Isaiah 61:7 (Msg Bible) “Because you got a double dose of trouble and more than your share of contempt, your inheritance in the land will be doubled and your joy will go on forever.” #BTW: $35 million in 1970, is $280 million in 2024. #MoreThanDouble.

Have a wonderful day day. #TheLordsJournalist ~Apostle Brian Keith Turner

The State of Celebration "Pastors Ricky & Sheila Floyd"

Sun, 31 Mar 2024 18:32:12 GMT

"The State Of Celebration"

Pastors Ricky & Sheila Floyd

The state of celebration is a place where all couples should thrive and aim to be. It is a place of love, honor, respect, agreement, and unity. It's where you not only want to see each other succeed, but you enjoy the journey of doing it together by supporting each CELEBRATION other. However, we must be awarethat this is the state that Satan hates and he will quickly come to steal, kill, and destroy the celebration in your marriage.

Then there is the roommate state. This is the state where you get consumed by bills, babies, and business transactions, spending very little time, energy, love, and quality time with each other. This is where you form a routine that has taken you out of the celebration state.

Next is the hell-mate state. This is the state where the spirit of offense, anger, anxiety, tension, and stress has become the new norm. This is where one or both get to the point where they may hate coming home because it feels like they have entered into hell on earth by facing fiery attitudes.

Then there is the jailbate state. This is where your house becomes your jail and your spouse becomes the warden. They feel like they are living with someone imposing restrictions, rules, regulations, and demands on you that make you feel like no grown person should have to feel. In the jailbate state, couples deal with violence, fraud, lying, affairs, and embarrassment. They experience a sense of hopelessness in God for their marriage. In the jailbait state, frustration mounts high and tensions in the house can lead to homicidal and suicidal thoughts. In the jailbait state, a person can reach a breaking point where they can't bear it any longer. They feel as though the enemy has turned their house into a prison.

Where are you and what are you going to do if your marriage is not in the celebration state? Here are some steps to take if you are not currently in the celebration state.

Step 1, REPENT for allowing it to get that way.

Step 2, RETRAIN yourself through education and wise counsel.

Step 3, REPAIR any damage that you have done.

Step 4, MAKE REPARATIONS by providing assistance to aid the wronged spouse.

Then finally,

Step 5, REAP THE REWARDS of being a celebrator and being celebrated by your restored spouse.

An interesting fact for you "Alan Carniol"

Sun, 31 Mar 2024 18:24:00 GMT

"An Interesting Fact For You"

Alan Carniol

David Dinges, a University of Pennsylvania professor (who also conducted sleep studies for NASA), says the average adult needs to get 7.5 hours of high-quality shut-eye if they want to give their best the next day.

You may You may have heard that before.

But have you ever considered how sleep relates to job interviews?

The way you feel during a job interview affects your ability to perform. If you’re tired, it shows. Plus it’s hard to think clearly under pressure when your brain is foggy.

But when you’ve slept well, and you walk into the interview feeling energized, alert, and focused, then you'll have a huge advantage over many candidates.

Why?

Because, chances are, most folks didn’t sleep well the night before.

After a stressful, restless night’s “sleep,” they probably awoke to an angry alarm, had bitter instant coffee and a donut or two, rushed out the door, grew increasingly frustrated in bumper-to-bumper traffic, and then walked into the interview nervous, worried, and exhausted.

Not good.

Can you imagine how the meeting will go? Bloodshot eyes, a haggard look, and sluggish answers probably won’t help anyone win the job.

Of course, in a perfect world, it would be easy to get a good night’s sleep before a big interview. However, if you’re anything like me, it’s often tough to sleep the night before a critical day, thanks to nerves.

So what can you do?

Here’s a solid tip you can use right away: Start going to bed at the same time every night and waking up at the same time every morning. If possible, get at least four or five nights of uninterrupted sleep leading up to the night before the interview. It works because it conditions your natural sleep rhythms and supplies your mind and body with energy reserves for the big day.

You’ll feel a lot more relaxed and clear-headed.

Even better — if you can normalize your sleep as described for at least a couple of weeks prior, there’s a good chance you’ll actually sleep like a champ the night before the interview.

Hope that helps you.

Stay tuned for more tips for performing at your best.

Until next time,

Alan Carniol

It is Spring! The renewal of abundance. "Melody Fogarty"

Sun, 31 Mar 2024 18:10:36 GMT

"It is Spring! The renewal of abundance. The season of growth. So, let' turn our minds to wealth."

Melody Fogarty

The black community's economic value to the United States is $1.8 trillion. So, we are not poor, we are broke. We have the money to change our situation if we work together to build wealth for our families. To achieve this vision of economic freedom and to have self-direction our goal for the next decade is to break the chains of self-doubt and validation through others. We must focus on building generational wealth in the black community using a combination of strategic financial planning, education, and community empowerment approaches. Here are some key strategies:

Financial Education: Invest in financial literacy programs and resources to empower individuals with the knowledge and skills to make informed financial decisions, including budgeting, saving, investing and managing debt.

Individual debt is a form of slavery. Business or corporate debt is a tool for growth.

Unembellished gold, silver, and platinum are forms of international currency. All other forms of currency are based on the concept of "the greater fool."

There are no greater wealth holders than land and water. Both are finite.

Understand every financial term and never sign a contract you did not read, nor do you understand.

Homeownership: Real estate can be a powerful wealth-building tool. Encourage homeownership by educating individuals about the homebuying process, exploring affordable housing options, and using programs like FHA loans or down payment help.

Houses built before 1940 are better built than those built after.

Brick is better than stick and sawdust.

A house in an urban area cuts your transportation costs and increases the cost to educate your children.

Suburban and rural communities' rarely have sidewalks or public transportation.

If your house does not have a mortgage, rent/lease it to another until you need it again, before selling it. Placing an inherited house for sale should be the last option, not the first.

A shared mortgage is much better than individual rent.

Entrepreneurship: Support entrepreneurship within the community by providing resources, mentorship, and access to capital for aspiring business owners. Encourage creation of businesses that address local needs and contribute to economic development.

If you expect others to pay you what you are worth, then pay those who look like you what they are worth which is no less than the market rate.

Manufacture what you need, want and desire in your community.

Purchase businesses with the money you would have used to purchase the business' product(s)

Remember, competition only makes you better and critics only give you fuel.

Investing: Promote investments in stocks, bonds, mutual funds, and other financial instruments to grow wealth over time. Encourage long-term investment strategies, diversification, and seeking professional guidance when needed.

Teach children the five jar method ($2 expenses, $1 long-term savings, $1 short-term saving for gifts to self, $1 philanthropy)

Invest in what you know, understand the business model, and/or purchase regularly.

If you can not explain the business model and how it makes money to your grandmother, it is probably not a wise investment.

Retirement Planning: Encourage participation in retirement savings accounts such as 401(K)s, IRAs, or pension plans. Educate individuals about the importance of saving for retirement early and maximizing employer contributions and tax advantages.

Asset Protection: Ensure that wealth is protected through estate planning, including wills, trusts, and life insurance. This can help preserve assets for future generations and minimize estate taxes.

Education: Prioritize education as a means of upward mobility and economic empowerment. Advocate for access to quality education, scholarships, and vocational training programs that lead to higher-paying jobs and career advancement opportunities.

Community Investment: Support initiatives that address systematic barriers to wealth accumulation in the black community, such as affordable housing, access to capital for minority-owned businesses, and financial inclusion programs.

Generational Transfer: Teach the importance of passing down wealth and financial knowledge to future generations. Start conversations about money management, investing, and legacy planning within families to ensure continuity of wealth-building efforts.

Advocacy and Policy Change: Advocate for policies and initiatives that promote economic equality and equity, reduce systemic barriers to wealth accumulation, and address racial disparities in wealth and opportunity.

By implementing these strategies and fostering a culture of financial empowerment and community support, the black American community can work towards building and preserving generational wealth for future generations.

Regards,

Melody

Blind Faith "Dan LoveKamp"

Sun, 31 Mar 2024 17:55:53 GMT

"Blind Faith"

Dan LoveKamp

Blind faith refers to the belief or trusts in something or someone without evidence or logical reasoning.

While blind faith can sometimes be seen as a negative attribute due to its potential to lead to irrational decisions or beliefs, it does have some perceived importance in personal and business lives. However, it is important to note that blind faith should be approached with caution and balanced with critical thinking and evidence-based decision-making.

In personal lives, blind faith can provide a sense of hope, motivation, and optimism. It can help individuals persevere through challenges and setbacks, enabling them to overcome obstacles and achieve their goals. Blind faith can instill a strong belief in oneself and the ability to achieve success, even in the face of uncertainty or adversity. It can serve as a driving force for personal growth, self-improvement, and resilience.

In the realm of business, blind faith can sometimes be associated with entrepreneurial spirit and risk-taking. It can encourage individuals to take bold actions, explore new opportunities, and pursue innovative ideas. In the absence of concrete evidence or guarantees, blind faith can inspire entrepreneurs to trust their instincts and make decisions based on intuition or gut feelings. It can be particularly relevant when venturing into uncharted territory or when conventional wisdom suggests caution.

However, it's crucial to recognize the potential pitfalls of blind faith. Relying solely on blind faith without careful consideration of facts, evidence, and logical reasoning can lead to poor decision-making, financial risks, and missed opportunities. It's important to balance blind faith with critical thinking, research, and analysis. By combining blind faith with a healthy dose of skepticism and rationality, individuals can make more informed choices and mitigate potential risks.

Ultimately, blind faith can provide a positive outlook and inspiration, but it should be complemented by rational thinking, evidence-based decision-making, and an openness to consider alternative viewpoints. Striking a balance between blind faith and critical thinking is essential for personal and business success

Thoughts?

Make Today and Everyday a Masterpiece! -- Dan

Convocation 2024 "Bishop Marsha Y. Walters"

Sun, 31 Mar 2024 02:45:48 GMT

"Embassy in Ecclesiastical Affairs Presents:

Convocation 2024"
Presiding Prelate

Bishop Marsha Y. Walters

Embassy Ecclesiastical Affairs Organization will host its 3rd Holy Convocation in Berkeley, MO, April 18-20, 2024. This year's theme is "The Apostolic Response to a Global Shifting Culture."

The Convocation will be held at Agape Time Ministries, Inc., 6301 Garfield Avenue, Berkeley, Missouri, 63134 (Bishop Pamela and Apostle John Dillon). Profound and prolific speakers and presenters are slated to bring a transformative and life-changing word each session. There is no registration cost, so mark your calendar and learn how to respond to a global shifting culture from a godly perspective.

For further details, please visit our website at www.iameea.org/convocation .

Vendors interested in securing a space at the Convocation can request a vendor's packet through the website's convocation tab.

Healthy Choices Can Be Painful! "Dr. Cynthia R. Bennett"

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 21:49:55 GMT

"Healthy Choices

Can Be Painful!"

Dr. Cynthia R. Bennett

February is Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month. Dating is a normal part of adolescence. These relationships help teens discover who they are and develop social skills. But because dating is a new experience for teens, many struggle to form and maintain healthy relationships; what it looks like and what it does not look like. However, we have neglected to share with our youth that making healthy choices will not always be easy. Why do I say this? We know that it is not healthy to be in a relationship where there is abuse like physical which we all know involves hitting, punching, kicking, scratching and so forth. The most common form of dating violence reported by teens is emotional abuse. Unhealthy relationships affect a young person’s self-esteem. It can also look like putting a partner down for their looks, grades, or background; making them feel guilty for saying no; pressuring them to stop meeting friends or attending activities or school; or even threatening to self-harm or commit suicide if their partner does not do what they want. Anything that brings negative and hurtful feelings to you in any way to control you is abuse. Statistics say that 1 in 3 teens suffer from some form of abuse, however only 33% report it.

Because emotional abuse does not leave a physical mark, a lot of teens may not associate their relationships as unhealthy or do not realize that these behaviors “count” as dating violence. They often feel that if breaking up or walking away from someone is painful, then it must not be the right thing to do. However, what has occurred is a disconnect between the head and the heart. Your head, logically, is telling you that your significant other is abusing you, hurting you, mistreating you and ending the relationship is the right thing to do. However, your heart pulls on the emotions of the times you shared with this person, the memories you made together; the things they said and did that made you laugh, and you do not want to let that go and be by yourself.

We must be transparent with our teens with our experiences about letting go as well. Parents, educators, and community members can support young people in the following ways: Celebrate a teen’s progress as their goals start to take shape. Have conversations with them about relationships. What do they want their ideal partner to be like? What kind of behavior is a "deal breaker"?

If they were worried about a friend, what would they do or say? Foster open and judgment-free communication with young people; this helps them solve problems, guides them in making decisions, and builds their self-esteem. Advocate for education on healthy relationships and violence prevention. JADASA has a program in place to assist educational, faith-based, and community-based institutions. You can reach us at www.jadasa.org.

Incorporating dialogue with our teens about why some healthy choices are painful will help them understand that every decision may not feel good to them; but they are good for them, and they are necessary. Finally, remind them often that they deserve to be treated with respect, no matter what.

Wear orange in support of Teen Dating Violence Awareness for February!

Leave a Great Legacy "Dr. Dorothy Haire"

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 18:12:40 GMT

"Leave a Great Legacy"

Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

You are making a greater impact on others than you think. Your words and deeds make a difference. You are leaving a legacy whether you want to or not. Your words and deeds may be intentional and meant to impact others. Or they may be said or done unconsciously, nonchalantly, or routinely. But they still make a difference for someone.

How do I know?

Because a legacy may be of one’s faith, ethics, and core values. It may be monetary, or your assets. One’s legacy may come from one’s character, reputation and the life led. Your legacy sets an example for others and guides their future

(paraphrased from legacylawadvisors.com ).

For example, elementary school teacher, Mrs. Taylor, always said to misbehaving students, “You better sit down and act right. I know your people.” She may have used that threat to discipline, but she actually taught her students that family is important and what they do affects them. Adults and parents now, her students jokingly imitate Mrs. Taylor at every class reunion. Them being good parents is her legacy.

Remember the bullies in school who grew up to be absentee fathers and poor excuses for husbands? They took James Brown’s son “This is a Man’s World” too far. They were not trying to leave a negative legacy, but they did. They made you realize that living in the anatomically male body does not entitle one to abuse others. That is why you financially support The Father Center to help men learn to be good human beings.

Following are just a few people whose actions long ago left a lasting legacy for generations to come:

Elijah McCoy, In 1872, patented the double-action revolver.
Dr. Alexa Irene Canady, in 1981, became the first African American woman neurosurgeon in the United States.
Gordon Parks, in 1969, became the first Black man to produce and direct a major motion picture.
Garrett Morgan - invented the three-light traffic signal
Alexander Miles: In 1887, Alexander Miles patented a mechanism that made automatic elevator doors.

What type of legacy are you leaving? Your words and actions do not have to be as groundbreaking as Garrett Morgan inventing the three-light traffic signal or as wide-reaching as Amanda Gorman reading her original poem at a presidential inauguration. Last month I suggested that maybe Colossians 3:17 could be your New Year’s resolution. This month I am suggesting that you consider it for your life-long legacy.

Whatever you do [no matter what it is] in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus [and in dependence on Him], giving thanks to God the Father through Him (Colossians 3:17, Amplified Bible).

Let those who come after you remember you as a person who tried to please God in heaven. If you do it consistently, you will impact more people here on earth than you will ever know. Glorify God with your life and you will leave a great legacy.

Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

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Black History Month "Roger Whittler"

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 18:02:13 GMT

"Black History Month "

Roger Whittler

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Black History month is when we as a nation celebrate the accomplishments and contributions of Black Americans throughout our nation’s history. It is difficult to isolate what may be in the minds of most people when approaching this celebration. Are most people thinking about the Black inventors, politicians, civil rights leaders, or the average Black citizen, who defied the odds? Organizations like colleges, universities and some federal, state and local governments plan each year to establish a theme for the celebration. For instance, Central Michigan University is focusing in 2024, on Black American’s contributions to the Arts. Other themes that guide the celebration include acknowledging Black Resistance, or remembering cultural and spiritual innovators who changed the way we live and behave. When I asked people what they understand about the purpose of Black History Month I received a variety of responses. One person said it’s a time to reflect on equality and the progress that needs to be made. Another person said he believes it is strictly to remember historic figures in the Black community, that does not only include Black Americans but also leaders like Abraham Lincoln and others who displayed courage against oppression directed at Black Americans.

I am not in a position to grade any of these responses to my question; to me all of the responses were correct. I don’t think it is possible for anyone to specify what Black History Month should mean to anyone else. As a mental health clinician, I always ask people to find their own meaning in the past present and future, don’t accept someone else’s meaning.

I often share my meaning as an example for my clients to start with. This week I visited the Marriot Willow Ridge Resort in Branson, Missouri. One of the highlights of my stay was watching the Chiefs and 49ers compete in the Super Bowl. It was a great venue to be with friends and watch the game on the big screen in the resort clubhouse. The big screen made it easy to see the lines on the field, the goal posts, the line of scrimmage and all the play by play action. Each team had 11 players on the field, and the ball was properly inflated. Everything was supervised by referees. The game was played fairly, and the chiefs won. Keep in mind the recent changes to the overtime rules leveled out the overtime portion of the game. I heard no complaints regarding the fairness of the game and I am gratified the NFL is continually looking for ways to make the game as fair as possible.

I celebrate Black History month because it is a time to take inventory of a people who started with less than nothing in this country, and have infused this land with empathy, understanding and humanity that benefited every other human being on the planet. I think about:

Freedom
Fair employment
Fair housing
Fair health insurance
Fair education
Fair criminal justice
Fair gender treatment
Fair accommodations
Fair representation
Fair pay
Fair water and food

In this capsule we call the United States, Black Americans have taught the universe what the word FAIR means. Black Americans took unfairness, described it for the world, and educated the world on what fairness should look like. What a precious gift. It is important to note, Black Americans did this (and are doing this) without a book or a recipe to follow, rather by finding meaning within ourselves.

I often use the words “self-transcendent” or “self-actualization” with my clients. These words are a great fit for Black History Month. These words refer to becoming a better version of ourselves – leaving the less perfected version behind and becoming a more-healthy, invigorated, insightful and in some ways a more mature version of ourselves. I say all of this only to go back where I started. Spending time alone thinking about what Black History Month means to us individually, not listening to the meaning others make of it – is self-transcendent and self-actualizing. The people we celebrate this month didn’t learn anything from social media or television commercials, they got their courage from the internal conversations they had with themselves - on the inside – struggling to find the meaning they placed on what was happening at the time. As the struggle continues in teaching the world what fairness is, I encourage everyone to spend time during Black History Month, trying to understand what is happening around us, and what it means to you. I think Black History Month is the perfect time to take inventory of what fairness really is and how important it is to the survival of human beings around the world. We should all make resolutions during Black History Month to seek fairness, forego our personal desires in some cases, while being assertive in other cases, in the pursuit of fairness.

Daughters Retreat DDR2024 ATMI "Bishop Pamela Dillon"

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 17:27:16 GMT

"Theme: Prophetic Justice|Judges 4: 4-7 Daughters Retreat

DDR2024 ATMI" Bishop Pamela Dillon

Every woman is a daughter of God. From birth to now, women continue to learn their God-given abilities and His desire for our lives. Each year, Bishop Pamela K. Dillon, visionary and retreat host, invites women & her own spiritual daughters ; from around the world to the Annual Devorah Daughter’s Retreat. TO ENCOUNTER FELLOWSHIP WITH FATHER & Friends which births purpose at every level.

As a five-time author, Bishop has integrated her works of recently penned book, ‘Mother, Mentor, Magnate: The Sacrifice of Influence’, with the annual Devorah Daughter’s Retreat. March 14-17th, attendees will experience riveting encounters from licensed professionals and sought-after international speakers such as Dr. Yvonne Capehart (Florida), Dr. Felicia Cunningham (Atlanta, Georgia), and Dr. Erisemary Dinga (Cameroon, Africa).

On Thursday, March 14th, we kickoff the retreat with an engaging conversation between Kristy Snelson, RN, LPLC and Lena Chapman, LPLC who co-facilitate a dynamic mental health forum highlighting key takeaways they are calling, “Preset before the Reset”. Friday, March 15th you will not want to miss the vibrant opening service featuring some of St. Louis’ best dancers and singers/psalmists. If you’re into supporting small businesses, you’ll thoroughly enjoy Marketplace Day on March 16th from 9am - 1pm where various vendors and food trucks will park for the morning to share their goods and services.

Brucey B's Catering Company "Chef Bruce Taylor"

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 17:21:00 GMT

"Brucey B's Catering Company"
Chef Bruce Taylor

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We are able to provide services to groups of any size and we prepare catering menus for breakfast, brunch, lunch, dinners both informal and formal. Additionally, we can prepare food onsite, family reunions, barbecues, family style, box lunches, corporate meetings and events.

We are a proud member of the Washington University Supplier Diversity and we can provide references upon your request from Washington University and other organizations that we provide catering services for.

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A Journey of Recovery and Re-entry "Alfred Long"

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 04:17:42 GMT

"Breaking Chains, Building Lives: A Journey of Recovery and Re-entry"
Alfred Long

The connection between addiction recovery and successful reentry from prison is significant. Addressing substance abuse issues during incarceration and providing access to effective addiction treatment programs can greatly enhance an individual's chances of successful reintegration into society upon release. By providing support for addiction recovery, individuals are better equipped to overcome the challenges they may face upon reentry, such as finding stable housing, employment, and maintaining positive social connections. Moreover, addiction recovery can help reduce the likelihood of relapse and reoffending, ultimately contributing to lower recidivism rates and safer communities.

Faith-based recovery refers to addiction treatment programs and approaches that incorporate religious or spiritual beliefs as central components of the recovery process. These programs often integrate elements of faith, such as prayer, scripture study, meditation, and participation in religious services or support groups. Christian faith-based recovery programs draw on the teachings and principles of the Bible. The underlying belief is that spiritual growth and connection to God through his Son Jesus Christ can help individuals overcome addiction, find purpose and meaning in life, and maintain sobriety. These programs may be offered within religious institutions, as standalone organizations, or as part of broader treatment options within the healthcare system.

Faith-based recovery program (Adult and Teen Challenge) provided me with the biblical guidance I needed to overcome a heroin and alcohol addiction that would eventually land me in prison or the grave.

Teen Challenge introduced me to Jesus Christ who freed me from a life of crime and destruction, exchanging them for a life of victory and hope.

I encourage every Church to incorporate some type of faith-based recovery program. Celebrate Recovery is a successful program used by many Churches! There are many more. Adopt one that fits your congregation.

Many men and women have accepted Jesus in prison and need a safe haven to maintain their sobriety, when they are released. What better place to land than Church? Especially a Church that understands and can minister to the spirituals needs of someone struggling with substance use disorders.

Starting a faith-based recovery program can be a meaningful endeavor, but it requires careful planning and consideration. Here are some steps to help you get started:

1. Identify your mission and goals - Determine the purpose and objectives of your faith-based recovery program. Consider what population you want to serve, what type of support you want to offer, and how you want to incorporate faith into the recovery process.

2. Research and understand the needs of your target population - Conduct research to understand the specific needs and challenges faced by individuals struggling with addiction in your community. This will help you tailor your program to address those needs effectively.

3. Develop a program structure - Define the structure of your faith-based recovery program, including the types of services you will offer, the duration of the program, and any specific curriculum or activities you will incorporate. Consider whether you will offer individual counseling, group therapy, support groups, educational workshops, or other services.

4. Build partnerships - Establish partnerships with local religious organizations, community groups, healthcare providers, and other stakeholders who can support your program and help you reach your target population.

5 . Recruit and train staff and volunteers - Identify individuals who are passionate about addiction recovery and share your faith-based values to serve as staff members or volunteers for your program. Provide training on addiction, recovery principles, and any specific approaches or interventions you will be using.

6. Secure funding and resources - Determine how you will fund your program and secure the necessary resources to support its operation. This may involve seeking grants, donations, or partnerships with funding organizations.

7. Promote your program - Develop a marketing and outreach strategy to raise awareness of your faith-based recovery program and attract participants. Utilize various channels such as social media, community events, religious gatherings, and healthcare providers to reach your target audience.

8. Implement and evaluate - Launch your faith-based recovery program and continuously evaluate its effectiveness. Gather feedback from participants, monitor outcomes, and make adjustments as needed to improve the program over time.

Starting a faith-based recovery program requires dedication, passion, and a commitment to serving others. By following these steps and staying true to your mission, you can make a positive impact in the lives of individuals struggling with addiction in your community and reduce recidivism at the same time.

I provide Coaching and Consulting for organizations wishing to start a faith-based recovery program.

Contact me at:

along@jacobslm.com

(314) 282-7220

www.jacobslm.org

Staying In Love "Pastors Rick and Sheila Floyd"

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 04:08:21 GMT

"STAYING IN LOVE"
Pastors Rick and Sheila Floyd

The word "Love" is overly spoken and rarely understood. We say we love everything ranging from our spouses to a pair of shoes. However, no one ever references "till death do us part" concerning shoes. As much as we may enjoy shoes, we understand that shoes won't please you or test you nearly as much as your spouse will. When you understand this, you'll understand how important it is to always invest time and attention to cultivating a close and loving relationship with your spouse. Otherwise, you might put your spouse in the same category as you would a pair of shoes. This could cause you to experience a less than satisfying relationship with the one you chose to do life with.

Falling in love with your spouse is one thing but staying in love is another. Staying in love requires relationship satisfaction. This involves aiming to fulfill each other's wishes, expectations and needs, and includes actively listening to each other. You don't stay in love just because you agree to stay together. You stay in love because it's pleasing to God and a planned priority in your life.

Because selfishness has no place in a marriage, staying in love can't be one-sided. Staying in love requires knowing the thoughts, ideas, dreams and desires of each other, then attempting to please one another. Acceptance is also required. You must have grace for your spouse's weaknesses. When you first fell in love, you didn't focus so much on their weaknesses. To stay in love, you still can't focus on their weaknesses. Instead, pray for them, strengthen their weaknesses where you can, and continue to give grace where you cannot.

To stay in love, you must have laughter and good communication. Staying in love requires you to be best of friends who care and share in romance. Courting one another is how romance starts, and it must continue if you expect romance to remain. What you did to get them is what you need to do to keep them. Romantic love reminds you of why you fell in love in the first place. Keeping the romance alive helps to lighten the burden of challenges that life often presents. Couples who stay in love continue to draw meaning and purpose from one another. Doing the work to stay in love will create devoted and sacred bonds that will strengthen your marriage spiritually, emotionally, socially and economically.

Pastors Ricky & Sheila Floyd

Your Real Kingdom Identity "Apostle David Rodgers"

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 04:01:10 GMT

"Your Real

Kingdom Identity"
Apostle David Rodgers

In 2007, GOD shifted me into the ministry of helping people to establish their REAL KINGDOM IDENTITY. MISIDENTIFICATION is the primary cause of people not walking in the authority and power conveyed to them through the Holy Spirit! Spiritual masks are developed and perpetrated to the detriment of deep introspection, correction and repentance from dead works. Severing the ties of personal ignorance and waking one to their real kingdom identity is extremely difficult but necessary work.

SIGNS OF ONE BEING MISIDENTIFIED

1. EXAGGERATED SELF IMPORTANCE: When a person exaggerates their own self importance and postures themselves as THE ONLY ONE, with revelation, knowledge, skill or insight, they are masking deep seated rejection, abuse and identity issues. This is where people who ASSUME a Five Fold Ministry “title” feed their lust for importance. The “title” further exacerbates their need to feel “powerful” because their definition of IDENTITY is tied to POWER because at some point in their life, they were VIOLATED and made to feel POWERLESS! To disconnect their identity from the trauma and abuse, they CREATE a CHARACTER who is POWERFUL, IN CONTROL and AUTHORITATIVE. Their brash and condescending persona is used as a SHIELD to prevent people from truly seeing them for WHO THEY ARE. Deliverance and therapy will have to work simultaneously to bring them to wholeness!

2. LACK OF COVENANT CONSCIOUSNESS: A misidentified person will always lack a COVENANT CONSCIOUSNESS. Their assessment of relationship will always be filtered through how THEY are elevated, placed in position of authority and allowed to exercise their dysfunction under the guise of LEADERSHIP. They are convinced that they have all the answers and that the organization is nothing without them. The misidentified USES people, organizations, and support from others to feed their own agenda! They are never truly connected to COMMUNITY. They are horribly narcissistic and never see others as a part of their life! They only see people as a means to an end, which if questioned, they can’t really identify! They don’t know how to love or to receive love and only see people as problems who stand in the way of their greatness! Dictators and abusers fall into this category.

Apostle David Rodgers

New Vision Ministry of Faith

Chicago, Illinois

Voting Rights and Employment for Black Americans "Melody Fogarty"

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 03:52:45 GMT

"The Intersection of Voting Rights and Employment Opportunities for

Black Americans"
Melody Fogarty

Voting rights and employment opportunities are two fundamental pillars of democracy and economic mobility. For Black Americans, these two aspects are deeply intertwined, shaping our ability to participate fully in society and exercise our rights as citizens. Despite significant strides towards equality, challenges persist, highlighting the ongoing struggle for racial justice and equal opportunities. This article explores the nexus between voting rights and employment for Black individuals, delving into historical contexts, present-day challenges, and the importance of collective action for meaningful change.

The journey for Black Americans to secure their voting rights has been arduous and fraught with obstacles. From the Jim Crow era's discriminatory practices, such as poll taxes and literacy tests, to the Civil Rights Movement's hard-fought battles, the fight for suffrage has been central to the quest for equality. The passage of landmark legislation, including the Voting Rights Act of 1965, was a significant victory, dismantling many barriers to voting. However, recent years have seen a resurgence of voter suppression tactics, including strict ID laws and gerrymandering, disproportionately affecting minority communities, including Black voters.

Concurrently, Black Americans have faced systemic barriers in accessing quality employment opportunities. Structural racism, implicit bias, and disparities in education and wealth have perpetuated inequality in the job market. Despite progress, Black individuals continue to experience higher rates of unemployment, wage gaps, and limited access to upward mobility compared to their white counterparts. Discrimination in hiring practices and workplace environments further exacerbate these challenges, perpetuating cycles of economic disadvantage.

The intersection of voting rights and employment for Black Americans is profound, with each influencing the other in significant ways. Political representation and advocacy are essential for addressing systemic injustices that hinder economic advancement. Through voting, Black communities can elect leaders who prioritize policies aimed at dismantling systemic racism, promoting equitable access to education and job opportunities, and advocating for fair labor practices. Additionally, participating in local elections empowers communities to hold policymakers and employers accountable for their actions, ensuring that their interests are adequately represented.

Moreover, employment opportunities play a crucial role in facilitating political engagement and empowerment. Economic stability enables individuals to overcome barriers to voting, such as transportation costs or time constraints. By securing stable employment with fair wages and benefits, Black Americans are better positioned to exercise their right to vote and actively participate in civic life. Additionally, access to employment provides opportunities for networking, education, and community involvement, fostering a sense of belonging and agency within society.

Despite the undeniable link between voting rights and employment, numerous challenges persist, hindering progress towards equality. Voter suppression tactics continue to disenfranchise marginalized communities, undermining the democratic principles of fairness and representation. Likewise, systemic barriers in the job market perpetuate cycles of poverty and exclusion, limiting economic mobility for Black individuals.

Addressing these challenges requires a multifaceted approach that combines legal protections, grassroots organizing, and policy reforms. Strengthening voting rights legislation, such as restoring key provisions of the Voting Rights Act and implementing automatic voter registration, is critical to safeguarding democracy and ensuring equal access to the ballot box. Additionally, initiatives aimed at promoting diversity and inclusion in hiring practices, expanding access to affordable education and job training programs, and combating workplace discrimination are essential for creating pathways to economic opportunity for Black Americans.

The intersection of voting rights and employment for Black Americans underscores the intertwined nature of political and economic empowerment. By addressing systemic barriers and advocating for meaningful reforms, we can create a more just and equitable society where every individual has the opportunity to thrive. Through collective action and civic engagement, we can honor the legacy of those who fought tirelessly for equality and pave the way for a brighter future for generations to come.

Want an engaged and happy workforce? "Dan LoveKamp"

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 03:17:38 GMT

"Want An Engaged

And Happy Workforce?|
Dan LoveKamp

Want an engaged and happy workforce? Minimizing fear and managing risk in corporate training can create a positive and effective learning experience. A balanced approach that encourages a culture of continuous learning, experimentation, and open communication is essential for fostering employee development and organizational growth.

Creating a safe and supportive learning environment where employees feel comfortable taking risks and making mistakes encourages active engagement. When the fear of negative consequences is reduced, participants are more likely to participate and contribute to the training process actively.

Addressing fears associated with change by providing clear communication, training, and support can enhance adaptability. When employees perceive a manageable level of risk, they are more likely to embrace and adapt to organizational changes. Managing change is one of the key process indicators in any corporate learning environment, therefore, you must follow some simple rules:

Clearly Define the Training to support the Change: Clearly articulate the reasons for the change, the expected outcomes, and how it aligns with the overall goals and strategy of the organization. This helps employees understand the purpose behind the change. It also creates a shared environment that empowers those to participate/support.
Leadership Alignment: Ensure that leadership is aligned and committed to change. Leaders should be visible advocates for change and demonstrate their commitment through both words and actions. Inconsistency at the top is the greatest killer of corporate training and the implementation of lasting change.
Effective Communication: Communicate the change clearly and consistently. Your corporate training efforts should address reasons for the change, the benefits, and how it will impact employees. Address concerns and questions transparently.
Involve Employees: Involve employees in the training process by seeking their input and feedback. This fosters a sense of ownership and helps to identify potential challenges and solutions. This facilitates a synergistic approach which will create employee engagement and satisfaction.
Provide Adequate Resources: Ensure that necessary resources, including time, and support, are provided to help employees adapt to the training which in turn will affect a successful transformation. Insufficient resources can lead to resistance and frustration.
Address Resistance: Anticipate and address resistance to training. Identify the concerns and fears that employees may have and develop strategies to address them. Provide a platform for open dialogue.
Celebrate Small Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate small successes along the way. Recognizing achievements helps build morale, motivation, and a positive attitude toward the overall training initiative. “I believe in dopamine”. Celebrate successes no matter how big or small.
Measure and Evaluate: Establish key performance indicators (KPIs) to measure the success of the training. Regularly evaluate progress and be willing to adjust strategies based on feedback and results.
Flexibility and Adaptability: Recognize that training is a dynamic process, and adjustments may be necessary along the way. Be flexible and adaptive in response to feedback and changing circumstances.
Sustain Change: Embed the changes into the organizational culture to ensure long-term sustainability. This may involve reinforcing new behaviors, updating policies, and integrating the changes into everyday practices.

Creating a culture that encourages continuous learning, open communication, and constructive feedback helps identify areas for improvement. When employees feel safe expressing their thoughts, it enhances the overall effectiveness of the training process and makes it exciting to go to work every day.

Make Today and Every Day a Masterpiece!

Godly Men In The Church "Pastor Jimmy Prather"

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 02:26:55 GMT

"Godly Men In The Church"
Pastor Jimmy Prather

The world has desensitized the meaning of manhood given by God. According to the Word in 1 Corinthians 6:9 the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God and one of the listed sins is effeminate. To better understand, this word means with reference to a man having characteristics and ways of behaving traditionally associated with women and regarded as inappropriate for a man. There are so many men who will not come to church anymore because they think that the men in the church are no longer manly men. They remember their grandfathers, fathers, and uncles as manly men and because the church has allowed this effeminate spirit to operate and become comfortable when the church is supposed to be a place of deliverance from such spirits.

Men of today’s church are leaders that are not willing to be fathers to the fatherless. They have a selfish spirit believing if it’s not my own home or if it’s not my church then they are not bothered, not realizing when one man fails, we all fail. Whereas men of the old church would reach out and take the young men hunting or were willing to be a boy scout leader even if they didn’t have a son.

The men of the church are to set the tone but because the men have dropped the ball the women started doing more of the work in the church than the men which set a feminine tone. The future young brothers, deacons, ministers, prophets, etc. have taken on the tone that has been set by the women and the church has permitted and accepted a homosexual spirit to enter in. These men are also taking on the attributes of the women leading out in the church.

Instead of the church alluring - drawing them to Christ and changing their ways, helping men get delivered; they are allowing femineity in their men. Now the only manly men that the young men see are the men out in the world, not in the church anymore.

The resolution to this is for churches to have men’s meeting with the young men in the community. Men that have a trade could teach that trade to the young men. The scripture says how can a man understand the spiritual if he first doesn’t understand the natural. Male leaders can be a father to the fatherless by being a mentor. Proverbs 28:1 says that as the body of Christ we are to be bold as a lion so pastors, male leaders, and the men of God have to learn how to use their boldness to speak against such sin so that it will not corrupt the next generation to come.

Being Pastor Jimmy Prather, I am first mentoring the fathers to be leaders in their home and community then I help them to mentor their sons. Being a barber, I offer to teach the young men in my community this trade. I work with them on controlling their emotions, teaching them discipline: in workmanship, their academics at school, and their finances. Due to inconsistent male mentorship, there is a lack of discipline in our young men. There is no focus on the future; they are just concerned with the right now. That’s why we see so many young men toting and using guns because they are not thinking about their future or the effects their present actions have on their future.

From the beginning of time the church has been the go-to place for food, education, and security and if the men would take their rightful place and be the godly men that God has called us to be, our communities can be positively affected by the church again.

As Christians being bold as a lion, we understand that God has given us the power and authority to speak on sins and hinderances that comes against God’s plan for His creation. As a pastor, I recognize the power and authority I possess so with having such power and authority it causes one to stand alone sometimes. Yet and still with being alone we still have to speak out against the things that are not of God and come up with a solution to bring forth deliverance and an about face to return to God. Isaiah 62:1 says for Zion’s sake I will not keep silent and for Jerusalem’s sake I will not remain quiet. And due to my boldness is why I constantly speak out on these things.

No police officer sees a crime being committed and not engage the criminal so as them we are not to see such sin and not try to help.

In closing, my favorite quote I post regularly on Facebook, “Who wants to give their life to Christ?”

Maintaining a Healthy Self-Concept "Roger Whittler"

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 02:21:27 GMT

"Maintaining a Healthy

Self-Concept"

Roger Whittler

In 1939, Ruth Horowitz, Mamie Clark, and Kenneth Clark, collaborated with others to conduct racial research. The research reported by the Clarks (1939-1950) distinguished them as the most famous husband and wife team in the history of the Black intellectual community. The research sought, among other things, to understand development of racial identities and attitudes among children. One important aspect they agreed upon was that self-concept has two components and was equal to the sum of one’s personal and group identities. The equation they used to describe self-concept was SC=PI+GI, the GI later became RGO.

The SC stands for SELF-CONCEPT, the PI stands for PERSONAL IDENTITY, and the RGO stands for REFERENCE GROUP ORIENTATION. The earlier version of RGO, GI, stood for group identity.

The period of this work was instrumental and contributed to important legal decisions, such as integration of schools. As a licensed clinician, I have found the basic equation these researchers agreed upon in 1939, the idea that self-concept consist of personal identity and reference group orientation can be used to assist my clients in maintaining a healthy self-concept.

My modification of this equation assumes that our personal identity is based on what we believe about ourselves. Self-knowledge is understanding our values, beliefs – our strengths and weaknesses. It also includes our culture, background, beliefs about our social status and spirituality.

Reference group orientation refers to significant others in our life. Who do we listen to and what do they tell us about ourselves? Are they a positive influence or a negative one? How does our reference group, the people we follow, emulate, look up to – reflect back to us.

A few tips I have for maintaining a healthy self-concept:

Personal Identity

Be generous to yourself by taking care of your health, exercise, grooming and a balanced diet are important.

Display your accomplishments. Don’t be embarrassed to display all of your accomplishments, certificates, awards, letters of appreciation. These are all sources of positive reflection that are important reminders of our success as a person.

Don’t minimize your accomplishments and magnify your failures, or vice-versa. Look at the bigger picture, all of the things you have accomplished in spite of the barriers and difficulties, examine all the evidence about yourself.

Be assertive, but not aggressive. We sometimes confuse the two, assertive means we strongly protect what is rightfully ours, while aggression is a negative emotional state that involves anger and lashing out.

Reference Group Orientation

Don’t allow others to shape our self-concept in negative ways. Avoid being exploited or used by others who want to diminish our value.

Identify those people in our lives who for example want us to do all the work or provide financial support – but in return disregard our advice or concerns. Assert your value and let others know when their actions erode our self-concept. These situations may be difficult as others may withhold affection if we assert our value and stop allowing them to diminish our worth. Communication with the people who make up this type relationship, and letting them know their behavior erodes our self-concept can benefit all involved.

Explore your relationships past and present – to determine who represents the most accurate and constructive relationship for you to reference going forward. This relationship should be placed high on priority as the one to reflect on for guidance, self-care and orientation. This relationship should be based on mutual respect, honest understanding, and unconditional love. With this reference in mind for self-evaluation, it feels so - and is more beneficial to our self-concept. For example – my grandfather is my RGO – I spent so much time with him, he knew me very well. Even though he passed many years ago, I often ask myself – what would he tell me about so and so? My grandfather’s answers are always appropriate for me!!!

With a healthy personal identity, and a positive reference group – our self-concept is lifted, and our lives are improved (SC = PI + RGO).

Reference:

Cross, William E. Jr., (1991), Shades of Black, Diversity in African-American Identity, Temple University Press, Philadelphia, PA.

By: Roger Whittler

Licensed Professional Counselor

A Spiritual Resolution "Dr. Dorothy J. Haire"

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 02:08:45 GMT

"A Spiritual Resolution"

Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

One website listed the top ten New Year’s resolutions as

1. lose weight,

2. quit smoking,

3. stress less,

4. drink more water.

5. eat healthier,

6. read more,

7. make time for family,

8. travel more,

9. get organized, and

10. save more money (not necessarily in this order).

If you made a New Year’s resolution, is yours listed? How are you doing so far? If you are not being as consistent as you want it may be because you are thinking too big, not really, ready to change, or do not have a “why” to sustain your decision(s). Do you identify with one of these reasons for not meeting your goal?

Whether you made a New Year’s resolution or not, may I suggest one that is foolproof? It is not so big you will feel overwhelmed or be reluctant to change. And the “why” will sustain your resolution(s) all year long. Here is my suggestion:

You will see more of your resolutions manifested If you resolve to please God as you go about your day.Let me give you two examples:

Example One

Your last physical examination revealed a need for a healthier diet. But your grocery cart is filled with your usual snacks (candy, ice cream, cookies, soda). Please God by taking care of His temple (your body) and exchange half of your snacks for fruit, herbal teas, flavored waters, sherbet, or sorbet. Depend on him to help you make more exchanges each grocery trip and by the end of the year you will have completed three resolutions: drink more water, eat healthier, and lose weight.

Example Two

You received a huge bonus on your job. Your first thought is to join your friends on a relaxing trip to Aruba. After all, one of your resolutions is to travel more. May I suggest that before you commit to them, commit to God because He can and will bless you. “Bring all the tithes (the tenth) into thestorehouse, so that there may befood in My house, and test Me now in this,” says the Lord of hosts, “if I will not open for you the windows of heaven and pour out for you [so great] a blessing until there is no more room to receive it” (Malachi 3:10). Tithe first in the name of Jesus, give God thanks in advance, and watch your bonus be more than enough for your trip.

Wanting to please God with all your words and deeds is not thinking too big. And if you are really, ready for a change(s) in your life, make God your “why.” He will sustain your decision(s) and bless you abundantly above all you could ask or think.

The Church's Vital Role in Successful Reentry "Minister Alfred Long"

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 01:48:01 GMT

"The Church's Vital Role in Successful Reentry: A Beacon of Hope After Incarceration"

Minister Alfred Long

"The Church's Vital Role in Successful Reentry: A Beacon of Hope After Incarceration"

The journey of reentry after incarceration is often marked by challenges and obstacles. In this context, the church emerges as a crucial institution, offering support, guidance, and a sense of belonging that significantly contributes to the success of individuals seeking to rebuild their lives.

There are many ways the Church can help individuals wishing to rebuild their lives after incarceration:

Spiritual Renewal and Redemption

The church provides a space for spiritual renewal, allowing individuals to find solace, forgiveness, and a sense of redemption. This spiritual foundation can be a powerful motivator for positive change, helping individuals navigate the challenges of reentry with a renewed sense of purpose.

Community and Fellowship

At its core, the church is a community that extends a welcoming embrace to all. For those reentering society, the sense of fellowship within a church community offers a supportive network, reducing feelings of isolation and promoting a sense of belonging.

Moral and Ethical Guidance

The teachings of the church often emphasize values of compassion, forgiveness, and ethical living. Such guidance is invaluable for individuals navigating the complexities of reentry, helping them make positive choices and establish a moral foundation for their future.

Practical Support Services

Many churches actively engage in outreach programs that extend beyond spiritual guidance. Offering practical support services, such as job training, housing assistance, and mentorship programs, the church becomes a holistic resource for individuals seeking to reintegrate into society.

Family Reconciliation

The church plays a pivotal role in facilitating family reconciliation. Through counseling and support programs, it helps individuals rebuild relationships with family members, reinforcing the importance of a stable and nurturing family environment for successful reentry.

Advocacy and Community Engagement

Churches often advocate for criminal justice reform and actively engage with the community to foster understanding and acceptance of those returning from incarceration. This advocacy work helps break down societal barriers and promotes a culture of second chances.

A Beacon of Hope and Acceptance

Perhaps most importantly, the church serves as a beacon of hope and acceptance. By emphasizing the concept of redemption and welcoming individuals without judgment, it provides a safe space for those reentering society to heal and rebuild their lives.

The church's role in successful reentry extends beyond spiritual guidance; it encompasses a comprehensive approach that addresses the individual's spiritual, emotional, and practical needs. As a beacon of hope and acceptance, the church stands as a vital ally in the journey toward rehabilitation and reintegration into society.

Pastor Alfred Long has over 45 of years of unwavering dedication to prison ministry, empowering individuals through faith, spiritual guidance and support. God has enabled him to create a lasting legacy of positive change within the prison system.

He can be reached for prison ministry, addiction recovery and reentry training at:

along@jacobslm.com

(314) 283-9052

Female Leadership and Entrepreneurship "Melody Fogarty"

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 01:41:41 GMT

"Highlighting Female Leadership and Entrepreneurship"

Melody Fogarty

Leaders and entrepreneurs, male or female, demonstrate ten competencies including high ethics and moral standards. These people have and provide to others clear goals and objectives while giving their followers/direct reports loose guidelines and direction. In other words, they give the "what" and let their teams determine the "how". They ae the risk takers who comfortably and clearly communicate their expectations.

Successful leaders and entrepreneurs have WOO (Winning Others Over) or, at the very least, they are persuasive. They nurture growth in themselves and more importantly others. These women and men believe in team and provide a safe harbor for success and failure.

Leadership competencies, in male leaders, are celebrated and reward. Too often, women are asked to become smaller or explain away the very behaviors that make their counterparts successful. It is labeled a personality trait and female leaders have to learn to work around the misconception of their personality characteristics to benefit from the demonstration of those competencies necessary to be valued as an effective leader. So, what are the personalities types/traits/characteristics of female leaders?

Note: There is an exception to every rule. Not everyone will fall into these four personality types, however most will. For this reason, I highly recommend "Now Discover Your Strengths" by Marcus Buckingham. In lieu of finding our strengths consider the following: Alpha, Sigma, Beta and Omega female personalities as leaders and entrepreneurs. That said, lets walk through those personality traits used to help and hold you back from maximizing success.

Everyone wants to be an Alpha, few actually are. How do you know if you are an Alpha? Have you embraced your leadership ambition? Are you talented, highly motivated and self-confident? If you say "yes" to 3 of the 4 characteristics, then you are not an Alpha. It's an all or nothing game.

Alpha female leaders are not reluctant leaders. These women are fearless, and they have high emotional intelligence. They are social conductors. People seek them out. They are curious and think harmony is key. However, there is only one of them in the group at any given time. This also means they give an air of masculinity and chances are they have heard that they are hard drivers and workaholics.

Alpha females take risks which often lead to high rewards. Take a risk by showing a little more vulnerability.

Our sigma sister is just as assertive and independent as the alpha female. However, she is a non-conformist. The sigma likes to chase after what she wants. Moreover, she prefers solitude and self-sufficiency over being in a group for society’s sake. This one can and will work and play alone.

As an entrepreneur and leader, the sigma female is independent to the core, never swayed by the crowd. She makes her decision about who is and who is not talented without input from others. Sigmas use their intuition to determine their view of resources, environment, and direction. They are strategically social.

She is a Low-Key Leader. Sigmas are observant, empathetic listeners, intrinsically motivated and value driven. In short, "A Sigma is intimidating, loyal, emotional and utterly elusive.” They are very like Alphas, however these women "are intriguing and powerful, easily commanding attention but also happy to step back when the need suits them."

Key: Sigma females are considered the rarest personality type among women. This is because Sigma females don't conform to traditional female stereotypes and are not interested in social status or conforming to societal norms. If you are a Sigma, be yourself and find social events to attend with your team. Join outside organizations that interest you.

On the other end of the spectrum, is the beta female leaders and entrepreneurs. Yes, she is also a leader. Generally, her realm is the home. She basks in the glow of family, finding success as the second in a social or group hierarchy. She enjoys the supporter positions to an alpha female while retaining superiority to the other females. The Beta female leader is a woman who has stereotypically feminine traits, such as being gentle, nurturing, and emotional.

Beta females have hidden power. They master the art of being underestimated because they may appear introverted and shy, but she can dominate and achieve her goals when the situation presents itself. Her empathetic nature, compassion, and realistic views make her a good friend and partner which in turn gives her access to business opportunities before other people know the opportunities exist.

The beta female focuses on creative work and fields in which she can help others. If she is a practical woman with good organizational strengths, she could start her own business. Moreover, those who can think analytically could go into STEM fields.

Lastly, we have the Omega female leader. She is introverted, self-confident, and intelligent. She values deep connections. When it comes to the hierarchy of personality archetypes, omegas technically fall at the very bottom. However, this doesn't mean that omega females are weak or submissive.

Omega are non-conformists who build teams and tight networks. As beta female tends to be a follower and may prioritize maintaining harmony and relationships overachieving her own goals, an omega female tends to be more independent, self-sufficient, self-motivated, and ambitious, often prioritizing her own goals and desires over those of others. This leader builds tight teams and networks who stay together for years. She is well positioned for success as an entrepreneur.

Regardless of where your personality falls as female entrepreneur, you are capable of leading if you lean on your strengths and manage around your weaknesses. It is about demonstrating strong ethics and safety, self-organizing, efficient learning, nurturing growth, and connection and belonging.

Melody Fogarty

Know Better, Do Better! "Pastors Ricky and Sheila Floyd"

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 01:26:04 GMT

"Know Better, Do Better!"

Pastors Ricky and Sheila Floyd

On June 20 1993, I woke up with a startling revelation. I realized I was ignorant, void of knowledge, and didn’t know that I didn’t know, until it was too late, that I had just married a beautiful, but damaged women. At that time, I would not only find out how damaged she was, but because of my ignorance and personal wounds, I would add to her wounds and worries. I woke up that Sunday morning and realized that I did not have a clue how to function in two of the most important accomplishments I would ever have in my life, a husband and a father.

Most of the time that you hear this 1 Peter 3:7; it is talking about knowing your wife. I want to submit to you that many marriages have not only been unfulfilling, but have been dramatically draining and depressing because of the lack of knowledge. The first thing that we are ignorant of is our Creator. In order to have a healthy, happy, wholesome marriage, you have to be committed and submitted to the Holy One. You have to consider it not robbery to have the mind, the mouth, the emotions, and the motions of God. You will never be able to function in the favor and with the faith that pleases the Father, if you don’t know Him. The second thing is you need to know is yourself.

Most of us have not truly discovered our God Identity. Too many of us get married before we know God’s vision and our purpose. If you don’t know who you really are, how can you know what you really need to do what you are really called to do? When this is the case, we place strong demands on our spouse to fulfill our physical needs because we don’t even know our spiritual needs.

Finally, we need to know those who labor amongst us. Our spouse is our most profitable kingdom co-laborer. Most of us have not taken the time or know the importance of really understanding your spouse’s thoughts, actions, feelings, needs, desires, fears and dreams. Some of you may be able to relate and feel a spirit of frustration trying to arise because contracts, children, car notes and mortgages are involved now. You’re now trying to figure out what to do. Exchange the frustration for faith and begin to enjoy the discovery process of learning to get closer to God. Discover who and whose you are at the same time that your spouse is. Do it with faith, hope, love, and a whole lot of grace for you and your spouse. Then watch joy and peace that surpasses understanding become your new normal.

HOUSING ALLOWANCE "A Clergy Benefit" Darlene M. Davis

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 01:20:50 GMT

HOUSING ALLOWANCE

"A Clergy Benefit"

Darlene M. Davis

Often, we find that members of the clergy are missing out on one of the largest tax savings opportunities. Ministers are allowed to receive an income tax free benefit known as the Housing Allowance. A housing allowance is the payments a church pays to its minister to cover housing expenses.

It is important that the church designates a portion of the minister’s compensation package as a housing allowance so that the payments are not subject to federal income taxes. Depending upon the minister’s income tax bracket, excluding the housing allowance from the income tax calculation can result in significant tax savings.

To qualify for the exclusion of the housing allowance from the income tax calculation, three conditions must be satisfied:

The housing allowance must be approved BEFORE it is paid. There is no provision in the tax code for a retro-active housing allowance designation.

The minister spends the allowance on eligible housing expenses during the year. The minister has the onerous to prove how the allowance was spent, not the church.

Only an amount up to the fair market rental value of the housing can be excluded from income. This should include the cost of utilities.

The minister should be involved in the process by outlining best estimates of household expenses incurred, so the church may designate a proper amount. It is recommended that the housing allowance be properly documented in the church records. The housing allowance should be reviewed and adjusted at the beginning of each new budget year. The fair market rental value of the housing can be obtained by examining comparable rental houses in the same geographical area.

When estimating the amount of the housing allowance it is better to overestimate rather than underestimate to get the most tax savings benefit. Any allowance the minister does not spend on housing must be reported as additional wages and income taxes will apply.

The maximum amount that the housing allowance can be is the smallest of these 3:

Amount of the approved allowance the amount the minister actually spent on eligible housing expenses during the year. The amount equal to the fair market rental value of the home including utilities.

You may be wondering what is considered eligible housing expenses. Well, it is easier to identify what is not an eligible housing expense for housing allowance consideration. Most expenses that are incurred to maintain the minister homestead is eligible except for these three things:

Food. Maid Service. Personal Toiletry Items.

Eligible housing costs include:

•Mortgage payments/rent

•Utilities

•Insurance

•Property taxes

•Repairs

•Furnishing and appliances

•Security service

•Telephone service (base charge)

Other Items You Can Include in the Housing Allowance

Here are other items that many ministers don’t realize can be included in the housing allowance:

•Pest control

•Plumbing services

•Kitchen items, plates, silverware, dishes, utensils, cups, glasses, cookware,

•Household cleaning supplies, detergent, wax, polish, tissue, mops, brooms, light bulbs, trash bags, etc.

•Carpet, curtains, rugs, drapes, linens, towels, pictures, paintings, frames, decorator items, paint, wallpaper, door keys, locks, etc.

•Insurance on furnishings

•Maintenance

•Landscaping, lawn services, gardening, shrubbery, sod, grass seed, fertilizer, fencing

•Improvements such as adding on rooms or other structural changes

•Repairs to the home itself, and other upkeep

Ministers “Double Deduction” for Mortgage Interest and Property Taxes

If a minister is eligible for the housing allowance, the amount of the allowance is excluded from income. In addition, if a minister incurs mortgage interest and property taxes on his personal residence, the minister can deduct those as itemized deductions on Schedule A. The minister is receiving double benefit from the interest and taxes.

Unspent Housing Allowance

The church does not have any responsibility for assuming that the minister spent the entire housing allowance on housing expenses. It is the minister’s responsibility to report any excess housing allowance as taxable income.

The church is not required to report the housing allowance or the fair rental value of the parsonage to the employee nor to the IRS. However, many churches choose to communicate the amount of the housing allowance as a courtesy to the minister. The church may choose to report the housing allowance in Box 14 of the W-2. Or, the church may prefer to include the amount of the housing allowance in a separate letter to the minister.

Darlene M. Davis, CPA

Principal & Managing Partner

Davis Associates, CPAs

4119 N Hwy 67

Florissant, MO 63034

www. DavisAssociatesCPA .com

314-653-0008

Why are Young People Leaving the Church? "Matthew Herr"

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 00:54:51 GMT

Why are Young People Leaving the Church?

Matthew Herr

For centuries, even millennia, the body of Christ grew and expanded with a consistent positive trajectory. Christ’s disciples spread His word to the nations, and the gospel spread like wildfire. Under persecution, Christians had such conviction that they died to spread the good news of the Lord, until eventually Christianity as an institution rose to cultural and political dominance through most of the western world by the middle ages.

During the era of colonialist expansion, many believers proselytized unreached people groups around the globe. Despite the unethical and sometimes even genocidal actions of many imperialist and colonial governments, many populations in sub-Saharan Africa, East Asia, and the Americas came to know Jesus as a result of political and economic expansion.

Recently, however, many of the long-time strongholds of Christendom have been rapidly losing not only influence, but also members. In particular, people in their late teens and early twenties tend to drop out of church at a significant rate, around two-thirds, according to multiple surveys and researchers.

Survey Says

Their reasons are varied, but here are some common themes found in multiple surveys and investigations:

* Churches seem overprotective

* Churches seem unfriendly to those who have doubts or questions

* Work schedules/college are too demanding/conflicting

* Difficulty connecting with the people or leaders

* Churches seem shallow/inauthentic

Numbers do not tell the whole story, of course, and less popular does not always mean less true or valid. These are serious issues with deeper implications than can be addressed here. Clearly, however, the western church has fundamental problems that aren’t going away.

There is no sign that Millennials or Gen-Z will return to church in any significant numbers as they age, so this isn’t a matter of self-resolving demographic cycles. The majority of regular churchgoers and donors are 60 years old or older. This means that the church, particularly in Europe and the United States, is shrinking every year and has not been successful in replenishing its membership.

While some of the reasons young people are leaving are due to wider societal phenomena and the chaos of the world (which is out of our control), we should be concerned about these trends and try to address them earnestly in any way that we can.

How To Turn This Sinking Ship Around

As a start, here are some things ISOW believes can and will turn the ship around:

⦁ Answering hard questions

⦁ Providing an environment for healthy discussion and debate

⦁ Reaching out and assisting the needy

⦁ Focusing less on gimmicks, entertainment, and programs

⦁ Focusing more on authentic community, worship, and study of Scripture

⦁ As always, having faith in the Lord and genuine relationship with Christ

Just because believers are called to be separate from the world doesn’t mean we should ignore it, turn our noses up at those who disagree, and hope things will turn out for the best. If you haven’t already, join ISOW’s mission to Connect the Word with the World and provide high quality, biblical education to students around the world who might not otherwise have access to teaching or community. We engage with students, answer questions, and provide genuine meat to those who hunger to learn.

Want to know more about how to answer tough questions from people in your life? Start with the Defend Your Faith Bundle, or browse from any number of our other courses on complex and vital topics to today’s church. Visit www.ISOW.org to get started on an affordable online biblical education today! To view courses in Spanish, click here.”

Matthew Herr

Staff Writer, ISOW

The Calling "Apostle David Rodgers"

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 00:32:49 GMT

"THE CALLING"

Apostle David Rodgers

THE CALLING: Have you ever asked yourself why people can only hear GOD call them to FIVE FOLD MINISTRY, but NEVER hear GOD call them to repentance, service to the poor and homeless, to bring salvation to the lost, to visit the sick who are in hospitals and the bound who are in prison, or to commit to the health and growth of their local church? Why do people always hear the call to be elevated but never hear the call to commit to intercession? This current generation in the church, not just age generation but the entire population, has been seduced by fame, fortune and influence.

It’s sad when you ask a person who believes that they’ve been called into a ministry office but not called to be trained so they even understand the responsibilities of that office. When a person ascribes leadership to a microphone and a crowd, they’re already lost and in need of good education and revelation of servant hood.

Before allowing someone to convince you to accept a ministry office, that you know you’re not qualified to serve in or even have knowledge of, do the following:

1. ASSESS YOUR CURRENT MINISTRY: What do you do NOW? What can we point to in your church that bears the mark of your servant hood? What have you built based on Holy Spirit guidance?

2. ASSESS YOUR KNOWLEDGE: When did you sit down under proven leadership to be trained in said ministry? How much time have you devoted in the scriptures to be clear about your ministry identity?

3. ASSESS YOUR FRUIT: WHO can testify that your ministry has impacted their life at a transformational level? Who have you discipled in the faith who now has a stable relationship and walk with GOD?

SACRIFICE, SERVANTHOOD and SONSHIP are the three callings you must master before diving into ELEVATION, ENTHRONEMEMTS, COMMISIONING, ORDINATION or the other plethora of new fangled terminology used to authorize the unqualified to assume positions they know nothing about. Being able to preach is not a sign that you’re called to LEADERSHIP in MINISTRY. You , know you, better than anyone. If you haven’t even been responsible for your own spiritual growth, how are you going to be responsible for others? If you haven’t served without a ministry appointment, demonstrated consistent honor and have no clear regiment in your relationship with GOD, leave leadership ALONE! I say this in love! A promotion wont change the fact that your service to GOD and His church is non-existent.

And Leaders stop handing out leadership like chocolate chip cookies! Commit to discovering the character and competencies of the people first. People can hardly get to church before “I SEE THE CALL OF GOD FOR THE NATIONS” is pushed down their throats! STOP IT! Too many leaders are falling because they were commissioned prematurely. Having a CALL and being COMMISSIONED are two separate events! Disciple them first! If they are really called, it will be evident in their SERVICE! SELAH

Apostle David Rodgers

It Won't Work "Bishop Antwain Jackson"

Thu, 14 Dec 2023 01:57:36 GMT

"No Weapon formed against you shall prosper

“It wont work”!

Bishop Antwain Jackson

The Bible says in Isaiah 9:6 KJV - For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace. The beauty of the Christmas season is that it’s a reminder that Jesus the Son of God was sent into the world for our redemption. It’s a constant yearly reminder that we have been redeemed and our acceptance of this truth enters us into Kingdom living. Let’s this Christmas remind you of what was on his shoulders. A Government! A heavenly Kingdom that if embraced & understood is the gateway to your experiencing heavens best while you live in the earth.

Merry Christmas!

Let us continue to Celebrate Christ throughout the Year and The New Year 2024 and always Remember it is because of Christ that No Weapon!

No Weapon formed against you shall prosper “It wont work”!

Witchcraft is real … People may not be brewing concoctions against you, but the word curses are just as vicious. While the first image that may come to mind is one of a Woman with a green face, pointing nose, a black hat and dress, & pitchfork it's actually more covert. This kind of witch hides in plain sight.

They act like an ally to leadership, a supporter, or a friend of your ministry when really they are information gathering. Let's be real. Gossip has killed more ministries than scandals ever have. Stories that have been told incorrectly or partially, personal matters becoming public conversations. How? Because someone in the camp, on the board, & in leadership who take it upon themselves to talk about issues with those who are enemies of the church.

A lot of Christians are just nice witches… they portray kindness with a smile, but use deadly words, narratives, & gossip to try to stop your progress by souring your name to try to kill your favor with people. You've felt it… but you've tried to give them the benefit of the doubt. Your discernment meter turns on around them & you start to feel like something is off, the slick statements, and even the statements to try to "keep you humble" that reeks of jealousy. I declare over you, Isaiah 54:17 "No weapon formed against you shall prosper, AND every tongue which rises against you in judgment YOU shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, And their righteousness is from ME," Says the Lord. You will need patience & work that speaks louder than their narrative. When you’re winning their entire goal is for you to lose & bow down to the words they spoke over you. Submit to the word that God spoke over you & become that person so that when you hear the gossip again at least you’ve proved it wrong by obedience to the will of God for your life. You will see the Goodness of God prevail in your life. Let's change the world, Bishop Antwain.

More Than a Conqueror! "Mesha Lewis"

Thu, 14 Dec 2023 01:48:45 GMT

"More Than A Conqueror! "

Mesha Lewis

I can honestly say that from the year 2016 - until 2021. I didn’t love myself to my full potential. I was searching for love in all the wrong places. I just wanted to have that feeling of someone truly loving me unconditionally. I put up with things I knew were not best for me.

Many times, we get blinded by potential and fail to recognize things for what it is. This has been the circumstances of my previous friendship and intimate relationships. The last straw was in

early 2021, when I experienced my first abusive relationship which included mental and physical abuse. I felt so low, I couldn’t even be a full mother to my child as my son needed. This abuse kept reoccurring until I woke up and took a stand against it.

Literally that Summer... my small business was continuing to grow and God was showing me so much favor in what I was doing , but the person I THOUGHT I loved .. secretly hated it. I remember coming home after a successful event, walking into his home and he IMMEDIATELY started assaulting me. I mean he beat me up so badly that I couldn’t go home to my parents, to hide the bruises on my face and arms back, and neck. Literally didn’t want the outside world to see me. I cried out to God asking; why do I keep running into these same cycles. Then the Holy Spirit inspired me to go to YouTube and as soon as I clicked the app, there was a sermon by Sarah Jake called Girl Get up. The sermon deeply resonated with me and made me realize that it was nothing else but God capturing my attention.

Once the guy I was dating at the time left the house to do his running around … I packed ALL MY THINGS AND LEFT Of course, you know how narcissists are.. When he saw I was officially gone, he tried his best to reel me back in… BUT I WASN’T HAVING IT. I vowed to God and myself that I would NEVER LOVE ANYONE MORE THAN I LOVE MYSELF… I WOULD NEVER ACCEPT THINGS THAT I KNOW WAS NOT WHAT GOD WANTED FOR ME. I can’t believe I was going to move to Texas with this man. Can you imagine what my life would have been like?

I’m so thankful for the power of God because even in your lowest moments, He is still working. Once I REALLY LET THAT GO AND HONORED WHAT I SAID TO GOD--my life changed TREMENDOUSLY.. I haven’t been this happy in my life in a long time . It’s like God was really waiting on me to remove myself from these dead situations so He can really show me what He has in store for me … I’ll always remember June 23rd, 2021. That day, God came and rescued me. I am not perfect but I’m thankful I’m not where I used to be … I advocate for women and give advice to any woman I encounter, whether young or old--to LOVE THEIR SELF FIRST.. Self-love is the best love; which is God’s love.

Mesha Lewis

During The Struggle! "Cynthia R. Bennett"

Thu, 14 Dec 2023 01:34:38 GMT

"During The Struggle!"

Cynthia R. Bennett

What to do when what used to come easy now seems to be a struggle? It was easy to forgive; easy to love; easy to bounce back from negative situations, relationships, and experiences. It was easy to encourage others and be uplifting and positive. But because of what you have been through yourself, lately, easy it not so easy anymore.

I’m reminded of the story of Jacob in Genesis Chapter 32, a man who struggled most of his entire life, as many of us do; but as he matured in faith, Jacob depended more and more on God. After his dramatic, all-night wrestling match with God; he ended up a broken man…and a new man. From that day forward, Jacob was called Israel and he walked with a limp; a constant reminder to him and those who recognized the change in his walk that he now depends on the Lord.

Webster’s dictionaries define ‘struggle’ as trying in the face of opposition; or to proceed with great difficulty. Have you ever had to struggle to make ends meet? Struggle to be treated fairly? Struggle to get up and go function as if everything in your life is okay; when in fact, it felt like all hell was breaking loose? It feels like nothing comes easy to you when you are giving it and people your best. When

we feel ‘struggle’ lingering, it causes flared tempers, finger pointing, confusion, and hurt to come and try to overwhelm us. How can we exist and have happy lives during constant opposition? The answer is to believe in yourself, that you are better than your circumstance; and have a dependence on God. 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 (NIV) says ‘We are pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. Yes, we all have obstacles; we all have problems; and we have all been through a lot, but God gives us an internal strength to overcome anything that comes up against us.

I agree, no one likes to go through lack, abuse, hurt, pain, or any type of struggle however, we must keep in mind, God will give us a way out; when we look back the struggle strengthen, encourage, and equip us to maturity.

It reminds me of the metamorphosis of a caterpillar into a butterfly. There are four stages to their complete development, but I want to reference the third stage: the process the caterpillar goes through in the cocoon. For the caterpillar to break out of their shell, there must be a struggle. If there is any outside assistance during this phase, the process stunts their development. For this process develops their wings to flap and carry the weight of their bodies. Frederick Douglass quoted “without a struggle, there can be no progress”.

We know that hindsight is 20/20; we can see things more clearly after we have gone through them. I am not downplaying anyone’s hurt, pain, neglect from people, places, or things. What I am saying, those of us who are dead smack in the middle of a struggle, I want to encourage you as I encourage myself; continue to push, pull and tug to get out of our shells; our dilemmas; our circumstances. When the process is complete, we will be able to spread our wings and bear the weight we must carry on in life just as the butterfly.

Cynthia R. Bennett

Founder/CEO, JADASA

www.jadasa.org

What is your plan? "Melody Fogarty"

Thu, 14 Dec 2023 01:21:53 GMT

"What is your plan?"

Melody Fogarty

We are just days away from the rest of your life. What is your plan? What are the excuses for not achieving your dreams? What are the obstacles in your way? How long are you going to chase the impossible? In short, if you don't think you can get to where you want to go, stop reading and move on with your day.

For 2024, I am going to ask you to move differently, think differently. Let's start with a vision of the life you want in five years. What would you have to do in 2024 to ensure success in five years?

I know a young woman who was aged out of foster care, had a child in her teens, did not finish high school, and did time in prison. According to most, she would achieve very little. However, she was able to start a successful international business, meet high wealth power brokers, and finish her bachelor's degree while raising an amazing son. The only difference between you and her, is determination and self-confidence.

Would you believe, I know a divorced, mother of three, executive assistant who left corporate America to start a for-profit community center for her children. Using the connections, she made with the city and state as well as the childcare and athletic industries, my friend diversified her efforts into construction management and real estate development. Why was she able to make these changes? Pure determination and self-confidence.

I know a former substance abuser who at 43 years of age left his addictions behind and became an apprentice in the trades. At 63 years old, he started a successful commercial construction and consulting firm. It was determination and self-confidence that caused him to follow through on his dreams.

So, I ask again, what do you want for your life? What is standing in your way? Clearly, determination and self-confidence are key to your success, however you need a mission, a plan.

If you want a successful career, then determine what is necessary in that field to be successful versus what credentials you already possess. Whatever you are missing, find a way to acquire the credential and/or experience. If you are missing exposure or experience, look outside of your city, state or the United States for opportunities. Network with friends and family and friends of friends and family. Note: Opportunities posted at the Vice President above are not really available. You will need to network to get the first interview.

If age is standing in your way, re-evaluate your experience and skills. Use your expertise to teach others, tutor or consult or write. If you are retired, and need some extra funds consider working in catering. Other great jobs would be night auditor at a hotel, concierge, substitute elementary school teacher, associate professor at a community college, instructional designer, editor, or a paid board member.

However, if the issue is money, then focus on those opportunities that value your expertise and experience. This means if you were a C-suite executive, a cashier job at a Big Box retailer will not provide the hourly or annual income you had in the C-suite position. You may be better off re-entering the workforce as a paralegal, consultant or community college professor, board member or executive director for a non-profit.

The fastest way forwarded is to determine the delta between where you are and where you want to be, then close it.

Happy Holidays!

Melody

Rebuilding Lives After Incarceration "Pastor Alfred Long Sr."

Thu, 14 Dec 2023 01:16:04 GMT

"Rebuilding Lives After Incarceration"

Pastor Alfred Long Sr.

“Navigating Reentry: Rebuilding Lives After Incarceration”

Introduction:

Reentering society after incarceration is a complex journey that requires resilience, support, and a commitment to positive change. This article explores the challenges individuals face upon release, the importance of rehabilitation, and the societal role in facilitating successful reentry.

1. Breaking the Cycle: Understanding the Challenges

Upon release, former inmates often encounter societal stigmas, limited job opportunities, and strained personal relationships. Addressing these challenges is crucial for breaking the cycle of recidivism.

2. The Role of Rehabilitation Programs

Effective rehabilitation programs within correctional facilities play a pivotal role in preparing individuals for reentry. Education, vocational training, and counseling can equip them with skills and mindset necessary for a successful transition.

3. Community Support and Integration

Communities must actively contribute to the reentry process by fostering an environment of acceptance and support. Initiatives that bridge the gap between ex-offenders and the community can help dissolve stereotypes and promote understanding.

4. Employment Opportunities: Building a New Foundation

Access to meaningful employment is fundamental for successful reentry. Companies that embrace second chance hiring not only provide economic stability but also contribute to reducing the likelihood of reoffending.

5. Mental Health and Wellness

The psychological toll of incarceration is profound. Addressing mental health issues through counseling and community support is essential for a smooth reentry, allowing individuals to rebuild their lives with a focus on well-being.

6. Legal Reforms: Removing Barriers

Advocacy for legal reforms that reduce barriers to reentry, such as expungement of certain records or changes in sentencing policies, is crucial. This ensures that individuals have a fair chance at rebuilding their lives.

7. Family Reunification: Restoring Bonds

Rebuilding relationships with family members is a vital aspect of reentry. Support networks within families contribute significantly to an individual’s successful reintegration into society.

8. Spiritual Support from Local Churches

Former inmates need support from the Christian Church community. This gives them a sense of community and family. It also provides them with the spiritual foundation needed for successful reentry.

Conclusion:

Reentry into society after incarceration is a multifaceted process that demands collaborative efforts from individuals, communities, Churches and policymakers. By addressing the challenges, fostering rehabilitation, and promoting understanding, we can create a society that empowers and supports those seeking a second chance. Help those returning home from prison to embark on a transformative journey by enrolling in our Reentry Master Class. The class is designed to equip your organization or Church with the tools and strategies to empower, in a supportive community, those individuals released from incarceration. You’ll gain insights, conquer challenges, and rekindle hope, as we together, welcome our returning population back to a future filled with purpose, growth, and success!”

Pastor Alfred Long Sr. has over forty-five years of experience in Prison Ministry. He is a Certified Corporate Instructor, a Certified Life Coach and Ordained Minister with an anointing and passion for the prison population.

Contact him for more information at:

(314) 283.9052

along@jacobslm.com

Daily Success Boost "Alan Carniol"

Thu, 14 Dec 2023 00:18:22 GMT

"Daily Success Boost "

Alan Carniol

About a year ago, Mira decided it was time for a change. She had worked as a historian at the Newport Maritime History Museum, in Rhode Island, for several years. The culture changed when her old boss left, and she no longer felt excited about coming to work like she used to. So, Mira started applying to other museum jobs along the East Coast. After twelve months of perseverance, she was finally offered the role of "Senior Historian" at Annapolis Naval Museum. But there were a few issues...First, the offer was not much of a step up from her current position. At least not on closer inspection. She might even end up worse off, after the move. And that was the second issue.

She and her husband Phil would need to move inter-state. And with a baby on his way too! They both had a lot to think about. If you have been following this story over the last week, then you saw how Mira managed to negotiate a modest salary increase and a significantly better package. She also did some "due diligence" on her new boss, discretely.

Now, it was decision time.

On the one hand, the Annapolis Naval Museum had an impressive collection and a stellar reputation in her field. The work would be fascinating. And, on closer inspection, the culture seemed okay too. Not perfect. But okay. This new role would bring Mira closer to her parents too. And this would be a Godsend with the new baby on its way. Phil completely agreed.

However, on the other hand, Mira had worked hard to build a solid professional network in Rhode Island. She couldn't escape the nagging feeling that, if she held out another year, a better opportunity might come along. Plus, things had improved a lot at NMHM over the last few months.

What should she do?

Remember, even though Mira negotiated a better package from HR, and spent time talking on the phone with her future boss and future colleagues, she is under no obligation — legally, ethically, or professionally — to accept. After all the hoops she had to jump through in the job search, all the indignity of having to send out cover letters and resumes, often not hearing back, and having to follow up relentlessly, often being "ghosted", Mira felt that she deserved all the time she needed to make the right decision. In the end, she decided to accept the new role. Sure, it wasn't perfect.

And, sure, she might discover after a few months that the old Senior Historian left for a good reason and that the grass isn't greener on the other side. But, so what? There are no guarantees with anything in life. Mira didn't want to spend another two, three, maybe even five years of her life holding out for the perfect job, when she could be enjoying the adventure, starting an exciting new chapter in her (and Phil's) life, and growing.

She went into this job search ready for a new challenge. Now, that opportunity was waiting on a silver platter, hers for the taking. All she had to do was accept, take a chance on this, and see where it leads. So, Mira accepted. Later that evening, she and Phil enjoyed a romantic dinner at the harbor. They were sitting outside, enjoying the cool ocean breeze. As they looked out at the lights reflected on the water, they raised a glass to the next chapter in their life's journey together. Because this is what it was always about.

This, here, is the "big idea" I wanted to leave you with. When you're negotiating a job offer, it is easy to get so caught up in all the pros and cons that you lose sight of what is most important. When you made the decision to apply for that role, you had your big "reason why". If you find yourself faced with a tough choice, where your brain struggles to figure out which road you should take, listen to your heart. Listen to your “why”. Until,

Alan Carniol
Founder of Interview Success, Inc.

Review Year-End Holiday Style "Dan Lovekamp"

Thu, 14 Dec 2023 00:06:02 GMT

"Review Year-End

Holiday Style"

Dan Lovekamp

Reviewing your year during the holidays can be important for several reasons:

1. Reflection and Gratitude:

The holiday season often encourages a spirit of reflection and gratitude. Reviewing your year allows you to acknowledge and appreciate the positive aspects of the past year, fostering a sense of gratitude for the experiences, accomplishments, and relationships you've had.

2. Learning and Growth:

Assessing your year provides an opportunity for self-reflection on both successes and challenges. By identifying what worked well and what didn't, you can gain insights into your strengths and areas for improvement. This self-awareness contributes to personal growth and development.

3. Setting Goals for the Future:

Reflecting on the past year can help you set realistic and meaningful goals for the coming year. Understanding your achievements and areas where you fell short allows you to set intentions and objectives for personal and professional growth.

4. Reconnection with Values:

The holidays often bring a focus on core values and principles. Reviewing your year helps you evaluate whether your actions and decisions align with your values. This process can guide you in making choices that better reflect your core beliefs in the future.

5. Closure and Letting Go:

The end of the year is an excellent time to find closure. Acknowledging both positive and negative experiences allows you to let go of any lingering regrets, disappointments, or unresolved issues. This emotional closure can create space for a fresh start in the new year.

6. Celebrating Achievements:

It's important to celebrate your achievements, no matter how big or small. Reviewing your year provides an opportunity to recognize and celebrate your successes, reinforcing a positive mindset and motivation for the future.

7. Planning for the New Year:

Understanding the past year's experiences helps in creating a more informed plan for the future. Whether it's making career decisions, setting fitness goals, or planning personal projects, a review of the past year can inform your strategy for the coming months.

8. Quality Time with Loved Ones:

Sharing and discussing your reflections with family and friends during the holiday season can strengthen your relationships. It provides an opportunity for open communication and bonding as you collectively review the highs and lows of the year.

Reviewing your year during the holidays is a holistic practice that encompasses gratitude, self-awareness, goal-setting, closure, celebration, and strengthened connections with others. It sets the stage for a positive and intentional start to the upcoming year. In my forty years in business, I've resolved to be more intentional, more accountable, more consistent, and more committed. Each year has brought new challenges that strengthen me, even though, sometimes, it's painful. I am grateful for the support of my loved ones and colleagues. Best wishes to all for an amazing holiday season and a fantastic new year.

What’s the One Thing? "Dr. Dorothy J. Haire"

Wed, 13 Dec 2023 23:46:55 GMT

"What’s the One Thing?"

Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

Recently I read a question that caused me to think long and hard. The question is: “What’s the one thing you are most thankful for this year?” So many thoughts flooded my mind as I thought about 2023 so far. Let me share three things I am thankful for because I could not decide on one:

Millie called to ask if I would be her “plus one” and accompany her on her first cruise – a gift from her daughter. We had a wonderful time. To be able to share this experience with her was so precious to me. I met Millie in seventh grade, and we have been friends ever since. Over the last sixty years, we have laughed together, cried together, and been each other’s greatest supporter and defender. She is one of the only friends I have kept for half a century. Even though we may not see each other for years or talk to each other for months, there is no doubt about our friendship. I thank God for putting people in my life who “Know” me. “See” me. “Love” me

unconditionally.

Over this year my Grandchildren have trusted me with “them.” One shared dark thoughts. One shared relationship issues. One shared parent problems. One shared difficult decisions. One shared a state of loneliness. I don’t always have the answers, but I can listen and pray. I am very thankful to God for their trust in my wisdom as I depend on Him to word my mouth.

“I am thankful for being in my right mind,” as the old folks used to say. I am so thankful because I recently read that “An estimated 6.7 million Americans age 65 and older are living with Alzheimer's in 2023. Seventy- three percent are age 75 or older” – Alzheimer’s Association. I may walk into a room and forget why I came into it and may have to go back and start over. But I don’t let that bother me because my twenty-year-old grandkids do the same thing. I can plan, problem-solve, and I have a pretty good memory. For this, I am so thankful to God.

I ask you to set aside some time to think about this question also. What’s the one thing you are most thankful for this year?” Can you name just one thing, or will you be like me and not be able to choose between all the wonderful things God has done for you this year – so far? While you are thinking about it allow me to share King David’s Song of Thanksgiving Give thanks to the Lord and proclaim his greatness. Let the whole world know what he has done. Sing to him; yes, sing his praises. Tell everyone about his wonderful deeds. Exult in his holy name; rejoice, you who worship the Lord.

1Corinmthians 16:1-10

The Five Personality Types "Denizela R Dosey"

Wed, 13 Dec 2023 22:53:57 GMT

"The Five Personality Types Of Imposter Syndrome "

Denizela R. Dosey

Society puts a lot of pressure on families and individuals to be constantly "on." Make sure you are working to stay healthy and balanced. Understand the five personality types of imposter syndrome and how the brain can distort your relationship with yourself and others. The brain can create a pattern of doubts, anxieties, and depression, causing one to believe you are not competent or good enough to experience healthy and good things.

1. The Perfectionist Personality: The brain develops a fantasy or ideal of how something is done exceptionally. The brain creates a standard accompanied by an inner critic or self-doubt. Sometimes, the perfectionist can impose those same unrealistic standards on family members and spouses. This imposition creates problems and unreasonable dynamics for the family. The perfectionist can become accustomed to being overly prepared and overly demanding with unrealistic standards and heightened drive.

a.) This person always places the highest & unrealistic standards on themselves and others.

b.) Often, the perfectionist is accused of being a micromanager.

c.) Even when accomplishing a project, the perfectionist is never found good enough; you kick yourself because you overlooked one minor detail.

d.) You never settle for less than gold; anything else good is seen as a failure.

2. The Natural Genius believes that perfect intelligence must be inherited from a family member. The brain compares and believes that intelligent people have limited shortcomings. The Natural genius sets the bar extremely high and aims to excel in all efforts. The genius often looks at others through a critical lens of comparison.

a.) They judge that people can be born talented or skilled.

b.) They get frustrated and easily jump from their career when they sense failure.

c.) They see everyone around them as achieving success while they are the only ones failing.

3. The superperson (the superman or superwoman) aims to juggle all things to do everything all the time effortlessly. They will not ask for help.

a.) The superman or superwoman manages multiple tasks at once: work, chores, school, side business. You often work overtime, even past your regular working hours. You neglect your friends, family, or hobbies to work more.

4. The expert evaluates everything on how much knowledge everyone possesses. The expert needs to know every detail.

. The individualist seeks to do everything as a solo; I don't need help. The soloist can sometimes isolate and feel overwhelmed due to the need to accomplish things alone.

Dr. Denizela' R. Dorsey

Crossing Community STL County

3020 N. Lindbergh 63074

My Thoughts about Israel "Pastor Darnell West"

Sun, 22 Oct 2023 03:03:46 GMT

"My Thoughts about Israel"

Pastor Darnell West

My Thoughts about Israel:

I see so many believers posting conflicting thoughts on whether or not Israel is still God's chosen or if the church has replaced Israel. Also, some spit on the conflict over the land that Israel has for years just tried to protect/defend as their own against some that has admittedly wanted them wiped away from the earth. REPLACEMENT IS NOT A BIBLICAL OPTION! Romans 11 warns us to stay humble in this conversation because ISRAEL SHALL BE SAVED!

Here are the issues that I have:

1. We must remember that God isn't done with Israel. Read Romans 11. Israel is not representing Him right now but one day they will represent God and His Kingdom with us. This is a depensation of Love & Grace. God is giving time for Gentiles (non natural Jews to be saved) while he continues to deal with Israel.

2. "Grafted in" - the process of grafting is where two plants are put together to EVENTUALLY grow together as one. Scripture says we were grafted into the covenant of promise! Scripture says the wild and tame would grow up TOGETHER.

Tame olive tree - The house of Israel, the Lord’s covenant people.

Wild olive tree - Gentiles (people not born into the house of Israel)

3. Promises ----- BE VERY CAREFUL HERE-----Even if you do not believe that Israel is God's people anymore, my question is what do you believe about the promises of God? Are they still yes and amen? Do we teach people to fight for the promises that God has made? BE CAREFUL NOT TO BRING RELATIVITY INTO THE CONVERSATION BECAUSE YOU ERODE SCRIPTURE AND YOUR FAITH because truth doesn't change based upon situations.

The truth based upon scripture is God gave Israel that land and they have been pressured politically for centuries to give it up piece by piece. IT'S THEIR LAND, PROMISED TO THEM ...JUST AS HEALING IS PROMISED TO YOU.

Truth is 4,000 years ago in Genesis 15:18 God promises the land to the Israelites. Genesis 15:17-18 17 And it came to pass, when the sun went down and it was dark, that behold, there appeared a smoking oven and a burning torch that passed between those pieces. 18 On the same day the Lord made a covenant with Abram, saying: “To your descendants I have given this land, from the river of Egypt to the great river, the River Euphrates..."

On Saturday October 7th Hamas terrorists from the Gaza Strip attacked Israel, fired 5000 rockets into Israel and infiltrated Israel slaughtering over 1300 innocent people including the elderly, children & babies - 40 babies were found beheaded - 260 young people were murdered at a music festival and their dead bodies were paraded through the streets of Gaza while people celebrated ---just to mention a few of the atrocities!

They also kidnapped 150 innocent civilians!

I Stand with Israel’s right to defend themselves and make their country safe by ridding itself of every Hamas terrorist and those who support them...after all its their land promised to them...JUST AS HEALING IS PROMISED TO YOU.

Selah...

Darnell West is the Apostle & Founder of Influence Church

6010 Kerth Road, St. Louis, MO 63128

Influence Church

Domestic Violence In The Workplace "Melody Fogarty"

Sat, 21 Oct 2023 14:21:36 GMT

"Domestic Violence

In The Workplace"

Melody Fogart

Nothing is more fun to sing than "I'll bust the windows out his car" by Jasmine Sullivan or "Before he cheats" by Kerry Underwood. In fact, each as #1 on the record charts. They are female anthems for bad relationships. However, should they be? Would they be, if a man was singing about destroying his girlfriend's car? Do we see Amber Heard versus Johnny Depp differently than Johnny Heard versus Amber Depp? Somehow, I know we would not see it the same way however we should.

Domestic violence is not a female-only reality. And, regardless of gender, it often spills over into the workplace putting security officers, colleagues, and adjacent businesses at risk. More importantly, workplace violence is on the rise.

When we think of workplace violence, we think of active shooters. Actually, homicides in the workplace have decreased. "Despite the downward trend over the past 30 years, nonfatal workplace violence actually increased 34% from 2015 to 2019. This is primarily due to an increase in simple assault in the workplace. From 2015 to 2019, simple assault accounted for 77% of nonfatal workplace violence." ISHN Feb 8, 2023

Simple assault, defined as the threat or attempted injury of another (it does not need to include physical contact), happens as often in restricted spaces as non-restricted spaces. It goes unreported to police and while firearms are the most common weapon in homicides, they are not in aggravated assaults. Violent offenders are most commonly men who act alone. Law enforcement and healthcare workers are more likely to suffer nonfatal injuries that require time off work. That said, the Department of Labor notes that 27% of all violent events in the workplace are tied to some form of domestic violence. Hence, the reasons why we should understand that employees do not leave that part of their lives at home. The whole person comes to work, including their demons!

Let's understand domestic violence. The basic statistics are "44% of full-time employed adults in the US reported experiencing the effect of domestic violence in their workplace; 21% identified themselves as victims of intimate partner violence." according to the National Domestic Violence Hotline. Generally, these statistics are female centered because men either do not report domestic violence or are not believed when they report or are further bullied for not brushing off the behavior. In 2023, we need to recognize what domestic violence is, looks like, and that it is not limited to women.

So, what does domestic violence look like? Narcissistic behavior that is violent. Violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive. Domestic violence is violence committed by someone in the victim's domestic circle. This includes partners and ex-partners, immediate family members, other relatives, family friends and colleagues. The term 'domestic violence' is used when there is a close relationship between the offender and the victim.

Next time, a woman comes to the office to key her boyfriend's car or to embarrass him in front of colleagues by either striking him or screaming at him, understand that man is experiencing domestic violence. When a woman constantly follows a male co-worker, even though he has informed her that he is not interested in a sexual or consensual relationship beyond work, that is just as inappropriate as the guy who keeps sending his female co-worker suggestive emails. There is a thin line between flirting and harassing.

Domestic violence in the workplace is not about men or women, it is purely about power and violence.

Let's look out for each other.

Regards,

Melody

Domestic Abuse: Another Kind of Epidemic! "Cynthia R. Bennett"

Thu, 19 Oct 2023 02:40:11 GMT

"Domestic Abuse: Another Kind of Epidemic!"

Cynthia R. Bennett

When we think of the word epidemic, we equate it as a sudden disease outbreak that affects many people in a particular region, community, or population. It is when several people who have been affected by a disease are larger than what is normally expected. Epidemics typically are classified as common-source or reproduced as to the way they spread through a group of people.

Propagated or reproduced outbreaks happen when a disease is passed from person to person. A common-source outbreak occurs when a group of people get sick after being exposed to the same source. For example, eating at the same restaurant. This kind of epidemic is widespread, affects many people and if remains unchecked can spread like wildfire, touching many families, communities, cities, nations, and the world for an extended duration. Like the Ebola virus and COVID-19.

Well, there is another kind of ‘epidemic’ that has been spreading for centuries, affecting individuals, families, countries, and that is domestic abuse. Why do I say that it has been preached from the bible, in the book of 2 Samuel with Tamar. This young lady was victimized in many ways by the men in her family that should have protected her. Not just domestic abuse, but sexual abuse, emotional abuse, and neglect. Amnon, her brother sexually abused her against her will, which is rape. King David neglected her because he was so busy running the kingdom, he paid more attention to leading the kingdom than leading his own household. He was not aware of what was going on because he asked where Tamar was when she did not appear in the Court of Virgins; and her brother, Absalom silenced her, he told her to keep quiet. When you have been violated emotionally, physically, sexually and neglected; that is abuse. It happened then and it continues to happen now, over two thousand years later in every community, every city, every country and nation, which makes it an epidemic.

Understand this, being violated and not having the opportunity to speak out against injustice like Tamar, will affect your self-esteem. It can dampen your dreams; make you feel hollow and barren where you are not able to produce those things you desire. The bible said Tamar went to Absalom’s house and lived the rest of her days desolate.

Picture blowing hot air into a balloon. The balloon is inflated with each blow; and stretches and expands. As you continue to blow air, the shape gets distorted and the material it is made of becomes thinner and thinner until you can see through it; that next blow of air causes it to burst. That is this epidemic, called abuse. With each blow of physical, sexual, emotional, financial abuse, with each blow of neglect a person endures; on the inside you are taking it all in until that one incident, that one verbal tongue lashing has caused you to burst.

To fight this epidemic of abuse, open your mouth and tell somebody; share your story. What you are going through or have gone through can help somebody else. Don’t suffer in silence like Tamar and so many others who have come after her. You are not your trauma; it does not define you and there is life; there is success; there are dreams after abuse!

Cynthia R. Bennett

Founder/CEO, JADASA

www.jadasa.org

Criminal Convictions In The Work Place "Alan Canoil"

Thu, 19 Oct 2023 02:34:17 GMT

"Criminal Convictions In

The Workplace"

Alan Canoil

For most of my readers, today’s email won’t impact you directly. But if it does, I hope this conversation serves you. And the underlying lesson can help anyone who has gone through a tough spot.

Let’s talk about criminal convictions and the job interview.

If you have been convicted of a crime, it can definitely be a barrier to getting hired.

What employers are most concerned about is that whatever behavior you did before could harm their business. For example, if you were convicted of theft, they may be worried that you will steal from them. In recent years, a number of states have passed laws about criminal records and discussing convictions during the job search. Some states bar employers from asking about this. Others don’t.

If you are not sure what the rules are in your state, you can do an online search for “job interview criminal conviction in (insert the name of your state)”. That can tell you what the rules are.

If you do need to talk about a criminal conviction, here’s where to start. Whatever happened, you want to show that you are not the same person who made a stupid mistake, a long time ago. Your life is now on a different course.

In an interview this might sound like, “I made a mistake. I was in a period in my life where I surrounded myself with the wrong kind of people, and with their influence, I made a bad choice that I regret. My life is in a very different place now. I am surrounded by different people, and because of _____ (my family, my faith, my mentor, my determination to choose a different life, dream to own a home), I am now on a different path. “

Now, you don’t want to get into the details of whatever crime you were convicted of. If you skip details, your answer will be more forgettable. You want them to forget and instead focus on what makes you a good fit for the job, and a valuable member of their team.

Ultimately, some employers might decide not to hire you because of a conviction. But some will. By putting one foot in front of the other, the right opportunity will come up.

New Month, New Perspective "Pastor Juan Conway"

Thu, 28 Sep 2023 03:06:31 GMT

"New Month, New Perspective"

Pastor Juan Conway

Matthew 5:14-16

King James Version

14 Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.

15 Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a

candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.

16 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good

works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven

One of the greatest advantages of living in the Midwest is the fact that

we get an opportunity to experience all four of the seasons. Over these last couple of days we are watching autumn breakthrough the summer with cooler crisp mornings and evenings. It’s not officially a new season yet, but Autumn is breaking through. Fall’s influence is becoming more obvious.

The scripture above is encouraging us to use our influence to share and show the agape love of God, and in order to truly do that we must

understand that wherever we go, in whatever capacity we are called to

operate in, we are expected to :”re- present” our savior.

Much like Autumn is making her presence known, your presence is needed in every thing that you are assigned to. It is important that we resist the temptation to be present without being engaged. You are a gift, but just like any gift, it must be unwrapped, you have so many unique attributes, talents and expressions that your absence, your mental absence, your emotional absence leaves us void of the valuable content that we gain when we get you!

As a student, your school is going to be so much better when 100% of you show up. As an employee your place of employment will be better when 100% of you show, and even if it doesn’t, it still brings out the best in you.

The shifting of a new month has also given us the opportunity to shift our schedules. As we readjust our time to reduce some of our recreational activities to increase academic priorities, hopefully we will remember the value and benefits of assembling ourselves together at our places of worship. I will forever be grateful to God for blessing us with the technology we so desperately needed during the pandemic to view our church services within the comfort of our own homes, and for those who cannot attend in person it’s still a great life line to feed the soul. However if you can shift from being a virtual attendee to in person here’s a few advantages that I would love for you to consider:

1. Your presence encourages people. Some know that you’ve had struggles and challenges but your determination to come to the House of God in spite of the storms of life gives inspiration to your weary sister or brother.

2 Your physical touch. I often say “God loves us all but he’s not passing out physical hugs, that’s our assignment”. We should never underestimate the power of a touch, the strength gained just by holding hands, fist bumps or even an elbow dap.

3. Your gift, is received differently in person. I can “go live” from the beach, and you could view my experience but my “live” won’t allow you to experience the breeze, or feel the sun. My ‘ zoom call” won’t allow you to feel the warm sand between your toes, why? Because sometimes the old phrase is true “ you just had to have been there”. Whether September has summoned you back into the classroom as a student or teacher, or if you’ve learned a new normal where you’ve removed in person worship totally out of your schedule (judge free zone) I hope you consider how important you are to those that you are assigned to, those family members, friends, teachers, colleagues and yes fellow parishioners. I have gone through long periods of time in which I was present in places but so preoccupied with what I had to do next that it robbed me the moment and subsequently cheated those who desired to have fellowship with me. In this season I hope you resist the temptation to neglect your now. I pray that you refuse to neglect the people who gain so much just from you, being you.

If your from the Midwest, you already know that Autumn will eventually take the place of summer and the shift will officially change, I hope you see the value in what nature is teaching us and consider what may need to change in your life as well.

The Princess of Resilience "More than a Conqueror Talea Tanksley"

Thu, 28 Sep 2023 02:28:10 GMT

"The Princess of Resilience

Ms. Taleah Tanksley is

More Than A Conqueror"

Written By: Tandra Tanksley

Taleah was born a perfectly healthy baby. However, during ante-natal, I had complications with pre-term labor at five months gestation and was hospitalized for three weeks, resulting in bed rest for the remainder of my pregnancy. Gladly, Taleah had no health conditions.

When she was twelve years old, she suffered a knee injury in dance practice and underwent knee surgery. The recovery process was challenging for her. The pain was unbearable! She was in a knee brace and crutches for six weeks. Witnessing your child in pain and being unable to do little to nothing to take the pain away was heartbreaking!

The doctor prescribed her pain medications, of course, to take around the clock. Unfortunately, too many of those medications were prescribed, which caused her to be diagnosed with NSAID-induced gastritis. This is where her medical journey begins.

She endured so much pain. Being uncomfortable every second of the day was a lot to take in. It was a lot to bear witness to. Taleah would be balled up in a fetal position in excruciating pain, and it usually worsens at night. She dealt with that for a few days until, finally, I decided enough is enough. I was apparent nothing was working to subside the pain!

I took her to every children's hospital in town. She was admitted for days yet still feeling the same way. I refused to give up; I knew there was a remedy that would help her. The last hospital we visited before traveling out of town to seek help from other doctors helped her the most and gave Taleah just a little relief. That was more than any other hospital had done.

There, she was diagnosed with ulcerative colitis which is similar to Crohn's disease. She dealt with coping with this new diagnosis for a while until one day; she woke up in so much pain that she could not walk by herself. She would use the wall to keep her balance and crawl to get around the house. There were several procedures she underwent to figure out the what and why.

After one procedure, while Taleah was in recovery, she flatlined while I and her sisters were at her side. That was the scariest thing I ever observed. The doctors could not determine what had caused this.

Eventually, she became bedridden and wheelchair-bound for three years.

She missed out on four years of her teenage years due to illness. Watching her friends go on with their lives while she was stuck in bed and in pain took a toll on her mental health, which then caused her to fall into depression. With depression comes more medications. Taleah could no longer hold down any food. She lost a tremendous amount of weight. She was always weak and tired because she couldn't gain strength from consuming nutritional food.

She was admitted to the hospital several times for a week at a time.

She had a peripherally inserted central catheter (PICC)line twice to give her nutrition and IV fluids all day and all night, and by being off it a few hours out of her day—she would lose close to 20 pounds.

At some point, her health improved, and she was able to attend school again; however, she was in a wheelchair. That drew a lot of attention and questions from concerned classmates who hadn't seen her in quite some time. Taleah would hold her head down when I pushed her inside the school or whenever we were outside. She was embarrassed to be seen that way. After all, she was not born with this condition. It was something everyone had to get adjusted to.

I would always tell her, "Don't you hold your head down. You look up. Look at people in their faces. Let them know you are NOT this diagnosis! It is NOT yours! You are beautiful inside and out!" Everyone wanted to help her. They just wanted to be an aide for her if she needed anything. She never had to push herself around school. She had a buddy to always be there to help her.

She decided the social discomfort was too much and opted for homeschooling instead. Our lives consisted of constant doctor's appointments and nurses visiting the house weekly.

At the time, I was still working full-time and caring for my other children. I rarely complained; it became second nature. I was willing to do whatever it took to see my baby healed. I prayed over Taleah every single day, laying hands on her belly. Keeping her as comfortable, protected, and safe as I possibly could. After four long years of pain, suffering, and depression, one faithful day, Taleah miraculously began walking on her own again! It was like witnessing a baby starting to walk for the very first time!

I and everyone around couldn't believe it! To this day, I believe this was her journey, her testimony. This was something she had to go through to see and witness that God can take you to, pull you through, and bring you out unscathed and with a new outlook on life.

Today, Taleah is still dealing with the same health issues. However, her health has improved and is better managed and easier for her to cope with.

She is in her senior year of high school, attending school activities, working, and modeling. She is beautiful, happy, and gaining her weight back and learning to live life, taking nothing for granted.

Taleah's advice to anyone else going through the same thing is to try to stay strong, always count your blessings, and keep a good support system around you because you'll need that.

I live by my favorite scripture, Romans 8:28, which says, “To not fret, but to know—and be confident—that all things work together for good to those who love God and are the called according to His purpose.”

Written By Her Mom Ms. Tandra Tanksley

One Way To Be Healed "Dr. Dorothy J. Haire"

Thu, 28 Sep 2023 00:39:49 GMT

"One Way Te Be Healed"

Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

Whether you are physically or mentally ill, the following method for healing is a viable option you may want to seriously consider.

In James 5:14-16a, James, the brother of Jesus, offers an action plan for healing. It should be noted that it is not the only way to be healed, but it is a time-tested one. I have used this method and been healed.

James asks, “Is anyone among you sick?” (James 5:14a). The sick, weak, homebound person should call for the elders of the church to come to pray for him. This would also apply to those in the hospital, nursing homes, rehabilitation centers, etc.

James taught that the sick person should “call for the elders (the spiritual leaders)” (James 5:14b, Amplified Bible). Today’s “Elders” would be ordained members of the presbytery: bishops, pastors, deacons, elders, and ministers (depending on the denomination). However, many larger churches establish specific groups that are trained to visit the sick (for example: The Missionary Society or The Sick and Shut-In Ministry).

James taught that the elders should perform two acts when they visit the sick:

1. “Pray over him” (James 14c). The prayer should be biblically accurate, reflecting the will and ways of God revealed in the Holy Scriptures.

2. “Anointing him with oil in the Lord’s name” (James 5:14d). The Parable of the Good Samaritan gives a biblical example of the medicinal use of oil (Luke 10:34). If you are not familiar with this story, take the time to read it soon. Note: Being anointed with oil is not a substitute for taking your doctor-prescribed medication.

James explained what the faith-filled prayer of the elders will accomplish: “And the prayer [that is] of faith will save him who is sick, and the Lord will restore him; and if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven. Confess to one another therefore your faults (your slips, your false steps, your offenses, your sins) and pray [also] for one another, that you may be healed and restored [to a spiritual tone of mind and heart]” (James 5:15-16a, Amplified Bible). Warren W. Wiersbe offers clarity on these verses:

“We confess our sins first of all to the Lord (1 John 1:9), but we must also confess them to those who have been affected by them. We must never confess sin beyond the circle of that sin’s influence. Private sin requires private confession; public sin requires public confession. It is wrong for Christians to ‘hang dirty wash in public,’ for such ‘confessing’ might do more harm than the original sin.”

God is still in the healing business in the 21st century! When the elders pray in faith and you ask for forgiveness for any continued sins that may have contributed to your illness, expect to be healed. Keep in mind that this is just one way that God heals. Don’t lock Him in. I pray that you experience God’s healing virtue today!

Dorothy J. Haire

Pastor Emeritus, Speaker, Teacher, Writer

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Careers For Young People "Melody Fogarty"

Thu, 28 Sep 2023 00:28:13 GMT

"Careers For Young People"

Melody Fogarty

If I have said it once, I have said it a million times....focus on careers/work that cannot easily be replicated by Artificial Intelligence (AI) or become the puppet master of AI. Either you are going to use your brain (which pays more and lasts longer) or use your hands (which pays well but takes a toll on your body.) Which way are you going?

The solution is best decided by how much time, money, and quality of life you have, how much of each you are willing to sacrifice, and how much of each you want in the end. My recommendations with keep in mind, those careers that have the least opportunity for replication by AI for the next 10 to 30 years.

Let's start with the question of time. Having a trade or college education will save you money and time; not initially, however in the long term you will be able to navigate the six-degrees of separation faster. The true purpose of higher education is networking/connections and access to opportunities and people that you would not have had without sitting in the classes and engaging with your peers and professors. That said, not everyone has the time or inclination to endure any training or higher education. If that is your challenge, the most lucrative occupations for you are sales (high dollar products/services), the military, inventor, franchise owner, farmer, athlete, or artist. The risk is high and lucky breaks are key in these professions.

For those willing to spend 12-24 months of their time in a certification program, with or without pay, then the risk and needed luck becomes significantly less compared to the aforementioned occupations; and opportunities for long-term consistent financial success increase. For less than 24 months of your life, the available occupations include licensed practical nurse; carpenter, plumber, electrician, HVAC contractor; drafter; construction manager; cosmetologist; barber, occupational therapy assistant; physical assistant; aircraft mechanic; MRI technologist; nuclear medicine technologist; and radiation therapist.

The more time spent in the university setting, the more connections. The more degrees, in relevant subjects, the more options, lower financial risk and the less luck you will need to maintain a steady income. This is especially true if you are pursuing a career in the medical, technology, and energy fields.

The second component to consider is money. How much money do you want to spend on your education and/or certification? Do you want to spend no money, some money, or a lot of money. The amount of money spent does not ensure a better knowledge transfer, it does suggest more influential connections. It comes down to the difference between a State College or an Ivy League institution. (Note: many well-heeled families send their children to community college before shipping them off to the Ivy League.) Further the amount of money spent does not have to come directly from your pocket. There are a number of grants, scholarships, forgivable loans and gifts to cover the cost especially for women and underrepresented groups of people including monies based on religious affiliations.

Last, the most important question is what do you want your quality of life to be at the end of spending X time and Y money? If you want wealth and fun, then expect to spend a lot of time and money upfront to arrive at this destination. In this case, set your sights on being a stockbroker, analyst, hedge fund manager, or real estate broker/investor. On the other hand, it you like abundant leisure time and wealth is not important, then you will not have to spend as much or any time on your career. Finally, if you want to arrive at a high wealth/high leisure time position is the shortest amount of time, then your quality of life will be horrible during the time that you are building your dream. If you are okay with it, then pursue entrepreneurship and own one of the following key businesses: online content development, E-commerce, fashion business, house flipping, car dealership, restaurant, software development and/or construction agency. FYI, artificial intelligence will be key to your profitability.

In the end your career choice is simple, it is about solving the question of time versus money versus quality. You cannot have all three simultaneously!

I Pray For The Faith of Abraham "Marilyn Parker "

Thu, 28 Sep 2023 00:13:15 GMT

"I Pray For The Faith

of Abraham"

Marilyn Parker

(Romans 4 )

The Apostle Paul brings a most relevant thought and fact for all believers concerning our relationship with God. It is of the utmost importance that we understand this teaching before even moving any further as a born-again believer!

Many of us have misconstrued our relationship with the Father. For some reason even being told Jesus was wounded for our transgression and bruised for our iniquities and the chastisement of our peace, all of that is upon Him…and by his stripes we are healed. Often, we do not grasp the full meaning of that. We understand that Christ redeemed us from the curse of the” law” being made a curse for us! We know the blood Jesus shed for us took the place of all sacrifices and because it does, we no longer must sacrifice or “work” for our salvation. We are no longer separated by sin! We cannot break a law and work yourself back into Gods' family with works…nothing is higher or needed besides the Blood of Jesus! Born again believers must realize that God is interested in having a relationship with you.

Here in Romans Chapter 4 the Apostle Paul refers us to Abraham. Abraham is to be our example of Faith in God. It is Faith! Believe in Him. Abraham shows that He believed God (!) no matter what. God was most important in his life. Abraham did not try to work and shine to God. He understood the grace and love God showed toward Him and nothing would get in place Him. No one would stand between that, if God said it, Abraham believed it! Abraham is referred to as the father of faith. It is the faith of Abraham that every believer must have in God. Abraham was fully persuaded of Gods’ ability as we should be!He understood the impossible was possible with God! God counted his faith unto righteousness.

What is Righteousness? Righteousness is right standing with God. That is not your work. What the apostle was teaching the believers back then is still relevant, most relevant today. Right standing with God is simply your faith in Him! You believe above all. You not only believe Him, but in Him. God. Believing in who He is! Your work is merely your duty.

When you fall short you have a savior. You are in the blood, covered you cannot do anything outside of the blood of Jesus and it “count”! Only thing that counts with God is your faith in Him. You may miss the mark in your ministry but if you have faith in God, He is just and faithful to restore you! Your work can never restore you. We have been justified by Christ Jesus alone …we must believe!

It becomes hard to believe that you really do not have to work for your salvation. Hearing the scripture “work" out your own salvation” means obedience. You are obedient because it's right and honorable. You do not pay tithes, attend church, be faithful to the attendance of your church, visit the sick and those in prison to work for your salvation. It is not counted; it does not count. We must understand clearly that no works replace our faith.

Finally, keep up your good “work". It, too, is your reasonable service. Your faith enhances as well as develops your relationship, increasing your belief in God. Works' will not bring you to a point of a relationship. Study to be in the right standing (relationship) with God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit! I pray to possess the faith of Abraham!

Encouragement To Single Fathers "Alpha Nickelberry"

Wed, 27 Sep 2023 20:37:54 GMT

"Encouragement To

Single Fathers"

Alpha Nickelberry

About 4 years ago I was on a long distance phone call with my son, who was 12 years old at the time. I was living in Florida; he was in St. Louis. We were having one of our typical father/son conversations, but then he asked me a question that to this day overwhelms me that at his age, he had the courage to ask.

He asked me if I would consider moving back to St. Louis so that he could be close to me all the time. He said he was ok with me coming to visit him the way I was, but that he felt like he needed me more than ever and more consistently than ever. When he asked me this, all I could think to myself was “how in the world could I tell my only biological son no, if he’s ASKING me to be a GREATER part of his life?”

Now, just to be COMPLETELY transparent, I have always been financially involved in my sons' life, but I STRUGGLED when it came to being physically involved and devoting the necessary time and attention to him AND I DID NOT want to move back to St. Louis. Nothing against the city I grew up in, but I grew to love the Florida sunshine, being just a few minutes away from the beach, and I was serving in full time ministry, which was something that I always wanted to do and enjoyed it. But when I thought about the fact that a 12 year old had the courage and boldness to ask me that question, my response was simply “yes.”

When I first moved back to St. Louis, the adjustment wasn’t easy.

I missed Florida, the ministry I served/worked for, and the friends I made during the time I was there. But I constantly reminded myself that the purpose of my move was not for me, it was for my son. Fast forward to today, and I can truthfully say the move I was nervous about making has gone incredibly well. Through doing what was best for my son and honoring his request, so many areas of my life have been blessed and restored in ways that I couldn’t have really imagined at the time I made the transition back home. And maybe most importantly, my passion to be the best all around father I can be is one of the driving forces in my life.

Here’s the encouragement I want to give to anyone that reads this, especially young, single fathers: We all have tough choices to make when it comes to the things we want to do in life whether they be professional, personal, relational, etc. But I truly believe when we as men focus on honoring the commitment of being there and taking care of our SEEDS in every way that we possibly can, God will take care of those things that we desire for Him to do for us and He will open the necessary doors for us to be successful.

God Do A Drug Sweep "Lanessa Stubbs"

Wed, 27 Sep 2023 20:21:57 GMT

"God Do A Drug Sweep"

Lanessa Stubbs

These pills and other street drugs is out of control. No matter how strong you think you are once you start using addiction kicks in and that’s it. The biggest deception is they don’t think they aren’t addicted or an addict until one day they wake up doing anything to get it. Lord save and deliver our sons and daughters and other loved ones from these pills and other street drugs. Arrest the doctors and those in high places that’s putting it on the streets because they don’t care. There’s a lot of pain billboard up and down Florida.

Since I been in Las Vegas for the past 7 years, I don’t get to see drug addicts because of the area I live in. You got to drive to other areas in order to see it… so it was out of sight out of mind. Now that’s it’s hit my family I can see the real true damage that’s it’s doing and I pray God do a drug sweep and take down these doctors that’s putting it out there.

I was in Chicago about 2 1/2 years and about 50 - 75 white persons where in the middle of the streets stopping traffic protesting fentanyl and other opioids and had signs saying who’s responsible for putting it on the streets but I didn’t think nothing of it I just kept rolling. I just thought rich white kids with drug problems and now I see it’s not a race problem. It’s an overall problem period!

God you are a merciful God and the one who gives second chances when are kids and other loved ones stray for your word and living upright! Break strongholds in their minds, and break them free from the imprisonment of their thinking. I pray for the power and strength for them to overcome! God I trust to deliver and set them free! 1 Cor 10:13 says No temptation has overtaken them except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; you will not let them be tempted beyond what they bear. But when they are tempted, you’ll make a way of escape, so they will be able to bear it. Thank you Lord in advance to answered prayer in Jesus Name!

The Problem with Parenting "Pastor Tanya C. Brown"

Wed, 27 Sep 2023 19:49:03 GMT

"The Problem With Parenting "

Pastor Tanya C. Brown

Someone once said that the problem with parenting is that by the time you figure out how to do it your children are grown. Children really do grow up fast even though it doesn’t seem like they ever will during the days of diaper changes, bottles, school activities, sibling rivalry and seasons of growing pains. As parents we often look back on those child rearing years with fond memories of the special times we had, yet, more often than not we also look back with regret over the things we wish we had done differently. My very wise husband has a remedy for those regrets citing that, “ If we had known differently we would have done differently”. Thankfully, children are merciful, forgiving, and love us unconditionally. By the time they become adults we may feel that there is no retracting or fixing those areas we didn’t have quite figured out when they were little. The truth of the matter is that we have more opportunities than we realize to re- build or fix relationships with our adult children. Now before you put on your self- righteous robe and claim that you have done nothing worthy of asking your children’s forgiveness, don’t be so sure that you are not just smelling your own putrid air. Step outside for a moment and get a whiff from their point of view. If the truth be told your children may feel they have much to forgive you for. Pride, arrogance, insensitivity to their real experiences keeps even the self - proclaimed “ model parent” in denial and in refusal to fix what may need mending. The good news is that even when they become adults and no matter whom else has entered their lives you still matter. They are still concerned about what you think about them, (ignore those comments made during the teenage years such as, “ I don’t care what you think”). Truth is, they really do care and they still want and need your unconditional love and acceptance and to know that you are proud of them and their accomplishments no matter how small. Even with their flaws adult children still need validation. Acceptance, too, of those they love translates as acceptance of them in the same way that rejection of those they love spells rejection of them in their estimation. Many parents continue a pattern of failure even after their children are grown because they do not learn from their past mistakes and when they do they refuse to fix what is broken. This refusal translates as lack of concern and that spells continued disaster for the relationship. Parenting is a necessary role that never ends; it only shifts. It is constantly changing. We must continue to grow as parents and learn to shift when seasons change. The old maxim that says , “When they are little they lay on your lap, when they are grown they lay on your heart demonstrates this truth. Your children are always your children. And, though, your parental role is constantly shifting do not abandon it. Embrace it, own it, value it, and do not fail to love, respect, accept, forgive and be forgiven by your children.

Speak to Your Future "Dr. Dorothy J. Haire"

Wed, 02 Aug 2023 02:28:03 GMT

"Speak to Your Future"

Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. (Proverbs 22:6)

“Be with me, kids,” I insist, “be with me.” They grudgingly remove earbuds, but escape to their rooms as soon as possible so that they can use their phones in peace. I have to compete with endless influence from rappers, friends, games, movies, Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook, who seemingly have twenty-four-hour access to the minds of my lineage.

I refuse to relinquish opportunities to speak into my grandchildren’s lives because it might make me seem old-fashion or out of touch. I am old-fashion and out of touch – and it is perfectly okay! My children are great, modern parents. They are less bothered by the grandchildren’s diminished time communicating with people at family gatherings and the increased time they spend communicating with people who are not in the room with us.

God has given me a mandate through His word to speak words of life and guidance to my descendants at every opportunity. Yes, their parents have been given the same mandate, but I want to make sure that I do my part. There is much to share while I can.

The Past

I want to share stories about Granddad with them. They can see his face in a family portrait, but most of them never had the opportunity to hear his voice or feel his touch. They should know that he had a sense of humor, was family-oriented, and had a strong work ethic. He was a great father who was more of a friend than a parent and loved unconditionally.

The Present

While I am with them, I want to answer all of their questions about me. My own mother shared little of her life before me, so I do not know my roots. I have tried to live a life that my grandchildren can be proud of and want to emulate. However, my life has not been perfect, and I am willing to share certain mistakes with them too. Most of all I want them to know that I love Jesus.

The Future

Every chance I get I ask about their goals and dreams. It is paramount that they know that they can do all things through Christ who strengthens them. I encourage them to think big because they serve a big God. Even though they do not always want to hear it, I stress prayer, Bible study, church attendance, and service to others. I am confident that my words will come back to them when I am gone.

It is important to me that my grandchildren talk to me when they are with me. I count it a privilege and an honor to help train them up in the way they should go. I trust God to do His part and make sure they do not depart from the wisdom given to them when they are older. They are my future.

Dorothy J. Haire

Pastor Emeritus, Speaker, Teacher, Writer

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Affirmative Action "Melody Fogarty"

Wed, 02 Aug 2023 02:14:45 GMT

"Affirmative Action"

Melody Forgarty

Welcome Back:

We are in mid-summer and headed quickly towards the "Back to School" season. Much has changed. Affirmative Action is dead as well as set asides. Scholarships for our black youth are under attack. Republican Attorney Generals, on July 13, 2023, sent a letter to all Fortune 100 CEOs informing them they will pursue civil litigation against any businesses that seek in any way to support minorities. The Republican Attorney Generals couched their threat in the words of "race-neutral" policies in employment and contracting. Casually brushing aside, the continued bigotry of society and underplaying the injuries and injustices of their predecessors. These AGs insist we have moved beyond racial classifications. If this is true, there must be redress before we can move forward.

“In [the school year 2019–20, the U.S. average adjusted cohort graduation rate (ACGR) for public high school students was 87 percent, the highest it has been since the rate was first measured in 2010–11 (79 percent). Asian/Pacific Islander students had the highest ACGR (93 percent), followed by White (90 percent), Hispanic (83 percent), Black (81 percent), and American Indian/Alaska Native (75 percent) students.”

According to the Integrated Postsecondary Education Data System (IPEDS) Date Feedback Report 2022, White Males represented 56% of students enrolled in American Trade Schools; 42% Black; 2% Hispanic; 2% Women. In terms of graduation, 63% are White, 37% Black, and 33% Hispanic. ( https://nces.ed.gov/programs/coe/indicator/coi/high-school-graduation-rates?tid=4 )

Redress comes in the form of reparations. We need lawyers, physicians, accountants, technologists, business owners, etc. The concepts of no formal education beyond high school and breaking the paper ceiling is not for African Americans. They are seductive illusions meant to dumb down the population. The purpose of college/university education is to teach logic, analysis, and research. The purpose of the college/university campus is to give you a network. You don't go to Harvard solely for education, you go for the network!

For those born without money, social status, or access, the opportunity to network with the privileged is vital in moving your career forward. You have been sold a bag of hogwash if you think for one second that the wealthy are not insisting their children continue their educations beyond high school. Trust, those wealthy children who do not or cannot adhere to acquiring a higher education are not in control of their family's assets or future.

So, what is our next move? We must unite, rebuild, reinvest, and move forward using the remaining tools in our arsenal, education. Investment in Historical Black Colleges and Universities (HBCUs) and scholarships for higher education and trade programs. Focus on African American women as their freedom and equality ensure freedom and equality for both African Americans and women. Educate your daughters. Either send them to university or send them into the trades, not cosmetology rather plumbing, electrical, HVAC, carpentry. Move your children beyond entertainment and sports. They need to be able to write and read contracts. They must understand investments. We must be self-sustaining!

Charles Barkley often speaks about his visits to schools. He says when he visits white schools, the kids want to be doctors and lawyers and only 10% want to be athletes and entertainers. When he visits black schools, 10% want to be doctors and lawyers while 90% want to be athletes and entertainers. Or, think of Shaq. He talks about the importance of being able to read a contract. How many of people have lost their wealth, assets, and positions because they can not read the contracts and correspondence?

One of the most lucrative opportunities for youth, specifically African Americans and women, is the construction industry. If you are not suited for a college education, consider the trades. There is a shortage of plumbers, electricians, and carpenters. Their work is not easily replicated by automation. The pay is in the six figures. There is growth and independence. That said, Black women are underrepresented in the construction industry, both in terms of gender and racial diversity. This lack of representation has resulted in limited opportunities for advancement, unequal access to resources, and a sense of isolation within the workplace. We must persevere.

There is more to share... over 767,992 construction workers currently employed in the United States. Construction workers are 89% more likely to work at private companies in comparison to public companies. Only 47,616 are women, while 93.8% are men. The average construction worker's age is 38 years old. · The most common ethnicity of construction workers is White (52.9%), followed by Hispanic or Latino (27.7%), Black or African American (85,247 people), and Unknown (4.0%). By the way, 2% of all construction workers are LGBT. Despite everything, the trades and the construction industry are a means to close the wealth gap.

“Aug. 3 is Black Women’s Equal Pay Day. It marks the additional 214 days that Black women must work to catch up with what white, non-Hispanic men earned last year. In essence, Black women have to work for 579 days to make what white men do in 365, that is 1,141.33 hours of overtime.

What is your next move?

Regards

Melody Fogarty

I Call Her A Young Miracle "Dr. Denizela' R. Dorsey"

Wed, 02 Aug 2023 02:14:42 GMT

"I Call Her A Young Miracle "

Dr. Denizela' R. Dorsey"

Granted permission to share I call her a young miracle. Her story will bless you. When I met her and her family, her school district had already labeled her with a learning disability and said she was unable to read. Her mother and father refused to accept the label. She was receiving SSD services only & reading at a 1st grade level. Her family hired me and committed to the process. Due to severity, she and I met twice weekly for 1 hour. Today this young butterfly was tested out of her School District Reading Requirements. She has no educational label & now reads on College Freshmen level. Her school district asked her parents to tell them what that lady did… well here it.

The human brain can be reprogrammed, that is how God created it. I used psycho educational methods that I learned at the Menninger’s Clinic and my neuroscience classes at KU and watched God perform a life changing miracle. Today, no behavioral issues, no labels, all A’s, and a bonified reading & comprehension machine. Please note this new Guided Reading Method does not work for all kids.

Dr. Denizela' R. Dorsey

Crossing Community STL County

3020 N. Lindbergh 63074

(314) 395-1308

Email: d.denizela@gmail.com

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It's Simple, We Make it Difficult! "Dan Lovekamp"

Wed, 02 Aug 2023 02:14:40 GMT

"It's Simple, We Make it Difficult!"

Dan Lovekamp

Hey everybody, as usual, I was reading an article this morning that inspired this topic. This article addressed the importance of accountability in creating a successful sales career. I thought to myself, that isn't just about sales, it's about life. Choice, Attitude, Skills & Habits. CASH - the four secrets to success in a sales career. But aren't these the same for everything we do? In my boot camp, I mention the importance of these words in your career and your life:

Accountability - Intentionality - Consistency - Perseverance.

Accountability: accountability is crucial for personal growth, trust-building, goal achievement, healthy relationships, professional development, ethical behavior, and personal empowerment. It is an essential attribute that contributes to both individual success and society's overall well-being. Personal Growth: Taking accountability for your actions and decisions allows you to learn from your mistakes and grow as an individual. When you acknowledge your role in both successes and failures, you can reflect on what went well and what could have been done differently, leading to self-improvement.

Trust and Integrity: Being accountable builds trust and credibility with others. When you hold yourself accountable, people see you as reliable and responsible. It demonstrates that you are someone who can be counted on, which enhances your relationships and reputation.

Goal Achievement: Accountability plays a crucial role in achieving personal and professional goals. By holding yourself accountable, you take ownership of your objectives and commit to taking the necessary actions to accomplish them. This helps you stay focused, motivated, and persistent, increasing your chances of success.

Healthy Relationships: Accountability fosters healthier and more fulfilling relationships with others. When you are accountable, you are willing to admit when you make mistakes, apologize, and make amends. This builds trust and encourages open communication, creating stronger bonds with family, friends, and colleagues.

Professional Development: Accountability is essential for individual and organizational success in the workplace. Being accountable for your tasks and responsibilities ensures that work is completed efficiently and on time. It also enables teamwork and collaboration, as team members can rely on each other to fulfill their commitments.

Ethical Behavior: Accountability promotes ethical behavior and discourages unethical actions. When you hold yourself accountable, you are more likely to make ethical choices and take responsibility for the consequences of your decisions. This contributes to a more just and responsible society.

Personal Empowerment: Taking accountability empowers you to take control of your life. Instead of blaming external factors or circumstances, you recognize that you have the power to shape your own destiny. This mindset encourages proactive behavior and a sense of agency, leading to personal fulfillment and satisfaction.

Intentionality: Intentionality is important because it provides direction, meaning, and purpose to our actions. It helps us set goals, make decisions, grow personally, communicate effectively, and achieve success. By cultivating intentionality, individuals can lead more fulfilling and purposeful lives.

Consistency: Consistency plays a vital role in personal growth, goal achievement, building trust, emotional stability, skill development, and long-term success. It provides the foundation for positive habits, allows for progress and improvement, and enhances our overall well-being and effectiveness in various areas of life.

Perserverance: Perseverance is a crucial quality that can significantly impact our lives. It refers to the ability to persist in the face of challenges, setbacks, and obstacles, and to maintain the determination to achieve our goals. Perseverance is often associated with resilience, grit, and a strong work ethic. In life, we inevitably encounter various difficulties and roadblocks. Whether it's personal goals, academic pursuits, career aspirations, or relationships, challenges can arise at any point. This is where perseverance becomes vital. Remember, perseverance is not about blindly persisting in the face of insurmountable obstacles. It's about adapting, learning, and finding alternative paths toward your goals. By cultivating perseverance, you can navigate life's challenges with determination, and resilience, and increase your chances of success.

This is how my day started. Hope you find value in my musings. #MakeTodayandEverydayaMasterpiece! See ya soon, Dan

How to make job interviews less draining as an introvert "Alan Carniol"

Wed, 02 Aug 2023 02:14:33 GMT

"How To Make Job Interviews Less

Draining As An Introvert "

Alan Caniol

It turns out, there's a GOOD reason why introverts like us find job interviews (and parties) so exhausting — one that has a sound scientific basis.

Do you want to know what it is?

Well, as you know (if you've been reading my emails for a while), because of the way our brains are wired, we introverts are more sensitive to stimulation.

And we're particularly sensitive to novelty.

This is why we tend to find parties, networking events, and, especially, job interviews so exhausting. Because we're in a novel environment, where almost everything around us looks new, sounds new, and feels new. And, we absorb it all at a "turned-up volume" compared to our extroverted peers.

And so it follows...

If you want to feel less drained, less overwhelmed, less exhausted at the next job interview you attend, the best way is to reduce the novelty factor.

How?

There are several things you can do:

First, if you can, spend some time in the building where the interview will take place. Make it feel like a familiar place.

Second, use Google, LinkedIn, or even Facebook to "scope out" your interviewers ahead of time. Find out what they look like. Try to find videos or audio recordings, so you know how they sound. Learn about them.

Finally — and this is the most powerful one — practice: use virtual interview simulator software to practice answering the most common interview questions under time pressure. And keep practicing until you are comfortable.

These three things will take most of the novelty away.

When you walk into your next interview, the place will feel familiar and comfortable, the interviewers will feel familiar and comfortable, and even the questions they ask you will feel familiar and comfortable.

You can relax

Congratulations to Ms. Serenity Keona Allison

Wed, 02 Aug 2023 02:14:14 GMT

"Congratulations"

Ms. Serenity Keona Allison

Congratulations to Ms. Serenity Keona Allison. Recipient of the Sparkman Thomas and Dr. Bessie Reece Educational Scholarship Serenity Keona Marie Allison, born to Jaunita Harden and Kenneth Allison on 3/12/2005.

She was born 3lbs 9 oz. Serenity loves the Lord and her family. She enjoys going to church, reading, making YouTube videos and writing music and singing and dancing with her two younger brothers. Anytime she gets to spend time with her family she’s her happiest. Serenity started a YouTube channel in 2020 to highlight her many of talents and loves.

Serenity has released her own music on all music platforms, but is now changing her music up to just Spiritual uplifting music so that she can share her relationship with God with the World. Serenity has been a straight A student her whole life. She graduated from McCluer North High school May of 2023. Where she ranked in the top 20 of her graduating class.

Serenity finished school early and worked at McDonald’s where she has worked her way up the corporate ladder and became Manager in 1 short year. Serenity’s childhood was fun but she faced two hard deaths losing her two very best friends and role models her grandmother Bernice Harden (Poohdah) in December 2015 and her mother Juanita Harden in December 2022. We Salute this young lady and wish her great success at Lindenwood University.

The Fear of The LORD "Prophet Daniel Pringle"

Tue, 01 Aug 2023 01:17:57 GMT

"THE FEAR OF THE LORD "

Prophet Daniel Pringle

The Church has become too casual and too familiar in approaching a thrice Holy God. I recall coming up in ministry that you wouldn’t even dare step on a platform if your life wasn’t right. Our pulpits have become polluted with flesh. We have concerts rather than worship experiences. We have Sunday morning motivational speakers rather than preachers of the gospel of Jesus Christ. The Levites are no longer sanctified. The fear of the Lord is no longer present in the hearts of the people and in the church. The fear of the Lord must return. The fear of the Lord is predicated on the holiness of God. He is still Holy, Holy , Holy.

But there is a remnant that is rising that walks in the fear of the Lord. The true Levite’s will usher in a sound that will bring in such a presence that the hearts of men will melt like wax. The fear of the Lord must be in our songs, the fear of the Lord must return to the pulpits , the fear of the Lord must return to our gatherings. The fear of the Lord must be in our messages, and we must return to preaching that produces conviction and not a happy good time. Without the fear of the Lord, we are just having religious entertainment fooling ourselves that this is good enough and satisfactory to a Holy God. Don’t be deceived. He is still and always will be Holy, Holy , Holy.

Prophet Daniel Pringle

Gripping Your Purpose "Apostle David Rodgers"

Tue, 01 Aug 2023 00:49:18 GMT

"Gripping Your Purpose"
Apostle David Rodgers

The path to purity goes through the valley of PURPOSE. PURPOSE is not just what you are

called to DO, but what you are called to BE! The processes GOD has chosen to use, to develop

YOU TO BE, must be GRIPPED! Processes produce PURPOSE, and the processes vary in degrees

of intensity based on GOD’s ordained plan for your life. Most people fail, because the

PROCESSES look and feel nothing like the glory of the PURPOSE! So when what they want to

DO, flies contrary to what GOD has designed them to be, most OPT OUT!

HOLINESS is the objective! Your name on an flyer or you preaching on a platform is a distant

second to you living right! So many get caught up in the spectacle of ministry that they become

seduced by the noise and the obstacles versus becoming greater lovers of GOD and His

Presence!

Our PURPOSE is to represent CHRIST, HIS CROSS and HIS KINGDOM and allow HIM to elevate

our influence. Stop worrying about who’s not supporting you or working with you and focus on

the GOD who called you according to HIS PURPOSE, that’s the only way ALL THINGS WORK

TOGETHER FOR YOUR GOOD!

“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are

the called according to His purpose. For whom He foreknew, He also predestined to conform to

the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brethren. Moreover, whom He

predestined, these He also called; whom He called, these He also justified; and whom He

justified, these He also glorified.”

Romans‬

Self-Love of the Authentic Self "Elder Kristy Snelson MA, BSN, LPC"

Tue, 01 Aug 2023 00:41:47 GMT

“Self-Love of the Authentic Self”
Elder Kristy Snelson

MA, BSN, LPC

“Self-Love only counts for your AUTHENTIC self. You can’t self-love a false personality.” This is a quote I wrote on Facebook that really registered with a lot of ppl. Why? I truly believe many people have fallen in love with the personality that was built to protect them from reliving the trauma.

We create an entire mindset and lifestyle surrounding this false identity. We become the overprotective individual who was never protected. We become the rude outspoken person because our voice was silenced, and then follow up with the statement “It’s just me and I’m being real.” We become the codependent passive personality to avoid others from walking out of our lives because we don’t want to be abandoned again.

How do individuals create this personality? We become our own savior. People tend to step into the place of becoming their own healer and safety when their souls can’t take another hit. Human beings are great nurturers of wounds. The nurturing role that assists with the creation of this false personality becomes the parent of our broken inner child. Eventually, the lines become blurred because we don’t know reality from the globe created in our minds from the wound. We get offended if someone attempts to reveal the truth to us. We get offended by the truth because we live and believe the lie. I’ve literally had clients book sessions just to prove to me how horrible they really are. They get angry and state, “Nobody knows or understands me! Even you!” I believe this is the great revelation on why Jesus responded the way he did when the disciples mentioned he had offended the pharisee. The pharisee were so blind to the truth, that the truth appeared as an enemy and a lie.

Side note: Anger is not an emotion, but really a defense mechanism. Anger is the protection of the vulnerable place we are often too afraid to discover and expose.

Self-love is created for who God created us to be in eternity. It is dangerous to nurture and love falsehood. You can’t create a self-love regimen for something that was not mentioned in eternity. The emotional freedom and abundance that you are waiting on is only predestined for your authentic self. It’s like a magnet. It’s only attracted to the personality God created. If we take on any other personality, it can’t locate you. A false personality causes a malfunction in the spiritual GPS.

I too struggled with a false personality. I thought I was this mean and harsh woman. I was rude to my leaders and fellow ministers. I was mean to my children. Vulnerability was weakness. Expressing emotions meant you were inferior in my eyes. Thank God for the blood of Jesus! The DNA was exchanged at the cross and now I am a new creation in Christ! Hallelujah! After the exchange I started apologizing to my children. I became more open with the people I loved. I had to do a major repentance tour! I couldn’t love people or receive love because I didn’t love myself.

So how do you discover your authentic self? This is the question I ask clients all the time: If God took away the residue of the trauma along with every fear while you are sleeping, who would that person be when you woke up? I want you to stop and answer that before you continue reading this article.

The answer or person that you thought of is the person that was with God in eternity before you entered your mother’s womb. You master self-love by allowing that person to make the decisions in your life. You start choosing that person long enough, you’ll become them. You’ll begin to accept every flaw and every quirk.

What is the false narrative that you’ve been telling yourself? I want to challenge you to step into your eternal self and love that person because that person already knows where you are going. Blessings!

Elder Kristy Snelson MA, BSN, LPC

beforeaftercounseling@gmail.com

linktr.ee/thetalklady_

The Shield and The Dove: The Dual Nature of Fatherhood "James Dickerson"

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 05:32:51 GMT

Title: The Shield and the Dove: The Dual Nature of Fatherhood
James Dickerson

As Father's Day approaches, I find myself reflecting on the incredible journey of fatherhood and the profound impact it has had on my life. Being a father to eleven children has been both a privilege and a challenge, requiring me to embody the dual nature of strength and tenderness, protection, and comfort. Yet, amidst the joys and triumphs, I have faced what I consider to be the greatest test of my fatherhood: the loss of my beloved 14-year-old daughter, Spirit, to suicide.

Nine months ago, our family was shattered by the unbearable pain of Spirit's tragic passing. She was a radiant soul, full of life and hope, but the relentless torment of bullying and cyberbullying eroded her spirit, leading her into the depths of depression. The weight of this loss has tested the very core of my being as a father, challenging me to reconcile the roles of a shield and a dove.

A shield, traditionally seen as a symbol of protection, is a vital aspect of fatherhood. We fathers are tasked with shielding our children from harm, whether it be physical, emotional, or spiritual. We stand as guardians, willing to take a blow for them, to shield them from the arrows of the world. But sometimes, despite our best efforts, the enemy manages to strike a blow that pierces even the strongest defenses.

In the face of such devastating loss, it is natural to question our ability to protect our children. We may be haunted by the nagging thoughts of "What if I had done more? What if I had recognized the signs? Could I have shielded her from this torment?" These questions gnaw at our souls, threatening to undermine our sense of purpose as fathers.

Yet, it is in these darkest moments that the other aspect of fatherhood, the nature of a dove, reveals itself. A dove symbolizes peace, love, and tenderness. It embodies the comforting and nurturing qualities of a father, reminding us that even amidst the storm, we can provide solace and support for our children. We can be a refuge, a source of unwavering love and understanding.

When Spirit left us, I was faced with the immense responsibility of comforting my grieving family while grappling with my own grief. In the depths of my pain, I turned to my faith, seeking solace and guidance. Through Christ, I found the strength to be both a shield and a dove—a source of unwavering strength for my family while also providing them with the tender love and support they needed.

During my own grief, I discovered that the dual nature of fatherhood is not about striking a perfect balance between toughness and tenderness. It is about embracing the tension between the two, recognizing that our strength does not negate our ability to be tender, nor does our tenderness diminish our strength.

As fathers, we are called to be both strong and vulnerable, protectors and nurturers. We must be willing to fight the battles that our children cannot fight alone, and also extend a hand of compassion and understanding when they stumble and fall. We must encourage open communication, teach them resilience, and be their safe harbor in times of distress.

While I continue to grapple with the heart-wrenching loss of my daughter, I draw strength from the knowledge that her memory lives on within each of us. I strive to honor her legacy by being a shield against injustice, standing up against bullying, and creating a safe and loving environment for my remaining children. I am determined to advocate for mental health awareness and support, so that no other family has to endure the pain we have endured.

To all fathers out there, I encourage you to embrace the dual nature of your role with grace and humility. Be both.

Happy Father’s Day "Alfred Long"

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 05:19:28 GMT

Happy Father’s Day
Alfred Long

Happy Father’s Day

As we celebrate Father’s Day this Sunday, please remember our justice-involved father’s trapped either in prison or are on probation and parole.

I borrowed these statistics from the Nation Reentry Resurce Center; nationalresourcecententer.org.

“The number of fathers in U.S. jails and prisons has increased four-fold since 1980. Among the more than 800,000 parents in federal and state prisons, 92 percent are fathers. Each year, hundreds of thousands of prisoners are released from state and federal facilities, and many more are cycled through local jail facilities. Ninety percent of all inmates will be released and 70 percent are likely to come back to the community where they were arrested.

Prisoners who participate in employment, education, or substance abuse treatment programs are more likely to obtain employment and less likely to return to prison. Although family strengthening programs (such as parenting skills classes), are received by only an estimated 11 percent of fathers in state prisons), studies indicate these programs improve attitudes about the importance of fatherhood, increase parenting skills, and lead to more frequent contact between fathers and their children. Research also shows that relationship education can improve communication skills and that people who maintain family ties during incarceration fare better when released.

* Connecting reentering fathers with support from family and friends is key for avoiding recidivism (returning to prison) and helping them re-establish their lives”.

For the past two years, our ministry, Jacob’s Ladder Ministries, has conducted fatherhood training classes at the jails in the St.Louis and St. Charles Metro area.

In that time, we’ve had close to one hundred men graduate from our program

“24/7 Dad Key Behaviors Workshop”.

The program teaches key skills such as:

Self awareness

Self care

Fathering Skills

Parenting Skills

Relationship Skills

One thing we’ve learned is that most men want to be good fathers, they just don’t know how.

Men realize the havoc they have wreaked on their families and/or community by the pursuit of addictions of any kind; be it crime, drugs, alcohol, work, sex, gambling to name a few?

A lot of the men want to break that cycle of pain. It will take strong support from families!

Of all the resources available to men upon release, the most important is support and forgiveness from their families!

This Father’s Day, I appeal to everyone still suffering from the trauma of having a father incarcerated or still experiencing the trauma of Adverse Chidhood Experiences caused by their fathers addictions, ask God for the strength to forgive them.

And it can start by simply contacting them and saying, “Happy Father’s Day”!

Pastor Al is available to conduct workshops and trainings at your Church or organization.

Contact him at:

(314) 283-9052

along@jacobslm.com

jacobslm.com

THANK YOU, FATHERS "Dr. Dorothy J. Haire"

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 05:06:21 GMT

Thank You, Fathers
Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

Thank you, Fathers, for all you do.

Thank you for establishing biblical standards in your home, even if you didn’t know you were doing it. You set rules and boundaries for your children so they can safely learn respect, self-control, what their talents and passions are. Proverbs 22:6 KJV explains what you did or are doing: “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

Thank you for being loving, patient, and wise when talking to and interacting with your children so as not to cause them undue anxiety, stress, and fear. You do not belittle them, but speak to them as valuable human beings, even when disciplining them. Father, you exhibit in real life Ephesians 6:4: “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”

Thank you, Father, for loving and cherishing the mother of your children enough to make her your wife. You honor the mother of your children by sharing with her your love, life, and laughs. Thank you for wanting her to be as blessed as you are and doing what you can to make it so. Thank you for demonstrating Ephesians 5:28-29 daily: "In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church."

Thank you, Father, for your unconditional love for your children. You practice patience when they repeatedly do the things you told them not to do. You are kind to them when they are unkind. You don’t envy your children and try to live your life’s dreams through them. You don’t brag about how much food is in the freezer or how much money you spend on clothes. No matter how thoughtless, forgetful, or nonchalant they are, you are not resentful or excessively irritable. You carry their shortcomings, wrongdoing, and disrespect on your broad shoulders as you teach your children forgiveness, obedience, and respect. Thank you for exhibiting 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 for all to see: “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”

Please receive the following prayer as a thank-you gift:

Heavenly Father, please abundantly bless the human fathers who are:

· Wise counselors when their children are unwise,

· Intercessors when their children need prayer,

· Dispensers of unconditional love loving when their children are being unlovable.

· Lovers of their wives as they love themselves.

I ask this blessing for Fathers in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Happy Father’s Day! We need to Talk. "Melody Fogarty"

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 04:58:42 GMT

Happy Father’s Day!

We need to Talk.
Melody Fogarty

Happy Father’s Day! We need to talk. Obviously those few words strike fear in the hearts of most men. However, this conversation is really an effort to communicate directly with you. The future, gentlemen, lays once more upon your shoulders. Let’s talk about it.

For quite some time, the world in front of us, the world of work has been changing. As men you have avoided, in many cases, higher education in the form of university and college attendance. Many of you have subscribed to the thought of not needing a college education in order to be successful. That is true for the few, just like success as an athlete or an entertainer is a path for a few. It is not the path for all, not even most. That said, I understand and agree, a university education is not conducive for all. So what are your options?

Consider the following, your number one objective should be to take care of yourself, then your family. How are you to achieve it? This goal happens in three ways. First, contribute to the family through earnings. Second, you can contribute through your efforts at home. Lastly, you can contribute through legacy.

Contribution through earnings may come in the form of entrepreneurship, employment or inheritance. To be an entrepreneur, you can start a business, or you can take up a trade, which allows you to be self-employed. Employment, generally means you were going to work for somebody else, and they are going to profit from your labor as opposed to being self-employed. If given the choice select entrepreneurship over employment. Take up a trade that cannot easily be replicated. The top choices are carpenter, electrician, plumber, mechanic, hairstylist, or nail tech. As a licensed tradesmen, you’ll be a six figure earner. You could become a chef however, the safest route is the own your own restaurant. Being a restaurant owner is high risk, high reward. Lastly inheritance, proper management of assets and monies left to you is another way to bring earnings into the home. Managing family money is a job as is engaging with the professionals who manage your money and taxes.

You are truly loved for your efforts as a parent, as a guide, a husband and a son. We appreciate you. These roles put you in a position of protector and provider. So, you can be a house husband, this role is a respectable position as much so as being a wife. You can also contribute to the family by minimizing the costs to fix the home or the vehicles. Your contributions as a listener and friend, are appreciate more than you’ll ever know.

Finally, legacy comes down to two components, your wisdom, and what you leave behind. If you have no assets, leave your love. If you have assets, leave a trust as well. Please make a will. When you leave this world without one, you leave dissension.

This Father’s Day we thank you for all that you have done for our communities and to move us forward. Continue to work together to build our communities. For yourselves and us fill the community with opportunities to build wealth on our terms such that we no longer need or want to leave our communities to acquire things. That means build us grocery stores, retail stores, brands, hospitals, dental, healthcare facilities, ophthalmologist, etc. We look to you to build us our Fort Mill South Carolina, New Hope Pennsylvania, our Mayberry USA.

You are loved, and I wish you the happiest of Father’s Days.

Calling all Educators, Educator Symposium 2023 "Molly Burton"

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 04:22:50 GMT

Calling all Educators

Applied Scholastics Educator Symposium 2023
Molly Burton

The Applied Scholastics Educator Symposium is taking place July 28-29 in St. Louis and is the perfect opportunity for educators of every stripe to come together for two days of empowering strategies, networking, and inspiration.

As we celebrate the 20th anniversary of the Applied Scholastics Educator Training Institute's Spanish Lake campus, we invite you to join us and our guest speakers as they share their successful actions as educators, as well as spark conversations around educational leadership.

Whether you are a K-12 classroom teacher, a school administrator, a vocational trainer, community leader, workforce development partner, adult education provider, or spear-head an employee training program, this symposium is perfect for ALL educators in all industries.

This symposium is designed to provide attendees with workable solutions to the most urgent issues educators face. Educators will leave with actionable takeaways that can be applied in their own schools, training programs and organizations, as well as an expanded network of professional colleagues to continue learning from. As an attendee, you will gain insight and ideas to: build momentum and sustainability for any learning environment, learn about proven tools to help guide your strategy, and find inspiration, empowerment, and community.

If you're looking for some help convincing your boss or school board that you should attend, we have good news for you. The Applied Scholastics Educator Symposium is FREE to attend, which makes it a no-brainer for anyone looking to improve their skills, acquire new tools and expand their professional network.

This year's symposium will feature two days of content focused on teaching and learning as well as adult education. You'll have the opportunity to dive into topics such as student-centered learning, professional development that works, and what it takes to be a resilient and successful educator. You'll also learn how to turn challenges into accelerated learning opportunities.

We're thrilled to announce that our guest speakers this year include Ingrid Gudenas, CEO of Effective Training Solutions, and Diego Martinez, a high school science teacher who has received numerous awards for his work in education.

Ingrid Gudenas has delivered training to executives, trainers and employees of major corporations in 53 countries and is known for stellar results. For over 35 years, Ingrid has an impressive track record of helping organizations go from depending on a small group of top performers to being able to teach all employees to achieve the highest productivity and quality standards by applying proven methods to existing training programs that can be used to teach any skills.

Diego Martinez is a recipient of the 2015 Colorado Lockheed Martin Science Teacher of the Year award and his tireless work as a STEM teacher for more than a decade earned him the 2018 Alan Shepard Technology in Education Award given by NASA. About Diego's performance in the classroom, the Superintendent of Diego's Colorado school stated, "I truly believe that the way Mr. Martinez teaches right now will, at some point in the future, become standard best practice in American high schools." Diego is sure to inspire and motivate attendees with his passion for education, as well as share the secrets of his success as an educator.

Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity to learn and network with educators and community leaders from across the nation. Register now to reserve your seat and join us for an unforgettable event that is sure to connect you with like-minded educators, gain new insights and tools, and build momentum for a brighter future in education for you and your students.

Applied Scholastics Educator Training Institute

11755 Riverview Drive, St. Louis, MO 63138

314-355-6355

For full details, agenda and to register to attend, please visit:

https://www.eventcreate.com/e/apseducators2023

Can a Struggling Student Ever Find Interest in Learning? "Benjamin Walker"

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 04:09:55 GMT

Can A Struggling Student Ever Find Interest In Learning?
Benjamin Walker

As parents, we want the best for our children, so it’s no wonder that we often push them to do their best and be their best in school. After all, we know that their educational success is a major contributor to a future full of opportunity.

However, it can happen that a student, even when they try their best in school, can sometimes fall behind and struggle in class. This is especially true if they struggle with reading and comprehension, as reading is a vital skill for all students to acquire and is the foundation for all future learning success. You will often find that a student who struggles with reading will show a general lack of interest in learning.

The good news is that if the problem is identified and addressed quickly, and the student gets the exact reading remediation they need, it can generate not only a major boost to their academic achievement but to their self-confidence and overall enthusiasm for learning as well.

Here’s an example with a recent student:

Austin was a nine-year-old boy in the 4th grade. Described by his mother as a good kid, she was concerned about his lack of reading ability and said Austin had consistently been behind a grade or more in reading. Austin didn’t like to read, was disinterested in learning and as a result he was falling behind in school. His school had even suggested that Austin be put on an IEP (Individual Education Plan).

Desperate for help, Austin’s mother found the Applied Scholastics Learning Center.

When Austin began his tutoring program at Applied Scholastics, he was assessed at a third-grade reading level. As Austin was a sight-reader, he didn’t have the phonics skills to be able to sound out new and unfamiliar words, so he often guessed (wrongly) at words when reading, and his comprehension and spelling skills were poor.

By attending tutoring twice a week, Austin completed his phonics tutoring program in 35 hours and his post-assessment showed him reading at a sixth-grade level. For the first time ever, Austin enjoyed reading and had even begun to bring books home from school and was reading them on his own. His mother was thrilled!

With his increased ability and confidence in reading, Austin was finally interested in learning, was no longer struggling in class and was winning in school. Two years later, Austin is excelling in reading and scoring high marks on state exams.

“At the end of his Applied Scholastics tutoring program Austin was a more confident reader. He is now in the 6th grade and he, along with his 6th grade class, were recently given standardized testing. I was ecstatic to learn that my son received the highest scores in his class and is now reading at a 9th grade level. Thank you!”

– B.B., (Mother)

Thanks to the tutoring he received, this good kid is now also a good student.

Are you like Austin’s mom? Are you concerned that your child is struggling with reading and comprehension?

We are here to provide the academic help your child needs to succeed in school – and in life. Call Applied Scholastics Learning Center today to make an appointment for a free assessment.

Applied Scholastics Learning Center

(314) 597-1557

11755 Riverview Drive, St. Louis MO 63138

Are dictionaries still relevant? "Craig Burton"

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 03:54:53 GMT

Are Dictionaries Still Relevant?
Craig Burton

In today’s fast moving digital age and with so much information available at the stroke of a keypad or swipe of a finger, does there still exist the need for something as old-fashioned as a dictionary?

Now, probably more so than ever, the need exists to be able to understand and assimilate large amounts of data on complex and evolving subjects. We must ensure that we are accurately informed, so as to make the best decisions regarding our kids, our jobs, our finances, our future and (gasp!) even our politics.

Perhaps there is no greater resource available to us than the dictionary in order to accomplish this task. It provides no opinion or discourse, it casts no judgment, it only serves to arm its reader with facts and knowledge and facilitates an individual’s self-determinism to go and look for themselves.

It’s interesting to consider that the power of just one word can make a person smile, cry, laugh, incite anger or even sooth. As adults, we know that words have exact meanings and that many words have multiple meanings.

So why is it so often overlooked the importance of defining words in building literacy skills and eliminating confusion? Context clues don’t define words. Dictionaries do.

These days a dictionary is an almost universally overlooked fundamental in learning, yet its full use is priceless. Its proper utilization provides one with an invaluable tool for comprehension and the means to a powerful vocabulary; necessary components of literacy at any age.

As words are the basis of all communication, a dictionary (and the adequate skills to use one), is of vital importance to any literate and freethinking society.

A dictionary is the smartest book you’ll ever own. When you teach a student how to use a dictionary to properly define words, it transforms how they learn.

Want to help someone you know learn the fundamental dictionary skills they need to unlock their education? The How to Use a Dictionary book is available through Applied Scholastics.

Fundamental to Applied Scholastics programs is the premise that a successful education is far more than just being able to read with the end result of passing an examination. It includes the ability to understand and utilize the information one studies. To this end, one gains the skill to “think with” the data in order to use it to better one’s life.

Applied Scholastics Spanish Lake is a non-religious, independent, non-profit public benefit corporation and serves as the premiere training campus for Applied Scholastics International and its vast network of licensed schools and centers.

The Applied Scholastics Spanish Lake Educator Training Institute is certified to operate as a postsecondary, proprietary school by the Missouri Department of Higher Education and Workforce Development. The facility is also home to the Applied Scholastics Learning Center which provides tutoring and academic acceleration programs for students of all ages.

Have questions, want to know more? We would love to hear from you!

Applied Scholastics Spanish Lake

(314) 355-6355

www.ApsSpanishLake.org

Love The Way You Love Me - Brennan & Brittany Hill

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 03:33:24 GMT

Love The Way You

Love Me

Brennan & Brittany Hill

My Icons of Strong Women in My Life "Marcus Young"

Wed, 24 May 2023 02:14:02 GMT

My Icons of

Strong Women in My Life
MARCUS YOUNG

A strong woman isn't a woman who can carry a man, push a car, or lift weights. The strong woman I'm referring to is a woman who overcomes any obstacle. A woman who can take care of herself and the whole worlds imultaneously. Someone who hurts in pain but doesn't complain, A woman who can work hours to pay the bills, feed her family, and still deal with her hurt and grieve rationally.

One of the particular individuals I'm speaking of is my grandmother. The wonderful, amazing superwoman Marilyn Parker. A woman who put her family over herself. Through times of grief, you couldn't tell her temperament because she is such a joyful woman who is professional, joyful, and empathetic. When she cooks, it's like a professional chef preparing dinner at Thanksgiving, especially the pork chops and dressing. One thing you should know is Granny Marilyn can throw a show of spectacle from the Kitchen. If you haven't tried her Family Famous Marilyn Pork Chops or Plate of Dressing, you best call her and try it.

Another superwoman is my great-grandmother, Mrs. Bessie Reece. A woman who just loves to smile. She loves her family with her entire heart. She is so strong. Despite the several illnesses she suffers from, without close observation, you would think she is a pain-free individual. That's just how she moves and lives; her attitude radiates light. A spiritual individual who can rest on God for anything.

The next superwoman on the list is my grandmother, Mildred. The grandmother with the warmest heart. If there's one thing in the world my grandmother loves, it's the things of God and Family. She loves to praise God every day of her life. Secondly, she loves to reach out to her family and check on everyone. The most interesting thing I love about my grandma, Mildred, is her ability to make anything she wants happen. Also, I love the delicious brownies she makes; she makes some of the best brownies in the world. Hands down, I don't know the recipe and don't want to; I just know she knows it.

The next and, by far, my favorite superwoman is my mom, MaDonna Young. The woman who takes care of five before one. The woman who ensures the rest of the family is good and leaves herself behind. A woman who puts family first and herself last. A woman who helps you understand her perspective and makes you think deeper. My mother does so much to put a smile on everyone's face and takes delight in watching us smile. My mother cooks so many delicious meals; I can't pick a favorite. However, make peace with the fact that she gets it from her Momma. She has an old soul but is an excellent, strong, and beautiful woman.

The last woman on this list is my TT Taunia. This super woman has been through horrible obstacles, but they never changed her personality. She takes care of two children and herself all alone. She doesn't hate; she motivates herself to do better for herself and her children. I love that she treats her nieces and nephews like her own. I love her dearly, and the Greens she makes are so amazing I need a plate at this moment.

I learned from writing this that these women are an important asset to my life. Also, I need to get a restaurant for them. When it all comes down, their story is almost the same; they love family and God and are determined to do His will for the rest of their lives.

JUNIA LIVES: The 1st Woman Apostle Speaks "Dr. Yolanda Powell"

Wed, 24 May 2023 01:50:11 GMT

JUNIA LIVES:

The 1st Woman Apostle Now Speaks To

Apostolic Women
DR. YOLANDA POWELL

In Romans 16:7, the Apostle Paul writes with strong commendation about Andronicus and Junia, who were relatives that served as apostolic leaders in the 1st Century Church. He refers to the duo as “outstanding among the apostles.” Andronicus was male. Junia female. Most biblical scholars believe they were married and both apostles.

Today, this biblical insight is still a disturbing controversy among many church leaders and male preachers who refuse to accept the reality of female leadership in the Kingdom. Yet, the overwhelming evidence among most Greek scholars and many theologians now emphatically conclude, that Junia was the FIRST WOMAN APOSTLE.

As Apostle Axel Sippach, leader of the EPIC Global Network writes, “There are countless pages you can find online with experts undeniably proving this from the Greek. Those opposed are really in the minority now. For 700+ years Junia was the "lost apostle." The lost first "WOMAN" apostle. This conspiracy and religious cover-up have now been exposed.”

Ironically, it appears that most Believers & Followers of ‘The Way’ were aware of Apostle Junia for the first 1200 years of church history. Then around 1300AD Bible translators began to use the male form “Junias” instead of the female “Junia.” Adding the “s” essentially transgendered Junia and ultimately made her a male apostle in most versions of the bible for over 700 years until recent time.

“But Junia was a popular name within Roman culture 2000 years ago and was vastly used in differing forms of literature. However, the male version, Junias (Junius) is not found in contemporary 1st century Roman or Greek literature at all. So, with expert validation, this biblically old coverup and conspiracy has lost its credibility,” as Apostle Sippach writes. Yes! The devil tried it, but his schemes and plots to keep this important woman out of biblical history has utterly failed. We now know who she is and what she represents…The liberation of women worldwide – both in the church and in culture!

So, we rejoice that Apostle Junia is no longer a “hidden figure” buried in the archives of Holy Writ. During the summer of 2018, the 1st Historic & Congressional Summit called, Junia Arise: Apostolic Women on the Frontlines was held. During that Congress (with over 200 delegates) we were able to veto the error and reenact the law of God concerning the woman. It was a massive legislative convening.

During that Summit, the ‘Key of Junia’ was prophetically released in the Nation’s Capital that unlocked the multiple gates were women were held bound and imprisoned—from government and business to media and religion. Ironically, this was done in “The Year of the Woman” as the both violations and victories experienced by women globally hit the nightly news. A new epoch for women’s empowerment was massively forming throughout the earth and the life of Junia was at the forefront of change.

Honestly, where would the church be without faithful women of God? Like Junia, we have always been on the frontlines and in the trenches getting the work done—in service, prayer, hospitality, teaching, discipleship, evangelism, missions and much, much more.

So Junia really is the GAME CHANGER, as THE FIRST WOMAN APOSTLE! And this factual truth heralds the important positioning of women in leadership at the highest levels of Kingdom Government and at every helm imaginable throughout the world. It validates and vindicates the woman in extraordinary ways and soundly repositions her as a vital member in the eternal plans of God Most High.

In 2021, we wrote a teaching devotional for Women in Ministry to introduce them to Junia entitled, JUNIA LIVES: 21 Days to Liberating Leadership for Apostolic Women in a New Frontier. It is an unveiling story of her life and ministry in the 1st century yet, will show women leaders how-to walk-in boldness and authority as Junia did, now in the 21st Century. Women are arising around the globe. We will need resources and instructions to bring us into a new frontier of global transformation and change. No one does that better than Apostle Junia, who speaks from the past to the present; steering us wisely into a great and exciting future as women are revived and restored worldwide. Electronic copies can be downloaded here at: https://flow.page/dryolandapowell

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Dr. Yolanda Powell is the President & CEO of W.A.I.L. Worldwide, Inc. (Women of Apostolic Intelligence & Legacy) and Governing Regent of Heads of State Global—The Rule of Female Kings. Both entities carry the DNA of the Father to merge ministry and marketplace at a high level for future generations. Overall, Dr. Powell is considered a neo-classic equipper and no-nonsense trainer with a penetrating voice on the “new apostolic frontier” known as the ‘8th-Mountain Perspective. Whether on the platform speaking or in a small group training—this master communicator, leadership developer, and business coach is committed to one single mission: “Training Transformers for Global Reformation!” Learn more at: www.wailworldwide.com .

The Testimony of "Stephanie Harper" HR Compliance Coach

Wed, 24 May 2023 00:55:24 GMT

"The Testimony of"
STEPHANIE HARPER

MAY 15, 2022....I had some blood work done at 1 p m. Kaiser called me at 11:30pm and said, I was gravely ill with a hemoglobin of 4. #ButGod The doctor asked me if there was anyone who could bring me to the hospital. I said my husband is asleep and I don't want to wake him up he has to work in the morning. The doctor said, "ma'am, if you don't, you may not be alive in the morning". I took a shower first, then went upstairs and woke my husband up. They said I needed a blood transfusion. However they were talking to me in medical terms that I did not understand. I told the doctor to call my best friend Dena Austin in Detroit because she is a nurse (really what I was saying is....I trust her with my life, not you). They talked. The doctor handed me back the phone and she said, "Stef, I love you and this procedure is life or death for you!" I looked at my husband, who bless his heart, could barely keep his eyes open, but one thing I'll tell you about this day is.... He said, "I don't care nothing about your covid policies, I'm going back there with my wife...and he did". We agreed on the procedure. #ButGod

Anyhoo...fibroids had taken over my life and were threatening to take my life. I had 8 pounds of them. I had a blood transfusion and was admitted to the hospital.

The next day, I laid in the hospital with an IV in my arm doing payroll for someone I called friend [turned client] who never said thank you. After receiving 4 pints of blood, my hemoglobin was still only a 7 and I remained hospitalized (normal is an 11, most have a stroke when it hits 6). #ButGod

I'm 51 now...and I have a tummy (I'll take that over elective surgery any day of the year). Because later that year, I had a hysterectomy (with no meds other than Tylenol) and they cut through my navel. My husband had to get me out of bed, cook for me and handle my bathroom business. My daughter was putting on her gloves too. My mom was also staying at my house to help while my husband was at work. 1 month later, my mom died of COVID. 1 month later, I preached her eulogy with torn stitches, a broken family - my brothers were all tripping except my brother Durwin, a broken heart, and a broken spirit. #ButGod

While lying in the hospital (2nd time in 12 months I was told I should have died) #ButGod I made a lot of decisions about MY life and how it would be going forth. I decided anything I didn't want to do, I wasn’t....and anything I did...I was... Period end of discussion. I was about to turn 50....I decided I was just grown as I choose to be.

This is your annual reminder that eating ice constantly is not good.... it’s a sign of anemia and something is terribly wrong. Get checked for fibroids. 4 out 5 black women have them, and they can kill you. It's also a reminder to live on your terms, define what happiness looks like for you. Make decisions that are not traditional or understood by others. And the most important.... it's a reminder is that God is not slack concerning His promises. He has hope and future for you....BUT YOU STILL HAVE TO BE WILLING TO DO THE WORK! Be encouraged. Look and Live!

The Dual Role of Women In Corporate America "Melody Fogarty"

Wed, 24 May 2023 00:39:52 GMT

The Dual Role of Women In Corporate America

MELODY FOGARTY

The most acutely affected group of people in corporate leadership are black women. We can agree, as confirmed by Forbes (October 21, 2022) "Black Women Leaders Are More Ambitious but Less Supported At Work, McKinsey And Lean In Study Finds," [that their] findings reveal a disturbingly consistent trend among the more than 40,000 employees surveyed. Specifically,

⦁ 20% of Black women leaders experienced “having someone say or imply that you’re not qualified” compared to 12% for all women and 6% for all men.

⦁ 38% of Black women leaders experienced “being mistaken for someone at a lower level” compared to 26% for all women and 13% for all men.

⦁ 55% of Black women leaders experienced “having your judgement questioned” compared to 39% for all women and 28% for all men.

Frustratingly, Black women also ranked dead last in their experience of manager support—managers showing interest in their career, checking in on their well-being and promoting inclusion—as compared to other identities including men, all women, LGBTQ women, women with disabilities, white women, Asian women, and Latinas. Similarly, Black women ranked near last in experiencing sponsorship and allyship as well as psychological safety."

Yet, African American women lead 70% of their households in either the capacity of primary income provider or decision maker or both. The stress to be successful in corporate America is high and higher the more you climb up the ladder of leadership. The stress comes from the dual role of women in leadership.

Women have two main roles in leadership transformational thought leadership and acting as role model. As a result, women spend a large part of their time coaching and inspiring their teams. They tend to use contingent reward behavior, trust others, and bring fresh perspectives to the table while overcoming the low expectations of their supervisors/managers. The funny, not funny, skills that are most important in business like time management, crisis management, communication, organization, collaboration, supervising, problem solving, conflict resolution, multitasking, negotiation are honed as a mother. However, mothers have challenges in the succession planning process because of their familial obligations.

How do you navigate the dual role of women in corporate leadership? It is successfully negotiated with flexibility, nimbleness, and strategy. You must have the capacity to make hard decisions, execute uncomfortable plans, and deliver unpleasant information. You will be punished for doing it well either in the succession planning process or by your children's accusation of absenteeism and/or lack of emotional availability.

Your greatest strengths are strategy, focus, inclusion, significance, winning others over (woo), and inclusion. Then, master the arts of delegation, networking, emotional management, emotional intelligence, and influence. Use strategy, much like you would in chess, to navigate the environment for the currency of growth including recognition, opportunities, exits, allies, and frenemies.

The more successful you are in corporate, the more hats you will be asked to wear. Focus on your targets and goals, whining off time draining activities with no significance. Use delegation to develop your team. Outsource routine activities to gain time. Include as many people as possible in your cause as agents of change, early adopters, evangelists, and cheerleaders. Use woos to network and manage the politics of the organization.

At home, many of the tactics and concepts listed above can be employed. The end goal is to lead the family towards success, gain time to focus on more pleasurable pursuits and secure inner peace. Just as women must balance their power with masculine need to be seen as the leader, often she finds a similar situation at home as male spouse want to be seen as the head of the household. I am in no way suggesting, women should take a back seat.

Time saving will provide room for more emotional availability and support. Emotional availability leads to emotional management and emotional intelligence. Thus, allowing women, especially Black women to better navigate their dual roles in corporate leadership.

The Cardinal and The Blue Jay! "Cynthia Bennett"

Tue, 23 May 2023 23:35:58 GMT

The Cardinal and

The Blue Jay!

CYNTHIA BENNETT

May, we are celebrating Women in Ministry. I can’t help but reminisce on the journey I and many others who have accepted their call into ministry have been on. This past weekend, as I was relaxing on the patio, I saw a cardinal bird fly by me and land on a tree branch; as I watched it, I thought about the spiritual symbolism of this bird. The red cardinal represents life, hope, and restoration. I began thanking God for allowing me to see a colorful bird. Watching him flap his wings, he did not fly away but stayed perched on the tree branch. I also began thinking about the bird showing up as a reminder.

Sometimes, we can get caught up in ministering to others and forget or don’t think about those who have ministered to us or spoken words over our lives. I started thanking God for saving my life, renewing hope, and restoring my heart, soul, and mind for his purpose. While watching the cardinal bird, another bird flew by me and landed on another tree branch, and as I looked at the bird, I realized it was a Blue Jay. What were the odds of seeing a cardinal and a blue jay in two trees within one minute of each other and both within my view? I knew God was speaking. So, I researched the Blue Jay, symbolizing being divine and a bearer of good news. Isn’t that what ministry is about; sharing the Good News of Jesus Christ? During this Christian walk and the work of ministry, we can sometimes feel lonesome; we feel like ministry is draining the life out of us to the point that we often feel hopeless and helpless.

Anyone who has been in ministry for a while, especially women (since this article is about women in ministry), has experienced these feelings. When we become overwhelmed, we run ourselves down and are no good for our family, ministry, or ourselves. We should do what David did and encourage ourselves by taking time to rest, relax, replenish, and regroup.

We know that God has called us for such a time as this, and he also loves us and wants us to love ourselves and take care of ourselves. Whether relaxing with a book, driving in the park, or sitting on a patio looking at trees, taking in the breeze, let’s use the wisdom we often give out and learn to spoon-feed ourselves.

Although God speaks to us in different ways, all that matters is that He speaks, and more importantly, we are willing to listen. Whatever we are facing, whatever is taking place in our lives, whatever we are struggling with or overwhelmed by, work, home, or ministry, step back and listen.

God will always send a messenger, a donkey; a burning bush; a cloud, a whisper, or dreams and visions. I know when God says something twice, it affirms or confirms what he already has told us. He chose and qualified us and wanted to remind us that he still loves us by showing us his Glory and Love through miracles, signs, wonders, and, yes, even with birds.

The Church and Re-entry's "Alfred Long"

Tue, 23 May 2023 23:27:11 GMT

The Church and Reentry

ALFRED LONG

I grew up on the Southside of Chicago and at an early age, most people knew serious trouble awaited me.

My drinking career started in grade school, which eventually led to expulsion in the eighth grade, for you guessed it – drinking. My teachers shook their heads in dismay because despite my ACE (adverse childhood experiences) I scored at the top of my class on every test.

Eventually, I disregarded school and dropped out in the ninth grade. My drinking and drugging increased, which led to a life of crime.

My parents felt helpless and eventually had me committed to the Illinois Juvenile Justice System before as my father told the judge, “He kills himself or someone else kills him”.

That was my introduction to the justice system. At fifteen, I entered what we called, “baby prison” the Illinois Youth Center - St. Charles. St. Charles groomed us for future lives of crime and to fill up the many penitentiaries in Illinois.

I didn’t reform because internally I had issues that incarceration couldn’t cure.

These issues often cause individuals to become tethered to the justice system.

They include:

1.) Anti-social values: This is also known as criminal thinking. It includes criminal rationalization or the belief that their criminal behavior was justified. Individuals possessing this trait often blame others for their negative behavior and show a lack of remorse.

2.) Criminal Peers: Individuals with this trait often have peers that are associated with criminal activities. Most are often involved with substance abuse including drugs or alcohol. Peer influence often persuades the individual to engage in criminal behavior. They will also typically present with a lack of pro-social community involvement.

These traits often include atypical behavior conducted prior to the age of fifteen and can include, running away, skipping school, fighting, possessing weapons, lying, stealing and damage to either animals or property.

3.) Anti-social personality: These traits often include atypical behavior conducted prior to the age of fifteen and can include running away, skipping school, fighting, possessing weapons, lying, stealing and damage to either animals or property.

4.) Dysfunctional family: One of the most common traits includes a lack of family support, both emotionally and otherwise. An individual’s family lacks the ability to problem solve and often is unable to communicate effectively. Family members often don’t possess the ability to express emotions in an appropriate manner. Often, they are also involved with criminal activity.

5.) Low self-control: This involves one’s ability to control temperament and impulsivity. People that carry this trait often do things that they didn’t plan and will fail to think before acting. The mindset is of the here and now, and not on the consequences of the behavior.

6.) Substance abuse: The use of drugs or alcohol that significantly affect one’s ability to engage in a successful and productive lifestyle. There is often an increased tolerance to substances, in addition to an inability to stop use.

These issues rendered me helpless and kept me in the cycle of pain, addiction, and crime.

I thank God for godly men from a community minded Church that had the courage to confront my needs. They introduced me to a Christian drug program who introduced me to Jesus and the Church.

God broke the cycle of pain, addiction and crime for me, and I never returned to that lifestyle. My last case was in 1973.

The Church is uniquely equipped through the power of God to help our returning population deal with all those issues, as it did me.

Successful re-entry first requires an inward change that only a robust faith in Jesus Christ can provide (2 Corinthians 5:17).

That comes through the Gospel!

With that foundation in place, the Church can also help with the physical needs of employment, housing, help with child support, help with medication and proper fellowship, or refer returning individuals to the many programs that specialize in those areas.

Part of Jesus’ mission statement is to set prisoners and captives free.

“The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is upon me, for the Lord has anointed me to bring good news to the poor. He has sent me to comfort the brokenhearted and to proclaim that captives will be released, and prisoners will be freed (Isaiah61:1)

And that’s our mission as well (Matthew 25:34-36)!

Pastor Alfred Long Sr. is available for preaching engagements, Addiction Recovery workshops, Addiction Recovery Coaching and Prison Ministry Consulting.

Contact:

(314) 283-9052

www.jacobslm.com

The Inventress "Kimberly St Clair"

Tue, 23 May 2023 23:19:29 GMT

The Inventress

KIMBERLY ST. CLAIR

Kimberly St Clair is the Inventress and founder of the revolutionary, PATENT PENDING 3 in 1 communication system. DOC DASH. A native of St Louis Mo, she is a graduate of Cardinal Ritter College Prep high school and an alumna of Webster University, where she earned a Bachelor of Art degree in psychology and a Bachelor of Science degree in computer science. With a career that spans the gamut, from being a mental health professional, to a top award earning corporate professional, to a now preventionist, speaker and change agent, she’s left nothing on the table. Creating her own path, Kimberly took the skills honed and developed from each careers. Recognizing the national problem of police engagement, she designed, produced, trademarked, and soon to be patent, the solution. She is a leader in this in this industry, committed to activate and affect change.

DOC DASH is a 3 in 1 PATENT PENDING organizational communication system designed to communicate with police and first responders during traffic stops or medical emergencies.

DOC DASH THE UNIT: An organization unit, housed in vehicle, to communicate any nonvisible situation, circumstance, or disability, while simultaneously displaying all state required motor vehicle documents. Designed to display open compliance and separation from criminal intent.

EMERGENCY MEDICAL INFORMATION: Communicates, when you can’t critical medical information, needed to administer lifesaving therapy and tells who to call in case

of such an emergency.

METHOD OF OPERATION: The educational component that teaches and trains on protocols to engagement and traffic stop etiquette.

Daily Success Boost "Alan Carniol "

Tue, 23 May 2023 22:57:31 GMT

Daily Success Boost

ALAN CARNIOL

An interesting fact: The majority of Interview Success Formula customers are over the age of 50. (Many of them are in their late 60s and, a few, in their 70s.) Barely a day passes when we don't hear the following:

"I feel disappointed and discouraged, and I'm almost ready to give up. I've paid a professional to rewrite my resume. My husband says I come across as confident and professional in phone interviews. I'm doing everything right. But still... nobody will give me a job. I know it's because of my age."

If this sounds like something you might say, I'd like to share a few words of advice that you really need to hear. A few truths about the job search.

Yes, ageism exists. It's a very real thing.

And, YES — ageism is almost definitely working against you, and depriving you of job opportunities that, in all fairness, you probably deserve.

However, here's what else I can tell you:

Ageism is NOT an insurmountable barrier. In fact, it's not really a barrier at all. It's more like a form of "societal baggage" that slows you down. You may have to work harder than younger folks.

You may have to prepare more thoroughly, to put in more work in understanding what hiring managers are looking for and connecting your unique talents and experience to that. Especially since you probably want a higher salary than most of the younger candidates, which must be justified.

You may need to put more irons in the fire and experience more setbacks and disappointments before the telephone call you deserve happens. But it does happen in the end. If you keep at it.

And I have hundreds of messages from other Interview Success Formula customers and Daily Success Boost readers like you to prove it — mature, experienced professionals who, at some point, were ready to give up.

I'm so glad they didn't. And you'll be so glad you didn't, as well if you keep grinding away. Always remember — you're just one solid interview away from landing your dream job. That's all it takes for your life to change overnight. If you're ready to give your job search the old college try it deserves, and leave no stone unturned in your interview preparation, join Interview Success Formula today. It's the advantage every mature candidate needs.

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From The Beginning To Now "Harry Parker and Erica Reed"

Tue, 23 May 2023 22:15:51 GMT

From The Beginning To Now HARRY PARKER &

ERICA REED

I am pleased to make St Louis & Edwardsville our home and to be at your service.

I graciously look forward to serving you again, again, and again. As they say in the Big Easy, “Laissez les bon temps roulez” or “Let the good times roll.”

Realizing a lifelong dream can be exciting and challenging. My dream was to own a restaurant business that would allow me to build on my passion for people. I spent 28 years in Corporate America developing my business and customer service skills. After a short involvement with a franchise, I felt constrained in presenting a dining experience indicative of the Southern and N’Awlins hospitality that I had come to know. I wanted to make good on a burning desire to create and deliver a dynamic dining experience to every customer. In 2004, I began the journey as Gulf Shores Restaurant and Grill with a commitment to serve quality food with superior service in a smoke-free environment.

The selection of the name, Gulf Shores Restaurant and Grill, is based on the great recipes, foods, families, and friends in and around Gulf Shores, Alabama. Many of you know it from experience… a simple life, where great food and friends meet, greet, and relish the next opportunity to do it all again. We hope that you will discover that the best food doesn’t have to come from chefs in fancy restaurants, but by families in local towns with recipes that date back centuries. Simple family recipes that allow that true nature of freshly prepared, hand-battered, and hand-cut seafood to come through.

If you are looking for a place to go and want to experience great home cooking with soups, desserts, seafood, and Cajun/Creole meals prepared fresh, then our restaurant is your everyday Gulf Coast cuisine place. We are your local family village where people live well, share great food, and enjoy the presence of each other.

We are pleased to be at your service. As owners, our commitment is “Felt Leadership” which allows us to personally greet you, get to know you…but more than anything else, say thank you for the opportunity to serve you. Our goal is to bring the very best of the Gulf Coast & N’Awlins to you. We look forward to serving you again, and again…and again.

Visit us at Gulf Shores Restaurant & Grill

EDWARDSVILLE GULF SHORES

215 Harvard Drive

Edwardsville, IL 62025

Phone: (618) 650-9109

CREVE COEUR GULF SHORES

12528 Olive Blvd.

Creve Coeur, MO 63141

Phone: (314) 878-3306

ST PETERS, MO GULF SHORES

5256 N Service Road,

St Peters, MO 63376

Phone: (636) 279-1610

Email Us:

harryparkr@aol.com

A Suicide Loss Survivors Perspective "Tammy Bush-Hamilton"

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 04:33:31 GMT

A Suicide Loss Survivors Perspective

Tammy Bush-Hamilton

Tam’s Beautiful Butterflies 501C3 Non-Profit Organization

CEO/Founder Tammy Bush-Hamilton

Belonging: A Suicide Loss Survivors Perspective

First, I want to thank God for all He has done for me because I wouldn't be here today if it had not been for Him.

I want to start by telling you all a little about me. I was born and raised in East St. Louis, IL. I grew up in a proper family setting, a two-parent household with my mother and father. They were great parents who did their best to give us everything they thought we needed and what they lacked growing up. I have five sisters and three brothers. I am the middle child and the 1stdaughter of my father, who raised my older siblings as his own.

I chose the topic “belonging” because I found it suitable, particularly relating to my experience growing up in my own family. I often felt like I didn’t fit in, even at work. I became fond of entrepreneurship because deep within; I don’t feel good and satisfied with myself and those I serve.

Let’s consider the meaning of belonging for a moment. The dictionary states that belonging is a feeling of being happy or comfortable as part of a particular group and having a good relationship with other members of the group because they welcome you and accept you. A sense of belonging is one of humanity’s most basic needs. One word that describes belonging is “inclusion” or “acceptance.”

We all want to feel like we belong. We all want to feel loved. As I share my story, it is important to mention that I am married, and I had a daughter who died by suicide on January 14, 2014. As a parent, can you imagine receiving a phone call at 1:00 am that would change your life forever. When I received the call, I remember answering the phone by saying, “Tammurra, what are you doing up calling me at this time of the morning?” The young lady on the other end said, “This is not Tammurra; I called to tell you she fell and hit her head. I asked what was wrong, and they said we don’t know, but the ambulance and the police are here, and they are doing CPR.” The police officer at the scene asked to speak with me, and he said, “I think you might want to head down this way.” I immediately hung up the phone and called my husband who was at work, and I paced the floor praying until he arrived.

As we drove to the scene, we were both nervous, not knowing the outcome, and 30 minutes into the trip; I received a call from the hospital. It was the doctor on the other end, and he said, “It would not be fair to have you come all the way here to find out your daughter didn’t make it.”

I share my story today in hopes of helping someone and saving another parent from having this same experience.

It has been nine years since my daughter left this earth. To honor her memory, I started a Non-Profit Organization called “Tams Beautiful Butterflies” to help bring awareness and provide preventive education resources to all communities in the hope that we will save lives and end the stigma surrounding suicide. Suicide is the leading cause of death among college and university students in the U.S. My daughter was a college-age student at the time of her death. Until we arrived at her college apartment, we didn’t know that she didn’t register for school that semester. I also discovered that she was a victim of sexual assault. As parents, we try to do everything we can to protect our children. Standing in a hospital room over my daughter’s lifeless body still haunts me to this day. This is one of the reasons I have become an advocate for suicide prevention.

There are 12 things I believe parents can do to help prevent suicide.

1. If you see signs that your child’s mental health is off, tune in and ask questions.

2. Listen; even when your child is not talking, you may discover something.

3. Pay attention because your child might be facing suicide risks you haven’t even considered.

4. Don’t dismiss what you see as just teenage drama.

5. Use empathy and understanding while talking with your child.

6. If you recognize your child is in trouble, get professional help right away.

7. If you have guns or lethal tools that could harm your child, remove them/ensure they are secure.

8. If your child has to enter into treatment, ensure you create an environment of hope.

9. Help your child build friendships with family and friends to ensure they don’t isolate themselves.

10. Suggest things like exercise, support groups, and other fun hobbies. 11. Encourage balance and taking things slowly.

12. Remind each other that this will take time, but you are right there with them.

I live now with much hope, and I keep the Serenity Prayer nearby. I often ask GOD to grant me the Serenity to accept what I cannot change. My life is different without my daughter, but I remain hopeful that one day Suicide will be no more.

Tammy is the President of Butterflies DBA Beautiful Butterflies is a 501(c)3 non-profit organization that addresses suicidal ideation and mental health issues by providing suicide prevention training and mental health services. Our Mission is to partner with schools and colleges in an effort to educate teens and young adults about suicide. Our Vision is to be the most reliable organization that works towards preventing suicide through public awareness, education, reducing stigma, and serving as a resource to those touched by suicide.

Tammy is currently serving on the board for both the Family Hospice Center and St. Clair County Suicide Alliance. Beautiful Butterflies objectives are to educate communities about the importance of improving access to mental health care and treatment, breaking down the barrier of negative perceptions about mental health, train communities on how to prevent suicide, reduce factors that increase suicidal risk, and increase factors that promote resilience. Beautiful Butterflies has partnered with Prevention First to provide QPR and Narcan training and AFSP to do It's Real Presentations for high-school students. Also, Talk Save Lives Presentation to our local community organizations.

The Eagle’s Nest Retirement Center "Monique Buchanan"

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 04:16:58 GMT

The Eagle’s Nest

Retirement Center

Monique Buchanan

Monique Buchanan combines her services and acquired knowledge in real estate, her passion and desire for her community, especially the elderly, which has resulted in her building: THE EAGLE’S NEST RETIREMENT CENTER

Many may know Monique Buchanan as the Real Estate Guru. She has taken the real estate sector by storm and has built a name synonymous with her passion, known as “Moni the Closer.” She is quite compassionate and resilient in serving her community.

She is known as Moni the Closer! Her success is a result of her passion for giving the best service to her real estate clients. She has achieved many awards and recognitions, which surprised her, as she was only giving her best in her line of trade. Expecting nothing but for a client to get the correct knowledge, experience, and value of their purchase. Some of the purchases she closed for her clients range from homes, businesses, or even a church! Working hard and tirelessly, realizing the impact it would have on her family and community has made Monique garner a name and recognition in the world of Real Estate. She has built a company that employs and manages other real estate agents and has presented opportunities to many. Construction workers especially have also been employed through the many ventures of Monique Buchanan.

You may wonder where the “heart and passion” she displays come from and what amazing new venture is Ms. Monique bringing to her community.

Monique credits her upbringing as the cause of her passion for serving in general and serving her family. She was born to a praying mother of great faith! She has three siblings, of which Monique is the oldest. Her biological father was an intelligent fellow, but unfortunately, his addiction to heroin and alcohol got the best of him. Her mom was a victim of domestic violence but was determined to save Monique and her siblings from that type of life.

Monique credits her mom with giving her a village that would provide mentorship and guidance to keep her on the right track. This has been proven by her tenacity and grit and her upward bound. Monique glows when she speaks of the experience and guidance she acquired while working as a teen in a nursing home. Her experience of serving the elderly helped her to buy clothes and toiletries and to be surrounded by good role models.

There was most definitely a positive impact on Monique while working in the nursing home. Her caring for the elderly at a young age enabled her to understand and recognize the value of their wisdom. Her attachment to this “dear audience” has stayed with her over the years. Now presenting a Skilled Nursing Facility for the care and treatment of the elderly is “what’s next” for Ms. Monique Buchanan.

Monique combines her service and acquired knowledge in real estate, her passion and desire, and presents…The Eagle’s Nest Retirement Center is a 501c3 40 Bed Skilled Nursing Facility. This state-of-the-art establishment will have a chapel, beauty and barber salon, full cafeteria, dining room, and 24-hour security.

This grand establishment will be in North St. Louis City. It is 100 percent Medicaid and Medicare approved by Congress! This facility will also have a strong presence in workforce development with opportunities and training to ensure gainful employment for our employees and the community we serve.

Monique’s desire to build her facility in an impoverished area was on purpose for a purpose. Her goal is to provide hope for teenagers and young adults to be around a positive environment in their community and learn from the wealth of knowledge (mistakes and triumphs) of the elderly. To be able to have a good job located in their community and provide excellent service to the elders of their community in their community. This facility will provide over 25 skilled and unskilled jobs. The facility seeks to hire strongly in the North St. Louis City area.

Continued Education, Professional Development and Training, and Workforce Development Partnerships will be complimentary benefits of working at this state of the art’s medical facility in North St. Louis City.

Monique is the most thrilled to build this beautiful facility for the seniors. First and foremost, with a white glove policy. A home for the elderly that is safe and clean. With caring employees that have a nurturing spirit and a kind disposition. Just what they deserve and what their families want to know they will be receiving. We have a need for the best for our seniors, and The Eagles Nest Retirement Center will provide the best for our seniors on Purpose.

Monique is determined to protect our seniors, she is a generational changer, and we are blessed to have her!

Psalms 41:1 Blessed is the one who considers the poor.

The Eagle’s Nest Retirement Center Foundation is a nonprofit corporation

The Eagles Nest Retirement Center LLC

Ms. Monique Buchanan is the owner-operator.

If you would like to contribute to the foundation or get more info on workforce development partnerships, contact Monique Buchanan @ 314-226-4164

Congratulations to Dr. Erise Mary Mbunui Dinga

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 04:09:18 GMT

Congratulations To

Dr. Erise Mary Mbunui Dinga

Under the High Patronage of Mr. Babatunde Deinbo the Esteemed Mayor of Berkeley and City Council Saint Louis Dr. Erise Mary M. Presents the EMMI WOW Business OF Worth Global Executive and Award Soiree on May 13th,2023, at Union Station in St. Louis, MO. For its first edition, EMMI EMPIRE INC. will acknowledge worthy and outstanding men and women leading in various domains, both in the private and public sectors.

This will be a strategic learning and networking convention of distinguished change agents, innovative thinkers, and transformational leaders in the public and private sectors.

Dr. Erise Mary became a Spiritual daughter in 2016 to Apostles John and Pamela Dillon. Their role in her spiritual journey would be covering and raising her spiritually and ordaining her as an Apostle. Apostles John and Pamela Dillon traveled to Cameroon, Africa, in 2018 to further establish the many works and the church of Dr. Erise Mary. The name of her church in Cameron is Real Worship and Gospel Center International, AKA Agape and Wealth! Dr. Erise Mary credits her biological mother for the entrepreneurial zeal she instilled in her and honors her memory with that portion of her life.

Dr. Erise Mary Mbunui Dinga is a multiple Award-winning Speaker on Entrepreneurial Leadership, author, philanthropist, and an entrepreneur acclaimed for her youth activism and entrepreneurial ventures across Cameroon, USA, UAE, South Africa, and Benin.

A certified coach and mentor with The John Maxwell Team, Dr. Erise Mary has been an important catalyst for developing leadership, advocacy, empowerment, and social justice projects that have impacted thousands of youths at home and abroad.

Founder and President of Erise Mary Ministries (EMMI EMPIRE) – A non-profit leadership and youth empowerment organization based in the United States of America, Cameroon, Ivory Coast, and Dubai which provides training and mentorship to youths and underprivileged single mothers, Dr. Erise Mary, is driven by the conviction that youths represent the future of every country and are a non-negligible asset for development. Her initiatives are dictated by her ambition to provide youths with the necessary tools and guidance to support new business development and bring out their innate potential.

Dr. Erise Mary is particularly passionate about supporting women and bridging the gap between underprivileged young women and financial emancipation. Her experiences as a single mother many years ago have given her the credibility to understand, advocate, and mentor young single mothers on their journey to regain self-esteem, confidence, and financial stability.

Dr. Erise Mary’s continuous endeavors to support young single mothers led to the creation of the Bajude Nursery and Primary School in 2016 in a disfavored community in the Northwest Region of Cameroon which provides quality education, a facility she extended to orphaned children as well.

In 2021, Dr. Erise Mary launched the EMMI Global Leadership Institute based on the observation that Cameroonian youths needed many examples of youth success and that role models and mentors are the capital and resources in shaping mentality, providing insight, and sharing experience. In this light, a mentorship program was started to encourage young entrepreneurs and leaders. Some economic activities were established in her name, such as Em Royal Fashion and Shine Cameroon, to create employment opportunities for single mothers in Cameroon.

As an inspirational Minister of the Gospel, Dr. Erise Mary founded the Real Worship and Gospel International Center, which preaches faith as an ally of hard work, diligence, and success. Her spiritual and economically empowering ministry has organized several evangelical programs in the Ivory Coast, France, The Netherlands, Nigeria, the United Kingdom, South Africa, and the United States of America.

Books to Dr. Erise Mary’s credit are “The Bride of Christ” (Best Seller), “My Identity” (a devotional), and “The Millennial Leadership Testament.” She is also the editor-in-chief of EMMI Empire Magazine. Dr. Erise Mary holds a PhD in philosophy and a Master’s in clinical psychology.

She is currently studying Non-Profit Management and Leadership Strategies for Organizational Success at Harvard University.

Congratulations to Dr. Erise Mary and all of the women being honored at this Business & Award Soiree!!

May 13th, 2022 at St Louis Union Station Hotel!

9am to 1 pm…Morning Panel “How to do business in St Louis” and keynote speaker 4pm - 10pm Award ceremony, Keynote Speakers, Panel “International Marketplace and the Marginalization of Women”

You can impact women and young girls around the world! An opportunity to become an ambassador for EMMI!! Out-of-town guests are welcome! You can book a room under our block on the registration link!

This is your opportunity to connect with international women in business and leadership!

For more information and To Register for the event click the link @ https://emmiwow.com

Apostles John and Pamela Dillon of Agape Time Ministries of St. Louis Mo.

Babatunde Deinbo Mayor of Berkely Mo.

Safety and Security Guru "Tracey Hawkins"

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 03:47:22 GMT

Safety and Security Guru

By: Tracey Hawkins

Meet Tracey Hawkins, the safety and security guru who has spent over 28 years perfecting her craft. As a sought-after international expert, public speaker, and master content creator, she’s been featured in major publications such as The Washington Post, The Boston Globe, and CNNnews.com, and has even made appearances on The Today Show. But Tracey doesn’t just talk the talk, she walks the walk. Through her Virtual Real Estate Safety Summit and other events, she’s made it her mission to make the world a safer place. In this exclusive interview, Tracey shares her secrets on how she reaches a wider audience and continues to make a difference in the world.

As someone who does all their own marketing, can you tell us about your approach to promoting your international speaking business and virtual safety and security events. How have you been able to build a loyal following over the years?

I have established myself as an expert in the field of safety and security. Because I chose a field that I am passionate about, it is easy to develop expertise. Safety and security are integral parts of my life, and I read and watch everything related to these topics to stay up-to-date with any crime trends, crime prevention practices, or tools. I write about safety and security topics, crime, and crime prevention, and I also create informational videos for my audience. I am aware that 100% of adults care about safety and security, and my job is to provide information in a way that they will heed and act upon without leading with fear, but rather through education.

How do you leverage social media and other digital channels to reach your target audience? What tips do you have for other safety and security experts looking to use these platforms more effectively?

I am considered a micro-influencer due to the significant platform I have built based on my national publications and television appearances, which allows me to reach a wide audience. Unlike traditional influencers, I do not have thousands of social media followers. However, social media plays a vital role in my business. I consider it to be my electronic resume, and I maintain a presence on all major social media platforms to reach my audience wherever they are. I keep my activity and articles up-to-date to ensure that anyone who looks me up can see social proof of my credentials.

Can you share an example of a particularly successful marketing campaign you’ve run for one of your virtual events? What factors do you think contributed to its success?

In my recent marketing campaign, I organized a virtual event for the leadership of the home health industry. The event included a complementary workshop on safety and security culture and how it can enhance their organization’s profitability. This campaign was an excellent opportunity for me to merge community service with life-saving business practices. It also provided the leadership with a glimpse of the value I can offer by sharing in-home safety practices with their field workers, who are employed in a potentially dangerous occupation. By focusing on the bottom line and community service, I was able to create an opening that was more effective than a sales pitch.

How do you balance the need to promote your events and expertise with the need to maintain credibility and avoid coming across as too self-promotional?

In the safety and security industry, it is crucial to establish credibility and authority. Leading with fear or adopting a salesperson approach is not advantageous. Instead, I rely on my expertise and desire to educate people about living and working safely. As safety is my top priority, I am always sharing my knowledge and teaching, without focusing on selling anything. When discussing real estate safety, which the U.S. Department of Labor considers a hazardous occupation, I emphasize that I am a former agent and can relate to their experiences as I have walked in their shoes and seen the dangers firsthand. I remind them that I have talked to thousands of agents and conducted extensive research, so they can trust my advice, which is practical and realistic. I link everything back to business building, especially since real estate is a commission-based sales industry. Therefore, I show them how to work safely and use the knowledge and tools I provide to grow their business.

How do you tailor your marketing messages and strategies to different audiences, such as real estate professionals, property managers, and homeowners?

As my expertise spans across the real estate and home health industries, as well as the general population, I identify the commonalities and tailor my programs to the specifics of each occupation. Everyone needs to learn about living safely, day to day. I educate about tuning into our built-in instincts, taking actionable steps to raise awareness, creating a safety plan, and other safe practices, including home security, cybersecurity, and safety on the road. I then create programs that are specific to each industry, with actionable safety practices for real estate and home health workers, among others. When speaking to businesses, I make it a point to include business-building practices. While safety may not always be a top priority for businesses, increasing profit is, so I link them together.

How important is storytelling in your marketing approach? How do you use narratives and case studies to help promote your events and content?

As my expertise spans across the real estate and home health industries, as well as the general population, I identify the commonalities and then tailor my programs to the specifics of each occupation. Everyone needs to learn about living safely, day to day. I educate about tuning into our built-in instincts, taking actionable steps to raise awareness, creating a safety plan, and other safe practices, including home security, cybersecurity, and safety on the road. I then create programs that are specific to each industry, with actionable safety practices for real estate and home health workers, among others. When speaking to businesses, I make it a point to include business-building practices. While safety may not always be a top priority for businesses, increasing profit is, so I link them together.

What metrics do you track to measure the success of your marketing efforts, and how do you use this data to inform future campaigns?

As basic as it may seem, I always ask potential clients how they heard about me. This is how I figure out what works regarding my marketing strategies. Through this approach, I have learned that my social media accounts work well! A majority of people who approach me unsolicited have seen me on social media. Although they do not necessarily engage by clicking “like” or commenting, they are scanning my posts while researching me. This encourages me to continue posting despite low engagement.

Can you share any marketing lessons or insights you’ve learned from your 28 years of experience as a public speaker and safety expert?

My success and recognition as a subject matter expert has helped me to stand out from my competitors. My articles, television appearances, and interviews by credible publications give me an edge when compared to other contenders for speaking engagements. However, I do not jump on all trends, as this can lead to being a jack-of-all-trades and a master of none. It does not serve my audience if I am not fully immersed and knowledgeable about the life-saving topic they hire me to teach. While it may be tempting to take on various topics, I prioritize being the go-to resource for safety and security news and safe practices.

How do you stay up to date with the latest marketing trends and techniques. What resources would you recommend to others looking to improve their marketing skills?

By becoming the media, myself, I am compelled to stay on the front line of my industry. I write about safety and security topics, which requires me to stay up to date on news related to safety and security, crime stories, and crime prevention. To ensure that I can share relevant and life-saving information, I consume a lot of marketing content. I watch endless marketing videos on YouTube and read marketing articles regularly. I subscribe to the most effective marketing content creators to ensure that I don’t miss anything. As a solopreneur who works from home, I don’t have much interaction with peers. Therefore, I participate in SCORE virtual programs and attend marketing workshops hosted by other organizations that focus on small businesses. I attend events in person whenever possible for networking opportunities.

Looking ahead, what new marketing strategies or tactics are you considering for future virtual events? How do you see the field of safety and security marketing evolving in the coming years?

Marketing in the safety and security field is a fine balance between raising awareness and avoiding fearmongering. Additionally, it is essential to demonstrate that expertise is required for success, rather than being a proverbial “talking head.” This is what gives me an edge. I am planning to duplicate my Crime Prevention EXPO and Workshop, which was a tremendous success in providing community safety and security information. I invited local police, the highway patrol, FEMA, AARP, and other experts to educate the community. I also invited safety and security vendors. I plan to take this concept on the road across the U.S. to provide great crime prevention information and showcase my passion for community service. In the business world, the key to success is tying safety and security training and education to more profitable businesses. In all my marketing communications, I focus on providing strong, expert-led content and always provide some business-building practices using the safety education that I share.

By Steve Dinelli

Meditation and Christianity "Dr. Conny Williams"

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 02:46:22 GMT

Meditation and Christianity

By: Dr. Conny Williams

Is meditation Scriptural? In recent years it seems that meditation has made a comeback into the western world. We can see it on the coffee shop bulletins boards, we can see it advertised at the YMCA, we hear it even taught at our community colleges and we wonder is the world gone crazy. Some consider Meditation to be of the devil or sacrilege. Some have ignored it all together and some have been sneaking over here and there to see what this is all about. The question that many Christians have, is Meditation Scriptural? If Christian Meditation is scriptural, we will have to find out what happened to it. Why does the Christian Church ignore its teaching and why are we afraid of it? These and many other questions are in the mind of the believer. If Mediation is the will of God then these questions deserve an answer. It is my goal to provide some prove that meditation is not only in the will of God but that it is vital to our spiritual health.

Here are some definitions for the word meditation – to think, to imagine, musing, to murmur (in pleasure or anger), by implication to ponder, imagine, meditate. It is amazing how many Scriptures in our English text refer to meditation:

Gen_24:63; Jos_1:8; Psa_1:2; Psa_63:6;

Psa_77:12; Psa_119:15; Psa_119:23; Psa_119:48;

Psa_119:78; Psa_119:148; Psa_143:5; Isa_33:18;

Luk_21:14; 1Ti_4:15;

just to name the ones that were translated so.

There are also related words in the Bible that directly correspond to meditation and these are: think, contemplate, reflection, introspection, and concentration. The definitions listed above are various Hebrew words that the Scriptures use. I am sure that the reader is familiar with many of these words. We have heard them and we have done many of them. So I do not believe that the believer has too many problems with the definition itself and I believe that we can agree that meditation is mentioned in the Scripture. The first word that describes meditation is the word to think. There are many various words that the Hebrew text uses for the English word to think. It is interesting to note a particular word that the Hebrew text uses for “think.” châshab A primitive root; properly to plait or interpenetrate, that is, (literally) to weave or (generally) to fabricate, to think, regard, value, compute: Word studies are extremely beneficial, because most people only understand words in a casual way. When we take a closer look at particular words we begin to understand the deeper meanings or the variety of meanings that a simple word can have. This particular word “to think” implies a lot more than casual thinking. It is a creative word. For those of us who have little girls in our families we know that it is an art to braid a childʼs hair.

It takes quite some creativity and skill. Thinking too can be a creative art. That kind of thinking is also called meditation or contemplative thinking in a positive way. The Scriptures seem to use this word when someone evil is trying to come up with something very evil to destroy, a plot sort of speak. This word can also be used in a positive way. As Paul tells us to put away vain imagination there is also a good imagination which is another word that describes what meditation entails. One of the myths of meditation is that one must empty his or her mind. That would be impossible to say the least, one cannot stop the mind from doing its job. However, one can slow the activities of the mind down through meditation and focus on only one particular thing. This process is called meditation. Paul tells us to think on positive things in opposition to negative imagination (Phi 4:8). So to imagine is not wrong it is actually one of the tools of meditation. Paul was quite familiar with this practice. Paul himself has had experiences with God that were the result of meditation. One Hebrew word for imagination is: yêtser- a form; figuratively conception (that is, purpose): - frame, thing framed, imagination, mind, work.

As you can see this is a powerful word. Imagination is the conception of purpose. It is in our imagination that we see what we believe. Meditation will help you see what you believe. There is however, a question that has not been answered. How do I properly meditate and how was this done in Bible times? Meditation is sometimes implied in the text. Sometimes the word “think” is used instead of Meditation as indicated earlier. There is also a certain nomenclature that indicates that one is withdrawing from the business

of the world in order to meditate. We can follow Jesus lifestyle in the Gospels and readily see that He withdrew many times into a lonely or quite place. It is interesting to note that these withdrawals were many times done in nature. So, where did it all start? Biblically, it started with Isaac in Gen 24:63 And Isaac went out to meditate in the field at the eventide: and he lifted up his eyes, and saw, and, behold, the camels were coming……..and then it traveled Gen 25:6 But unto the sons of the concubines, which Abraham had, Abraham gave gifts, and sent them away from Isaac his son, while he yet lived, eastward, unto the east country According to Jewish tradition, Abraham gave gifts, physical and spiritual, to Isaac but to the other children he gave gift of lesser value or incomplete knowledge. The interesting thing is that these children settled in India and today we can still find the Brahmins (Children of Abraham) there. Jewish literature tells us that these gifts where not used in a godly manner although they came from God. Many things actually come from God, but are misused and misunderstood. Among Christians the art of meditation was practiced by some Monks, but as a whole this craft was rejected. However, from a biblical perspective, meditation originated with God and was always intended to be used by Godʼs children as a method to connect with God in order to become more aware of Him, His realms and of ourselves. Meditation is not to be used as a tool to manifest wonders and do tricks, it is rather a tool to allow us to connect with the Father for the greater good of the person that is meditating and also mankind. In recent years meditation has made a comeback in the Church. The danger of overstepping our boundaries is always there since this art has not been taught in Christian circles on a regular basis. It is quite difficult to develop a kind of meditation and not in some way having to borrow techniques from eastern meditation. This of course creates a problem because that borrowing could borderline on idolatry. However, if we return to the ancient art of meditation we will not encounter the dangerand difficulty that eastern meditation could present. If we are looking for ancient material we will have no other choice than to look for information in the writings of the Talmud, the Zohar and the Mishnah. There, we will find the information that has been passed down from generation to generation beginning with Moses. If Moses meditated, if Joshua meditated, Isaac, David, the prophets, Jesus, Paul and the apostles meditated, then I think that we should at least have an open mind to be educated concerning this lost art. Just as Prayer is an art, so is Meditation. Prayer and Meditation walk hand in hand. Meditation has many benefits from simply enjoying the presence of God, to attaining considerable awareness of ones surroundings and of course God.

There are meditations for attaining inner peace, relaxation in order to relieve stress, and

there are meditations for bedtime and morning rising. There are countless meditations of various sorts and degrees. Meditation can benefit oneʼs life if it is done casually or if one develops a discipline; either way the meditator will enhance their life considerably. Meditation can be beneficial to so many people with so many different needs because it can affect the body, the soul and the spirit of man. Meditation causes one to be aware. Jesus teaches us that principle in Matthew the sixth chapter. He too is calling for us to stop and be aware of our surroundings, behold the sparrow and the flowers of the field. Paul tells us to think on things that are lovely, kind and so forth. Paul is also the apostle who indicates in his life a discipline of meditation. On one occasion he did not know if he was in the body or out of the body, he had merged with beautiful. He saw things that were forbidden to be mentioned here on earth.

Meditation has extraordinary power to heal psychic wounds, release negative energies, and bring a new sense of inner peace. All things can be brought in proper perspective and the answer can be found. Once the answer is found, healing of all parts of our being is possible. God wants us to learn how to be with Him right here on earth.

Meditation is the path on how to do just that. It is the writers express wish that all men would come to know God, themselves and others in a more intimate way, to have substance in our faith and a reality that surpasses what we have right now. Meditation is more than just thinking about something, it must have a teacher, it must have a student.

Come and See!

Dr. Conny Williams

WE DID IT: Brandon Johnson, Mayor of Chicago

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 02:12:59 GMT

WE DID IT:

Brandon Johnson,

Mayor of Chicago

By: Apostle David A. Rodgers

On Tuesday, April 4, 2023 history was made in the city of Chicago. A son of our city and the son of Pastors, a Kingdom man, Brandon Johnson was elected as the 57th Mayor of the City of Chicago and only the third Black Mayor of the country’s third largest city. In a run-off election against machine politician Paul Vallas, Mayor Johnson, who surged past the incumbent Lori Lightfoot in the general election, proved his organizational prowess to capture the office on the 5th floor of city hall. Johnson, a school teacher, Union organizer, and Cook County Commissioner of the 1st District, comes to the office labeled as a Progressive and reformer. His victory was a miracle of sorts as his opponent raised double the money as Johnson did and was heavily backed by the Fraternal Order of Police, large corporations and the old Democratic Machine that has controlled Chicago politics since the city’s inception.

So how did we do it? In a word, we followed the master blueprint, of strategize, organize and mobilize. As a Johnson supporter, I worked heavily with the Pastors in the city to insure we had voter’s registration in place, and that Mayor Johnson’s message, which was mostly ignored by the media, was clearly articulated across the length and breadth of our city. With over 800 Pastors working in concert to insure proper messaging was in place, we set about the mobilization strategy. We employed buses and vans to get older voters and handicapped voters to the polls to cast their ballots. Phone banks worked night and day to call voters to wake up and encourage them to get to the polls. Another major mobilization key was the alternative media coverage from organizations like www.thetriibe.com. The Triibe, an African-American owned, online, independent, publication, spearheaded by Morgan Elise Johnson (Publisher) and Tiffany Walden (Editor and Chief) brought much needed exposure to Mayor Johnson’s message. These two brilliant queens, along with major support from Rev. Jesse Jackson Sr. And the Operation PUSH family, and other grassroots organizations, helped to get us across the finish line. Now the real work begins.

This campaign proves that the power of the people is greater than the power of pay to play politics and fidelity to the staunch political machines that have oppressed our cities for far too long. Mayor Johnson’s victory not only gives us hope but also shows us the road forward to the freedom, justice and equality, that men like Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Fought and died for. As we commemorate the assassination of Dr. King on April 4th, we also celebrate the victory of Mayor Brandon Johnson and the prospect of a new city arising under new leadership, secured on April 4th. The irony is tangible, and GOD’s message undeniable, WE SHALL OVERCOME!

Apostle David A. Rodgers, New Vision Of Faith Ministries- Chicago

EMAIL: ADR@DVFIGLOBAL.com

Davion Sanderson "A Fashionable Tea" by Christa Martell Alferman

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 01:50:18 GMT

Davion Sanderson Presents

"A Fashionable Tea"

Davion grew up in Saint Louis, the only male out of 5 children and raised by a strong single mother. Davion's mother did whatever she had to do to make sure that Davion and his sisters were always fed despite struggling with bills. Davion has also developed into the young man that he has due to the strength and influence of his grandmother and great-grandmother. As Davion has grown up, he has continued to surround himself with the strong and independent women, from teachers to his manager. All these influences have motivated Davion to utilize his brand and agency to support women in becoming strong and independent through learning a skill to become successful in their own rights.

"A Fashionable Tea" will do exactly that, celebrate, and honor the contribution of mothers to the lives of their daughters. The chosen designers for the show are mothers and daughters. They have been asked to specifically celebrate the unique relationships between mothers and daughters. He understands that some of these relationships may be strained and in need of time for healing and reconnecting. This event is a sit-down event with tea and finger food. Davion's hope for the event is that this will give them that opportunity.

“A Fashionable Tea” will take place on May 7, 2023 @ 6:00p.m.

At Mahler Ballroom 4915 Washington St. Louis No 63108

Mothers and daughters of all ages are welcome and encouraged to come.

For more information and Vendors spots call 314-565-4147

By: Christa Martell Alferman

Financial Advisor for Adults and Kids "Ashley Fox"

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 00:36:14 GMT

Financial Advisor for

Adults and Kids
Ashley Fox

I reached a pivotable point in my career, as a financial advisor, where I realized that serving individuals wasn’t going to help me financially empower the world. I needed to go BIGGER…but then I realized that if I spend all my time educating adults, I miss out on impacting the children who will grow up making the same mistakes I did. So, I knew that (even though it would be hard) I needed to financially educate children too!

People then said to me “you know that kids don’t have money, right? It’s the parents who you want.” And my response was, “yes, I didn’t have money as a kid either, and no one taught me. It’s because of that…that I still made a bunch of financial mistakes.”

Why does it matter if kids don’t have money. If you made a financial mistake in the past, it has now become a lesson for the next generation. You don’t need to be a financial expert to financially educate a child. You need trials & tribulations that are worth telling!

So, even when you don’t have tons of money to set aside for your children, be that financial mentor you wish you had growing up.

Now…for everyone who’s ready to build wealth for their children, consider dividend-paying investments as a way to build passive income for the children in your life. Take care of their now, but take small steps towards their financial future.

My focus, for my 5 years old niece, is to build her a passive income portfolio that pays $1,000/month, and I’m building everyday.

Here are 4 more of my favorite Wealth Building tools for children:

1. Custodial Brokerage Account - this allows you to buy stock for a minor. Have one that you manage for the child and then get another that they can utilize too (show them how to build wealth WITH you)

2. An Indexed Universal Life Insurance Policy - this is a great generational wealth tool, but also an investment tool (especially when you overfund it )

3. Outline the child as a beneficiary on your assets WITH the asset first being passed down to a trust for them. This allows you to set rules & structure to how the money is distributed.

4. REITs - add a little passive income real estate to their name too

I started investing $35/month for my niece, and as my bank account & knowledge grew, so did my niece’s portfolio.

Start small & build big!

The Damage Does Not Define You! "Cynthia Bennett"

Tue, 18 Apr 2023 16:38:00 GMT

The Damage Does Not

Define You!
Cynthia Bennett

April is SAAM...Sexual Assault Awareness Month. Statistics show that 1 in 3 women, 33% and 1 in 4 men, 25% experience sexual violence involving physical contact during his or her lifetime. These violations have left many of its victims vulnerable, traumatized, and debilitating. But I want you to know that you are NOT damaged goods. Though you have been damaged, there is still good in you. You still have something to offer and obtain in life. God still has a purpose for you. What happened was detrimental, but it wasn't definitive. It doesn't define who you are. What YOU thought would kill you, didn't kill you, YOU SURVIVED IT! You are stronger, wiser, and more courageous than what you give yourself credit.

You may have feelings of depression and sadness some days, and other days, you may experience joy and happiness. You are human, and we all have at one time or another, dealt with some of or all of these emotions. God created them. He understands how they work. Yet, he still loves us, and he still chooses us and calls us his own. He sees our end from the beginning and knows you will be great in the kingdom. Not only should we talk to God, but he also has put people in place for us to talk to them as well. Sometimes, it is good to talk to a professional counselor or therapist when we are trying to understand our emotions. When we are hurting in our bodies and we don't understand the nature of our pain or how to deal with it, we see a doctor. When we can't figure something out or don't quite understand our feelings, it would also be the same concept. Let's debunk the saying that Christians should not see a therapist or counselor; if you do, you are not in faith. Don't remain bound by unfounded beliefs and statements that will keep you in bondage. Let's take care of our mental health so that we can heal and be equipped for HIS purpose! Give yourself a chance and open up to the person God shows you through prayer. Because somebody is watching and listening; and they need you and they are depending on you to show them they can overcome trauma just like you did!

Thank you!

This month in International WOMENS Month Ms. Venus Quates

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 23:24:54 GMT

This month in International WOMENS Month We Celebrate
Ms. Venus Quates

Venus Quates, 43, grew up in a single-parent household in inner-city Buffalo, New York, where her smarts got her into a college prep school. While most of her classmates went off to Ivy League colleges, Quates decided to follow in her grandfather's footsteps and join the Air Force. She spent four years working in information management in locations such as South Korea, Italy, and Saudi Arabia, and then landed a job at the aerospace firm General Dynamics. Throughout her 15 years working technical jobs, Quates was often the only Brown woman in the room and constantly felt like she was underestimated. That motivated her to quit her job and start her own technology solutions company in 2016. The leap would lead to more obstacles and -- eventually -- resounding success.

She started LaunchTech out of my bedroom back home and lived off my savings while she tried to get customers. In the early days, she had different aliases when she spoke with potential clients: Often Ms. Quates recalls she would adopt a British accent and pretend to be an assistant; maybe mention Bob in accounting. None of these people existed. It was all her!

A year in, she was on her way to an SBA class and her car got rear-ended. Ms. Quates had to go through vestibular therapy to regain my balance. She used to be a fast talker, but now she must take a moment and choose her words. Until now, only a few people knew that this happened to her. Her mind is what makes her money, so she is rather insecure about people knowing. But she thinks it’s important for her to deal with it.

Not long after the accident, she and her spouse abruptly got divorced, and was left with next to nothing. Recently, while scrolling through photos she saw a screenshot of a bank statement from around that time: Her account had negative $270 At that point, LaunchTech served as an outsource tech department, helping a few smaller clients upgrade their systems or providing IT support. She had a few part-time workers and paid her mom to be my receptionist.

Ms. Quates kept hustling, trying to earn bigger contracts. In 2018, she won one with the state of New York to provide IT solutions at a workforce training center. It was her first real contract, but she had underbid herself and it wasn't enough money for her to hire the people needed. Lesson learned. Eventually, her company earned contracts with the Air Force, the Department of the Army, and New York City's Metropolitan Transportation Authority, could finally hire people. Today, there are 28 employees within the company.

The company moved their headquarters in 2021. Ms. Quates loves Buffalo but realizes it's not easy to find people there who have experience doing business with the government. Huntsville has one of the highest rates of government spending, but it's way cheaper than places like D.C. It was a great decision.

Ms. Quates shared “sometimes, I still feel like I need to go overboard to prove that we're the best, because we're run by somebody who looks like me. At my last job, I was a data storage engineer for a bank and worked on the third floor. When I got in the elevator in the morning, somebody would usually press two for me -- that was where most of the people of color worked, in the cafeteria. My team was all White males and me. When our vendors came to visit, they would pass business cards out to everybody except me, probably because they thought I was a secretary.

I founded LaunchTech because I wanted to start a company that would be so successful you couldn't deny that we're intelligent enough to do what we're doing. Our last year in Buffalo, we were No. 1 in that city on the Inc. 5000 list. Our first year in Huntsville, we were No. 1 here. There's no denying us anymore. It doesn't matter if I'm the only Brown person in the room or the only woman in the room. I know I'm supposed to be there."

Congratulations to Ms. Venus Quates. May God continue to exalt her far beyond all her expectations.

Healing, The Will of God for All People by Bishop Warren

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 23:18:47 GMT

Healing, The Will of God for All People
Bishop Warren

Genesis Chapters 1 and 2 are perfect chapters that reveal the perfect plan and will of God, the Creator, for man and His created universe.

In these chapters, we find perfect order, discipline, clear instruction, and dominion over all that the Creator has made.

Because of this Euphoric order, man and woman are perfectly submitted to God and the woman to man and the creation to both of them. Therefore, in Eden, there is no sin, there is no sickness, and there is no disease.

When we are born again, reunited with our Creator, and baptized in and with the Holy Spirit, we find ourselves transported from our fallen, sinful selves to what we had before this epic failure.

It is God’s will that we get back to that order and discipline that man had in Genesis Chapters 1 and 2. There was no need for healing in God’s perfect order for humanity, as this order and discipline afforded man perfect health.

When and if we have health, there is no need for healing. God had instructed them to have a diet that produces continuous health! (Genesis 1:29-30)

Today’s diet and discipline have allowed us to stray away from that which provided perfect health, and our lack of discipline provides us with no boundaries, times, or portions. Therefore, we find that what, when, and how we eat is a major part of the enemy's strategy to keep us weak, sickly, and diseased.

If you are reading this article, it’s not too late to implement a recovery plan for your health. Isaiah 58:8 says, When we fast, we force our health to spring forth, perfectly restored to soundness!

In my book, “Fasting the Gateway to God’s Power,” I reveal the lost art and discipline of fasting and the benefits of living this Jesus lifestyle that led to His dominion over flesh, runaway thoughts, and all the power of the devil. There is not one scripture that refers to a sickly diseased Jesus, and He faced the same temptations and distractions that we face today when He was on the earth.

Sadly, our altars are full, and our prayer lines are endless for many of the same complaints; high blood pressure, diabetes, heart ailments, bone problems, all forms of cancer, and respiratory challenges, just to name a few.

We will continue to see these symptoms of the spirit of infirmity as long as we refuse to change what we eat, when we eat, and the portions that we consume.

2 Kings 4:40 says, “O thou man of God, there is death in the pot. And they could not eat thereof. When we recognize one of the sources of infirmity is, (what we eat), we too will stop consuming the death in the pot and decide that we would rather live and learn how to live life more abundantly”.

Make your mind up (the devil has no defense for a determined mind). You will live and not die; you will get stronger and stronger daily. And you will live a healthy, disciplined life starting today.

Healing is the will of God for all people, but when we have our HEALTH, there will be no need for healing.

Celebrating International WOMENS Month by Ms. Devon Moody-Graham

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 23:10:24 GMT

Celebrating International WOMENS Month
Devon Moody-Graham

This month in National WOMENS Month

We Celebrate Ms. Devon Moody-Graham

CEOMOM Empire LLC.

Chief Solutions Officer

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMENS MONTH FROM DEVON MOODY-GRAHAM

A couple years ago, a documentary titled "89 Blocks" premiered on FOX about the lives of a few student athletes and the coaching staff of the 8-time State Championship East St. Louis Senior High School Flyers Football Team. This is my Alma Mater, the home of poverty, pain, record high teen pregnancy, homicide rate climbing daily, and but also to thousands of very successful people who have "made it out" but "return home" to help. Being from a such a infamous place is not a "badge of honor" it's a "badge of hope."

Some of you may be wondering what the significance of showing a picture from a trip Paris in October 2017. Of course, my makeup is flawless, my skirt is dainty, and the view of the Eiffel Tower is LIFE. I am prouder of this than the fashion. I had been trying to get to Paris since I was a teen in the French Club unable to raise enough money in 2000. So, 17 years later I went for fun and 2 years later I went for business, and it's been up since then.

So Happy International Women's Day from a girl from East St. Louis, IL who taking other women across the world to do business and helping them to dream bigger. Of course, I couldn't leave without a few tips to help anyone that wants to do business abroad with a service-based business.

Establish strategic partnerships: Collaborating with established businesses in the target country can help gain access to a new customer base and establish a local presence. Partnerships can take various forms, such as joint ventures, licensing agreements, or distribution agreements.

Create a digital presence: In today's digital age, it's crucial to have a strong online presence to expand your business globally. Creating a multilingual website, optimizing for search engines, and leveraging social media platforms can help attract new customers and build brand awareness.

Attend trade shows and conferences: Attending international trade shows and conferences can help businesses establish relationships with potential customers and partners, learn about the local market, and showcase their services. You can do these virtually as well, just get connected in your desired country.

Learn about the culture and people. Work on your language skills, cultural knowledge, and business expertise can help businesses establish a local presence, understand the local market, and provide better customer service.

Happy International Women's Day. Spin the globe and point your finger, book a flight. Stay tuned for an awesome Global Business Accelerator that I'm working on.

Photo Credit Camron TIETCHEU

Stay encouraged and stay you,

Devon aka CEOMom

Devon Moody-Graham is an international business strategist and impact speaker with over 13 years of experience in new market expansion, marketing strategy, revenue stream creation and business development.

Congratulations Ms. Devon Moody-Graham. May God continues to bless her above all she is able to think or imagine.

Tips on How to Prioritize, Organize, and Plan Your Work by Alan Carniol

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 23:00:17 GMT

Tips on How to Prioritize, Organize, and Plan Your Work
Alan Carniol

Time is one of the most significant things that we have in the world. It is a necessary yet tragically limited resource. In this exceedingly frantic and fast-paced world, the ability to manage time properly is a must.

Time management is essential in achieving your goals and getting your work done. With time management comes organizing, planning, and prioritizing, but why would the interviewer ask about this? The company is interested in how well you manage your time because they want to see if you do your work in an organized way, they want to know your strategies for completing a given task in a short span of time, and they want to determine what your priorities are.

Prioritizing your work is not that easy. You have to identify which things need to be done first. It is a crucial process, but once you get used to it, organizing and planning will be less difficult. If you know how to effectively organize and prioritize your workload, you will learn how to be more efficient and productive.

How do you organize and plan your work? What are your priorities? There is no right or wrong way to answer these questions. The way you do things is ultimately up to you. People are different, so what works for you may not work for someone else. Still, there are some guidelines that can help you in prioritizing your work and answering questions about your time management skills.

1. Make your to-do list.

Listing on paper what you want to accomplish for the day is an effective way to remember the things you need to do. It can be a weekly to-do list, but daily ones are more effective. Write your list on a notepad, starting with the important tasks and then adding the less important ones.

2. Rank your to-do list.

After writing your tasks on a notepad, rank them from the most important to the least. Rewrite your list on another page, and make sure that your handwriting is legible. Tip: Did you know that usually bigger fonts can motivate you to complete the task more than small fonts?

3. Post your to-do list.

Put your to-do list somewhere you can always see it: on your planner or calendar, in your wallet or purse, cell phone (type it in your memo section), or on the board in your office. If you always see the list, you’ll never forget that you have something to do.

4. Note your responsibilities.

Type or write in bullet points some notes about your reminder. For example, you can write the exact time when you have to finish the task, materials that you need for the task, or the name of the person that you’re about to meet (if the task is a meeting). Notes are especially important for people who forget things easily.

5. Avoid unnecessary tasks.

When you’re done writing your to-do list for the day/week, try to analyze the less important task/s in terms of whether you really need to do it/them. If so, then you may need to adjust your schedule for the day; if not, then you can allocate more time for the other tasks or you can just take that opportunity to rest.

6 . Set realistic deadlines.

When you’re working on something and a deadline was set by your boss, set your own deadline ahead of the deadline that your boss gave you. However, set realistic ones. Don’t try to rush yourself just to finish it earlier. Take everything one step at a time and don't set yourself up for failure. This is also applicable for your everyday work. Don’t overwhelm yourself. You don’t want to force yourself to finish something and then suffer the consequences of creating poor-quality work.

7. Set your break time.

Working all day with no break is not fun. If you’re already tired, take a break. There’s nothing wrong with a 10- to 15-minute food break or a quick nap. Drink coffee when you need or want to. Stretch when your body feels cramped. A rule of thumb: rest for ten minutes after every hour of work.

8. Put away distractions.

In this modern world, a lot of things can distract us from doing our work. These include camera phones, mobile devices, gadgets, the World Wide Web (especially Facebook and Twitter), and many more. How are you supposed to finish your work if you spend your time on these things?

Put away the things that distract you. Don’t check your inbox every minute; you can do this during your breaks from work or schedule time slots in your day to check. Once you learn to pay less attention to these things, getting the job done will be much easier.

The key to productivity is good time management. Prioritizing is difficult but is also essential if you want to get things done. Aside from being more efficient and productive, it will also help you alleviate stress in your life. Learning how to prioritize is not an impossible task; you just must determine what needs to be done and how much time you need to do it.

THE BIBLE – IT’S PERSONAL LONELY OR LONGING? by Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 22:49:14 GMT

THE BIBLE – IT’S PERSONAL LONELY

OR LONGING? – Part One

Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

Many baby boomers, millennials, Gen Z, and older adults (18 years old to 89+ years old men and women) experience chronic loneliness. Some causes given for chronic loneliness are working long hours (in and out of the home); being overtasked with classes and homework; no or few senior visits, and three to four hours of daily social media.

Chronic loneliness is one of the factors attributed to an increase in health risks: such as heart disease, stroke, weakened immune system, obesity, inflammation, long-term disability, depression, anxiety, premature death, and dementia. Economic status, geographical location, number of educational degrees, career position, or marital status do not seem to alleviate chronic loneliness; but can exacerbate it.

But how could this be? People are talking and laughing at church, at family gatherings, and at social events. Single friends spatially separated communicate via technology. So how is it possible so many people are experiencing chronic lonely?

Could it be that people are not chronically lonely but are spiritually longing?

By spiritual longing, I mean a deep heart’s desire to communicate with someone to come clean to; tell your darkest secrets to; share your wildest dreams with - without fear of gossip or judgment. Spiritual longing is an inner hunger and thirst that no one on earth can satisfy.

But, I know someone. Here is the beginning of a song King David wrote about Him (Psalm 139:1-4a):

O Eternal One, You have explored my heart and know exactly who I am;

2 You even know the small details like when I take a seat and when I stand up again.

Even when I am far away, You know what I’m thinking.

3 You observe my wanderings and my sleeping, my waking and my dreaming,

and You know everything I do in more detail than even I know.

4 You know what I’m going to say long before I say it. (The Voice)

Good news! If you now recognize that you are experiencing spiritual longing but are not a Christian, and want someone who knows you this intimately, pray this prayer with all of your heart:

Dear Lord Jesus, I have tried to live my life without you. I am so lonely and long for the relationship David sang about. I know that I am a sinner, and I ask for Your forgiveness. I believe You died for my sins and rose from the dead. I invite You to come into my heart and life as my Lord and Savior. Amen

You are now a Christian and have a personal relationship with God, the first step to alleviating chronic loneliness and spiritual longing. Unfortunately, some Christians still experience spiritual longing because they have not learned about all their spiritual benefits. In part two of this series, I will share how all Christians can enjoy a rich fellowship with the Heavenly Father and Savior Jesus Christ so that spiritual loneliness never has to be experienced again.

Let’s talk again next month.

Dorothy J. Haire

Pastor, Speaker, Teacher, Writer

618-980-6316

www.linkedin.com/in/dorothyhaire

So, You Want To Be Saved?!? by David Battle

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 22:15:20 GMT

So, You Want To Be Saved?!?

David Battle

First and foremost, you must understand that Jesus “is able also to save them to the uttermost that come unto God by him” (Hebrews 7:25). The phrase, “to the uttermost” means “completely.” Therefore, the understanding is that JESUS COMPLETELY SAVES.

“Completely saves” identifies the saving power of Jesus both, 1) in the earthly realm (while we yet live in these natural bodies on earth) and 2) in the heavenly realm (the promised inheritance of eternal life with Christ).

Before we can even anticipate the heavenly realm of salvation, we must enter into the earthly realm of salvation recognizing that Jesus Himself said “Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God” (John 3:5), the heavenly realm.

Born of Water and of the Spirit

Being “born of water and of the Spirit” or, as summarized by Jesus, “born again” (John 3:3, 7), is a good place to start your understanding of what it takes to be saved. In His conversation with Nicodemus, as recorded in John Chapter 3, Jesus was setting the stage for what was prophesied to come for ALL of mankind who desired to be saved. Jesus, in fact, criticized Nicodemus for not understanding the prophetic significance of what being “born again” was all about by asking Nicodemus, “Art thou a master of Israel, and knowest not these things? (v.10).

The prophetic significance of the two-part “born again” requirement that Nicodemus should have understood was Ezekiel’s two-part prophecy of: 1) water for cleansing, and 2) God’s spirit being put in man. Ezekiel’s words were these:

Ezekiel 36:25-27 Then will I sprinkle clean water upon you, and ye shall be clean: from all your filthiness, and from all your idols, will I cleanse you. [26] A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh. [27] And I will put my spirit within you, and cause you to walk in my statutes, and ye shall keep my judgments, and do them.

Nicodemus should have also understood the Old Testament practice of water cleansing referred to as “a water of separation” which was specified as “a purification for sin” (Num. 19:9).

While baptism was not an Old Testament practice, cleansing with water was and we, as a sacrifice dying to sin, have our sins remitted (washed away) through baptism. Water baptism is the “born of water” component of the two-part “born again” requirement.

Remission of Sins/Born of Water

When we are baptized, it is for the remission of sins as commanded by Peter in Acts 2:38. Upon hearing the sermon preached by Peter, after the pouring out of the Holy Ghost on the day of Pentecost, the people asked, “Men and brethren, what shall we do [to be saved]? (v.37). Peter then answered, “Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins…” (v.38).

Peter’s answer was in concert with Jesus’ instructions to His disciples prior to His ascension (10 days prior to the day of Pentecost) in which He said, “repentance and remission of sins should be preached in his name among all nations, beginning at Jerusalem” (Luke 24:47). In this verse, Jesus spoke in the third-person about Himself when He said, “in his name.” (This is one of the four recorded scriptures of “The Great Commission” given by Jesus to His disciples. The other scriptures being Matt. 28:19, Mark 16:15-17, and Acts 1:4-11.)

Remission of sins is vital in the saving process and is only accomplished when one is baptized “in the name of Jesus Christ.” So vital to the point where, after Cornelius and his household had received the Holy Ghost, Peter “commanded them to be baptized in the name of the Lord” (Acts 10:48). Also, so vital that upon Paul’s instruction, the twelve disciples of John, the Baptist, “were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus” (Acts 19:5). Even those who believed at Samaria “were baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus” (Acts 8:16).

In all three examples above, these individuals all received the gift of the Holy Ghost evidenced by them speaking in tongues as the Spirit gave them utterance and were then considered “born of the Spirit.”

What Sins Are Remitted? And, What Happens To Sins That Are Remitted?

Upon being baptized (born of water), both, the sin of Adam and the sins we’ve committed are forgiven, washed away. As David explained, “Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother conceive me” (Psalm 51:5). We are all born sinners and take on the transgression of Adam, (Romans 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned). We must also remember these words of Job, “Man that is born of a woman is of few days, and full of trouble” (Job 14:1).

From the Old Testament example of “a water of separation: it is a purification for sin” (Numbers 19:9), we can extrapolate (extend the application or conclude) from other examples of scripture that our sins are forgiven, they are washed away, they are separated from us and they are never to be remembered by God. Here are our prophesied examples of remittance of sin in scripture:

Micah 7:19 He will turn again, he will have compassion upon us; he will subdue our iniquities; and thou wilt cast all their sins into the depths of the sea.

Isaiah 38:17 Behold, for peace I had great bitterness: but thou hast in love to my soul delivered it from the pit of corruption: for thou hast cast all my sins behind thy back.

Psalm 103:12 As far as the east is from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.

What Is My Status Once I’ve Been Baptized (“Born of Water”)?

First and foremost, there is no hard and fast rule as to when one is baptized and at what time they receive the Holy Ghost (see the section on “Repentance” below). Scripture gives examples wherein people were baptized first and then they received the Gift of the Holy Ghost later (Acts 8:12-17, 19:5-6). Scripture also give example were people received the Holy Ghost prior to being baptized (Acts 10:44-47).

It is recommended that as soon as a person come to the realization they need God in their life and make that crucial decision to repent, they should be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins. When we are baptized, we “are buried with him by baptism into death: that like as Christ was raised up from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life” (Rom. 6:4).

When our sins have been remitted we begin the journey of a NEW LIFE. Scripture says, “we also should walk in newness of life” (Rom. 6:4) with the key word being “SHOULD.” Whether you receive the Holy Ghost prior to baptism, after baptism or while you’re being baptized, you must be taught how to walk in this newness of life. In these modern day times, your best options are threefold, 1) Bible Class, 2) Sunday School Class, and 3) self-study. In all three of these, it is God who opens your understanding and “guide you into all truth” (John 16:13). That road to guidance into all truth begins with the learning of the word of God in which we “grow in grace, and in the knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ” (2 Peter 3:18) thereby learning how to walk in your NEW LIFE.

With both, born of water and born of the Spirit, we are born again into Christ and we are consider by God as “a new creature,” a “new man” (2 Cor. 5:17 Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new).

Gift of the Holy Ghost/Born of the Spirit/Speaking In Tongues As The Spirit Gives The Utterance Peter concluded his answer in Acts 2:38 admonishing them that they would “receive the gift of the Holy Ghost,” which beforehand he had told them that what they had witnessed was “that which was spoken by the prophet Joel” (Acts 2:16); God “pour[ing] out of [His] Spirit upon all flesh” (v.17). This Holy Ghost is the thirst quencher that Jesus spoke of when He said, “He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water” (John 7:38). It is no wonder, when a person is filled with the Holy Ghost, tongues erupt out of them; an utterance given only by the Spirit itself.

Speaking in tongues as the Spirit gives the utterance is not something that has eroded over the years as some would have us to believe. When I received the Holy Ghost, I spoke in a language that I did not know nor that I had ever learned, it was the Spirit of God that gave me the utterance. This was the experience of all those in scripture as characterized in the book of Acts which gives us the historical account of the New Testament church. It happened to them and millions of people throughout the world since then. Paul declared, “forbid not to speak with tongues” (1 Cor. 14:39) for he himself knew the importance as well as the significance of speaking in tongues. The key to speaking in tongues is that, it is the Spirit of God that gives the utterance.

There is, however, confusion over this Spirit generated phenomenon of speaking in tongues. For clarity, let us understand that speaking in tongues serves the following three (3) purposes:

It is the undeniable scriptural evidence of a person receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost in which both Jews and non-Jews all spoke in tongues when they received the Holy Ghost (Acts 2:4, 8:18, 10:46, 19:6).

It is for self-edification (1 Cor. 14:4) “For he that speaketh in an unknown tongue speaketh not unto men, but unto God: for no man understandeth him” (v.2). To one’s understanding speaking in tongues “is unfruitful” (v.14) but to one’s spirit it is a mystery (v.2). It is also “for a sign, not to them that believe, but to them that believe not (v.22). Paul cited that, “I thank my God, I speak with tongues more than ye all” (v.18). He further emphasized that, for his personal edification, he prayed in tongues as well as sang in tongues (1 Cor. 14:15 I will pray with the spirit, and I will pray with the understanding also: I will sing with the spirit, and I will sing with the understanding also.).

It is one of the gifts of the Spirit which is acted upon alongside the gift of interpretation so “that the church may receive edifying” (1 Cor. 14:5). Paul also established the proper protocol for the gift of tongues when it is to be exercised in the church (1 Cor. 14:27 If any man speak in an unknown tongue, let it be by two, or at the most by three, and that by course; and let one interpret.). The gift of tongues does not negate it’s undeniable scriptural evidence of one being filled with the Holy Ghost nor it’s use for self-edification for one after they’ve been filled.

The gift of the Holy Ghost does not come upon a person solely because they confess with their mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in their heart that God raised Jesus from the dead. Nor does it come upon a person because they accept Jesus as their “personal savior.” Receiving the Holy Ghost is a byproduct of repentance. Peter began his three-part answer for what is required to be saved with the instruction to “repent” (Acts 2:38).

Repentance

To repent, one changes his or her mind from sin and changes his or her purpose from serving Satan to serving God. True repentance/change comes when the burden of sin and separation from God is realized in a person, as was experienced by the multitude on the day of Pentecost (Acts 2:37 Now when they heard this, they were pricked in their heart,). We, thereby understand the scripture that says, “godly sorrow [that] worketh repentance to salvation” (2 Corinthians 7:10). Scripture foretold of God’s recognizing the godly sorrowful, the truly repentant person: Psalm 34:18 The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.

Psalm 51:17 The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise.

Isaiah 57:15 For thus saith the high and lofty One that inhabiteth eternity, whose name is Holy; I dwell in the high and holy place, with him also that is of a contrite and humble spirit, to revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite ones.

Isaiah 66:2 …to this man will I look, even to him that is poor and of a contrite spirit, and trembleth at my word.

God, and God alone, who knows the heart and mind of every person, fills the repentant person with His Spirit when, and only when, they’ve met His conditions for infilling. No one can give another person the Holy Ghost and no one can claim to have it outside of God’s requirement for receiving it. No measure of works and/or servitude will grant one the saving grace of God which has been extended to mankind by and through the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

So, You Want To Be Saved?!?

The crowd on the day of Pentecost wanted to be saved. So did Cornelius and his household; so did Saul of Tarsus who became Paul, the apostle; so did the twelve disciples of John; so did the Ethiopian eunuch; and so did the multitude of people of Samaria. The prevailing question echoed in these biblical accounts is similarly the same as was asked on the day of Pentecost, “Men and brethren, what shall we do?” (Acts 2:37). Every person who hungers and thirst for a saving relationship with God are asking this question. And, the answer has not changed over the approximate 2,000 years since the question was first asked, the answer and result of obeying the instructions being:

Acts 2:38-41 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. [39] For the promise is unto you, and to your children, and to all that are afar off, even as many as the Lord our God shall call. [40] And with many other words did he testify and exhort, saying, Save yourselves from this untoward generation. [41] Then they that gladly received his word were baptized: and the same day there were added unto them about three thousand souls.

You too can be saved by adhering to the mandates of scripture referenced and those exampled in this article.

SPIRITUAL GPS MINISTRIES by Donna Casey

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 04:39:30 GMT

SPIRITUAL GPS MINISTRIES

Founder - Donna Casey

Donna Casey Serves as the President and Executive Director of Spiritual GPS Ministries. She is the doting wife of Minister Christopher Casey, and the proud second mother to her God-given daughter, OLivia Bowles.

She is a builder at heart. A builder of people, gifts, talents, and most importantly - a builder of God Kingdom. Her heart is to point people to God, help them discover their purpose in life, and then help them successfully navigate through the obstacles and challenges that life presents and come out on the other side of trials stronger and better for it. Her passion is to teach others how to turn pain into purpose! Donna serves in several ministries at her home church, Faith Miracle Temple - which is where she attributes learning most of what she knows about ministry. Her and her husband are submitted to and are under the amazing leadership of Bishop Larry J. Baylor and Dr. Marlon T. Baylor. Spiritual GPS Ministries is a result of Donna following the leading of the Lord and responding to the needs of the people. Spiritual GPS is a Non-Profit designed to help people navigate through challenging circumstances, while learning principles conducive to growth and helping one become their best and most productive self.

This is done in various ways, including but not limited to providing in-person and virtual seminars, conferences, 1-on-1 coaching and connections to professional resources for those in need and/or at risk. They also focus heavily on development, mentoring, and training. At its core, Spiritual G.P.S. is a deliverance ministry. Deliverance is defined as, the action of being rescued or set free. The root word of deliverance is deliver. Deliver is defined as, to assist in the birth of, save or rescue, to launch or aim. This describes the function of the organization. They exist to be the vessels, the hands feet – mouth - and heart of Jesus. They can do nothing of our own, for we know that it is not by might nor by power, but by the spirit of the Lord that we can impact lives.

SPIRITUAL GPS MISSION STATEMENT: Through the leading of the Lord, we embark on living up to the GPS in our ministry name, by leading others to a closer relationship with God and helping them get to their destination called. We are Pushers”! Our desire is to point people to Jesus and help them grow closer to Him despite the challenges that life presents. We want to offer hope, healing, and help people realize the endless possibilities and greatness that is locked up inside of them.

Their proficiency is in helping others to discover their God given purpose, gift, and talents - and then helping them to walk in it. We endeavor to deliver people from a state of hopelessness and stagnation to a state of productivity and insight into who they are in God and who God is in them. Through teaching, courses, ministry, strategically planned events, and more - we want to help people process through the wreckage of life, and teach them how to turn pain into purpose. Our desire is to reach those who God is calling, but who may feel unqualified or unworthy. We want to reach the Davids: who may not look the part, but who God is calling, nonetheless.

We want to reach the Josephs who may feel like an outcast but in them is the power to save a nation. Through God wisdom and insight, we want to let people know that their experiences have not been in vain, and to let them know that no matter how low or high they have been in life - their life matters. We proclaim loudly of a savior that can work all things together for the good to them that love Him and who are called according to His purpose. We want to help people answer their God given calling.

We have a calendar of events attached and hope to connect soon!

Please reach out to us at support@spiritualgpsministries.com

314.502.9987

The Church and Re-entry by Alfred Long

Thu, 16 Mar 2023 04:17:33 GMT

The Church and Re-entry

Alfred Long

Many become discouraged and feel that it’s easier in prison than out. What is really devastating is that the prison mentality is passed down through generations repeating itself over and over.

The question is, “How can the Church break the cycle of a lifetime of crime, addiction and prison”? In my forty five years of prison ministry I’ve found that three components work together to provide a successful re-entry. They are faith, family and community, all of which the Church can provide. They remind me of a three legged stool. If any leg of a three legged stool is missing the stool is unstable and unsuitable to sit on.

Their hope in life is restored, They are introduced to a new way of living because they become reborn in their spirits which trickles down to every area of their lives.

(2 Corinthians 5:17 NLT)

“This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun”!

More importantly the Church can show love which lays the foundation for a successful re-entry.

(John 13:34-35 NIV)

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

The second leg of our “stool of reentry” is family. Ask yourself, “is there anything else needed besides a declaration of faith in Jesus for a successful reentry”?

I pose this question because I’ve seen so many people on fire for Jesus, while locked up, yet lack the ability to transfer that fire to a successful reentry.

What happened?

Neither I nor you are in a position to judge the validity of anyone’s salvation yet scripture teaches us to add to our faith.

(2 Peter 1:5-7 NIV)

The third leg of our “stool of reentry” is community. A successful Reentry requires that the returning person knows about and takes advantage of the resources available in the community.

Some will need housing, substance abuse treatment, mental health treatment, identification, job training, access to medication and other needs. Most Churches aren’t equipped to satisfy all of those needs but it can provide Mentors or Reentry Coaches to pray, encourage and make referrals for those who need them. This also is a part of discipleship.

When all three legs of our “stool of reentry”, faith, family and community are intact, it will greatly reduce recidivism rates and restore stability to our families and communities.

And The Church plays a huge part in making this happen!

Alfred Long Sr.

Alfred Long Sr. Is a Pastor, Author, Biblical Counselor, Life Coach, and Consultant. He is the Founder and Director of Jacob’s Ladder Ministries and the proud husband of Kacie Starr Long. Pastor Al is available for speaking engagements and consulting on “how to grow a successful prison ministry”.

"The History of the Black Church" by Bishop Lawrence Brown Jr.

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 16:55:25 GMT

"The History of the Black Church- The Dynasty of Dignity

Bishop Lawrence Brown Jr.

In the centuries since its birth, in the time of slavery, the Black Church has stood as the foundation of Black religious, political, economic, and social life. The Black Church has influenced nearly every chapter of the African American story.

I find it amazing how throughout the history of Afro-American life, the Black Church created and has been a culture within a culture. Not only has the Black Church served the religious needs of Black Americans, but it also became a high-end corporate structure of opportunities for gifted black people to rise to positions of authority and dignity within the black communities of America. Historically, the Black Church was a dynasty of dignity and authority within a world of demeaning slavery and sub-dignity in which black people were deprived of positions of authority and power and limited to positions of menial servitude and disrespect.

Throughout the history of black society in America, the Black Church has been a dynasty that utilized, recognized, and magnified the great leadership and management skills of black people, from the times of slavery up to the times of systemic racism and discrimination in current American culture. Throughout history, the Black Church has been a lighthouse and dynasty of dignity in a sea of humiliating and sub-human treatment by white society. Because of the debasing systems of slavery, segregation, discrimination, and racism that designated the demeaning sub-dignified positions that black people were limited to in the corporate world and society, black people were often held back from positions of dignity and power in the mainstream economic world. Through discrimination, Blacks were often limited to serving in what was considered positions of servitude, such as Butlers, Maids, Chauffeurs, Janitors, and Nannies. They were cooks and did other tasks that said to them, “You are not capable of serving in any position of importance or meaningful authority. But while these were common positions held by Black people in their everyday lives throughout the week (where they had to wear dirty work clothes or servant’s uniforms and act sub-human to appease White people, even calling the White children of their Master “Miss” and “Master”) black people could not wait to get to Church. At Church, on Sundays, they were not a disrespected servant, but in the dynasty of the Church, they were executives, trustees, pastors, building managers, and financial advisors, and held other positions of dignity and authority; in plain terms, the Church was a haven to maximize their potential.

While they were not recognized by White society during the work week, for many of those butlers, chauffeurs, maids, nannies, and other undignified positions, when they got to Church {the dynasty of dignity) wearing their ‘Sunday-go-to-meeting suits’ similar to the suits their white bosses wore every day to their executive offices; it was the Black man’s day to be a corporate executive. And the Black women wore fine dresses and hats to Church on Sundays similar to the ones the white women wore to the tea parties where the black women served throughout the week. Those who were black janitors during the week were pastors on Sunday. They had to say, “Yes Sir,” to children when at the bosses’ house, but when they got to Church (the dynasty of dignity) they become the corporate president and executives, and people said, “Yes Sir,” to them. They had their own corporate office, with an executive desk and high-back swivel chair. They led a corporate trustee board. They were PASTORS and were not disrespectfully called by their first names but were called Pastor. Many of the ladies who were merely cooks for their bosses in the White people’s homes were the head of the kitchen at their Church (the dynasty of dignity). They supervised their staff of church workers and were highly respected for their great leadership skills and management abilities. Some of the nannies who were merely babysitters for white children during the week; were highly respected ‘State Mothers’ in their church organizations.

Janitors were deacons and trustees that made major business decisions for the Church. These trustees and church officers would not come to Church without wearing a necktie, just like their white bosses wore every day. The Church recognized their corporate dignity and worth. The Black Church was a whole society of opportunity to serve in positions of authority and dignity for the great and talented Black people up until the whole world began to recognize the great talent and administrative gifts that Black people are to the whole of society. Therefore, during this Afro-American History month, let us remember the dignity of the dynasty that gave fulfillment to our forefathers and our mothers and fathers who were denied such in the sea of discrimination but found it in the dynasty of dignity, which was in the Black Church.

Pastor Julia Byas is More Than A Conqueror

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 16:42:55 GMT

"More Than A Conqueror"

Pastor Julia Byas

My name is Author Julia Byas, founder and senior pastor of ITGWU worship center/Women of power Ministries/Servants working in Unity.

God can use a broken woman to help other broken people to prevent or manifest victory. A place that would cause them to stand still, believing the lie and not fulfilling God’s call for their lives. Brokenness can be good, and being broken can also be bad, but I will tell you how. We use the utensils of His word with obedience.

On January 30, 2021, I was awakened the day after the first vigil for my son Maurice and heard in my spirit the power of the spoken word. I went to my computer and began to write “AN INSPIRED ACT AS THOUGH I AM ALREADY THERE I AM” pamphlet.

The following day, for a month, I was inspired at 4 am to arise and write all day, eating nothing and only drinking water. Indeed, it was a powerful experience. I am a retiree, and we don’t get up early (SMILE). This had to be God. My precious son, Apostle Maurice O. Lewis, died on Thanksgiving on November 27, 2003. During this journey since 2003, I did the work of the ministry. I had worked for God and put Him first in my life.

In the beginning, when I lost my son, I could not handle it. I just fell to the floor and told God I could not do it. From that moment, He lifted me and carried me all these years to be able to do

His will. For all these years, I was unaware of the damage that had been done in my life while I was walking on this journey until I was awoken.

Then I began to write after his vigil. I was shifted to a different place in my life. Though I was still unable to explain everything, my book ACT AS THOUGH I AM ALREADY, I AM THERE POWER OF THE SPOKEN WORD was totally God-inspired. It has told some of the story and brought me to a greater understanding of the power of obedience to His word and destroyed all the negativity that had been spoken into your life. God can take brokenness and turn it into Power. For this, I praise Him using His Word in my book to verify that our Lord is Powerful. We can use His Word to gain and sustain our victory in Him.

After brokenness, is the results of the leftover which is the dust from the pain and brokenness. The breaking of the heart and the tears, the leftovers that appear after you have been broken and poured out. What do you do with the remains? We give it to God. Seek you first, the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added... The loss of a child is not explainable; we are never ready to bury our children. My book was inspired by the spirit within me and was written out of the victory of the spoken word. My mentee asked me if I had ever had a vigil for my son. I had never thought of it. He asked, “If I do a vigil for him would you come?” And a “YES” came flowing out of my heart, not sure why at the time. He set it all up and arranged everything. He got the balloons and the candles, and I got the people together. I fixed the food, and my grandchildren were all on board, and the family came. That night was so exciting; I was overwhelmed by the presence of God. I was unaware of the deliverance that had occurred in my life until I woke up the next day. For, I praise God for the ability to write my book. The “Act as though I'm already there I am there POWER OF THE SPOKEN WORD, was written out of obedience. The book demonstrates how the spoken word was used to express how I got to where I was or how I got to where I am. I thank God for my book and my experience, but I really thank God for my THERE.

Surely Pastor Julia Byas is More than A Conqueror!

"Love and Marriage" by Bishop Phil & Pastor Sharell Brownlee

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 16:36:46 GMT

"Love and Marriage"

Bishop Phil & Pastor Sharell Brownlee

Both of us Having been previously married and held office as senior pastors at two different churches, between the two of us we have almost 50 years of marital experience. We are now and have been counseling married couples, offering couples counseling and pre marriage counseling, today we would like to touch on just four or five aspects from our counseling sessions, this is just a summary of how we work hopefully it will give you tools to make better decisions and possibly enrich and increase the potency of your marriage.

If you hear anything that interests you feel free to contact us from the information below.

1. Ready for Love

Before you can embark in any relationship you must first do a self-examination to make sure that your past relationships, past hurts, unresolved issues with family and others have been dealt with, you should work on being healthy both physically and sexually, you should first enrich your personal spiritual relationship with God making sure that you are whole In your worship and service to God before bringing another person into that scenario, knowing that this will take some time.

2. After you say I do

It's a good idea to occasionally go over Basic wedding vows with your spouse,( I take you to be my wife/ husband to have and to hold from this day forward for better or worse for richer or poorer in sickness and in health) and ask them how you are doing at keeping your vows.

Imagine scenarios on each vow how you would respond to job loss or having an illness, gaining weight, an old flame popping up, if they backslide or change their religion ,This will both give you a reality of your wedding vows, prepare you for upcoming problems and situations and give you insight to better understand How your mate responds to problem solving and working together as a team.

3. Unadulterated Communication

You have heard it said that communication is the key to any relationship, that communication must be unadulterated meaning not mixed with lies half truths or extra elements that don't pertain to what is being discussed, both parties should be willing to listen and put themselves in the other person's shoes sometimes taking a break to truly consider others feelings, emotional state and even thinking of how they process things.

4. Bonding with the Q’s

When creating a lasting bond with your mate you need to consider their ability for adversity. You have heard of IQ intelligence quota a score derived from a set of standardized test to assess human intelligence, when dealing in relationships I want to introduce You to EQ, SQ and AQ. EQ. Emotional Quota - how your mate deals with emotional stress such as menopause, midlife crisis, when a person reinvents themselves, losing loved ones, this can change the marriage. SQ. Spiritual Quota - the level of your mate's spirituality, their ability to catch or relate with you in the spirit, your commitment to the church and dealing with spiritual leaders. AQ. Adaptability Quota - their ability to stay in love when major aspects of life began to change, life in an empty nest, when age begins to change your interests.

5. Till death do us part

Have you talked with your mate About being with them no matter what, About being in love when you don't feel in love, about coming home when you don't want to come home, about the covenant relationship that you made with God that we are no longer twain but have become one always and forever...

May your marriage bring you all the fulfillment and marriage should bring and may the Lord give you patience tolerance and understanding, remember that every burden is easier to carry when you have the shoulders of two instead of 1, be thankful to one another in your thoughts and deeds and above all be faithful to Jesus, may you see the marriage be it as an altar of grace and pleasure, each time you speak to one another remember you were talking to someone that God has given to you, if any indifference pushes you apart may you have the good sense to take the first step back and always say forgive me I forgive you and never stop saying I love you...

Phil and Sharell Brownlee

Peace Tabernacle Church

3514 Oregon 63118

314-243-1886

pastorphiljohn316@gmail.com

“Employment 2023” by Melody Fogarty

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 16:15:03 GMT

“Employment 2023"

Melody Fogarty

Where are employment or entrepreneurial energy headed specifically for black America, I say overseas. There is step change coming to the shores of America.

The United States has set monetary policy around the world for the last 225 years. USD has been the sole marker of global commerce. This is not the future. Monetary policy, globally, is changing. Specifically, we are going to move away from the dollar. Money around the world will be defined in terms of digital currency.

Digital currency will be assigned by continent, or rather continental alliances. The euro which is a unified currency for Europe will be met by another currency for Africa, which will also be met by the Asian unified currency, and the South American unified currency. Gold will be king. Paper will be nothing in the New World order.

As a result of this change in monetary policy, we are going to step towards a new world order of power, BRICS. The global majority sits in Brazil, Russia, India, China, and South Africa. To that particular alliance, Saudi Arabia, Turkey, Egypt, and several other African countries are coming together to set a new path into the next millennia. No doubt the United States is going to resist. Europe is going to resist. In the end, these new world titans are going to succeed.

Black America sits between these two worlds, the old and the new. First, we must step into our true history. Black Americans are the American descendants of enslaved Africans and aboriginal Americans. To this end, Ghana and many other African countries are offering black America, the opportunity to repatriate, to invest in the continent, to take the things that we have learned and the things that we own, and to move them into an environment, where we are accepted, and where we might thrive. On the other hand, we are the children of the aboriginal Americans, people that are still not spoken of, the Muscogee, the Seminole, the Creek, the Choctaw, and many others, who are dark skinned native Americans, who arrived in the Americas, well before the Europeans and thrived originally in what we warmly referred to as Louisiana, Mississippi, Alabama Georgia, North Carolina, South Carolina, Virginia, and Florida. We definitely would be foolish to abandon America, or rather the United States and our investment here. Therefore, it is in our best interest to fuse/bridge the United States with whichever country in Africa you select as your secondary home.

Our next step is to catalog our knowledge, skills and abilities, and offer them to the African continent in the form of annual pilgrimage to assist in the development of those countries who have graciously allowed us to return. By making this effort, we will minimize the underutilization of our potential here in the United States, and will have an opportunity to expand our skills using those experiences we will have on the continent.

Simultaneously to offering of our knowledge, skills and abilities, I highly recommend that we learn how to acquire businesses at reasonable and fair market rate that can be easily transitioned to the continent. Businesses that are not already there, but are highly beneficial to both our efforts here in the United States, and in Africa. Those businesses include such things as solar or alternative energy, automotive, automation, medical, construction, plumbing, electrical, banking, accounting and finance, technology media, the arts, etc.

Finally, reinvest our profits collectively in education, technology and commerce both here and in Africa. We want to vacation in Africa. Our children will do a year of study aboard in BRICS countries. Our definition of international business means we have operations in the Americas and on the Continent.

Black America’s goal must be self-sufficient growth and prosperity through expansionism. Managing wealth by growing our ownership both here and aboard.

What you should be doing right now is learning Swahili, visiting African countries and networking, honing your skills!

“Rethink Possible” by Cynthia Bennett

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 15:56:36 GMT

“Rethink Possible"

Cynthia Bennett

There is a fortune 500 company in the United States whose desire was to change the consumer’s view of their image as being a communications company into an image of an innovative one. Launching their new marketing campaign “Rethink Possible” which consists of a collection of intelligence and ideas geared towards helping those of us expand our boundaries into unchartered territory we once labeled as “can’t” .

This new concept would only be beneficial to those who dare to take another look at the capability of something happening or existing that is favorable.

In the book of Numbers Chapter 13, Moses sent twelve spies over into the land of Canaan. He told them that this was the land that God promised the Israelites, and that it would be flowing with milk and honey. They were to check out the enemy to develop battle strategies to defeat them. But ten of the spies came back with a bad report because they saw their enemies as giants and caused the children of Israel to complain about moving forward. However, we know that Joshua and Caleb took a different perspective and saw their enemies as grasshoppers and said that we are “well able” to possess the land. Because Joshua and Caleb relied on their faith in God, entered into the land of milk and honey and prospered where those who lacked faith in God and saw the enemy as giants did not make it. Matthew 17:20 (b) says If ye have faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye shall say unto this mountain, remove hence to yonder place; and it shall remove; and nothing shall be impossible unto you.

Just look at all of the pioneers who decided to step out in unchartered territory. When most spoke of the enormousness of the task or the impossibility of the outcome, others, such as Dr. Martin Luther King, Rosa Parks, Judge Ketanji Jackson and President Barack Obama saw the task as an opportunity for the taking and decided to “Rethink Possible” . What did they all have in common? They had a desire to take “another look” to change perception about a particular image, concept, or practice. It’s like the famous illusion of the Old Lady versus the Young Lady. Is it a drawing of the old lady with a pointed chin, huge nose and scarf tied on her head or the young lady with a feather in her hat showing a side view of her face?

Do you dare to take another look to see things from a different perspective or are you settled with only the first look, first idea, first suggestion or opinion?

This is the start of the month set aside for Black History. If we are to move forward with opportunities and perspectives; we also need to move forward in the things of God and receive his blessings. We must step out on faith to change old perceptions and ideas. That new career, starting or resuming your education, starting businesses are not giants you cannot obtain or overcome, they are within reach to them that believe. Rethink Possible for we are well able to possess whatever we lay our eyes upon. For what God says is for us is for us!

"Things that make you hmmm." by Dan Lovekamp

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 15:25:34 GMT

“Things that make you hmmm."

Dan LoveKamp

Recently in a discussion about process and protocol, I came upon a circumstance that made me rethink my philosophy about behavioral improvement. I found myself being very judgmental about a decision made which seemed to be in the best interests of all parties but under further examination was simply self-serving and manipulative. Do you find yourself being truly honest about what your real intentions are, or do you justify everything?

The more I thought about it the more I became angry with myself for not recognizing this. We tend to take sides when the best choice is to remain objective. When I made my case for being devil's advocate, I received the response: "We will never agree on this". Sound familiar? What are your thoughts?

“REMIX” by REVEREND DR. ROBERT CHARLES SCOTT

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 06:53:25 GMT

“REMIX”

REVEREND DR. ROBERT CHARLES SCOTT

We are about to celebrate the birth, legacy, and ministry of the late Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. For many African Americans, this is a significant date because of what King means to so many. His life and ministry transcend race, religion, culture, and ethnicity because what King did continue to reverberate around the world.

However, one of the problems that I have when we celebrate this day is that many have tried to extrapolate King from the cauldron of the African American church and from the praxis of ministry. This is a dangerous because we are living in a time when the African American church is taking on less significance in the African American community, in particular, and in this country. Nevertheless, if we look closely at Dr. King, we will realize within his psyche, he had a faith that sustained him and allowed him to transcend the narrow constrictions of time and cross over into the limitless expanses of eternity.

Therefore, this faith has to be inculcated into the lives of African Americans in this new millennium. African Americans are faced with a myriad of challenges and a variety of concerns that test the essence of our personhood and the validity of our humanity. We are constantly bombarded through the media, the negative images that destroy our personal and communal identity to the point that many African Americans believe the unfavorable press. We must deal with the challenge of rising above oppressive conditions and continue to maximize and optimize our potential, presence, and passions. Most Americans know only those African Americans who appear on the nightly news (and oftentimes diametrically opposed) - super rich entertainers and car jackers; incredible sports figures and rapists; minority leader in the House of Representatives and a liquor store thief; and a female black Vice President and a woman selling her babies on the internet. But America does not witness the fact that most of us are law abiding citizens. We go to church; our children overrun our HBCUs; we maintain a decent income and investment dividends; and we preserve our homes with a sense of love, order and deep devotion.

Sadly, racial stereotypes obscure from the public African Americans who have remained true to themselves and our ancestors who rose from slavery with a sense of purpose and dignity, who pursued education instantly, who kept hope alive, and battled the vestiges of segregation and Jim Crow. They have refused to give in to otherworldly cults, ignored separatist movements, and spurned the disdainful theories about being inferior. African Americans continue to fill buses, taxis, highways on their way to banks, schools, factories, construction sites, and hospitals, stores where they serve the public, contribute to society, and pump the economy. We have made viable contributions to America, and yet, we are still trying to rise above the challenge of oppression.

Thus, within the psyche of King and African Americans, we have a persistent faith linked to our purpose and destiny. This faith sustains us because we must saliently conclude that racism is not dead. There is still this move to disenfranchise African Americans through gerrymandering. Black women continue to be mistreated with obnoxious justifications. Young African Americans tend to be disregarded politically.

We must have the faith that Dr. King had. His faith was a faith in God, in faith in our own self-worth, the dignity, and in the concept that America’s 330 million diverse people can create the beloved community that has ethnic and cultural differences, and yet, give allegiance to values of justice, freedom, equality, and compassion. We are still striving for the community that is reflective of Dr. King’s dream where we will not be judges by the color of our skin but by the content of our character. As African Americans, we have overcome political misfortunes, political setbacks, educational pitfalls, and social backlash.

When one thinks about Dr. King and his tenacity, in the pit of Birmingham jail and within reach of Bull Connor’s dogs, he either had to be crazy or have faith in God that will rescue him out of such extreme situations. Just like King, we have survived obstacles and continue to press forward toward helping America reach an unprecedented role in human history as a melting pot.

But like Dr. King, we, as African American, are living betwixt and between. Our collective reality is shrouded in contradictions and ambiguities. On one hand, so many African Americans have dealt with the burdens of discrimination, the problems of poverty, and poor education, and seem to make it in society. On the other hand, there are failures in black life seem to be on the news every night, handcuffed and stuffed in police cars. These powerful images project a disturbing future where angry alienated African Americans seem to live in perpetual chaos. Thus, many Americans believe the spiral of racism and violence has gotten to a point of no return. With this type of mentality, the vitality, validity, and veracity of African Americans are in grave danger especially in 2023.

Yet, the faith of Dr. King and our faith are remarkable. It is a faith that transcends the myopic religious perspective and goes into the soul aspect of our being. It is a faith that was intrinsic in our fore parents. This faith empowered ancestors to change the conditions that prevented the full reality of black personhood and potential into a positive reality. What our ancestors did and what Dr. King did was take the symbols of white racism and oppression and translated into meaning for our culture and heritage. Dr. King’s faith put backbone into Civil Rights movement to endure racial slurs, jail cells, water hoses, sore feet, bombings, and other dehumanizing acts. Faith allowed Dr. King’s mind to be illumined to have hope for better days, to envision brighter tomorrows, to overcome insurmountable odds, to go to the mountaintop, and to maintain his sanity in the midst of an insane reality. Faith gave Dr. King a sense of the eternal that authorized him to take nothing and make something out of it. Because while Dr. King did not live to see a lot of the things he fought for to come to past, his enabled him to believe in the possibility of dignity, education, compassion, justice, freedom, and love for all. It will be this type of faith, the faith that Dr. King had, will demonstrate that we are more than composite definitions of others defining us, more than a reflection of dismal governmental reports and negative data in sociology books, and more than the sum of our deprivations and deficiencies. We are created in the image of God with the same human equipment and intellectual potential evenly distributed on the same normal curve.

Therefore, if we apply Dr. King’s faith to our reality, we can continue to rise. It is the same faith of Momma and Daddy, Grandma and Grandpa, and our ancestors. It is the faith that called upon the God of Abraham and Sarah, Isaac and Rebekah, Jacob and Rachel, and Joseph and Mary. This faith… the faith of Dr. King can be the force of change in our reality and creates an awareness that refutes and rescinds the dehumanizing and degrading aspects of racism and oppression. This faith will empower us to do the work of justice, liberation, redemption, and freedom to create the positive change so warranted in a deeply divided country and a fractured world. The struggle continues and it will be the young ones who will bring about the change with the wisdom and insight of the elders. A luta continua!

More Than A Conqueror "Saved To Serve" by Calandra Devona Flanigan

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 06:06:12 GMT

“More Than A Conqueror"

Saved To Serve

Calandra Devona Flanigan

I have been community service driven all my life. Growing up I knew a close church friend whose family went into a shelter. That day, I remember vividly talking to God. I said Lord, when you bless me to come into some money, I’m going to open a homeless shelter. Little did I know that some years later I too found myself, along with my five children, living in the homeless shelter.

That experience allowed me to grow and see firsthand, the ends, outs, struggles and lack of resources that were available to people trying to survive. Motivated to come out of my undesirable state of being, I took advantage of the few programs available to aid people like me.

Overtime, the Lord blessed me with a job and a place for my family and I to live.

Soon thereafter I bought a vehicle. I am grateful for where the Lord brought me from and where he is leading me. I have always been active in church and after a period moved into leadership roles. I know I have been called to serve in Community service.

I organized several community outreach events, such as “Seeing the Love of Jesus”. At this event we collected eyeglasses to be refurbished and distributed to people who needed eyewear. Another outreach event I oversaw was “Purses with a Purpose”. We collected purses and hygiene items. We would fill the purses with the items and then we distributed them to homeless women in several communities in downtown St. Louis. We also visited nursing homes throughout the metropolitan area. In addition to that, I was the coordinator for the “Joy to the World… “Sisters Serving Families in the Community” outreach event. This was a Christmas event, where we provided nearly 100 families with gifts, gift cards for food, supplies, resources, and a holiday photo with their families.

As of the last three years, a dream I had over 10 years ago, began to move to the forefront of my heart and mind. I soon found myself longing to go to Africa. October 2022, I was afforded the opportunity to go to Liberia West Coast Africa for mission work.

No words can truly express the overwhelming confirmation that consumed me knowing I was where I was destined.

Each day in Liberia I oversaw the organizing and distribution of clothes, toiletries, and hygiene items. My soul was thoroughly satisfied hearing the people say, “Thank you for being here”. Or having someone ask, “if they could hug me?”, brought such joy and happiness to my life. It was disappointing at the close of each day to know there was someone still in need.

There are so many things we who live in the states can obtain with little delay.

We have healthcare, free educational systems, water, trash, and sewer services, food programs and various amenities just about everywhere we turn. We are an efficient, thriving, and fortunate nation. It is our duty to relieve human suffering as best we can.

I now know without a shadow of a doubt my purpose in life.

I want to fulfill it to the best of my ability.

I left Liberia forever changed. I know it is because of Christ Jesus that I live, move, and have my being. I have been saved to serve and I have been made More Than a Conqueror through Christ Jesus!

2023 COMMIT TO TRANSFORMATION by David A. Rogers

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 05:58:21 GMT

“2023 COMMIT TO TRANSFORMATION"

Apostle David A. Rodgers

New Vision of Faith Ministries- Chicago

24 Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may obtain it. 25 And everyone who competes for the prize is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a perishable crown, but we for an imperishable crown. 26 Therefore I run thus: not with uncertainty. Thus, I fight: not as one who beats the air. 27 But I discipline my body and bring it into subjection, lest, when I have preached to others, I myself should become disqualified. (1 Corinthians 9:24-27)

As a spiritual leader in the church for the past 30 years and a Senior Pastor for the past 24 years, I’ve seen my fair share of bad theology preached across pulpits and social media to last a lifetime. Those who haven’t truly invested in studying scripture have created a “theology” rooted in a magical, mysticism instead of true faith in GOD. This mysticism suggests that GOD is responsible for everything and we humans, play no part in the affairs of our life, and are just passive regarding changing our circumstances and situations. However, even a cursory study of scripture reveals that GOD requires and expects us to function in high levels of self-discipline, based on the instruction of His Word. Self-discipline has been replaced with a magical expectation of blessings falling out of the sky, under the guise of faith, minus commitment, and accountability.

Faith, as taught today, has become a standalone system in and of itself, that is completely disconnected from what GOD instructed, from the book of Genesis to the book of Revelation. True faith, however, is and always has been connected to self-discipline, responsibility, and dedication to tasks, that increase and elevate those impacted by faith’s power. As we enter this new year of 2023, I want to just highlight a few areas that self-discipline is required of believers. The physical stewardship of our bodies, proper time management and financial stewardship are the three areas that most believers find the most trouble controlling. The Apostle Paul taught that he had to “beat his body into subjection’. Identifying ungodly appetites and addictions is the first step of physical stewardship. Conquering lust, gluttony and chemical dependence will only take place once we commit to executing judgement on these areas by employing hard disciplines. Planning meals, drinking water, working out, getting sleep, disconnecting from people who help foster the feeding of lust and addictions, and setting proper relational boundaries, are key steps to walking in a transformed life. I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. (Romans 12:1)

For any area you desire improvement, time must be dedicated to that area. The fact that many believers dishonor time by procrastination, laziness, or operating outside of purpose, is a travesty. GOD gave us six days to work and one day to rest. 6 days of work equals 144 potential hours to get things done. Because we lack a true sense of time management, most Believers are stuck in mediocrity and a lack of exponential growth because we simply won’t invest the proper amount of consistent time to our tasks!! We expect miracles to rescue us from decades of bad decision making, laziness and apathy concerning our own lives and purpose. Life and with it, opportunities to grow, pass us by and we sit on the sidelines of our lives, complaining about the condition we find ourselves in and beg for GOD’s intervention, when we have ignored His call to time management. Every Believer should have a scheduler, into which each day is planned, from morning Bible Study to working out, to writing that book or business plan, to executing the strategic plan to build your business and increase revenues. If you fail to plan, you plan to fail!! In Malcolm Gladwell’s epic novel, OUTLIERS, he states, "an extraordinarily consistent answer in an incredible number of fields ... you need to have practiced, to have apprenticed, for 10,000 hours before you get good." Even though Gladwell’s quote has been woefully misquoted and misinterpreted, the principle of time investment is still a key.

Two people who start playing on the same day, will come to much different levels of skill in five years if one practices one hour a day and the other 4 hours a day. The one who practices one hour a day for five years has invested 1,825 hours of practice. The one who practices 4 hours a day, would have practiced 7,300 hours. The guy who practices for one hour would have practiced for 76 days or two months collectively, while the one who practiced 4 hours a day, would have practiced 304 days or almost a year collectively. The gap in skill will be more pronounced as time passes and most of us haven’t even committed 5 minutes a day to critical life structures, strategies, and systems in our lives, while we pray and ask GOD to do, what we refuse to do.

Lastly, Jesus taught financial stewardship and suggested that we should invest our money for return. 14 “For the kingdom of heaven is like a man traveling to a far country, who called his own servants and delivered his goods to them. 15 And to one he gave five talents, to another two, and to another one, to each according to his own ability; and immediately he went on a journey. 16 Then he who had received the five talents went and traded with them and made another five talents. 17 And likewise he who had received two gained two more also. 18 But he who had received one went and dug in the ground and hid his lord’s money. 19 After a long time the lord of those servants came and settled accounts with them. (Matthew 25:14-19) Believers should be budgeting, saving, and investing money in assets that yield a return on investment. We should not be squandering our money on liabilities then praying to GOD to “bless us” financially. There are too many vehicles to invest in for the saints to be languishing in and accepting poverty as a choice when the scriptures are so full of exhortations for us to increase and have dominion. I pray that this article has been inspirational and educational and a spark to your new year’s goals. Feel free to reach out to get more help with your personal upgrade for 2023.

Thanks, Apostle David A. Rodgers, New Vision of Faith Ministries- Chicago

EMAIL: ADR@dominionvisionglobal.com

Do you remember the parable of the three bricklayers? By Alan Carniol

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 05:49:32 GMT

“Do you remember the parable of the three bricklayers?"

Alan Carniol

Once upon a time, three men sat down at a bar, covered in dust and grime after a long day of work out in the sun. After a few minutes, they were having a conversation with the barman over a cold beer and he asked them:

"So, fellas... what are you working on?"

The first man replied, "I spent the day laying bricks."

The second responded, proudly: "I'm building a magnificent church."

But the third, said: "I'm creating a home for God."

All three men do the same physical activity. However, for each one, his work has a very different role in his life, a different meaning.

This story reminds me of a fascinating distinction that I came across many years ago when I was studying for my MBA. A distinction that is very relevant to a lot of folks right now, with a post-pandemic 2023 on the horizon.

It's the difference between a job, a career, and a calling.

(I learned this from Professor Wrzesniewski, of Yale School of Management.)

A "job" is something that pays the bills. It's pretty much the relationship that the first bricklayer had with his work. You arrive, put in an honest day of work, and then, figuratively speaking, go home and enjoy a beer.

Your life's meaning comes from something else.

Something you do outside of work.

A "career" is a job that provides meaning in your life, by giving you opportunities to advance. In a sense, it's like a ladder.

You get up in the morning, go to work, and put in your best every day. Not only to earn a living and to pay the bills. But because you want to climb the ladder. That ladder brings meaning and satisfaction to your life.

But what happens when you've climbed to the top?

Then what?

Or, what happens if someone takes the ladder away, and all you have now is the job without the opportunity for advancement? Do you still want to leap out of bed every morning and rush to work? Or, has the spark now gone?

A "calling" is, in many ways, the opposite of a job.

Although it may indeed pay the bills, and it may also offer you a ladder to climb, it's something you mainly do because the work itself is meaningful.

In fact, you may love the work so much or believe in the cause so deeply, you would happily do it for free. Even if you do earn a decent living from it.

Now, you may be expecting that I'd urge you to leave your job or quit your career, and go find a calling instead. Something you would do for free.

But here's the thing:

There's absolutely nothing wrong with a job.

And there's certainly nothing wrong with pursuing a career either. You need to figure out which of these paths is right for you — for where you are now.

Do you want a job, a career, or a calling?

When you have clarity on this one question, you can begin to see opportunities all around you for bringing it into your life and making it your new reality over about 6-18 months. And from where you are, right now.

EMPLOYED “The Book and The Toolkit” By Elder Marilyn Parker

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 05:28:52 GMT

“The Book and The Toolkit”

Elder Marilyn Parker

"Employed" Amazon Number #1 Best Seller in Christian Evangelism, Church Leadership and One-Hour Religious and Spiritual Short reads!

I am so excited to release the book and toolkit book of Employed!

I will always remember when I found myself in the unemployment circle.

Yes, I was in church and very active. There was so much shame in being unemployed that it was almost kept as a secret. Every Sunday getting up to go to church, enjoying the service but leaving every Sunday with that same hole in my heart I came with that morning. What am I going to do Istill have no work is what I left out the door hearing echoing in my mind.

Coming to the place I believed that I could really bring all my problems to, but finding no help was almost as devastating as facing unemployment. Going through the church services, greeting individuals and speaking into my neighbor’s life with that secret was so overbearing. I often sat wondering why anyone can’t help me here. All this love I am getting and I all I really want is a job!

Well, not long after (but longer than I wanted it to be) I found a job. That draining journey sparked a passion in me. It was worth it because I know now that God was developing me to always have compassion for this need in the church.

Amazing how God works His plan in your life. Since that time, I have served countless individuals in finding gainful employment. God placed me on a television show and radio show to be sure people would know the many opportunities available.

God allowed me to work in numerous positions of workforce development and I am certain of the possibilities of gainful employment for those that are seeking, most of all I am certain that agencies want to partner and help in this area.

The church embodies hope, a very invaluable resource one must have when navigating in this journey. The agencies have multiple resources required for success in the job and corporations have so much to offer.

It is a great way to fulfill the scripture in Acts that explains, the church made sure that everyone in their house had no need. It is with intent that Employed connects the church, community, and corporations to erase and eradicate unemployment and underemployment.

Order your copy today on Amazon or EMAIL: ELDERMARILYNPARKER59@GMAIL.COM

Marilyn Parker 314-285-7037

2023- LIFE IS, ABSURDLY SHORT by Dan LoveKamp

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 05:06:59 GMT

"2023- LIFE IS, ABSURDLY SHORT"

Dan LoveKamp

Nobody needs to be told there isn't enough time. We're obsessed with our lengthening to-do lists,

overfilled with stuff, inboxes, worklife balance, and the never-ending battle against distraction. We are deluged with advice on how to be more productive and to use time more wisely. But most times, these ideas make things worse. Anxiety and a sense of anxiousness overwhelm us, and we miss the most meaningful parts of our life. So, for 2023 I am suggesting a challenge. How you can better use the time we have been blessed to receive.

First, we must address the fixation on getting everything done and focusing on the important things.

Second, we must take the responsibility of knowing that the choices we make are our own.

Third, we must become more intentional about what we truly desire in life and become committed to seeing those things happen.

Lastly, we must come to understand that some of the things we've always been doing are not getting us the results we desire. It's time to change our thinking. I remember one of my great mentors telling me his priorities: God, Family and Work. He was so passionate about the importance of these in that order. I admired that.

It began my journey of determining what those were for me. I am grateful to say I have committed to them, and my life changed exponentially. So, if your choice is to make 2023 the best year yet. To laugh more, love more, learn more, and to care more, then I suggest you begin by understanding this Henry Ford quote' "Whether you think you can, or think you can't, you're right''.

The world outside only sees the top third of the iceberg (body of work you've accomplished), the other two-thirds are below the surface. Remember, it's the work you put in behind the scenes where it didn't seem that you were making progress but never wavered in your commitment, that makes the jump toward our goals possible, ask yourself, does the current behavior help me become the type of person I wish to be? Be accountable.

BELIEVE

The process of behavior change begins with awareness. You need to be aware of your habits before you can change them.

If these things are important to you

> Getting More out of Life

> Lower levels of depression

> Better Health

> Better Coping Skills

> More Creativity

Begin with the end in mind. I believe in you.

DO YOU?

THE SEASON—THE REASON: OUR FATHER’S LOVE by David Battle

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 04:51:02 GMT

THE SEASON—THE REASON:

OUR FATHER’S LOVE

David Battle

Our Father which art in heaven…God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8).

No one really knows the actual day, date and/or year of Christ’s birth. However, we accept without reservation the global recognition of His birth as December 25th. Was it really “On a cold winter’s night that was so deep” as suggested in the song The First Noel? Are all of our Christmas’ supposed to be white as intimated when singing White Christmas? Should we all have “Chestnuts roasting on an open fire” and does “a turkey and some mistletoe” really “help make the season bright” as heard in the song The Christmas Story? I’ve heard it said that Christmas “Tis the season to be jolly” and that we should “Deck the halls with boughs of holly.” Shall we take the recommendations of the song It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas as the determining factor of it being “Christmas once more?”

There’s the worldview of what this SEASON should look and sound like and there’s the biblical truth of what this SEASON should look and sound like. Some of our songs suggest the praise of Jolly Old St. Nicholas and that we should “Troll the ancient Yuletide carol.” Other of our songs speak to the heart of what the SEASON is really all about; we sing songs like O Holy Night, Silent Night, Away In A Manger, and others. My personal favorite is Mary Did You Know which asks of Mary, “Did you know that your baby boy is heaven’s perfect Lamb.” It also asks Mary if she knew “This child that you delivered, will one day deliver you” and if she knew “That sleeping child you’re holding is the great, I Am.”

While we don’t know exactly when Christ was born, what we do know is the real REASON He was born. Christ is that “Lamb slain from the foundation of the world” (Rev. 13:8). Joseph was told by “the angel of the Lord” (Matt. 1:20) that the baby born of Mary would “save his people from their sins” (v.21); a promise that transcends unto all of mankind. Paul, an apostle of Jesus Christ, stated that “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners” and he characterized that statement as “a faithful saying, and worthy of all acceptation” (1 Timothy 1:15). The entire world must recognize the real REASON for Christ’s birth which was and is for their deliverance—the saving of their soul. This must be an experiential recognition; not just head knowledge. It must be a recognition that leads to excepting God’s one and only plan of salvation—being born of water and of the Spirit.

Our Father which art in heaven knew the world would need a savior—a perfect sacrificial lamb. We are “not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver and gold” (among which includes Christmas materialism), “But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot” (1 Peter 1:18-19). John the Baptist called Him out when he saw “Jesus coming unto him” declaring “Behold the Lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the world” (John 1:29). Since a blood sacrifice was required to redeem our sins, God prepared a body for Himself (Ps. 40:6-8, Heb. 10:4-10). He gave that body the characteristic name Emmanuel which characterizes Him as “God with us” (Matt. 1:23, Isa. 7:14). God, Himself, was born of a virgin in order to die for the sins of the world.

The SEASON we’re celebrating is the world-wide recognition of Christ’s birth. The REASON we celebrate is because of OUR FATHER’S LOVE in that, while we were yet sinners, God embodied Himself in Christ in order to die for us, “reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them” (2 Cor. 5:19).

My natural father, Suf. Bishop Jesse Battle, Sr., was not a fat man in a red suit coming down the chimney type of man. He brought up his twelve children (yes, I said twelve) in both the “nurture (training as a child, chastening)…of the Lord” and “admonition (a putting in mind) of the Lord” (Eph. 6:4). As such, I too raised my children the same way, No… No… No… lies about a Ho Ho Ho holly jolly fat man in a red suit, I refuse to profane (pollute) the word of God with a worldview of the Christmas SEASON and it’s REASON.

Father Knows Best by Dorothy Haire

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 04:43:50 GMT

"Fathers Knows Best"

Dorothy Haire

A group of giggly, twelve year old girls were sitting on the iron rails of the local elementary school watching skinny, knobby-kneed boys play basketball. All of a sudden one boy breaks away from the crowd and dribbles the ball over to me. With his thirteen and a half, changing voice he loudly announces for all to hear, “I love you,” and dribbles back to the other boys. The girls giggled and the boys cheered! Refusing to admit I heard him, I continued to talk to the girl sitting next to me. I was twelve and had no interest in boys in general and now him in particular, since he had taken the liberty to humiliate me in front of everyone. I never wanted to see him again.

I later found out that his name was Johnnie Lee Haire. For the next two years, he stalked me. He was everywhere: school dances, basketball games, walking home from school, always proclaiming his love.

By the time I was fourteen, my mother allowed him to come over and sit on the porch for a while. She loved his, “Yes, Ma’am,” “No, Ma’am,” “Thank you,”and “Can I pick that up for you, Ms. Bessie?” Two weeks before my seventeenth birthday, I married my best friend and soul mate. Thirty-three years and four adult children later, we were making plans as new empty nesters to live our wildest dreams. We were so happy.

I could not imagine life without Johnnie. I was confident I would never have to live without him because I had talked with God about it. Johnnie’s death had become a concern for me when my friend Dee’s husband suddenly passed. They were such a loving couple and best friends. One night they went to sleep; she woke up the next morning, but he did not. I was in shock. This was unbelievable. I went to their house to see for myself if this was true. The look on Dee’s face said it all. I never wanted to experience that kind of pain.

I knew John 14:13,14 – “Whatever you ask in my name, this I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in my name, I will do it.” I prayed all the way home, pleading with Jesus to take me home first. I explained to Him that I was an only child and all alone, except for Johnnie and our four children. Mama had passed years before. Johnnie had brothers and sisters who would help him finish raising our children. I told Jesus that I could not live without Johnnie – my friend, my lover, my soul mate, my everything.

When I got home, I sat Johnnie down at the kitchen table. I explained what had happened to Dee. I repeated to him my prayer to God. I made him promise he would not die before me. Confident that God and Johnnie understood the desires of my heart and were in agreement, I went on with my life.

A couple of years later, while we were laughing and talking, Johnnie began to cough. The cough increased until he began to hyperventilate.

“You caught a cold?” I asked as I passed him a brown paper bag to breath into, which slowed his breathing.

“No, I don’t have a cold.”

“Lie down and rest. You’ll feel better.” I went to the family room to read so that I would not disturb him.

“Hey, Mama. Y’all got something to eat?” our son, Tommie asked as he came in the front door headed to the kitchen without waiting for an answer. A few minutes later, we both heard the sound of labored breathing. Running into the bedroom, it was obvious Johnnie was in trouble.

“You are going to the hospital,” I informed Johnnie while motioning for Tommie to help me get his pants on. We walked him through the house to the front door.

“What is this, Dorothy?” he struggled to ask.

“I don’t know, but I know Jesus does,” I answered. As I prayed, Tommie and I began walking his rapidly weakening body to the car to take him to the emergency room. He collapsed onto the back seat of the car. We arrived at the hospital in ten minutes, horn blasting all the way. The police at the hospital entrance must have radioed ahead because the ER staff burst out of the door with a cot as we pulled up. They whisked him away, directing us to the waiting room. A few minutes later the doctor came out to tell us that he had died of a massive heart attack. There was no warning and no pain. He was not sick in any way. The love of my life, my soul mate, my best friend was gone!

Standing beside Johnnie’s bed with my hand on his still warm chest, I heard a loud voice say, “Nothing left undone. Nothing left unsaid. No regrets.” The authority and love in this voice prevented feelings of sorrow, anger, and betrayal from entering my heart. Peace filled me up from the inside out and encapsulated me.

Standing beside the bed of my childhood sweetheart in the emergency room, the unthinkable happened. I was happy for him. After all, isn’t that what all saints want – to finish their course in a way that pleases God. No pain. No time to fret. Just a call to come home, and it was over. Johnnie was with Jesus and I was happy for him. But what about me? I prayed, “Jesus, help me through the next hour.” He did. I repeated that prayer for a few days until it evolved to “Jesus, help me through this day.” He did. Gradually I started to pray, “Jesus, help me through this week.” He did.

I thought I could not live without Johnnie and if I did I would be dysfunctional. It was not true. Once the funeral was over and all my friends returned to their lives, God proved himself to be more than enough for me. Daily He stabilizes my heart with His love, which makes me strong. I feel God’s presence every day, which gives me peace. I pray for guidance before going to sleep and awake with the answers to my problems.

Johnnie was a good provider. I worked also, and together we were able to provide vacations, a comfortable home, college educations, and nice clothes for our children. God became an extravagant provider, not only taking care of my daily needs, but making my dreams come true. I had always wanted to travel abroad. So far I have been to London, Paris, Rome, Egypt, and Israel.

It was Johnnie’s time to go home and be with the Lord. Now that it has happened, I am okay with it. My adult children have homes, children, and lives of their own; but I am not alone, nor lonely. Also, I have a new heart’s desire. I want God to be able to say about me the words He spoke about Johnnie, “Nothing left undone. Nothing left unsaid. No regrets.” My goal everyday is to live in such a way that God would be pleased with me.

Often we think we are praying about one thing, when really we are praying about something else. My prayer was not motivated by love for Johnnie, but my unwillingness to live without him. God listens pass the words of our mouths and hears the words of our hearts. In His infinite wisdom, He answers the prayers of our hearts in ways we could not fathom with our finite minds. I am so very grateful that Father knows best.

Dorothy J. Haire’s Bio

Dorothy is a retired Speech-Language Pathologist and a retired senior pastor who has earned four degrees. She is writing a commentary on the book of James.

O Give Thanks Unto The Lord; For He Is Good by Pastor David L. Battle

Wed, 02 Nov 2022 04:59:50 GMT

O Give Thanks Unto The Lord; For He Is Good: For His Mercy Endureth For Ever

Pastor David L. Battle

Thanksgiving Day is a day of pause, reflection and celebration. It is a day of corporate thanksgiving wherein family and friends come together to celebrate this wonderful day of thanksgiving unto God combined with a belt loosening feast.

As far back as I can remember, a main staple of our Thanksgiving Day celebration was reciting the “Great Hallel” (Great Song of Praise). (Hallel is derived from the Hebrew “Praise Thou” in which Israel offered up praise to God at festivals. The celebration of God's mercy in Psalm 136 gave Israel a favorite song for its festivals.) You see, my father (Suffragan Bishop Jesse Battle, Sr.; 1924 – 2001) started pastoring a church 3 days after I was born. As far back as I know, we would recite Ps. 136 during our Thanksgiving Day church service as well as at home right before we offered up prayer of thanksgiving for our Thanksgiving Day meal. I’m 65 years old now, that mode of Thanksgiving Day celebration still resonates with me.

Even now that I pastor Bread of Life Pentecostal Apostolic Church, we recite the “Great Hallel” during Thanksgiving Day church service. And, it remains a custom at which ever one of my sibling’s house (or mine) where we have our Thanksgiving Day “belt loosening” feast, we recite the “Great Hallel” with fervor and passion. You see, God has been good to this family—for He is good; for His mercy endureth forever.

During Israel’s days, the “Great Hallel” was sang in the temple as the Passover lambs were being slain and at Pentecost, Tabernacles, and Dedications. This psalm has a statement or phrase which stresses its theme — “give thanks unto the LORD who alone doeth great wonders” and the refrain is “for his mercy endureth for ever.” The structure of Psalm 136 suggests that it was used in worship, with one part of the congregation making a statement or phrase and the other part responding with the refrain (Example: Neh. 11:17, 12:27 & 46). This psalm afforded Israel the opportunity to give pause, reflection and celebration during their corporate thanksgiving. The first verses of this psalm simply states, “O give thanks unto the Lord; for he is good” and is then followed by a historical account of the MANY “great wonders” wrought by God.

When our church and my family recite the “Great Hallel” we also give pause, reflect and celebrate the MANY “great wonders” wrought by God on our behalf’s. If you read Psalm 136 while reflecting on the MANY “great wonders” wrought by God on your behalf, you will feel the glory of praise offered up to God by you for His unmerited favor. Your thanksgiving will reflect that praise like never before and you will truly say, as the psalmist said, “How precious also are thy thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand: when I awake, I am still with thee” (Psalm 139:17-18).

On this Thanksgiving Day I challenge you, your family and your church to make the “Great Hallel” a staple of your thanksgiving unto God.

“The Great Hallel”

(The Great Song of Praise)

O Give Thanks Unto The Lord; For He Is Good:

For His Mercy Endureth For Ever.

(Psalm 136:1-26)

STATEMENT/PHRASE: REFRAIN:

[1] O give thanks unto the Lord; for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever

[2] O give thanks unto the God of gods:

[3] O give thanks to the Lord of lords:

[4] To him who alone doeth great wonders:

[5] To him that by wisdom made the heavens:

[6] To him that stretched out the earth above the waters:

[7] To him that made great lights:

[8] The sun to rule by day:

[9] The moon and stars to rule by night:

[10] To him that smote Egypt in their firstborn:

[11] And brought out Israel from among them:

[12] With a strong hand, and with a stretched out arm:

[13] To him which divided the Red sea into parts:

[14] And made Israel to pass through the midst of it:

[15] But overthrew Pharaoh and his host in the Red sea:

[16] To him which led his people through the wilderness:

[17] To him which smote great kings:

[18] And slew famous kings:

[19] Sihon king of the Amorites:

[20] And Og the king of Bashan:

[21] And gave their land for an heritage:

[22] Even an heritage unto Israel his servant:

[23] Who remembered us in our low estate:

[24] And hath redeemed us from our enemies:

[25] Who giveth food to all flesh:

[26] O give thanks unto the God of heaven:

Dr. Yolanda “Yogie” Wade Truly is More than a Conqueror

Tue, 01 Nov 2022 03:29:54 GMT

Dr. Yolanda “Yogie” Wade is

Truly More than a Conqueror

I had the privilege of interviewing this powerful woman of resilience and humility! A person with great accomplishments in the face of adversity and tragedy. Grounded in her faith in God and intentionally persevering in her God-given assignment. She is a testament to the word of God proceeding her “No weapon formed against you shall prosper, and he that dwelleth in the secret place of the Most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.” Dr. Yolanda “Yogie” Wade is More than a Conqueror.

Before we began, she ensured that when you read about her, the first line should read “she is a Christian and a woman of strong faith.” She was married for 22 years to her high school sweetheart, the man who took her to her prom! She has two beautiful children, of which her only daughter has gone on to be with the Lord, and her only son, one of whom she is very proud of, and he is following her path into the profession of security. During her daughter’s lifetime, when she was four years old, she told her mom she would one day be a medical doctor. To encourage her late daughter, Dr. Wade told her she would be a doctor in her field. After the tragic transition of her daughter…Dr. Wade fulfilled her promise, “They would get their Doctorate Degree,” and she obtained hers in October of 2022.

Dr. Yolanda “Yogie Wade turned her tragedy into triumph because she is a woman of strong faith and Truly More than a Conqueror!

Dr. Yolanda Wade was raised in a single-family home, by her mother, with four siblings. You can only smile as she boasts of being “spoiled.” Her family was very close. Raised in a family with the fear and admiration of the Lord. There were many Bible studies held within Yolanda’s family. Not just her mom and siblings but including her aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandmother. Growing up in North St. Louis City, exclusively known as “Walnut Park” area, with a village that had a bond of friendship so tight those relationships remain very important to her even today.

Dr. Yolanda attended the St. Louis Public schools. She attended Langston Middle School, The Magnet School Program, and Central Performing Arts. She decided at the age of thirteen what career field she would enter. This decision was based on a tragedy that took place at her church home. During a weekly prayer service, the church faced an intruder who made some members strip of their clothing, and he also kidnapped a member and raped her. This, at first, made Dr. Wade afraid to not go to the rest-room or be alone at church. As a young girl, it also caused her to pay close attention to her surroundings. Yes, security, would be her passion and calling. Her first initial fear was trumped out by her faith, causing her to always tap into a key sense of awareness of her surroundings. She found herself always interested in court TV, Perry Mason, and different crime stories whenever she watched television. It was during this season God was birthing her calling.

Dr. Wade graduated from Central Performing Arts High School and joined the Navy at eighteen. Her selected career in the Navy was as a cryptologist. A Cryptologist helps to decipher, analyze, and protect confidential and encrypted information. They assist and help law enforcement and other government agencies in solving crimes, security concerns, and other security threats. She served all over the world while in the Navy. Dr. Wade credits the renowned Carl Chinn, President of Faith Based Security Network in Colorado, for teaching her a lot and taking the time to mentor her. Dr. Wade shares that she took every opportunity to learn in this field. Not only has she acquired multiple certificates but a bachelor’s degree in Criminal Justice, a master’s in Criminal Justice, and in October 2022, a Doctorate in Management in Homeland Security.

We realize this is a white male-dominated field in which Dr. Wade excelled in; before retiring after 20 years from the Navy, she accomplished a great deal of Success. In the Navy, her greatest accomplishment was to become a female African American Senior Chief IN THE United States Navy! This was a very hard accomplishment. Despite all her challenges, she excelled up to this rank. Always making her family proud of her. Never looking like the challenges she encountered, but always looking like the woman of the great faith she embodies.

After retirement, she ventured into corporate America as an industrial security specialist. Yolanda decided to move back to her hometown St. Louis MO; she is an industrial security manager for the Boeing Company. Amid her daughter’s transition, she has obtained her Doctorate from Colorado Technical University. Maintained her grades and attendance and kept a full-time job demonstrating her faith in God and His presence with her. She is a testament that God is a strong tower where the righteous run in and are safe. Nobody but God could cause her to triumph with such victory.

Next, Dr. Yolanda “Yogie” Wade is starting her own Company. STAVA LLC. She is the founder and CEO.

The company will provide top-notch security training and vulnerability assessments to organizations (churches, businesses, schools, etc.) across the United States. The focus is to assess the current state of an organization to identify vulnerabilities and risks to harden facilities against evolving threats. “No time to rest,” she proclaims… God has called Dr. Yogie Wade for a time such as this and she is prepared, equipped, and ready.

Dr. Wade expresses, “She loves physical, industrial, and homeland security.” She understands the importance of her gift and calling. The responsibility God has given her she honors, and recognizes God has placed her in this position for His glory! She gives God all the honor and glory for all her accomplishments. Dr. Yolanda “Yogie” Wade is more than a Conqueror!

Another tragic school shooting by Pat Coleman - President and CEO - BHR

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 04:51:38 GMT

Another Tragic School Shooting

Pat Coleman - President and CEO - BHR

Another tragic school shooting - this time in our St. Louis community. On behalf of BHR , we would like to offer our sincere thoughts and prayers to the community and families impacted by the traumatic event which occurred this morning at Central Visual and Performing Arts High School.

In partnership with the St. Louis Metropolitan Police Department, and City of St. Louis Mayor Tishaura Jones, we would like to offer the community an immediate resource through BHR’s 24/7/365 Crisis Line and Youth Connection Helpline.

If you or someone you know would like to talk with a clinician free of charge,

please call 988, 314-469-6644 or 314-819-8802 (youth).

Youth can also chat online atwww.bhrstl.com or text BHEARD to 31658.

Clinicians are on standby waiting to speak with you because as a community

We Care. We Listen. We Respond…24 Hours A Day.

Growing In Grace with Grace by Apostle Grace Blue, M.ED

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 04:39:45 GMT

Growing In Grace with Grace

Apostle Grace Blue, M.ED

Our present world is becoming more evil, spewing out hatred, ill will, witchcraft, and sexual sins. Unfortunately, there are those in the Body of Christ who are doing the same. What the world needs now, more than ever, are authentic, spiritually mature Believers in Jesus Christ who have their Minds on the Mission because their hearts are in Position to grow in love, produce fruit, and be that conduit that the Holy Spirit flows from, to be movers and shakers, shine light in the darkness, and be salt to help transform lives.

In this book, you will learn the “what, when, why, and how” of continuing to grow in His grace so that you may walk as the Manifested Sons of God. For those who genuinely love God and His people, the reading and application of this book will also help to nurture, encourage, and implant in the life of the believer the excitement and enthusiasm of growing up and growing deep in God. At the end of the day when we stand before the judgment seat of Christ, we will want to hear Him say, “Well done, my good and faithful servant, come on in!”

So, Let's Grow Up and Grow Deep in HIM!

“But continue to grow and increase in God’s grace and intimacy with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. May he receive all the glory both now and until the day eternity begins. Amen!” (2 Peter 3:18 TPT)

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How can something as small as a pinch cause significant pain By Cynthia Bennett

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 04:29:56 GMT

How can something as small as a pinch cause significant pain!

Cynthia Bennett

How can something as small as a pinch cause significant pain, significantly when it has affected a sensitive area in the body? A pinch is something that, when it occurs, instantly moves your focus away from the sensitive area and turns it towards the effect that it has left behind. Ladies let's be careful how we handle others when we know they are experiencing sensitive issues because a 'little bit hurts. You say a 'little bit of what? Insensitivity, negativity, abrasiveness, harshness.

We all have our issues to deal with, and while some may be more sensitive, let's help heal hurt and pain by speaking victory and life to each other's situations. Provers 18:21 says death and life are in the power of the tongue. We can build each other up or tear each other down with our mouths. The book of James says that a tiny bit in a horse's mouth can turn his whole body. Let's look at ourselves and determine what 'bit' is in our mouths. How do our mouths turn into our situations? Does it come out favorable, or is it a disaster? Hmmm.

Just think when you are sometimes working with a set of keys on a keychain, and you end up getting your finger or a piece of your skin on your hand caught in between the silver ring; that little bit of a pinch has a considerable effect on your hand and fingers to the point is sometimes may go numb. Before you go another step with anything, you strictly focus on getting your hand free from the pinch. Why is it that when we sometimes find people who are hurt to the point, they have become numb, we neglect to assist in alleviating their pain? Focus on them, use our hands to lift them, and help in the areas we can. We sometimes pinch each other with our attitudes and behaviors. Displaying a 'little bit of these attributes negatively can hurt immensely and leave a lasting negative effect on a person.

It's time to work on ourselves; many women and men have been pinched in sensitive areas by the effects of the world and are looking for someone to soothe the pain and wounds with compassion, love, and consolation. If you don't know; a little bit of grief still hurts, a little bit of pain still hurts; a little bit of disappointment still hurts. 1 Corinthians 12:25-26 says there should be no schism (or separation) in the body, but the members should have the same care for one another. Whether one member suffers, all of the members suffer from it. Let's be mindful of others. We can help with prayer, encouragement, and love because a 'little bit' helps!

Be Blessed!

Cynthia R. Bennett Founder/CEO

JADASA

www.jadasa.org

314-269-0100 Office

800-292-2145 Toll Free

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When Trouble Comes By by Dorothy Haire

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 04:16:58 GMT

When Trouble Comes

Dorothy Haire

Trouble comes to everybody sooner or later. Often trouble comes back-to-back. First, the refrigerator breaks down, then your child gets sick and needs expensive medicine, and then you lose your job.

To be honest, we often do not know how to respond when trouble comes. We try this, then that, and then the other. When nothing we think of works, we get frustrated and cry out, “God, why me!” We need wisdom. Opinions are plentiful, but true wisdom can only be found in one place.

James, the brother of Jesus, taught:

“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you” (James 1:5, New International Version).

James said when you do not know what to do ask God for wisdom. Knowledge is not enough. Knowledge has been defined as raw information or facts. Wisdom is learning how to use the raw

information or facts. James gives further instructions:

“Just make sure you ask empowered by confident faith without doubting that you will receive. For the ambivalent person believes one minute and doubts the next. Being undecided makes you become like the rough seas driven and tossed by the wind. You’re up one minute and tossed down the next” (James 1:6, The Passion Translation).

We may doubt or rebel against the wisdom of God we receive while reading the Bible or through the revelation given by the Holy Spirit during prayer. Why? Because God’s wisdom is contrary to what seems right to us. For example, Jesus said in Matthew 5:44, (The Passion Translation):

“…I say to you, love your enemy, bless the one who curses you, do something wonderful for the one who hates you, and respond to the very ones who persecute you by praying for them.”

This wisdom is so far from our human instincts that some of us will doubt this is from God and start rebuking the Devil. We want to punch our enemy in the face, not love them, bless them, and pray for them! Isn’t it revealing that we often trust God enough to ask for help, then question the answer? James says this attitude will cause you to miss your blessing/deliverance:

“That person should not expect to receive anything from the Lord. Such a person is double-minded and unstable in all they do” (James 1:7-8, New International Version)

So, what is the solution? When in trouble ask God for help, then believe the answer. “Trust Him with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths” (Proverbs 3:5-6).

I know God’s wisdom can be hard on the flesh. But, trust Him to direct you to the place of victory. Ask. Listen. Obey. Experience supernatural deliverance from your trouble. It may take a minute, so be patient and refuse to doubt. Victory is guaranteed. Selah!

Bullying and Difficult Behavior in the Workplace by Alan Carniol

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 03:43:21 GMT

Bullying and Difficult Behavior

in the Workplace

Alan Carniol

As you know, bullying and difficult behavior can come in many different flavors — some of them obvious, and some more pernicious.

Today's example is of the latter.

"Tom" (not his real name) is a Daily Success Boost reader, just like you. He replied to one of my emails a few days ago, asking for some advice.

Here's the gist of his situation:

Tom's supervisor is, when it comes to feedback... inconsistent. One day, he thinks Tom's work is excellent. Next, he says it's terrible.

The kicker?

Tom is meticulous about maintaining a consistent work ethic and standard of performance. He knows what he is doing, and he knows his work is solid. He performs at the same standard, and behaves in the same way, every day!

This "yo-yo" style of feedback has been going on for six months now.

Even though Tom has brought it up several times with his supervisor's managers, they seem to pay lip service and nothing much has changed.

What can he do to deal with this difficult behavior?

In the text below, I'm going to copy and paste the private reply that I sent to Tom. Because, if you're in a similar situation, it can help you as well.

Hi Tom,

It sounds like you are playing a game of "guess what I am thinking". And that's not fun. The best thing you can do is to find out exactly what the manager is thinking. So for example, next time you have a project, you can let the manager know ahead of time, how you are going to approach it and ask if that is how the manager would approach it as well. Then write down notes.

And then after you deliver the work, ask what worked well for the manager and what didn't. If he says, "The cover page on this report is terrible", you can say, "Okay. I apologize that the cover page isn't up to your standards. Could you let me know why?"

And you might hear back, "Well look at it, I mean, the title just looks bad. It's just bad." You would say, "Okay. I understand that the title looks bad. Is it not the right font size? Should I bold or underline?"

Keep pushing for specifics, and don't leave until you have them. He may push back and avoid giving specifics.

Just keep asking, saying things along the lines of the following: "Okay, I understand that's not right. Can you tell me what could make it right?" And then write down these specifics, and repeat them back to the manager before the end of the conversation.

And then next time you need to do a report, you can say: "Okay. As we discussed last time, I am going to create a cover page with Times New Roman font type, size 18, alignment centered... Is that correct?"

Try this approach for say the next three weeks, and let me know how things turn out.

Be sure along the way to date your records of each conversation, and take notes on what the manager says.

If possible, word for word. That way, if the manager says, "This is all wrong!", even though it's what they said they wanted, you will be able to respond, "Well, on Monday the 21st, at our noon meeting, you said that you wanted... so I believe that is what I delivered here."

And if this manager is acting irrationally despite your best efforts to approach them rationally and problem-solve, then you have written documentation of their behavior. This should cover your back.

- Alan Carniol

Let’s Talk For Real: Love and Abuse Don’t Mix by Cynthia R. Bennett

Sun, 02 Oct 2022 01:09:46 GMT

Let’s Talk For Real: Love and Abuse Don’t Mix!

Cynthia R. Bennett

Let’s Talk For Real: Love and Abuse Don’t Mix!

Teenagers and Domestic Violence

According to a 2008 study commissioned by Liz Claiborne and www.loveisrespect.org only half of the tweens and teens who are experiencing violence in their dating relationships recognize the warning signs. Those who say they are in love find it difficult to identify controlling, intimidating behaviors as abusive until it turns violent. Studies show that over 20% of girls between 16-19 years’ old were killed by their dating partners.

Abuse is a cunning, divisive, demeaning and degrading ‘spirit’. Without prayer, counseling and swift actions can also be a dream killer. Agencies in the domestic violence field, police officers and prosecutors believe the verbal communication and violent interactions apparently treated as the norm in many school playgrounds, rap songs, movies and television series are at the beginning of a spectrum of abuse.

Being in these type of relationships can put you at more risk of becoming involved in other unhealthy relationships if the signs are not identifiable such as, alcohol use; behavior problems; abuse of animals; and strained relationship with parents just to name a few.

I interviewed a 3rd generation survivor of domestic abuse who witnessed the trauma with her grandmother, her mother, and now her daughter; says although she’s discussed the abuse of her ex-husband with her children on multiple occasions, as she attempts to intervene in her daughter’s situation, her daughter says her abuse ‘only happened once’. When the mother suggests she seek help, the implication was those services are for ‘older people’. Her daughter, like so many teens have the misconception that ‘abuse’ and everything that goes with it, such as support group sessions, crisis intervention, safety planning, etc., are ‘adult issues’ only. However, domestic violence crosses all boundaries and doesn’t matter whether you are rich or poor; black or white; educated or not educated; young or old, it is an epidemic designed to strip you of your self-esteem, your self-worth; your self-identity and possibly your life!

What about the girl whose ex-boyfriend spreads rumors about her around school, as a result she is harassed and ostracized from others? This is emotional abuse. Love and Abuse Don’t Mix! What about the teen whose ex now calls her whore, stupid, idiot among other names? This is verbal abuse. Love and Abuse Don’t Mix! What about the girl whose boyfriend takes her money to “monitor’ it and decides when and how she spends it? This is financial abuse. Love and Abuse Don’t Mix! What about the person being forced to have sex or perform different sex acts against their will? This is sexual abuse; also called rape. Love and Abuse Don’t Mix! Abuse can trigger other issues, such as eating disorders, alcoholism, drug abuse, behavior problems, depression and suicidal tendencies to name a few. However, studies report that just 33% of teenagers experiencing dating violence ever tell anyone about it.

1 Corinthians 13:3-7 (NIV) says Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

There are fears that many people who are in abusive situations are falling through a gap with references to domestic violence services and whether there is adequate help available. Violence is never acceptable! If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, resources are available.

Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-7233; Teen Dating Hotline 1-800-799-7233; JADASA www.jadasa.org; 314-269-0100 or toll free 1-800-292-2145.

Cynthia R. Bennett is an evangelist, founder/CEO of JADASA, a 501(c) 3 community-based agency for domestic and sexual assault survivors.

Conversations with a Career Survivalist: Rest IS Productive by Christopher M. Anderson

Sat, 01 Oct 2022 19:01:30 GMT

Conversations with a Career Survivalist: Rest IS Productive

Christopher M. Anderson, MHRM, SSLP

If you’ve worked full-time for more than a year or two, you probably have realized, work never really slows down. At least not the way we would like them to. It doesn’t matter if you’re an employee for a large, multinational corporation or if you’re a self-employed entrepreneur, there’s a constant demand to be more efficient, effective, and to maximize your productivity to succeed.

As a Career Survivalist, I always look at the different business models being used across the country and around the world. I found it puzzling that elsewhere in the developed world, that companies are just as productive as American workers (sometimes even more productive) and they’re doing it in countries that don’t allow employees to work overtime, where there are 37-hour work weeks, or longer break times than we typically allow American workers.

As a tried and true American, I found it odd and a little insulting to consider, “there are people doing what I do, just as effectively as I do it, and they’re not working 50 or 60 hours each week like I am? Why haven’t I moved yet?” The answer I found is both simple, counterintuitive to the culture of the American workforce, and it doesn’t require moving your whole life overseas. Simply, Relax! We’ve lived so long with the idea that a good employee is the one that’s always available and always working that we don’t realize our work habits are crippling us!

Many studies about productivity are showing the best way to maximize productivity is to have a healthy balance of work and relaxation. Taking breaks of at least 30 minutes away from your workspace, limiting your work at home/after hours, and having a hobby to take your mind off work for the weekend are proven tactics that actually make you more productive at work!

Some of you might be thinking, I don’t have the kind of job that I can leave and forget about at the end of the day. Others are saying, I’m a business owner and if I don’t do the work, it doesn’t get done. To both of you, I ask, what more important to you, completing today’s checklist or long-term, defined success? Like everything in life, rest takes discipline. The first step to utilizing rest to be productive is realizing that its more than ‘necessary,’ its absolutely critical to your success. The second step is to be intentional about it. The same way you organize your day, create lists of daily tasks, and schedule appointments to stay on focused, its time you started scheduling your downtime.

No matter your business, you’re your first client. If you want to succeed, you must learn to stop canceling on yourself! Manage your own time with the diligence you manage your work and find ways to prioritize your business’ single greatest resource, you!

Compensation Negotiations by Melody Fogarty

Sat, 01 Oct 2022 18:41:03 GMT

Compensation Negotiations

Melody Fogarty

Dear Reader:

One of the toughest conversations you will have in your career will be about compensation. It is made most uncomfortable when you have little or no information and only hope that the other person will willingly offer you more money for doing the same work you are currently providing to the organization or will provide your new employer. It doesn’t have to be this way.

The best deal is made at the initiation of your employment, not with the new organization or at promotion but rather your very first job after you have completed your undergraduate education. If you have not completed your undergraduate education, then your compensation will be based on your first full-time position after high school. It is the result of one simple question, “what are you making or what were you making in your last position?”

Massachusetts led the way in abolishing the practice of using your current or last job as an anchor in salary negotiations. Several other states are following. However, anchoring to your current or last position is still part of the salary negotiation process. My advice is to gather intelligence on yourself, your future peers, the last person who held the position, the hiring manager, and the organization (internal and external market).

Before you enter the negotiation, know how you are viewed in the organization from a performance, image, and exposure perspective (PIE). Note: Image is more than appearance. It has to do with approach ability, emotional intelligence, emotional management, ability to take criticism, and responsiveness. Exposure is related to special projects, advocacy for you by others, global exposure and most importantly potential/bandwidth.

Your PIE will be compared to your peers and the last person to hold the position you are accepting. You must properly position your PIE by helping the hiring manager and/or Human Resources/Recruiter advocate for a total compensation plan that recognizes where you sit in the continuum with your peers and the last person to hold the position. Keep in mind the goal for the hiring manager and organization is to save money while getting greater skill and capacity.

You will also need to know what the market is paying for your skill set in that location, that industry, sub-category, position (title and responsibilities) for your company’s size (revenues and number of employees).

Begin the conversation by reminding them what you bring to the table that they did not have. Remember, there is a very thin line between confidence and arrogance, so don’t overstep. Ask more questions than you provide answers. The first questions should be what is the salary range for the position? What was the last person in this position making? How does my background compare with my peers and with the last person?

Let them make the first offer. Counter with what is reasonable and appropriate for both where you sit in terms of your background against your peers and what the external market will pay for your expertise. Should they say “the jump from your current salary and your requested salary is too much” …” they have never given a person a jump so large”…etc. Remind them that your prior compensation is based on knowledge, skills, and abilities (KSA) you had not yet acquired. Now, you have those KSA’s, and they will have full benefit of them.

Final note, compensation negotiations are best managed from a total compensation perspective (e.g., salary, bonus, time-off, car allowance, and non-healthcare related benefits). Negotiations are adversarial by nature. That said, remain pleasant, calm, and humble. Know what you are worth and ask for it. Never tell the prospect employer what they must do to get you. And, always say thank you not matter how it ends.

Warm regards,

Melody Fogarty

Managing Partner, Chief Business Strategist

Dakota Gray, LLC.

TaylorMade for the Body Soul and Beyond by Brittney Taylor

Sat, 01 Oct 2022 01:02:25 GMT

TaylorMade for the Body Soul and Beyond

Brittney Taylor

Brittney Taylor has worked in the financial industry for the past 19 years. Presently, she resides at Together Credit Union, for the past decade, in the Business Services Department, where she conducts training, quality and asset control for Business Account opening processes, and more. She is passionate about assisting people meet their personal and business financial needs. She is also an active member of the African American Credit Union Coalition (AACUC), where she serves as the Secretary for the Midwest Chapter division. In her free time, she manages her company with her daughter, TaylorMade for the Body Soul and Beyond, where she handmakes all her products for skincare needs. The line consists of products for both, women and men, which are Whipped Body Butters, Suga Scrubs, Roll-on-Oils, Whipped Soaps, and Special Occasion Gift Boxes.

She started this adventure while going through a natural hair journey and trying to find products to aid her daughter and family members that suffer from Eczema. In the beginning, she made products for family and friends, upon discovering her passion for learning about the ingredients/chemicals in products while her aunt transitioned from cancer. It became her mission to know what is in the products used daily. “Our bodies absorb these chemicals into our blood stream, which can have long-term affects towards our health. Which is why I created my brand”, she said. She enjoys the reaction on her clients faces from seeing the satisfaction her products provide. The range of emotions are priceless to her. “It’s a win when you see people light up from within. Seeing my clients smile, knowing their skin glows full of hydration. It simply puts a smile on my face to make someone else’s day! It’s the twinkle in their eyes of relief and the shock of how their skin feels. It’s the body language for me!”

Visit www.taylormade4bsb.com Enjoy 20% off until the end of October and an organization that is near and dear to my heart. Use code AACUC at checkout.

Promotion Principles by Pastor Charles M. Roach

Sat, 01 Oct 2022 00:38:06 GMT

Promotion Principle: Take one day at a time

Pastor Charles M. Roach

When the unexpected happens and it seems you have been abandoned and forgotten, remember God’s promise to those who trust in Him, “I will never leave you, nor forsake you.” Tough times are all around us. As a matter of fact, we may be affected by them. The tough times could be the lost of a job, a demotion on the job, or a cut in salary. Yet, as a believer, you were not promised exclusion from trials, but assistance and resources during the trials. Therefore, a wise approach to life is to take it, live it one day at a time. Matthew 6:25-34 expresses it well:

Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you

will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on.

Let’s stop here. You are not to worry; that is, to stress yourself into a bundle of nervous fits. You are to be concern to the point of trusting God to be your resource.

Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. ARE YOU NOT OF MORE VALUE THAN THEY?

Do not forget that you are the crown of God’s creation. His joy and goal is to take care of you everyday. Life has progressed for me; therefore, I can say as the psalmist, “I have been young, and now am old; yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his descendants begging bread” (Psalm 37:25). God will take care of you.

So, why do you worry?

For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow…

Take one day at a time. Rejoice in it, hope in it and wait patiently in it. That which you need surely will come.

Emotional Abuse - Bullying in the Workplace by Dan LoveKamp

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 23:38:00 GMT

A proactive approach to addressing this must be intentional and monitored continuously. Compliance education and continual training on how effectively to deal with emotional abuse in the workplace are critical to that business. Policies, zero tolerance and documentation/discipline, and sometimes termination of those who perpetrate/support this type of behavior.

Drink The Water by Angie Franklin

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 19:38:59 GMT

Drink the Water

Angie Franklin

Most of us have heard the saying “If you have an itch, scratch it.” Instinctively, when we thirst, we quench it. Although water is the idea substance for thirst, we reach for something that may be more flavorful. Additionally, since we’ve come to realize that the thirst always returns, the goal becomes finding something that will give us longer satisfaction. Christ’s encounter with the woman at the well is often defined as an example of how grace is for all. Bible scholars accentuate the fact that the woman was a Samaritan and how during that time Jews had no dealings with Samaritans. However, this encounter which took place over two thousand years ago, where Jesus offered her a drink of living water, not only reveals much more than grace for all, but it also has a message that is just as profound and appropriate today. In today’s era where the liberation of women declares feminine self-expression a constitutional right and where movement’s such as “Me Too” resonate; women are still suffering with feelings of inadequacy and unfulfillment.

Even though the curtain in the temple was torn at Christ’s death on the cross, signifying that we are no longer shielded from a direct relationship with God, many women have continued to wear a veil. It’s a veil that hinders us from fellowship, meaningful relationships, and true worship. Many women have what Jodi Detrick, author of the Jesus Hearted Woman, calls a “plastic lipstick mentality.” I ‘ve seen how this mentality makes us to feel as though we must put on airs, leading us to believe that we should be a statuesque of perfection, and in doing so, we define our worth through our looks, size, titles, marital status, maternity, etc. When we fail to live up to what is considered the standard of feminine success, we often leap from one failed relationship to another, or we isolate ourselves.

The Samaritan woman not only was considered unacceptable by the Jews, but she also had a tainted past. When Jesus offered her the living water, knowing of her many failed marriages and how her present circumstance was not ideal, he wasn’t condoning her behavior. Neither was he condemning her. He wasn’t concerned with her rank in society, her outer beauty, her marital status, or anything other than her future. Christ’s offer of living water was a chance for her to let go of all the feelings of inadequacy that caused her to try to quench her thirst for fulfilment in all the wrong ways. He was offering to forever fill the empty well that she had been accustomed to, and to fill it with love, acceptance, forgiveness, and purpose.

As we live in a time where society is attempting to redefine our gender through LGBTQ rights, we need to embrace ourselves for those things that truly define who we are, from our genetic makeup to our emotional nature and drink the water, the living water! The water that tells us in Christ we have our being. Perhaps, you’ve already drank the water and no longer thirst, then it’s time to share that drink with another woman who can’t seem to quench her thirst. It’s part of the Great Commission.

2020 / CLEARER VISION by Marcia Baker

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 00:41:40 GMT

2020 / CLEARER VISION

Marcia Baker

The year of 2022, a safe haven? In comparison to the two short years prior to, it possibly is. 2020, had its revelations and peaks and valleys with the whole world watching; held hostage to possibilities never seen before. Amid all the turmoil and uncertainty, I sought a higher power for clarity. In response to the human condition, the word of God was coming forth from each and every conceivable and sometimes inconceivable, communicative venue. Just as the insistency of the Holy Spirit makes its way through the body of Christ, with acceptance, the same insistency was coming from wickedness in high places, waging its war alongside the blood-stained banners, with acceptance.

Masks, social distancing, focused hand washing, our sisters and brothers of all ethnicities, dropping like flies, minute by minute. Loss of life with no explanation. COVID-19 the catalyst, a virus roaming the earth to and fro seeking whom it may devour. Many scenarios played themselves out. Not only was our health at risk, but our national security was further unraveled. The muddier the world stage became, the clearer I saw.

On the heels of a global shut down, as we stumbled into a new norm of abnormality, we were charged to maintain normality in chaos. In some instances, a total way of life was shattered with no real hint of the next steps or if there were any. With mixed emotions, working and schooling from home, health and safety preoccupations, financial confines coupled with the development of hopes and dreams; we were faced with such a rude awakening. Racial tension, ready to spew over all mankind to diminish all humanity.

The afore-mentioned culminations, bear direct connection to mankind and the human condition. No matter how disheveled leadership became, or deceitful law enforcement was portrayed. No matter if taken out of our churches or put in harm’s way of the noisome pestilence, I saw beyond the circumstance. It was as if God himself was saying, Peace be still. So, we sat still while young black lives didn’t appear to matter. We sat in astonishment while callus hearts and minds wreaked havoc within and against democracy. Our country had turned on itself, using the election process and distorted ramblings in place of the basic premise of right and wrong, to conduct wickedness in high places.

The stage was set, the curtains were drawn, there we were, up-front-center-stage, provoked to proclaim, “BLACK LIVES MATTER”, what a concept. Watching incident after incident of identical nature, young black men and women’s lives taken without thought of remorse or consequence. Law enforcement was given the jail free card, with each encounter becoming less necessary and more and more disrespectful. As a people and finally as a nation we had to stand up and shout, “BLACK LIVES MATTER.”

It became abundantly clear that the hateful nature finally had a leader. Demonstrative gatherings and representations of prejudice and white supremacy, finally a voice to the ugliness this country had longed for and operated in. In previous decades this ugliness wore a mask that was confused with decency. The plight of Black lives continued to suffer with little to no consideration for the origin of their citizenship nor the necessity of their survival. Visibly, the lack of consideration to “equality for all” clearly did not include the black population. Elected officials and governing systems, constantly stacked against the progress of Black people and their causes. Racial insults and bias intentions were usually discussed behind closed doors but finally the masks where removed and I could see clearly what was happening and why.

Time and a season, 20/20 in 2020 caused a rippled effect. Blatant disregard for process, policy and procedures were at an all-time high, suggesting validity to the ignorant. Allowing the ignorant to believe they had a right to a prospective. Ignorance had run rampant and law enforcement was not enforcing the law for Black men. We had lost so many to those who were to serve and protect as they continued to reject and harm, without consequences. My heart became heavier and heavier as I could hear the Latin reference to natural law, “An unjust law is no law at all”. Scriptural reference to Isaiah 10th Chapter, regarding the unjust law, Homework. God is in control and Jesus sitteth a t his right hand. Just as I thought we had seen the worst of all handlings, that the saddest moments of 2020 had been realized and that, “this too shall pass.” Then it happened, Bro. George Floyd, May 25, 2020.

Do you understand why we must shout “BLACK LIVES MATTER?” Since 2013 we had been emphasizing the devastation thrusted on to the Black community. Each victim taken out by fear and inadequacies without a moment’s notice. Mothers and Fathers, family and friends, left to put the pieces of their lives back together with a huge whole in the middle of it. On May 25th yet another first, but it added to clearer vision. This time desolation came with clear intent. That wickedness in high places relished in its nine minutes of fame, an appointed time for clearer vision. A deliberate, unyielding knee to the throat of George Floyd, after unwarranted treatment during a routine call for law enforcement, gave evidence to the truth. This victim had time to rightfully plead for his life, with much more than a moment to turn it around. While stressing to his assailant he couldn’t breathe, his pleas were met with further force and less concern. The very breathe of life that was given to George Floyd before the foundations of the earth was now being taken.

I then realized that he was chosen. Before the foundation of the earth, God knew that this son would cast this truth on to the human condition. For clearer vision 20/20, into the depths of hatred and its demise to mankind, we saw prophecy played out as the word teaches of plagues and pandemics, wars and rumors of wars and of wickedness in high places. In 20/20, before the foundation of the earth God knew that the year “2020” would weed out the good from the bad. That age old bias and racial practices would be called out and would only be condoned by those who accepted them. We must continue to shout out “BLACK LIVES MATTER.” We must speak up against injustice and the misuse of life’s privilege for all men. Living in America is a privilege that all its citizens are to utilize. In Heinz sight -- God said so.

Acts 10:34 “He is no respecter of person” (King James)

Live Your Life by Dr. Dorothy Haire

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 00:30:00 GMT

Live Your Life

Dr. Dorothy Haire

I want to address two trains of thought about salvation.

One train of thought is: “The people I know who go to church are boring. They just go to work, home, and church. So, when I am done living, I will get saved.” These people want to accept Jesus as their personal Savior, but fear they will not be able to enjoy life if they do.

The other train of thought is: “I am saved, sanctified, and filled with the Holy Ghost. I have Jesus and that is enough.” These people seem to think that any enjoyment of “worldly” activities is a sin.

Both trains of thought are faulty.

It is true that all activities that harm you physically, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally are forbidden by our Heavenly Father. For example:

⦁ He does not want you to harm your body through drugs, alcohol, gluttony, or any other method. “Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God” (I Corinthians 6:19, NIV)?

⦁ He does not want you to be spiritually lost. “The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance” (2 Peter 3:9, KJV).

⦁ God does not want you emotionally distressed in any way. “Cast all your anxieties on him because he cares for you” (I Peter 5:7, KJV).

⦁ He does not want you harmed by being ignorant of the dangers of the world. “And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God” (Roman 12:2, KJV).

Once you realize that God wants you to enjoy the life He has given to you, it is on and poppin’. I tell people all the time that all I need is time and money. I have a lot of ideas on how to use both. For example, I love to travel, but not just for ministry. I have been to Israel and Greece for spiritual edification but traveled to Paris, London, Italy, and Egypt for personal gratification.

These activities may bore you; so, do what pleases you. But I beg you, do not allow any Christian’s humdrum life to cause you to reject Jesus as your Savior. I also beg you, do not let being saved cause you to live a life lacking in laughter, love, and personal gratification.

Our Heavenly Father wants you to enjoy life to the fullest. Jesus said, “I come that they might have life and that they might have it more abundantly” (John 10:10, KJV).

Accept Jesus as your personal Savior and begin living your life to the fullest today.

Take Your Position by Nicci Roach

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 00:14:14 GMT

Take Your Position

Nicci Roach

Webster’s dictionary defines position as a place where someone or something is located or has been put; a particular way in which someone or something is placed or arranged; put or arrange (someone or something) in a particular place or way.

Being an employee of any company/organization you have been positioned in some shape, form

or fashion. But take the time ask yourself, “Is this a position I chose or was this something created for me by default?” We must take the time to learn more about self and know our position, why the position and is it the right position as it lays the foundation for success.

Speaking of position…I understand there was much preparation that went forth for Super Bowl 2016. There were MANY investments made to make this event a success and to position a company, a team, a product, a service and more at the forefront. I wanted to focus on the positioning of the players on the field. Considering this, I conducted a little research on football positioning, offense and defense.

Offense in football begins a play with the object of earning points. This is accomplished with the making of a touchdown while being afforded several attempts. Scoring can also occur by getting good field position for an attempt at a field goal.

Defense is on point when the opposition is prevented from scoring. Other possibilities for this position include having the ball turned over on downs, interception or recovering a fumble. What I like about defense is that a player can get into position anywhere on his side and perform any legal action to accomplish his goal.

With football, a coach invests time, effort, money, wisdom and more before identifying the true strength of a player. These investments are often conducted before and after recruitment. The player’s strengths are developed and enhanced over time, not over night.

Well we must realize this same approach should be adopted and embraced by us as leaders; however, we must also prepare to play both positions. Regarding offense…there are times when we will need a 1st down, 2nd down, 3rd down and possibly a 4th down before accomplishing a goal. Defense…at times we must aggressively, fearlessly stand up against, block and even tackle everything that comes against making a dream a reality. We need to have and listen to our coaches, advisors, mentors and sponsors to help us as we prepare and/or secure our positions. There will be times when it’s not our turn, we know the ball is not in our hands, despite this fact we still have the opportunity to seize the moment. A popular quote by Bobby Unser, an INDY 500 Auto Racer says, “Success is where preparation and opportunity meet”. The statement supports the reality that we really should be ready to play both positions at all times.

So it is with these same positions, offense and defense that we operate in authority and confidence over every area of our lives while influencing the lives of those around us. Despite what life brings…get in position, know your position, be deliberate about your position and play with great intent to win!

Website: nicciroach.com | Email: nicciroach@ymail.com | Twitter: @NicciRoach

Move Church - Travail 2022 by Apostle Gerald Pace

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 00:02:59 GMT

MOVE CHURCH - Travail 2022

Apostle Gerald Pace

Move Church located at 6707 W. Florissant Rd. St. Louis, MO 63136. Travail is our annual prayer summit which offers amazing worship experiences, intercessors training, impartation, and a time of refreshing to those who serve in ministry. On Thursday, October 6 th at 7pm, we will host the Prayer Cave; a night of intercession and the preached word. Friday, October 7 th will be our 9 Hours of Prayer Gathering beginning at 3pm and ending at midnight.

For 9 Hours of Prayer, each hour will be filled with worship, teaching, prayer, and so much more! This summit will also feature powerful voices from all over the United States, as well as gifted speakers from our region. Some speakers and prayer leaders are: Apostle Shontill McNabb, Bishop W. Channing Jackson, Pastor Keenan Peebles, Apostle William Johnson and more! Guests are slated to be with us from Louisiana, South Carolina, Florida, Alabama, Texas and other places. You do not want to miss this 2-day powerful experience filled with worship, instruction, activation, impartation, and safe spaces to encounter the Father. We are looking forward to worshiping with you.

For more info, email

movechurchstl@gmail.com ,

visit www.movechurchstl.com ,

or call 314.701.0551.

Apostle Gerald Pace, Host

Move Church, Inc.

www.movechurchstl.com

How Social Media Can Kill Your Chances of Gaining Employment by Charmaine Thomas

Thu, 29 Sep 2022 23:57:41 GMT

How Social Media Can Kill Your Chances

Of Gaining Employment

Charmaine Thomas

Regional Human Resources Manager/Northern California

It amazes me how often I see individuals vent their feelings regarding their Managers, companies and fellow employers on social media, such as Facebook and Twitter. I just want to delete the post myself because not only am I looking at your post as well.

If you've ignored career experts' advice to be careful about what you post on social networks, such as Facebook and LinkedIn, this new survey may frighten you.

In a survey of some 2,300 hiring managers, nearly 40 percent said they screen potential hires using social media, and many say they reject job applicants as a result of what they find, according to a new survey released.

The Internet offers companies the opportunity for potential hires—and much of it doesn't make for a good first impression. As social media continues to grow in popularity, however, the challenge for employers who are deciding what are deal breakers.

Here is what turned them off:

• Candidate's provocative/inappropriate photos/comments - 49 percent

• Candidate drinking or using drugs - 45 percent

• Candidate had "poor communication skills" - 35 percent

• Candidate bad-mouthed a previous employer -- 33 percent

• Candidate made discriminatory comments related to race, gender or religion -- 28 percent

• Candidate lied about qualifications -- 22 percent

While companies have been cautious about turning to the Internet as a research tool, a recent CareerBuilder study found that two in five companies now use social-networking sites like LinkedIn, Facebook, FB -2.16%, Twitter to screen potential candidates. Most are looking to see that a candidate appears professional and will fit in with company culture, according to the survey, which polled 2,000 hiring managers and human-resources professionals. Be careful as to who can follow you on link up with you on such sites as Facebook. The golden rule should be do not Facebook Friend your co-workers. It can be a cause for concern.

These social-media background checks have given rise to a whole new host of deal breakers, career experts say. At one time, spelling and grammar mistakes on a résumé might have taken a candidate out of the running; now, recruiters are much more likely to forgive a typo than, say, trashing an employer on Facebook. First impressions are everything, but sometimes they creep up on you. As a job candidate, 86% of potential employers will look at your social profiles. Your fellow employees are checking you out ready to determine your employment status. Any employer who uses social media to research job candidates is probably used to stumbling upon such indiscretions by now.

Source-CareerBuilder, AOL.com

It's Never Too Late Get The Back To School “Supply” List by Cornelius Weaver

Thu, 29 Sep 2022 02:37:46 GMT

It's Never Too Late Get The Back To School “Supply” List

Cornelius Weaver

As you begin to start back to school there are some essential items that you must have for the first day of school. Whether you are in grade school or entering college, there is still a list of suggested items you must acquire in order to start right. Many students can make their way to Wal-Mart to find these items, such as: pencil, pens, notebooks and binders. However, the spiritual back to school supply items can’t be found of the shelves of Wal-Mart. These items are found only in the storage of God’s Word. Let’s look at a few items that you need to bring to class with you the first day according to God’s Word.

Item #1: Scheduler/Planner

Word: “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will

give you everything you need” Matthew 6:33

It is easy to take your time with God for granted. After a long busy day of classes, test, and homework you will be exhausted. As you hit the pillow you remember you haven’t prayed or read your Word for the day. But instead of getting, you skip your time with God and tell yourself you will make it tomorrow.

Just like you can’t skip class and expect to pass, you can’t miss time with God and expect to maintain your spiritual growth. Make plans everyday to read and pray for least 15 minutes. One thing that helped me was to follow the calendar days of the months with the chapters of Proverbs. I would read a proverb a day. That helped me so much in my walk with God. Start making the time with God today so that you can continue to grow while in school.

Item #2: Pencil/Paper

Word: “Write the vision and make it plain…..that he may run that reads it” Habakkuk 2:2

With the start of a new year, comes new goals. Write down your goals for this school year. Do you want to make straight A’s? Have perfect attendance? Maybe make the dean’s list? Or maybe this is your graduating year? Whatever it may be, write it out and post it to your mirror. Look at it daily. So you remember where you want to be. This will help you in the times of discouragement when you feel like giving up. This will help you keep your focused on the main goal, even if there is a delay, doesn’t mean you are denied.

Item #3: Book bag

Word: “Give all of your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you” 1 Peter 5: 7

As you try to make your way from class to class, it is a good idea to put your books in your book bag. Your book bag helps lighten the load so that your hands won’t be full. Sometimes in school you can begin to get overloaded. Between sports, band, academics, and a social life you can feel like you are stressed out. It is at that moment that you have to remember that there is no care or concern that you can’t take to God. School can be a very stressful time. Feeling the deadlines to turn in essays and finish assignments can be overwhelming. Don’t let the pressure get to you. Remember to be open and honest in your prayer to God. Tell him what you are worried about. Then let the peace of God rule in your heart.

In my book, Jesus Goes to College, I discuss the importance of finding where your faith fits in to your school work. There is a great value in receiving an education. Even Jesus understood that. In Luke 2, we find that Jesus has wonder off from his parents to join the teachers in the temple. The bible says that we when they found him he was sitting among teachers, listening to them and asking them questions. (Luke 2:46-47). Here is the son of God in school. Attending class. Not tardy. Not playing around, but taking his education seriously. As you approach this new school year ask yourself the same. Do I really take school seriously? Am I on task? Do I have all the right supplies to succeed?

Prayer for the upcoming school year:

Lord, I am so thankful for all of the opportunities you have given me. Thank you for allow me to be able to receive an education. Equip me with all of the right supplies to go back to school. Help me to take my education seriously this year if I didn’t before. Where I was failing let me succeed. Where I struggle, give me some help. Give me favor with my teachers. Help from the right classmates. Push me into my graduation and the plans you have for me. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.

A Journeyman Laborer in construction - From Prison To Purpose

Mon, 01 Aug 2022 00:20:23 GMT

I’m Lisa Porter, a Journeyman Laborer in Construction. I determined I would be in the construction field while in prison. I discovered the Building and Trades Industry had great opportunities. Most important and influential in this decision I made was this industry is the forerunner in giving second chances to ex-offenders. A skilled construction worker will not only have great pay but also great benefits. There are so many trades to choose from in the construction field.

Yes, while I was in prison, I had a great support system. My family leading the trail. I believe because of that and a renewed relationship with God I found hope to live again! I knew I would have to get a job; I had a young daughter and knew I wanted her to have a great education and future. I felt I would have to have more than a sustainable income for her to have both.

Applying with a local union and getting in construction allowed me to make the income I dreamed of and afforded me the ability to be a good provider to my daughter. I was able to send my daughter to school and she is now a traveling nurse in whom I am so proud! I am now also happily married and a homeowner! The Second Chance afforded me a real chance, there was no judgement.

Now I had another desire, some might say dream. I wanted to start a nonprofit organization that will help children with incarcerated parents. My drive to help children with incarcerated parents come from my own personal experience while incarcerated.

In 2004, I was imprisoned and sentenced to five years, because of being with the wrong crowd of people.

During my time in prison, I met women who had received no visits from their children in 7 to 9 months, even worse, some women were not having any contact with their children for a year or longer. Although I had a strong support system when I was incarcerated, I understood the anxiety, anticipation, and frustration these women were experiencing due to lack of visitation from their children.

As time went on, I began sharing my prison system phone pin number with some of the ladies so that they were able to call home. On several occasions I would have my very own mother pick up other inmates' children and caregivers, and bring them to the prison for a visit with their loved one. Oftentimes when my family members would try to send me money, I would have my sister take the money and purchase items needed for some of the inmates' children. The many items my sister would help them purchase included prom dresses, baby pampers, school uniforms, and even Six Flags tickets. I would never forget how all this made me feel and I knew at some point I wanted to Help.

Thanks to the Building and Trade Industries In the year 2020 I decided to retire from construction to start my organization. A Non-Profit, 4 Walls and Beyond, where the mission is to assist children with incarcerated parents and support ongoing communication during time of imprisonment. During my twenty-five years of being in construction I have had the pleasure of working on several large scale jobs in the St. Louis Metropolitan area. The many projects include the expansion of Barnes-Jewish Hospital (BJC), building the St. Louis Ballpark Village, and the demolition of the twenty story Queeny Tower building located in the Central West End. My most recent project includes construction of the new Soccer Stadium in Downtown St. Louis, which is scheduled to begin operating in the Summer of 2023.

I want to encourage parents and young people to also investigate the very lucrative career of Construction Job. There will always be work with exceptional pay and benefits.

I’m Lisa Porter, I am the Founder of 4 Walls and Beyond. From Prison To Purpose.

List of Construction Jobs

Boilermaker, Carpenter, Carpet Installer

Cement & Concrete Finisher, Dredge Operator

EIFS Installer, Electrician/Technician

Equipment Operator, Elevator Mechanic

Estimator, Fencer/Fence Erector

Flooring Installer, Foreman, Glazier

HVAC Tech, Insulation Worker

Iron-worker, Laborer, Landscaper, Mason

Millwright, Painter, Pile Driver Operator

Plasterer, Plumber, Pipefitter, Steamfitter

Safety Manager, Sheet Metal Worker

Construction Manager, Ironworker

Roofing Mechanic, Roofing Foreman, Welder

Patrula Griffin is MORE THAN A CONQUEROR

Sun, 31 Jul 2022 22:23:09 GMT

More than A Conqueror

Patrula Griffin

More than A Conqueror!

Mrs. Patrula Griffin shares her powerful testimony revealing that she indeed is More than A Conqueror.

Hello everyone. First giving honor to my Heavenly father, and to everyone of you. Our God is Awesome!

First let me tell you a little bit about myself. My name is Patrula Griffin. I am a wife, married to my wonderful husband, Mr. Bruce Griffin, a mother of 5 children and 14 grandchildren. I am also a psalmist and now an entrepreneur.

I am here today to give you my testimony of Faith and perseverance. (Excuse me but I must give God Glory! HALLELUJAH!)

Well on April 11th, 2019, I was employed as a school bus driver. For over 22 years I operated in this role in my career of employment. There were times on the job where I could be needed to pick up an extra route. This would be one of those days. I gladly volunteered to take this extra route to help fulfill the company’s commitment. The commitment to get the children picked up on time and get them home.

This day was different from any day I worked as a bus driver. It appeared to be all out of nowhere this life changing incident occurred. As I opened my door at a bus stop, I was attacked by an angry mob of parents. The woman leading the attack grabbed an ice scraper and repeatedly struck me on my arms and my hands, as I tried to block my face. The Holy Spirit spoke to me and said, “be still”! My flesh wanted to retaliate, but all I could remember while everything was going on was telling GOD telling me to “be still”. I kept thinking if they get me off the bus it's over.

Just as I feared and regretted, I was pulled off the running vehicle that still occupied 5 students. I went headfirst, I was kicked, stomped, repeatedly cursed out. I heard God speak and say, “don’t hit back”. Sadly no one tried to stop the assault. The crowd stood and watched; I was finally able to get up after the assault stopped.

I thank GOD for his protection, and mercy on my life! Yes, He still protected me! The enemy meant to take my life that day, but the Lord said, ‘not so”. On this day God kept a firmament between my life and death.

Obedience is better than sacrifice! I have gone through so much. I can truly say God is faithful! I know He was with me.

I've had surgery where 2 discs were replaced in my neck, I also suffered a concussion and I have numbness and tingling due to the trauma. It seemed like Satan wanted me to lose everything. He wanted to make me loose even hope that I would ever recover from this or be able to survive. I’m here to tell you some of the greatest victories come out of devastation. At this time and always I make a boast in the goodness of God!

God is a way maker, He is a miracle worker, and He will never come short of His promises.

God has now blessed me to own my own business. I absolutely love my business and my customers. (Trula's Jewelry and Design LLC). I have finished 2 EPs (my music cd’s). It's only up from here!

We will experience trouble, and adversity in this life, but just know that GOD is always in control. So no matter what, keep God first! I am grateful He made me More than A Conqueror through Christ Jesus.

I appreciate you reading my testimony and I pray that this gives you strength and helps you all in life's uncertain circumstances. God Bless You!

Another Summer Trauma & Memories by Dr. Denizela' R. Dorsey

Sun, 31 Jul 2022 22:14:59 GMT

Another Summer Trauma & Memories

Dr. Denizela' R. Dorsey

Trauma impedes your memory while affecting your peripheral nervous system. Trauma creates both episodic and emotional memory. Episodic memory remembers sights, sounds, smells: every episode of the traumatic experiences and how painful and scary the event was…. Emotional memory happens when the brains perceives a threat or thinks about the episodic memory then you may feel vulnerable and operated from survival, causing you to become hijacked and unable to calm your brain’s activity. One way to calm the brain down is creating new experiences in your hippocampus and striatum. Remember emotional memory can and will get triggered without context, your brain can create a false narrative even in good things due to the memories and thoughts. Teach your brain to serve you. Stay Hydrated.

-Stay tuned my fifth publication is on its way, and it will be an audio book as well as printed book.

Dr. Denizela’ R.Dorsey,

LMSW,MDIV.

314-716-3298

Spiritual Contractions! by Cynthia R. Bennett

Sun, 31 Jul 2022 22:06:42 GMT

Spiritual Contractions!
Cynthia R. Bennett

Massive flooding in the mid-west regions; increased storms and hurricanes; earthquakes in divers places; volcanoes that were dormant for over ten thousand years, all of a sudden erupts; gay marriages sanctioned; false prophets claiming to be Jesus; one billion dollars in damage to the agriculture sector; gas prices extremely out of control; troubled economy; low housing market; high employment rate; homicide rates increasing; and terrorists threats towards Israel are not incidents resulting from global warming, man made errors, technical or mechanical failures. But events that were foretold over two thousand years ago; and are on course leading up to “the biggest and most extreme phenomenon” that was prophesized to occur. The body of Christ is having “spiritual contractions” signaling that His entry is near.

In Matthews 24:3-8 (paraphrased) the disciples asked Jesus what will be the sign of His return. He began His answer by saying that there will be wars and rumors of wars, but they would have no bearing on the end of the age: there will always be wars and revolutions, but they are not the sign of the end. Then He said that there will be a specific type of war, and this war will be the one sign to watch for in order to know that the end of the age has begun: "Nation will rise against nation and kingdom against kingdom". He added that there will be famines and earthquakes in various places and all of these events together are the beginning of sorrows or the beginning of the end as we know it.

Here is an analogy: A pregnant woman displays signs that she will be giving birth soon. For one she visibly has a large, round stomach; she wears maternity or large size clothes; she may have gained a few pounds with changes in her features or color of her skin; i.e. there are notable changes taking place. But as she moves closer to her delivery date, she prepares the nursery with furniture, toys, supplies and food; and keeps her suitcase ready and packed for a quick departure to the hospital. For as she goes about her daily routine, sleeping and eating, on a moment’s notice, her water breaks, and the contractions start, indicating her time for delivery is near. For those who have not experienced this type of event, contractions or labor pains indicate the baby has positioned him/herself into the birth canal and is preparing to move towards entry. As the pain gets more intense, (they can last a few minutes, several hours, or even a couple of days), the mother begins to dilate. When the woman’s womb opens up to ten centimeters in diameter, for vaginal birth procedures, she is told to start pushing hard to deliver the baby.

In God's spiritual timeframe, we really don't know how long the "spiritual contractions" will be either, for Matthews 25:13 says to watch therefore, for ye know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh; but looking at the increase intensity of world events that are unfolding, and we are to get in place because there are changes taking place indicating the hour is fast approaching and his entry is near. Let’s encourage one another to make sure we have our things packed and in order for this will be a quick departure. Believe, mediate, and Act on the word of God because we are in "labor" and are now at ten centimeters in diameter. Therefore, it is time to push hard the Gospel of Jesus Christ; push hard for Salvation; push hard for Holiness so we can deliver souls into the kingdom.

The world is shaping itself into an exact picture of the end-times before the coming of Christ. Folks, the handwriting is on the wall; it is time that we work out our own Salvation with fear and trembling for when Jesus comes back to meet the Saints in the clouds, this will be the commencement to moving into the Millennial Kingdom to reign forever with Him…..for we are walking by faith on This Journey.

Evangelist Cynthia R. Bennett

Founder of This Journey Ministries

Email: info@thisjourney.org

Ms. Allisha Jones-Pickens Philanthropist, Advocate, Mentor, Motivational Speaker

Sun, 31 Jul 2022 22:03:01 GMT

Mrs. Allisha Jones-Pickens is the founder of Community of Hope, a non -profit organization that focuses on providing social services and resources to at risk young mothers and women transitioning from prison to the St. Louis area, to help them become Self Sufficient. She also works as the Director’s Assistant for the Cure Violence Walnut Park Program, focusing on at-risk youth and the de-escalation of conflicts before potentially elevating to gun violence.

How Do You Proclaim A Generational Blessing by Rev. Dr. Elijah H. Hankerson

Sun, 31 Jul 2022 21:01:25 GMT

How Do You Proclaim A Generational Blessing?
The Rev. Dr. Elijah H. Hankerson III, BA, MA, DD

It is amazing that while there is so much talk and interest about generational curses, there is very little material, discussion and information on generational blessings.

The word blessing in Genesis 28:4 is the Hebrew word berakah, which means, “to pronounce a benediction.” Benediction means, “An expression of good wishes.” 1 The word implies prosperity. 2 Prosperity is, “The condition of being successful or thriving; especially: economic well-being.”

Deuteronomy 21:22-23 says, 22 And if a man have committed a sin worthy of death, and he be to be put to death, and thou hang him on a tree: 23 His body shall not remain all night upon the tree, but thou shalt in any wise bury him that day; (for he that is hanged is accursed of God ;) that thy land be not defiled, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance.

Jesus received and became that curse, so that we might be blessed. Galatians 3:13-14 says, 13 Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree: 14 That the blessing of Abraham might come on the Gentiles through Jesus Christ; that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith.

The word “blessing” (the Greek word, eulogia) in Galatians 3:14 means, “fine speaking, elegance of language, to speak well of or to invoke a benediction upon.” 3 Eulogia is actually a compound of two words eu, which means “well,” and logos, which means, “word.” 4

You can see from both the Old and New Testaments that the generational blessing is something that is said, spoken or proclaimed! When you read Genesis 12:2, it literally says, “You will have the power to bless whomever you wish.” 5 That is, you can speak a blessing upon a generation!

A gene is the basic unit of heredity in a living organism . All living things depend on genes. Genes hold the information to build and maintain their cells and pass genetic traits to offspring. 6

A generation is procreated or produced offspring . A generation can be a stage or degree in a succession of natural descent as a grandfather, a father, and the father's son comprise three generations. 7

1 http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/benediction. (Accessed, March 27, 2009).

2 Strong, James. The Strongest Strong’s. Zondervan: Grand Rapids, 2001.

3 Ibid.

4 Vine, W. E. Vine’s Complete Expository Dictionary of Old and New Testament Words. Nelson: Nashville, 1996.

5 Scherman, Rabbi Nossom. The Chumash. Mesorah: Brooklyn, 1998.

6 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gene. (Accessed, March 27, 2009).

7 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Generation. (Accessed, March 27, 2009).

The Word teaches, first natural, then spiritual (1 Corinthians 15:46). So, just like physical traits (for example, skin color, hair color, eye color, etc.) can be passed down through genes and DNA, immaterial traits (or spiritual traits) can be passed down also through proclaiming “generational blessings.” This is why the Bible teaches us that we

have a spiritual inheritance:

Acts 20:32. And now, brethren, I commend you to God, and to the word of his grace, which is able to build you up, and to give you an inheritance among all them which are sanctified.

Everything is to reproduce after its kind (for example, Genesis 1:11). God has planted you as a seed in the Earth realm to multiply and reproduce after His kingdom (that is, His way of doing things in Heaven and Earth). So, you have the authority to proclaim generational blessings upon (1) your family and (2) your sphere of influence.

A generational blessing is where a godly, spiritual heritage is passed down from generation to generation (of course it is not automatic; a person must yield to God in order to receive their inheritance). For example, Jonathan Edwards was a committed Christian who married a godly young lady. Some 1,394 descendants of his were traced through genealogical studies. Family records reveal that of the 295 who graduated from college, 13 became college presidents and 65 became college professors. Three were elected as United States senators and three as governors. There was one who became dean of a law school, 100 were lawyers, and 30 were judges. One hundred were missionaries, preachers, or prominent authors, 80 held some form of public office, of whom three were mayors of large cities. One became the comptroller of the U.S. Treasury, 56 practiced as physicians, and one was the dean of a medical school. One became vice-president of the United States and 75 were officers in the military. 8

In closing to pronounce a generational blessing, When you pray and as you pray, put God in remembrance of His Word. Its not that God does not remember what He said; but God honors His Word not your word. Notice that the following sample prayer is all Scripture. Though short, you know it will be effective, because it is the Word of God:

Father, in Jesus name I speak over (name of your family) that they are your

people and the sheep of your pasture. 9 As your sheep, I thank you that (name of your

family) they hear Your voice clearly and the voice of a stranger they will not follow. 10

I praise you Lord, that (name of your children, or children that you know) are

taught of the Lord and great is their peace. 11 Because (name of your children, or

children you know) are the seed of the righteous they do not beg bread. 12

Father, I proclaim that your anointing abides upon (name of your family) from

generation to generation, according to your Word, In Jesus Name, Amen! 13

8 http://www.baptistpillar.com/bd0617.htm. (Accessed, March 27, 2009).

9 Psalm 100:4.

10 John 10:4-5.

11 Isaiah 54:13.

12 Psalm 37:25.

13 Exodus 40:15.

Disciplining The Next Generation by Apostle David Rogers

Sun, 31 Jul 2022 20:40:47 GMT

Disciplining The Next Generation
Apostle David Rogers

“Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it. ”Proverbs 22:6 NKJV

Why does the average church in America, seem to be absent the presence of children, youth, teenagers and millennials? This oft debated issue has been contextualized within a social science framework, as the Post-Modern Era. In an effort to support the notion that Christianity as a whole, is losing its relevance in todays culture, social scientists are now assessing the church’s population and growth as benchmarks for its decline.

Scripture must be the foundation for discerning issues and developing pertinent strategies to address those issues. This issue in particular finds recourse in Proverbs 22:6, Train up a child! This prophetic wisdom was penned by Solomon, who the Bible describes as the wisest man whoever lived. This prophetic utterance was given to parents as an instruction concerning our responsibility to disciple the next generation. This was to be a part of the focal relationship system between parents and children.

Westernized Babylonian Christianity has forsaken this sacredness of sexual purity, marriage, and parenting. Babylonian Churches have sought to take on or have been given the task of entertaining children during “church” and through “Youth Church” constructs that do very little in the way of influencing children to receive Jesus as LORD and to walk in His ways. “Church” has become another tedious obligation for most children who are sent to “church” rather than being discipled by their parents who have embraced and live the tenets of Christianity as a cultural norm in their homes. The forced attendance to Babylonian church gatherings will never replace the strength of seeing your PARENTS walking in humble submission to GOD as the reality of their lives versus a two hour obligation on Sundays.

The impact of having a saved Father in the home that leads and guides their families in the spiritual disciplines of prayer, Bible study, worship and servanthood have been well researched and noted. Parents laying a firm foundation in their children is our only way out of the deep moral quagmire, our world finds itself slipping deeper and deeper into. My prayer is that the true church of Jesus Christ would place more emphasis on parenting than gospel skating parties, boutillions and youth camps that are often good activities but lack the sustainable impact of parenting!

Dear Father GOD, let parents station themselves as reservoirs of spiritual truth to their children in this next generation! In Jesus mighty name! AMEN

Yours Truly,

David A. Rodgers- CEO

Dominion Vision Enterprises In

Profile of the Missing Men by Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

Sun, 31 Jul 2022 20:26:47 GMT

Profile of the Missing Men
Dr. Dorothy J. Haire

“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God,” – (James 1:5)

In order to grow, churches use different strategies. However, no matter what growth strategies churches use, there is a segment of the community that is not being reached by anyone. I call them “The Missing Men.” These are the men who consider themselves born again, but have stopped attending church or who visit, but will not join a local assembly.

I interviewed six “Missing Men,” ages 22 to 73, to get an understanding of why they no longer want to be committed to a local church. I strongly believe that God will reveal divine strategies to concerned Pastors who hear the heart of these men through the words they spoke during their individual interviews.

“D” is a 22 year old father of a four year old daughter. He is presently unemployed, but hopes to begin school soon. He is born again and was once a Praise Dancer and in the church choir. The church was small and everyone knew everyone else’s business, lots of gossip. “D” shared, “I have learned not to look at the people or the pastor because they preach one thing, but live another.” He is not looking for a church now, but when he does he will look for a large church where he can meet new people and “everybody does not know your business.”

“P” is a 34 year old with two children, who has joint custody with two mothers who are unbelievers. He is presently unemployed, but was a bouncer in a club. He was born-again at an early age, very active in a small church, and held multiple positions in the church. “P” stopped attending church when he had his first child. ‘I felt sheltered and wanted to experience the world. I used to say to my mother, ‘Can you just talk to me as a mother and not as a preacher or saved woman? Now at 34 years old it all makes sense.” “P” considers himself a member of the church he grew up in, although he does not attend regularly. “I will go back when I get myself together.”

“R” is a 43 year old business owner, twice divorced with six children and three grandchildren. Raised in the church, active in youth choir, male chorus, and as an usher, “R” said he left church because his life got busy. He started devoting more time to starting and growing his business, which left less time for church. Although he does not read his Bible, he prays throughout the day. “R” confesses, “My business would not be possible without Him.” “R” added, “There was nothing wrong with my former church and I am not shopping around for a new one.”

“S” is a 53 year old married father of two young adults. He supervises a 27 member staff at a local pharmaceutical company. He is born-again, but not a member of a church. Although he was once active in church when he was a young adult, he left because he wanted to get back out into the world, “smoking, drinking and cussing.” Now that he is older, “S” does not attend church because “I work hard through the week and when I get home I just want to rest. I don’t want to be around a lot of people. I don’t read my Bible. I give God thanks when things are good; when things are bad, I tough it out.

“J” is a 60 year old Social Work supervisor who is widowed with two children and three grandchildren. Although he was raised in the church, “J”s thoughts about the necessity of church changed. “I don’t need the church to tell me about faith and my belief in God. Religion is a philosophy of teaching and I can interpret the Bible for myself. Church used to be where people helped each other and gave moral support, like a family. Now the mega-church pastor is like a CEO running a business.” “J” says he visits his wife’s church once or twice a month.

“H” is a 73 year old widow who is a retired father and grandfather. “H” shared, “When I was small I was forced to go to church. I said then ‘When I grow up I am not going.’ I can serve the Lord at home just as good as sitting up in someone’s church. I will visit, but I will never join. I only like old-time preaching and the old hymns. I don’t like the dancing, the testifying, and speaking in tongues. I do listen to Charles Stanley and T. D. Jakes. I can understand them.”

Hear the hearts and needs of these “Missing Men”, Pastors. Then ask the Holy Ghost how to effectively reach out to them. Their presence, their spiritual gifts, their natural abilities are needed in the local church to help it be balanced and to represent all of the people. And they need the local church, whether they will admit it are not. Let us actively, but wisely, reach out to the “Missing Men.”

Are you dating or Are you Kickin-it by Pastor Horry

Sun, 31 Jul 2022 20:13:38 GMT

Are you dating or Are you Kickin-it?

Pastor Horry

Everything that we do in life should have purpose, including dating. God created everything in life to have purpose, including mankind and all of his activities and all of his relationships. Dating is a term that should be defined by a purpose and that purpose should be marriage. Let me share with you that if the person you are dating has no plans to marry you or you’re not interested in marrying them within the next 12-18 months, yes there must be a time frame, you guys are not dating, rather you guys are just “kickin-it.” Dating is just an acceptable term that sounds better to a couple, particularly the female, than “kickin-it”; however, the truth of the matter is, if a couple does not have marriage in their immediate future, the correct terminology for their relationship is “kickin-it”. Believe me, if we started calling these relationships like it is, most would be offended and perhaps end the relationship. That being said, now you will be able to see and or understand my stand on casual dating.

There is no such thing, especially for Christians. God made us sexual and sensual beings and we are incapable of carrying on an exclusive relationship with the member of the opposite sex and not engage in sexual sin. 1 Corinthians 7:9 says, “but if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn”. The word “contain” here means to control their sexual lust or desire for one another. God is saying it is better to marry and be in the will of God than to commit sexual sin and be out of the will of God. You cannot habitually commit any sin and remain in the will of God. Galatians 6:7-8 says, “be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.”

Dating with purpose has little significance in our society today. We have teenagers dating and we know that it has no purpose of marriage within their immediate future because they have not completed High School and most of them are still in Elementary School. What parent would want their child to marry while still in Elementary, Middle or High School? A parent that has love for their child would never allow this. It would be insane! So, why do some parents allow and even support them in their dating at their young age? Teenage pregnancy would vanish if parents took the same stand as God, yes “God”. There is nowhere in scripture where God supports dating. So if God does not support it, we should not participate in it. Parents are only setting themselves up to be premature grandparents and teenagers are only setting themselves up to be ill-prepared parents. “Young ladies”, let me warn you, you are setting yourself up for a lifetime of “baby-mama-drama”. Not all boys, but most, will leave you to fend for yourself or worst, he will deny that the baby is his which will frustrate you, because that same boy probably was telling you that he loved you, only to get you to have sex with him.

Let’s be honest here. The only reason people date one another is to have sex. If you take sex out of the equation, no one will want to date. We have replaced the purpose of dating with having “sex”. We need realize that the purpose of dating is for “marriage”. Unmarried sex is against God and marriage is of God. We must get back to obeying God. It is alright to go “on a date” with a member of the opposite sex but don’t start “dating” that individual unless you are planning to marry them soon. So now young people, as well as older, are you dating or are you just “kickin-it”? A sure way to know which direction you’re headed is: If you plan to marry the individual you call yourself “dating” within the 12-18 months (or less), you can consider yourself “dating”. However, if you have no intent on marrying this person, you are just “kickin-it”. To thine own self be true, let’s call it like it is.

Pastor Alfred Long is MORE THAN A CONQUEROR

Fri, 01 Jul 2022 04:22:52 GMT

Pastor Alfred Long is

MORE THAN A CONQUEROR

Father’s Day 2022

A Father’s Day…with no father

Lawrence Riley, Jr. (1947-2020)

My maternal grandfather

Dear Poppy,

Phew! This is rough. It has been over two years now and I was doing well. The first Father’s Day is tough. It is amazing the things that trigger our memory. Two weeks ago, I went to a conference and my flight connected through LaGuardia. As we began to descend, I immediately remembered the last time I was here, to sleep in the hospital room with you every weekend after your surgery. I do not know what is like to die, but I have first-hand experience watching someone I love die: you. I distinctly remember after your last surgery telling God (with expletives): “He cannot die today”. It was the week before the anniversary of my first year at Central Baptist Church, a celebration of Pastor and people. I let God know in no uncertain terms I needed you alive. So when you told me to stay with you that night I would not stay because I knew what you were trying to do. I do not know the kind of pain or discomfort you experienced, in ICU alone, at the start of COVID-19 but you did it. I needed to gain strength that Sunday to literally make it through that week. Thank you for waiting one more week. Pastoral anniversaries can be so meaningful to pastors on so many different levels; people have no idea.

In the midst of my own personal crisis, I, along with all of colleagues and mentors were thrust into a leadership crisis with no compass, map or benchmarks. For that reason, I jumped head first right back into work. I did not even think about burying or ignoring my grief…we do not have time to think about ourselves when our role to care for and steward over the lives of other people, not to mention a 8-year old boy looking at me everyday to hold it down. I have learned so many subconscious lessons from you. Earlier this year when I was reflecting, I kept playing our trips over and over again in my head. I went to Disneyworld in Orlando, Florida with mommy and grandma. You made sure that we went to Ocean City, Maryland and Oxford, North Carolina every summer. We would pack up that red van, pack the cooler, load the bike rack and luggage pod and make our way down I-95. You drove. I was the co-pilot. I used to think that you didn’t go on excursions, take special trips or go out because just didn’t want to. You stayed home so that every time we wanted to do something or go somewhere we could. In return, you watched Westerns at home, enjoyed finding new hometown cuisine and drink Crown Royal. A special price to pay to make sure that everything we needed was provided.

You provided in life. You provided in death. Who knew how many insurance policies you had? Seriously. I knew grandma saved and invested. I did not know that you did the same in your own way. You didn’t just provide financially. You also provided emotionally. Many people have the luxury of processing the death of one parent at a time. At the same time, God allowed you to choose to die, grandma was starting the early stages of dementia. You died giving me instructions to get things in order for your wife of over 50 years. When you saw it was too much for me to process you gave me instructions in a dream. Now, I have heard of this before but I have never experienced it first hand. I was shocked but not startled: I will never forget the resonance in your voice.

Grandson.

Yes, Poppy.

How is your grandmother doing?

She’s fine.

Is she a little worse than before?

Yes.

Ask her if she wants to come over here. She knows what she wants. You are not the only one hurting. If she is okay, then you be okay.

I literally wrote a journal on grief…and after a year of neglecting my own personal crisis it became too much. I called a therapist to talk about you. For 30 years your presence eclipsed the absence, rejection of my biological father. Oddly, your death did uncover a void left by my father. It revealed the gapping whole in my heart because you are both grandfather and father. You calling me grandson was more than just a statement of fact but a statement of claim. You are mine and I am yours. I claim you. I am yours, now use this last name well. The therapist reminded me that your death did not catch God off-guard. We are believers, you felt as if you had accomplished what you were here to do, your friends were dying, you could not bear to watch your wife’s mental faculty decline…and God is sovereign. As an outgrowth of the wisdom of God, the therapist challenged me to reframe my thinking. Every person you deeply love (i.e. my son, my mother, my grandmother, my grandfather, my aunt) represent something that ultimately is intended to point us back to God. When Aunt Janie died the source of my faith died. When you died my sense and source of provision and protection died. God never intended for a person to be our source…of faith or provision or protection. I love my family but nothing compares to God’s embrace.

I am so grateful that God allowed me to learn what providing and protecting looks like by watching and learning from but my dependence is on God. It reminds me of how you taught me to pour your drink. 1) Fill the cup with ice. 2) Fill the cup with pineapple soda. 3) No, really fill it up. 4) If you are really that concerned that it is too full, you can take a sip off the top. God is the God of abundance. God has filled us to overflowing with everything with everything we need to serve. I can enjoy a sip off the top every now and then. I am not satisfied with half full when God had made us full. What the world needs we are gifted to provide: a refreshing. People will leave our presence and be refreshed.

All this time I thought I “lost” you when in fact I have won. Strangely, it feels like I have been setup. You know when I was a kid and we used to wrestle on the Saturday morning in you and grandma’s king-size bed, I actually thought I won. I reasoned that I had worn you down and now gained the right to sit on top of our pot belly like WWF and declare victory. I was on top of the world. No, I had not won...but standing on top of you has lifted me higher.

Thank you for everything that you taught me. Masculinity is not toxic. God designed men and God has the right to define manhood.

Provide financially
Provide security
Provide emotionally
Provide strategy
Provide posterity
Provide legacy
Provide identity
Provide sacrificially

With love,

Grandson

Rev. Anthony L. Riley, M.Div., D.Min.

Senior Pastor

Central Baptist Church - Saint Louis

P.S.-For all fathers, father figures, male mentors, uncles, surrogate fathers…you name it. Reject what the world says. Rebel against negative culture. Your presence matters. Steward your influence well.

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Author, In the Shadow of Grief: 21 Days of Discovering God’s Presence in Life’s Valleys (Available now on Amazon)

Nathaniel Johnson is MORE THAN A CONQUEROR

Thu, 16 Jun 2022 04:45:25 GMT

Nathaniel Johnson is

MORE THAN A CONQUEROR

Many remember this gentleman as Baby-Love, some called him Gangsta Love and others called him Bey Bey. His mother and family called him “Ricky”. After he reached the age of 27 he became a leader in the Moorish Science Temple of America and was called Butler-Bey. Glory to God he now has another name, new name, a name given to him by the Almighty God and that name is Saint! Minister Johnson is truly walking in his new name and proving it is absolutely true, that when God saves, delivers and makes you whole and firmly establishes you, truly the world will see, echo and declare as we have Minister Nathaniel Johnson is More than a Conqueror!

I would like to share his testimony with you showing Gods saving power and the mercy of God that is extended toward us, while we are yet sinners, giving us the opportunity to become and be called a Saint! Truly if it was not for the grace of God, Nathaniel boast he would not even be alive! Thank God for Jesus

Nathaniel Johnson grew up in North St. Louis with his mom, Barbara Johnson Butler, nine sisters and two brothers. He had another sibling, which was born stillborn. He recalls growing up very poor. He says most of the women in the neighborhood were on welfare (called “relief” at that time). His mother received the government cheese peanut butter and spam but she knew how to work with it and make delicious meals, especially with the cheese. He gleams whenever he mentions his mom, who is now deceased, for you see, he was very close to his mom. If you meet him today and mention his mom that smile permeates where you meet.

This very strong bond he had with his mom caused him to feel a strong sense of responsibility for his mother and siblings. At the very tender age of nine he felt he needed to do something to bring food and finances into the home. This was a time when many other boys in the neighborhood felt the same way and they all got together and became gang members. Now this gang considered themselves to be different from the gangs of today, they felt they had a real reason. Their reason for primarily stealing was to survive. From the age of nine to eleven Nathaniel stayed in detention. By the age of 11 he was sent to Missouri Reform School. This action really did not help him reform but instead further orchestrated and fueled his life of crime. Corruption, drugs and violence became his way of life. What started off as a means to help his family, especially his mom led him on a path of destruction. It became impossible not to become addicted to the money, clothes and women this lifestyle afforded him. He first began smoking cigarettes and drinking alcohol at the age of 13 and then from 1960-1974 he was a heroin addict, and yes his drug tour would eventually lead him to crack cocaine. Pimping, playing, hustling and stealing were the only way of life he knew until he eventually paid dearly for the path he chose. He was institutionalized from 1962-1988. For over 26 years he was in and out of prison. In the midst of his criminal lifestyle he married his wife Cynthia Johnson in 1973. In 1974 he was sentenced to 35 years and life in the penitentiary. This sentence caused him to be away from his wife a real long time, this time. This separation lead to divorce. It was during his last 18 years he was in prison that he became a Moorish Science Muslim and a sheik ( a leader). Later he went before the parole board and was granted parole! Glory to God! Parole was extremely unusual considering a sentence such as the one he had received, but God had a Divine plan for his life. Minister Johnson glows when he speaks of the scripture “while we were yet sinners Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8). After he was released God reunited him with his wife, Cynthia Johnson. He was still a part of the Moorish Science Temple, but not his family. His mother and siblings were Christians.. His wife was also a Christian and would not attend the temple with him. Minister Johnson soon left the temple when conflict broke out there.

After leaving the temple, he found himself lost and wandering. He decided to go to church with his wife one Sunday Morning. She did not have a church home but would visit different churches because she was searching for one, today they would visit Abundant Life Fellowship. Church. Dr. Mathew Ferguson is pastor and Mother Vashti Ferguson is First Lady. There was only standing room in the foyer when they arrived, his wife did not want to stand she left but he stayed and she came back and picked him up. In between that time “Nathaniel had given his life to the Lord and joined!”. Even with joining he continued getting high and continued in his bondage of idolatry. One day Mother Ferguson prophesied to him that God would use him in a mighty way…suddenly he began to change. God fully delivered him from the shackles of sin and later called him into ministry.. Minister Nathaniel Johnson is a licensed and ordained Minister serves in his church as the Director and facilitator of the drug and AAA program. He serves our community with a worker-re-entry program for ex-offenders. He has been married to his lovely wife for 31 years altogether, and he has 7 children and 11 grandchildren. He is proud of his family always remembering the sacrifices his mom made for him, and forever grateful before she went to be with the Lord she saw him saved and living a holy life before God and man! His “good thang” he calls his wife is the reason he has such great favor and he often says to God be all the glory for what He has done in my life..

You must agree Nathaniel Johnson is More than a Conqueror!

Linda R. Galloway is MORE THAN A CONQUEROR

Thu, 16 Jun 2022 04:39:21 GMT

Linda R. Galloway is

MORE THAN A CONQUEROR

Have you ever heard the old adage, “don’t judge a book by its cover”. We have to be cognizant that one’s outward appearance is not always an indicator of the internal turbulence, subsequent victories and the continued process of working through some of the turbulences. Recently, I had a moment in which the light switch came on, during a conversation about my past, when it was stated that I did not look like what I’d been through. All Praise to God for “I Am More Than a Conqueror.”

As a young adult on a college campus, I became a member of the Black Student Association’s Gospel Choir. It was through this group that I became committed to God and developed a relationship with God. Through a friend I found a church home. I began working with the local youth department in that church, and quickly, I was working with both the state and national departments of the church. At one of the services, a friend told me that a certain brother wanted permission to contact me, but it was not in regards to church business. He was an elder of the church. I was told that he was divorced, so I agreed to talk with him. An on again, off again relationship developed. He proposed, then called it off. Shortly thereafter, we got back together. He proposed again and this time I called it off. Finally, a number of years later, we got back together again and started a long distance relationship. He proposed again and I finally accepted. He moved me back to the St. Louis area. However, about ten days after my return to the St. Louis area, two days after receiving the engagement ring and one day after the wedding was announced in church, he was found murdered in his apartment. My life began a downward spiral; even though I was working in the church.

When the investigation began, I was one of the first persons questioned. The “Love” of my life was gone. The who, what, and why questions haunted me. I always wondered, could our relationship have been a part of the reason for his murder? Would he still be alive if I’d not accepted his marriage proposal? So many questions! God seemed silent and no one else was willing to answer the questions. However, God was not silent. In fact, He was working and has continued to work on my behalf. The song that has taken me through is the old hymn, “Come Ye Disconsolate”… earth has no sorrows that heaven cannot heal. I began to internalize everything surrounding this case. In public, I was the epitome of strength, but as soon as I got to the car, home or even the bathroom stall, the tears of anguish for the unanswered questioned would flow freely. I suffered spiritually, mentally, physically, emotionally, and in relationships with others because of the fact I had the notion that I was suppose to be strong for everyone, after all I was a part of the church. At that point, for me to acknowledge I was hurting or to be transparent was not being Christ-like. I suffered in silence for a number of years. I could not get a breakthrough in prayer as the words would not come. One day, as I was at a very low point in my life, God spoke to me saying, “the blood of those assigned to you will be required of your hands”. What a wake-up call. The profound realization that the calling on my life was actually relevant to the kingdom and understanding that the anointing upon my life is an integral part of the kingdom was more than enough to live for. I never stopped working in the church, but it was just that, “work”. But, the wake-up call brought a fresh new perspective and a strategic purpose to the work. Through a renewed relationship with Christ I began the process of shedding the chains of my past. As an elder; teacher; public speaker; facilitator of sessions for teen girls regarding HIV, Drug/Substance Use, Hepatitis and Life Issues; a 30 plus year career in gospel radio and public relations; as a single woman in Christ, I am, indeed, more than a conqueror. I want you to know that giving up is not an option; neither is quitting or throwing in the towel.

Your life does have purpose and meaning. You are significant to the kingdom. As the lyrics to song says, I need you and you need me to survive, because “YOU, ALSO, ARE MORE THAN A CONQUEROR.” through Christ Jesus.

By: Linda R. Galloway, Elder, Bread of Life Christian Church-East St Louis, IL; Operations Manager, Jubilee

690 AM, St. Louis, MO (August 30, 2016)

Father’s Day 2022 A Father’s Day…with no father by Rev. Anthony L. Riley

Thu, 16 Jun 2022 03:10:09 GMT

Father’s Day 2022

A Father’s Day…with no father

Rev. Anthony L. Riley

Father’s Day 2022

A Father’s Day…with no father

Lawrence Riley, Jr. (1947-2020)

My maternal grandfather

Dear Poppy,

Grandson.

Yes, Poppy.

How is your grandmother doing?

She’s fine.

Is she a little worse than before?

Yes.

Ask her if she wants to come over here. She knows what she wants. You are not the only one hurting. If she is okay, then you be okay.

Thank you for everything that you taught me. Masculinity is not toxic. God designed men and God has the right to define manhood.

Provide financially
Provide security
Provide emotionally
Provide strategy
Provide posterity
Provide legacy
Provide identity
Provide sacrificially

With love,

Grandson

Rev. Anthony L. Riley, M.Div., D.Min.

Senior Pastor

Central Baptist Church - Saint Louis

Follow me on Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @anthonylriley

Author, In the Shadow of Grief: 21 Days of Discovering God’s Presence in Life’s Valleys (Available now on Amazon)

Joys of A Relationship by Brennan and Brittany Hill

Thu, 16 Jun 2022 02:56:56 GMT

Joys Of A Relationship

Brennan and Brittany Hill

Brennan and Brittany Hill have found that laughter and being in the moment brings joy to the soul. Knowing that loving someone and being loved by the person you love most is such a wonderful feeling. It feels great to know that the love you give is being appreciated and reciprocated. Nothing will beat the happiness and joy that love brings. However, many people still prefer to stay single. They say it is more fun when you have no commitments and can date anyone you want. But there are joys and benefits of having the right person love you. When you are in a joyful relationship, you won’t feel alone and you’ll have someone to talk to. When you have a bad day, someone will take time to listen to you and understand how you feel. You know that whatever happens, your partner will be there to support you in every step of the way. It makes you feel safer. When you are in love with the divine companion, you feel more inspired. You want to reach higher and be the best that you can for your partner. You also start to build your dreams and plan your future. When you are in the right relationship, you both can help each other stay focused. The stronger the relationship is, the more confident you feel. You know that you are loved for who you are. You do not have to pretend. You can be your foolish self and you know your significant other will not judge you. The best benefit of being in the right relationship is that there will be love and an appreciation given that will bring you both the joys you deserve.

Brennan and Brittany are the parents of two beautiful daughters and Brennan Hill serves as Youth & Young Adult Pastor at Pursuit of God Church Memphis, His lovely wife Brittany Hill serves in Operation and Events

at Pursuit of God Church Memphis

Happy Father’s Day Dad by Arlo Shultis

Thu, 16 Jun 2022 02:45:39 GMT

Having a father present in your life is a gift. But having a father that you can look up to as a role model in life, is a blessing. I am so grateful for my dad for this very reason. My Dad is unique in more ways than one. To start, he looks effortlessly cool on a consistent basis, no matter the occasion. The church members of Greater Faith M. B. Church will know very well, he always brings his A game on Sundays. I can confidently say, never has his style fallen into the “dad” category. When I was a kid, I wanted to wear Converse because my Dad always had a fresh pair of white low-tops in the closet, and I still keep my sneakers as clean as possible to this day.

Happy Fathers Day Bishop Phil Brownlee

Thu, 16 Jun 2022 01:26:56 GMT

My dad my friend my real life Super Hero words can't really express the gratitude I have for God blessing me with My dad he is seless, a man of integrity, and I aspire to be like him Genuine Honest and most of All a Real soldier for God's Kingdom My B and Leader my Dad.

My Dad: My Hero by Pastor Marcus Mickles

Thu, 16 Jun 2022 00:51:12 GMT

My Dad: My Hero

Pastor Marcus Mickles

“Any man can be a Father but it takes someone special to be a dad.” -Anne Geddes.

The older I get, the more and more I learn to truly appreciate this quote. I have been blessed by being born into the family that I have, but sometimes I take that for granted. One person that has always been a constant role model for me is none other than my father. When people ask me to describe my dad, I would say that he’s a hard worker, intelligent, kind, respectable, respectful, and a strong Christian. My dad has an insane level of self-control and is always loving. He has taught me how a man should treat a lady and inspired me from a young age to be a strong person.

He has taught me what life is all about and he has shown me the way to achieve success. He has shown me the opportunities that exist in front of me, while at the same time he has left the decision up to me in terms of which path to choose. He is very confident that his efforts to make me a good human being will never go in vain, he knows he will see his confidence in me someday.

Growing up my dad did set the standard that we would be in church, and he taught us to live for God. But he also allowed us to be kids, be teenagers, and gave us incredible freedom to be who we were as individuals. He never once said to us, “don’t do that, you will hurt me as a pastor.” I will forever be grateful for how he raised us as a dad and as a pastor. I am also so thankful that I can get a front-row seat to how a pastor loves God, loves his family and at the same time, loves his church.

My dad is a man of studying and prayer. He would go pray early in the morning and always have his notebook and Bible on his lap in the evening. I watched him stand strong as a lion as a pastor when he needed to and be gentle as a dove when it called for it. He preached with the anointing of God and always sought to live out in front of us what he was preaching on Sundays. He would work all day and go when his people called and walked with them in the valleys and on the mountains of life. My dad has a pastor’s heart (Heb.13:17).

I know my dad had his tough moments as well. He did not talk about it. My dad never acted superhuman and was not afraid to admit he was also human. This is something that pastors and church members must also remember. There is a calling in our life, but we still make mistakes, and we don’t always get it right. However, what makes my dad my hero is his faithfulness. He has been faithful to the Lord, our family, and to the church he has pastored. He has stayed the course. I Love you Daddy.

Daddy’s Girl by Leandra Green

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 19:37:37 GMT

Daddy’s Girl,

My Father Bishop Calvin Scott

Dear Daddy,

Where do I start? I must start by saying that I’m immensely honored that God chose me to be your daughter. You were the first man that I ever loved. I remember as a little girl after you would come home from a hard day’s work, sitting on your lap taking in every word you would speak while gently rubbing your ears. You are my real-life hero. The impact that you have had in my life has left me feeling like I can accomplish anything that I put my mind to. I’m sure that raising me brought you many challenges and in some moments left you praying fervently for me, but I believe that my success today is because you along with God never gave up on me.

Thank you for showing my sister’s and I what hard work looks like. Your strong work ethics that you’ve exemplified over the years has given us a sense of security which has created a foundation for me as a wife, mother, and entrepreneur.

It has been an honor to walk side by side with you in ministry. You’ve taught me to live a life of integrity and to fear God in all of my ways. You have demonstrated what humility looks like and have always encouraged me to understand that we’re God’s chosen vessels and we should never think more highly of ourselves than we should. Your life has been the example that has led me to my success.

Thank you for being patient with me and listening to me when I’ve been most vulnerable. These moments were important to my development as a woman and as a leader. Your unconditional love and support of my gifts and the anointing over my life have many times challenged me to push beyond the norm and to operate in a spirit of excellence.

Lastly, I want to thank you for showing me what a phenomenal husband looks like. Your unwavering integrity and loyalty as a husband allowed me to understand what a husband should represent. As a result, I have been blessed to do life with a man that carries the same values and shows me the same love that you have shown our mother. Thank You!!

Daddy’s Girl,

By: Leandra Green

Three Good Reasons I Believe Men Should Keep Check on their Mental Health by Roger Whittler

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 18:43:38 GMT

Three Good Reasons I Believe Men Should Keep Check on their Mental Health

Roger Whittler

One prominent theory on mental health maintains a central focus on the Cognitive Triad. The Cognitive Triad simply put, examines a person’s views of themselves, the world (environment), and their future. The examination attempts to uncover constant negative thoughts in regard to any one of the three triads. Individuals holding these negative views can point to many facts and situations that prove the negativity. These negative views can be very stubborn. A person holding these views will often say, “I am terrible. The world is evil, and the future is full of failure.” The only problem is – they ignore or minimize all of the evidence to the contrary.

The Cognitive Triad gives us three good reasons why men should keep check on their mental health.

A negative view of ourselves leads to self-destructive behaviors.
A negative view of the world leads to stress and alienation from others.
A negative view of our future leads to hopelessness.

The first step is to carefully examine our own views regarding the Cognitive Triad, and determine if our views are negative and if so, are we maximizing the negative evidence and minimizing the positive. If we find ourselves stuck in this negative rut, seek help from a professional to discuss these views and the evidence that justifies them.

While it is important for men and women to be aware of their own mental health and how these negative views can impact their mental health and the mental health of others, it is especially important for men and this is why. Men are less likely to seek out help or support for mental health concerns and less likely to address them. Men have also reported more frequently they do not have a support system whereby they feel comfortable discussing depression symptoms.

June is Men’s Month – the gap in mental health outcomes for men does not need to be this way. We have the ability within ourselves to be more open and willing to seek appropriate treatment when needed. Let’s tackle this problem head-on. For resources on mental health and finding a professional, visit Counseling.org.

Roger Whittler,

LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor

NCC, National Board-Certified Counselor

Emotional Abuse - Bullying in the Workplace By Dan LoveKamp

Tue, 17 May 2022 22:18:22 GMT

Christopher Watkins Tribute

Sun, 08 May 2022 02:21:43 GMT

Christopher Watkins Tribute

Christopher J. Watkins has been my friend for over 32 years. I had no clue of what he would become. All we knew is that we loved gospel music and we had fun learning it, learning about it, playing it, writing it and teaching it whenever we could. He’s always been the big brother that I never had. I’ve always had big brother figures but, not one so close to my age. All I know is after one St. Louis Gospel Choral Union YYA rehearsal and one band rehearsal, we were inseparable. Chris always had vision and he included me in a live recording which turned into Chris and Kyle with True Spirit. What I’ve seen in him over the years is not only an artist, songwriter, minister and musician, I see in him an organizer, encourager, leader, administrator and councilors that has a true heart for God’s people. He’s one that will go out of his way to help anyone he can especially his friends. I’m so glad to have him as my best friend. There is no one else I would rather have in my corner. Houston, Texas has gained a jewel. And for him, I know, the best is yet to come.

Losing Life To Gain It by Daneen Killion

Sat, 07 May 2022 14:14:26 GMT

Losing Life To Gain It...

Daneen Killion

“Mama, what are you gonna do when I die? You gon’ cry?” What a question.

“What do you think I will be when I get grown?”

“A Man of God, a powerful preacher, or anything else you want to be…” I said. “I don’t know, Mama. I don’t think imma get grown.” What a response.

Whoever thinks that their child will die before them? Not me. You could not have paid me to believe it. But my son did. And I think he knew he would.

“Mama, what is it to do in Heaven? Is it video games in Heaven? Anyway, who do I know in Heaven? What’s God gon’ do, walk me around and introduce me to everybody?”

Three days later, I found him lying in my hallway… dead. We had just spoken fifteen minutes before. It was an asthma attack—something thirteen year old boys live with, not die from. But he did. He died. My only son. So, just like David at the bedside of his dead son (2 Sam 12:15-23), I still had to rise up and take my place in the fight. Providence would have it set that I was on the program to speak that very same night to a group of single women at a church’s first ever women’s conference. My son had died, and I should have cancelled, but I just couldn’t. I couldn’t let Dominic down. I wouldn’t let my God down. I had to stay in the fight for the future of all those women that I had once been—a struggling teenage mom, an abused divorcee, with no self-esteem, no real mentorship, no honest help, and no hope. Dominic would have wanted me to minister and God anointed me for the work. So, I went. Hurting, broken, and grieving, God used me to bring healing and hope to women the day my son died and from that day on, I have never been the same.

The same day we laid Dominic to rest, I moved into a new home to begin my new life. And I had no clue what this life would be. After all, Dominic had been my life—doctor’s appointments, emergency room visits, drug stores. And not only was he asthmatic, but he also had ADHD, and school, from the very start, was a major production—to the point that I quit working as a graphic designer at a junior college and started freelancing from home so that I could be available for school visits, ITP meetings and the dreadful home suspensions. What was I supposed to do now with all of this time? What was I supposed to do with all these memories, regrets, wish-I-hadda’s, shoulda-woulda-coulda’s, and these tears… so many tears? “Lord, I need you! Lord, please help me!” This was my daily mantra.

On one of those days of deep sorrow, I reminded God of the cavernous void in my heart and He proclaimed to me in my spirit, “I will fill every place in your heart with My presence and My power, and you will not feel that emptiness ever again!” From that day to this one, He has fulfilled that promise. The sweet Holy Spirit began speaking to me in whispers, reminding me of the dreams and passions and desires of my heart that He had placed there so long ago. He would remind me that He had called me and that He knew me from my mother’s womb (Jer 1:5) and that Dominic’s role in my life was ordained and for my making. That he was now a part of the great cloud of witnesses (Heb 12:1), lovingly awaiting God’s total fulfillment of my journey, so that I could be reunited with him in eternity. God gave me hope, peace and a reason to finish the race.

Dominic was a tool in the hand of God to teach me countless lessons of love, mercy, justice and longsuffering. Without him, I would not have seen the reflection of God’s Great Love that He so desires all of His children to display. Dominic’s life was hard, yet he was full of laughter. His days were filled with trouble, yet his heart was full of compassion. He was the most loving, thoughtful, and wisest boy I have ever known and he was assigned by God to be my personal school master. His life of suffering, injustice and misunderstanding gave me immense compassion for at-risk youth, single mothers as well as individuals with disabilities. He taught me how to love in spite of a person’s behavior, to pray and have faith for change. He taught me to speak out for the underserved in my community. He taught me that all people are worthy of respect and should be treated with simple kindness and human dignity. Without these lessons, without the teacher, my son – I would not be who I am today.

I suddenly realized it was time to live again—to put all those lessons into practice, to break out of the Matrix and really LIVE. It was time to represent the “life more abundantly” stuff that I had been preaching about. God breathed life into my nostrils and my soul became alive once more. I could dare to dream again! Have you lost someone that you love dearly and you feel like your life ended when theirs did? If so, I would like to tell you that the same God that breathed life back into my heart is ready to do the very same thing for you! He desires for you to live again! He desires to give YOU life more abundantly (Jn 10:10). Take the lessons your loved one was sent to teach you and use them for your growth. That is why God allowed them into your life, to teach you. He wanted to give you a glimpse of Himself that you may not have ever seen without that significant person in your life.

Understanding this is how I was able to move forward. I could have gotten angry with God. I could have allowed this loss to cause my heart to be bitter and hardened. I could be in deep depression still today. But I believe that every day is day of choosing. We have to choose, especially on the hard days, to trust God in spite of how we feel. The bible says that “… we do not have a High Priest who is unable to understand and sympathize and have a shared feeling with our weaknesses… but One Who has been tempted in every respect as we are...” (Heb 4:15 AMP) In other words, He knows how we feel, because He felt it too. Remember that Jesus wept when His friend Lazarus died? He knows grief. The Father also knows grief. He had to turn His back on His ONLY Son, because Jesus became our sin and sin cannot stand in the Presence of God. In that instant, Jesus died in God’s eyes. It was His only Son, and He died. Just like Dominic, just like your loved one. But there was a greater good for Jesus to die. I believe there was a greater good for Dominic to die. You must find the greater good in your grief also. Remember that He makes ALL THINGS work together for our good! (Rom 8:28)

Turn your pain into ministry. You don’t have to be a preacher or leader in your church. Maybe you don’t even go to church, but you can still help someone who needs it. There are people in this world that would benefit greatly from your life lessons, the ones you learned from others as well as the ones you learned from your beloved now gone. Did they have a problem— emotional, physical or financial—that you learned to cope with or even overcome? Was there a human interest cause that you can lend your voice and experience to in order to make life better for someone else? Don’t keep these precious life lessons to yourself, share them! It is exactly what your loved one would want you to do. In sharing comes healing. In healing, life becomes good again.

When I answered the call of God on my life, I did not know the price I would have to pay was the life of my own son and it has not been easy. And yet today, I can sincerely say that because his life passed through mine, I have not lost anything—instead, I have been made greater. If you look closely, you may find the same holds true for you. Yes, we have lost someone dear and yes, it hurts that they are gone. But, God is faithful to be with us through all of our experiences, both good and bad. He promised to never leave us or forsake us (Heb 13:5). In the deepest pain of my life, He revealed His Goodness by restoring my joy again. He does not show partiality (Eph 6:9) and He is waiting to do the very same for you.

The thing that I have not heretofore mentioned is that I had another child, Dominic’s big sister, Chassidy, who was right there with me, grieving over her brother. Together we laughed and cried as we remembered the times that we all shared. But, it was very important for me not to forget about her as I remembered my son. I had to be present in the life of my daughter, who was going through a major transition of her own, going off to college that same year in the fall. This was a season where everything had changed! Needless to say, we made it! God did it! And today, she has blessed me with two beautiful grandsons, of which I am immensely proud. God has a way of loving the hurt away… just like Job, he gave us a double portion reward because, through it all, He Is Faithful.

Marquita Chanel interviews Lady Shirley Wooten

Sat, 07 May 2022 13:50:04 GMT

Exercise Your Temple and

Lay Aside Your Weight

By Marquita Chanel

Lady Wooten, a young 71 year old, Wife of a Bishop, mother of two teenage daughters, International Evangelist, fitness instructor, and philanthropist makes her health a top priority.

Lady Wooten’s fitness journey started 20 years ago when she was 200 pounds, 400 cholesterol count, and had other health issues. Lady Wooten said, “If you are unhealthy, it cuts off your life, you can’t enjoy life, you can’t even shout long enough without getting out of breath! You have to have strength to do ministry and walk the streets to talk about Jesus.” For these reasons and more, she decided that she needed a change and wanted to live a long life. She took several steps to improve her health. Lady Wooten said she did a little at a time. She started working out for 10 minutes, then 15-20 minutes, and eventually gaining the endurance to go for 30 minutes! Lady Wooten worked out by herself while using exercise tapes such as “Walk Away the Pounds” and “Taebo”. Lady Wooten wanted to step it up a notch, so she hired a personal trainer. She was able to get down to 154 pounds and everyone wanted to know how!

With all the buzz about her weight loss, Lady Wooten decided to host a class, 3 days a week, at the Bishop Wooten Family Life Center. Thirty minutes of the class was dedicated to fitness and the remaining time was for wellness training. She even brought in doctors and nutritionists to educate the class on wellness habits. She also recommends the Mediterranean diet, drinking 6-8 glasses of water per day, taking vitamins, and going to annual health screenings and check-ups. She encourages people to develop a healthy lifestyle, not using fads and quick fixes, but being consistent on their health journey.

At her church, Williams Temple COGIC, she started a Biggest Loser Competition and those that lost the most weight would receive $500. There were also monetary rewards for second and third place. At one time St. Louis was known as the biggest city in the nation regarding obesity. The program gained national and international attention. There was a Faith and Fitness Challenge where churches participated in a weight loss competition. The winning church’s Pastor and First Lady would be flown to The Trinity Broadcasting Network (TBN) to be interviewed by Paul and Jan Crouch. Out of all the participating churches, Williams Temple lost the most weight and won the competition! How awesome is that?

After winning the competition Lady Wooten didn’t stop there! She made it her personal business to help any and every one that needed help losing weight. She knew a young preacher that was between 500 and 600 pounds, it had such an impact on him that he cried about in the pulpit. She reached out to him and said, “If you don’t do something about this, you will die.” She knew he needed 1-on-1 training, so she paid for him to have a personal trainer for 6 months. Within one month he lost 30lbs! Sometimes we just need someone to push us and encourage us. In fact, Lady Wooten encourages everyone to get up and move! No matter how old you are or how much you weigh, you can do something to get yourself to a better place of health. You simply have to be faithful and commit to the process. Lady Wooten shared with me that in 2009 she had both knees replaced, three months apart. She said, “If I can do it, you can too! No excuses!”

During the pandemic Lady Wooten noticed how people became couch potatoes and gained weight. Being the go getter that she is, she decided to do something about it! She started an online exercise class on Facebook. The class is called “Exercise Your Temple, Lay Aside Your Weight.” On her first live she got 3k hits! Her audience is not just here in St. Louis but across the nation. This is not an ordinary fitness class! Lady Wooten wrote a theme song and hired Jesse Prather to put it to music. She said that her patrons tell her that they hear the song in their sleep! The song includes scriptures in the lyrics and positive affirmations. It’s a constant motivator. Her song is even played on WESL and KSTL radio stations for all to enjoy! In addition to the motivating song, those that attend the class wear the T-shirts she designed, use the water bottles, and even masks decorated with her logo. The class is designed to accommodate people of all ages. In fact, her teenage daughters teach the class if she is not able to attend, it is truly a family affair! The exercises are low impact so anyone can participate. Patrons are also encouraged to go at their own pace and never feel like they need to keep up with everyone else.

Lady Wooten is also an evangelist. She uses this class as a tool to bring others to Christ. She uses every opportunity to witness to people and invite them to church. She has a saying, “The church is where everybody is somebody and Christ is all.” She believes in the power of prayer and fasting and how it can change your entire life physically and spiritually. She also ministers to the masses on her Facebook page under Shirley Adkins Wooten where she prays and shares weekly inspirational messages.

The following were Lady Wooten’s parting words, “God is not pleased when we abuse our bodies. Your body is a temple, present your body as a living sacrifice.”

It was a pleasure interviewing Lady Wooten and after hearing her story I am truly encouraged to step up my fitness game! I hope you have been encouraged as well!

If you would like to participate in her online class, follow her Facebook Page, Shirley Adkins Wooten.

If you would like to purchase the shirts, CDs, DVDs, masks, and water bottles, visit her website WWW. LadyShirleyWooten.com. Proceeds go towards the EMWI African Orphanage Ministry, a ministry was started by Bishop and Lady Wooten in 2006.

Lady Wooten is also hosting a community outreach health event, August 19-21, 2022.

This three-day event will include: Information and recipes for healthy eating and healthy foods Educational classes, literature, tips from personal trainers and medical advisors

A run/walk event with fun, music, and prizes. Please visit www.LadyShirleyWooten.com for further details.

A letter to my son AJ by Yolanda

Thu, 05 May 2022 23:31:16 GMT

A letter to my son AJ
Yolanda

AJ today is your 1st Mother's Day away from me. As I sit in my room looking at your picture, clutching and hugging the warm gray scarf you brought for me just this past Christmas. I'm being reminded of how thoughtful, gentle, and kind you are. You were that one that always checked in to say "how is my wonderful mother of mine”? I long to hear those words from you. I am so proud that you were my son, my baby. Doing this life without you has changed me. I am not the same person on the inside. How can I be? One thing that will never change is the love I hold in my heart for you. Nothing including any amount of time that goes by could change that. I want you to know how much you are loved and that you are missed in my world. No day goes by without thinking of you. My sometime uncontrollable tears still flow because in the earth rim I was your mom and still find it hard to believe that your body and your presence are gone from me on this earth. When I'm asked how am I during? I say, ok.. fine.., one day at a time... but the truth is it will take me a lifetime to learn how to live without your presence here. Please also know that my mind still talks to you, my heart still looks for you. But my soul knows you are at peace. That is what brings me joy to know that your soul is with God. You are my twinkle in the stars at night that shine bright, you are my angel that watches over me from heaven. It is this thought that keeps me going each day to take another step. I miss you A J, rest in peace my love until we see each other again and we will.

I will Love you forever. MOM

Tiffany Williams Mayes shares the name, the passion and her belief about her Fitness Ministry

Thu, 05 May 2022 23:13:54 GMT

Tiffany Williams Mayes shares the name,

the passion and her belief about her

Fitness Ministry
Tiffany Williams

I have to say, the name Total Praise Fitness came directly from God. When God placed this business in my heart, I had no thoughts of becoming a personal trainer, I just loved working out. As I begin to try and come up with my own names for the business, I asked God to help me because the names I was coming up with were not really catching on. And then one day, God just place Total Praise Fitness in my spirit and that was it.

I believe my passion for fitness is coming from my desire to help people really see who God made them to be. Whether it’s physically, spiritually, emotionally, God has placed us all here for purpose and if we don’t believe who God says we are, we will never reach that purpose. I have struggled with low self-esteem throughout my life and working out has helped me begin to love me and that’s what I want from my clients. I want them to fall in love with themselves the way God already has. In a lot of cases, that means a physical, spiritual, and emotional overhaul.

I believe that some form of fitness should be a part of everyone’s life, Regardless of age or physical capabilities. I believe there is always something you can do to help you get moving. Even if it’s just sitting in a chair and lifting your legs . People say that those who are active often live longer and I am a firm believer of that. I have seen people totally transform their lives just by walking daily. So there is no limit to what you can do when you set your mind to changing yourself, at any age!!

Dr. Marty K. Casey CEO of Ungun

Thu, 05 May 2022 02:55:28 GMT

Marty, what led you to start UnGUN? I started UnGUN as a trauma response program for children who were experiencing overwhelming feelings about the unrest of Ferguson. I wanted to provide a chance for children to express themselves as they healed through the arts. What has been a couple of your greatest rewards for building this organization? Two of my greatest rewards have been seeing UnGUN help individuals experience immediate relief from the system.

PeChaz Clark shares the Most important thing to do is just MOVE!

Thu, 05 May 2022 02:45:02 GMT

PeChaz Clark shares the Most important thing to do is just MOVE!

PeChaz Clark

Why is exercising so important to me?

For me, exercising is fun, exciting, and my mood booster and stress relief.

Once I turn my music on, my endorphins begin to flow, and I feel at my best.

In return, I’ve been able to stay healthy and maintain a weight that goes back to my high school years.

Statement to exercise:

I would say find something enjoyable for you, whether it’s swimming, dancing, running, etc., this way, you’re sure to stick with it.

It also helps if you have someone to do it with; this way, you can hold each other accountable.

I think everyone needs to be active in some form or fashion. But as we get older (I turned 50 last year), it’s even more important to maintain a healthy heart and strong muscles.

How would you begin:

I would say the most accessible form of exercise is walking. Just get up and start walking, whether in your house, neighborhood, park, etc.

If walking isn’t your thing, then start moving while sitting. There are plenty of chair exercises you can do while sitting. The most important thing is to move!

PeChaz Clark is a Certified Personal Trainer, Spin and Fitness Instructor, and co-owner of Mindset Fitness Training.

https://mindsetfitnesstraining.com/

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Joyce A. Graham - Mental Health Issues in the 21st Century Church

Thu, 05 May 2022 01:53:01 GMT

Mental Health Issues in the

21st Century Church

By Joyce A. Graham

M.Ed., LPC

It is important for us to realize that we serve a Holistic God who is concerned about every component of our lives. He cares about the physical, emotional, spiritual, and mental components of our lives.

However we live in a fallen world. And because of that fact, believers are susceptible to some of the same issues as Non-Believers. So just as it is possible for us to become impaired physically, emotionally and even spiritually, it is also possible for us to become impaired mentally. And just as we confront physical, emotional and spiritual issues, we must confront mental issues just as aggressively.

I am convinced that all disorders – physical, emotional, spiritual and mental – are a result of the fall and, in that sense, a consequence of the sin in the world. I am equally convinced that we have a Savior Who will one day eradicate all disorders and bring us to live in a new world with Him where there will be order instead of disorder.

And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away. Revelation 21:4

Chastity shares Her Fitness Journey which led to her Passion

Thu, 05 May 2022 01:30:04 GMT

Chastity shares Her Fitness Journey which led to her Passion

Write to Chass Joy

I first got into fitness over 15 years ago, my motivation was strictly to lose weight and save my life as an African American woman . I literally cared about nothing else. I wanted to lose weight at whatever cost necessary to not carry on the obesity trait that plague the African American community. My reason changed over the years. I was outgoing but I dreaded going to the gym, but I kept going. I’m so glad I did because over time, I grew to like it and found group fitness dance classes. These are classes I never imagined I would teach. I tried new things, challenged myself, and genuinely grew to enjoy fitness because I found dance and weight training classes that I felt that challenged me but I felt good. To be honest, it probably took me a few months to get to that point. But by that time, I started to see some results from my labor and started feeling better in general. I had more energy. I was stronger and I was also losing weight. This motivated me to keep going and helping with my 100 pound weight loss. Fast forward a few years to the present, and I can’t imagine not working out and teaching dance fitness classes . However, my reasons are much different now why I Love fitness. I no longer look at fitness as something I have to do to lose weight and exercise but I look at fitness as a way of life and my passion to help others change their life. My passion is to now motivate others to fitness through dance fitness, I want my clients to take back their life no matter where they are at in their walk of fitness. I want to be the cheerleader for people who could not achieve fitness goals. Dance fitness has improved my clients confidence, mental and physical well being , ;emotional functioning and even boosted productivity and relationships. This is why I love training and motivating others to fitness. That’s how I feel and hope that can answer your questions

Devon Moody-Graham - Overcoming living our best life in spite of book

Wed, 04 May 2022 22:46:25 GMT

Overcoming Living Our Best Life

In Spite Of...

By Devon Moody-Graham

Devon Moody-Graham, MBA is an International business strategist, author and community leader dedicated to seeing a positive shift in economic development through entrepreneurship in underserved communities. She’s the Chief Solutions Officer of CEOMom Empire LLC and Lead Strategist in Business Development to several companies, non-profits, and universities. Her experience and partnerships have brought over $4M in capital to small businesses. She is building a pipeline for minority business owners to connect to international trading resources, funding, and opportunities. She helps to erase barriers to entry and connect organizations to the minority business communities that they want to serve.

Get your Signed Copy of “Manifesting through Procrastination Workbook and Life Journal”. These are methods that I used and others used to move through moments of people stuck without motivation, paralyzed in fear and simply tired of not living up to your dreams. Take this journey with me and you won’t be disappointed when you DO THE WORK.

“Overcoming… Living Our Best Lives in Spite of“

is a must read as it compiles the journeys of 33 powerful African American women from all walks of life who faced some of life’s toughest obstacles. Enjoy my chapter Overcoming Yourself: Redefining You. My journey of unplanned motherhood and redefining my journey and responsibility to myself first and as a mother of jewels.

Congratulation to Shirley F. Williams

Mon, 02 May 2022 00:58:46 GMT

Congratulation to Shirley F. Williams

Shirley F. Williams

“It’s working together for your good!”

Having worked in full-time administrative positions for over 37 years, in March 2022, Shirley F. Williams retired after a 24.5 year career at Washington University and after holding Administrator and CME Director positions. Prior to her Washington University employment, Shirley worked at Citicorp Mortgage for 10 years ending her finance career as a Senior Auditor. Against all odds, having been abused, and neglected at a young age, Shirley is grateful to continue to give back to her community by supporting and encouraging teenagers to keep going no matter how bad the situation looks. Shirley believes all things work together for the good for those who love the Lord, including doors being shut in your face, people leaving you out, health issues and finance challenges.

“It’s all working together for your good!” Shirley has served as a volunteer in her community for many years. She looks forward to dedicating more time as an advocate for foster to adopted children, a domestic violence/sexual assault response team leader, a committee leader and a board member for local Missouri corporations. Shirley is known for her hard work, attention to details, and genuine care and concern for others. Shirley also enjoys reading, writing, and traveling. She looks forward to writing more devotionals and traveling with her husband of 32 years, Ronald D. Williams, Sr., a retired US Postal Service employee. Together they have four children, grandchildren, and a grand dog. Family, health, and happiness is now at the forefront of her agenda.

Dr. LaTonia Collins Smith Appointed President of Harris-Stowe State University

Thu, 24 Mar 2022 01:10:20 GMT

Dr. LaTonia Collins Smith Appointed

President of Harris-Stowe State University

Dr. LaTonia Collins Smith

Collins Smith is the first African American woman to serve as President of the University

ST. LOUIS – Harris-Stowe State University (HSSU) announces that Dr. LaTonia Collins Smith is the 21st President of the University. Dr. Collins Smith is the first African American woman President of HSSU, following the legacy of Ruth Harris, the first African American woman President of Stowe Teachers College in 1940.

Chair of the Board of Regents, Michael McMillan commented that “Dr. Collins Smith exemplifies Harris-Stowe’s core values of Personal Growth, Respect, Innovation, Diversity, and Excellence. She has demonstrated her extraordinary ability to connect with all of our stakeholders and to catapult Harris-Stowe forward in these critical times.”

Dr. Collins Smith, appointed as Interim President June 1, 2021, will assume the Presidency March 1, 2022. Dr. Collins Smith has more than 20 years of progressive leadership experience with an extensive background in administration and program development. She began her career in higher education at HSSU in 2010. She served as the co-principal investigator of a $5 million National Science Foundation grant to strengthen STEM in the state of Missouri and serves as chair of the Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Statewide Celebration Commission of Missouri.

During Collins Smith’s time as Interim President, HSSU made significant strides. The University raised more than $3.5M in scholarships, donations, including those designated to endowments, as well as grants. HSSU kicked-off renovations for the former Vashon Community Center Building, which will become home to the Don and Heide Wolff Jazz Institute and National Black Radio Hall of Fame. The University’s Center for Innovation and Entrepreneurship is in its early development phase. In 2020-2021, HSSU graduated its largest class in the University’s history (201 students) and increased its 6 year graduation rate by 6.3%.

Collins Smith has received numerous awards, most recently receiving the Frankie Muse Freeman/Norman R. Seay Commitment to St. Louis Award with Michael McMillan at the St. Louis City NAACP 110th Anniversary Celebration and Freedom Fund Dinner. Other awards include the Equal Education Opportunity Group Pioneer Award, the NAACP Ben Hooks Community Leader award and the AKA, Inc. Central Region’s Outstanding Educational Advancement Captain award. She is a 2019 Millennium Leadership Initiative Protégé and a St. Louis Business Diversity Initiative Fellow and a Higher Education Leadership Foundation Fellow.

A native of the Historic Ville Neighborhood in St. Louis, Dr. Collins Smith is a proud graduate of St. Louis Public Schools. She earned an educational Doctorate in Higher Education Leadership from Maryville University. She holds a Master of Social Work degree and a Master of Public Health degree from Saint Louis University. She is a graduate of the University of Central Missouri, where she majored in social work.

About Harris-Stowe State University

Harris-Stowe State University (HSSU), located in midtown St. Louis offers the most affordable bachelor's degree in Missouri. The University is a fully accredited four-year institution with 50 majors, minors, and certificate program options in education, business, and arts and sciences. Harris-Stowe's mission is to provide outstanding educational opportunities for individuals seeking a rich and engaging academic experience. HSSU's programs are designed to nurture intellectual curiosity and build authentic skills that prepare students for leadership roles in a global society.

Pat Coleman Black Women and Depression

Tue, 22 Mar 2022 23:04:19 GMT

Black Women and Depression

Pat Coleman

Good mental health is essential to overall well-being. More than 1 in 5 women in the US experienced a mental health condition last year. Specifically, black women are more likey to put everybody else’s needs before their own. They are the go to in the family, at work, at church and in society as a whole.

When black women don’t take care of themselves, they’re no good for anybody. Mental health must become a priority….PERIOD.

Depression is more than “ups and “downs.” In life comes happiness and sorrow, joy and pain. When sadness does not go away or keeps coming back for more than a few weeks, and causes you to struggle with daily life, there is a possibility you may be suffering from depression.

Depression is not a weakness. It can affect your whole body, mood, thoughts, and behavior. It can rob you of enjoyment in your daily life and can even lead to suicide. Although, Black women have the lowest rates of suicide in the nation, they attempt suicide at rates higher than Black men and lower than white women. Let’s not listen to the nay sayers because there are misconceptions:

“Why are you depressed? If our people could make it through slavery, we can make it through anything.”

“When a black woman suffers from a mental disorder, the opinion is that she is weak. And weakness in black women is intolerable.”

“You should take your troubles to Jesus, not some stranger/psychiatrist.” The truth of the matter is - getting help is a sign of strength. Reality: People with depression can’t just “snap out of it.” Although, spiritual support can be an important part of healing, we must recognize that the care of a qualified mental health professional is crucial. Ladies, please take the first steps: Talk to your primary care doctor or gynecologist. Reach out to a friend, family member, partner or community member you trust. Remain consistent and committed to your treatment.

Mental Health America reminds us, there are millions of people with depression who are getting treatment and living successful lives. Please join them and take control of your health.

If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact BHR’s 24/7 Crisis Hotline at

314-469-6644 . This is a free service to the St. Louis community.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving,

present your requests to God.” ~Phillipians 4:6

“Overcoming...Living Our Best Life In Spite Of,” is a must read as it compiles the journeys of 33 powerful African American women from all walks of life who faced some of life’s toughest obstacles — poverty, discrimination, death, molestation, depression, and more — and triumphed over them all. Not only did they survive, they also thrived to become exceptional mothers, wives, prayer warriors, PHDs, entrepreneurs, CEOs, executive directors, c-suite executives, corporate leaders, community leaders, and everything beyond.

Their bravery, vulnerability and authenticity will inspire you to reach within, step up and find your “overcoming” spirit, too.

Pat Coleman

Cyan Kelley Miss Teen Missouri

Thu, 17 Mar 2022 23:01:24 GMT

Miss Teen Missouri

Miss Cyan Kelley

Pattonville Highschool sophomore wins Teen Miss Missouri – Princess of America. Cyan Kelley will now go on to compete for the national title in July of 2022. The Princess of America pageant system motto is “A Crown with a Cause,” and it promotes community service leadership. Cyan is the founder of S.U.N.N – Serving Up Nutrition and Necessities. Her mission is to provide food, toiletries, and information on social services for the homeless and those in need. For the last four years, she has initiated a community project to make bagged meals and resource packs, hand them out to other organizations and directly to the those without permanent residence. She has partnered with Thrivent, City Hope, ETCA Food Pantry, and Almost Home to raise over $6,000 over the last three years. This is in addition to over 200+ hours of community service she has served at food pantries and other events.

Cyan is member at End Times Christian Assembly Church under the leadership of Bishop Floyd Williams and Pastor Earline Williams. She serves on the praise & worship, praise dance and audio/visual teams. Her parents are Tracy Williams-Kelley and Kevin Kelley. At the state pageant, Cyan took top honors overall in formal wear, best dress, interview, casual wear modeling, stage presence and personality. Although competing in pageants is one of her favorite activities, serving in her community and empowering others to serve, is her true passion.

Donald McNeal - Sylvia Joyner, a Minister’s Wife: Help or Hindrance

Thu, 17 Mar 2022 22:37:34 GMT

Sylvia Joyner, a Minister’s Wife:

Help or Hindrance

Donald McNeal

We find in the book, Sylvia Joyner, A Minister’s Wife: Help or Hindrance, to Chapter 7 for what I choose to call “Building Wisdom.” Mrs. Joyner offers a romantic view of a grand lady in scripture portrayed poetically in Proverbs 31. I agree completely that wisdom must be built. Paul writes a wonderful text in 1 Corinthians 3:10-11, “According to the grace of God which is given unto me, as a wise masterbuilder, I have laid the foundation, and another buildeth thereon. But let every man take heed how he buildeth thereupon. For other foundation can no man lay than that is laid, which is Jesus Christ.” KJV I read the chapter asking young women and veteran women to charter through Proverbs 31 and become that woman. Nonetheless, little is discussed other than “do not trust your feelings.” Let’s begin our “Building Wisdom” Segment to assist young women with this vital quality which arises soon in the relationship.

Our common start is a workable definition of wisdom. Godly wisdom has three components: first, ability to think and act; secondly, prior training on the dynamics of your environment required; and lastly, control of one’s emotional actions and reactions. Wisdom is not just doing, but thinking about the doing prior to the engagement of action. Discipline of feminine feelings is one of the 1st stages at becoming a virtuous woman (wife) whose mouth speaks wisdom and tongue says things fitly spoken. Mrs. Mirian Jackson in our class gave great insight about moving from the dating process to the married life: The whole dating process hides the strength required in marriage. Dating is all about the female’s desire. But, once married the shift in attention goes to the husband, and the submission matters surface as to him as the leader of the group. Most women feel slighted during this growth period. But, her love as the treasure of her husband’s heart and her husband’s life comforts her; since he has made the public announcement that he wants to spend the rest of his life with her. Next, development of an extended family begins to surface. Then the child(ren) attention needs take away from her personal desires and attention, even the more. A wise mother of the newlywed bride can help her to mature quickly or the woman will be caught in an avalanche of feelings of self-denial; feeling overlooked and feeling neglected. Mrs. Joyner in her defense states that wisdom includes yourself and your helper (helpmeet) and being aware of others and their needs. The cognitive side of being aware must move into action and including wisdom in the marital unit. Otherwise, the wife of the minister will be waiting impatiently for him to come home or spend time with her only. (A rare moment in a significant pastor’s or minister’s life.) We must treasure those quiet times weekly and make room for them to balance the forced inclusion of others for divine wisdom.

Stage Two will show how well the woman and wife has learned from her teachers, family structure and the environment about people, objects, events, situations. Her willingness will be tested at the perception level, judgment level and actions taken from what she has been trained. Ministry is not about self-assertiveness or self-aggrandizement. Engaging people does not mean embodying all they speak around you, to you and for you. Most communities are free volunteers of what they think, without the least idea of how to apply it in their own lives. Conversations with others by mixing and matching a “friend” relationships with the membership and then having an intimate relationship with the Pastor or co-pastor will lead to demise of the submission factor. I may be chauvinistic in this idea, but my wife is for my personal and family comfort not for the employment and call to ministry at the Church where I am called to pastor. I did not marry her to co-pastor the church with me. Likewise, I do not try to co-teach with her at her employment. The Church must be a zone we participate but not both try to lead. As a male, I expect her love and support, not her wrangling over what business decisions or spiritual decision I should take at the local congregation. I know those who try the Co-pastor model; but in theory it appears to work, but the authority level of a congregation and pastor should not be divided. Likewise, the wife should not be submitted to the political sabotage of membership at their home level. If the marriage is to last, clear lines of authority and demarcation must occur. Otherwise, the marriage will cease and the business relationship will continue. The male leader will find someone else for comfort and that destroys what marriage is about. 43 years have allowed my wife to be a great leader in her realm, without trying to press, correct or nudge me in a business relationship that the Sprit of God is not leading. This is manipulation at a demonic level. The Proverbs 31 model is where the woman works at another venue; which many bi-vocational women do not want. Avoid worldly mixing and matching. The Proverbs 31 woman has maintained her home and her personal chastity. Wisdom knows not to mix business and love. One will suffer and end; usually the love.

Melody Fogarty Mental Health in a Time of Covid

Thu, 17 Mar 2022 22:29:27 GMT

Mental Health in a Time of Covid

Melody Fogarty

Some of us remember the lyrics to "Just the Two of Us"..."We look for love, no time for tears/Wasted waters all that is/And it doesn’t make no flowers bloom/Good things might come to those who wait/Not for those who wait too late/We gotta go for all we know." It plays on loop in our heads every time we find ourselves uncomfortable and/or in dire situations because this song illustrates mental health for African Americans, people of color and the poor.

Covid has laid bare that 4 out of 10 adults suffer from symptoms of anxiety and depression. These symptoms are made worse by the tendency of others to deny women, especially black women, the full range of their emotions. Know tears are the manifestation of frustration; they are not a display of sadness. That said, tears do allow you to release your emotions and we should have a good cry every now and again.

In fact, many Americans are experiencing mental health challenges from COVID-19 and some groups report having stress, anxiety, or great sadness due to the pandemic at higher rates. "Among them: Thirty-nine percent of women compared to 26 percent of men. – Forty percent of Latino and 39 percent of Black people, compared to 29 percent of white people and Forty-four percent of people with lower income, compared to 26 percent of people with higher income." (Commonwealth Fund, September 10, 2020) The root cause for most of the above groups of people is loss of social economic status. Women loss more jobs and closed more businesses than men. More Latino and Black-owned business closed than white-owned and operated businesses. In addition, the highest unemployment rates because of COVID are in the black and Latino communities. So, it makes sense that the mental health crisis is greater in the Latino and Black communities.

While there has been increasing acceptance of displays of emotion in the office and other public domains has created a shift in Human Resources Management to include more Industrial Psychologists and Performance Coaches, separate from general Employee Relations, as well as an expansion in Mental Health Services as part of public services, mental health challenges and acceptance is still low.

The time to change to our approach to work and its meaning in our lives has come. It is a corporate transformation; it is a societal shift, one that has already started in the forms of flexible and remote work. We recognize that 40% of all workers will be working in hybrid (1-3 days onsite) jobs and 10% will be full remote opportunities. As a result, there are companies today that operate without offices and 100% remote/work from home and/or offshore employees. The gig economy is the new economy.

We have addressed the dysfunctional effects of the pandemic through Zoom, Facetime, and Skype. However, in the end we have taught people to cope with isolation and workers have determined that they can live with less money or find other work that does not require them to engage with people. The fallout of these shifts is loneliness, anxiety, and depression.

In addition, we have a host of people tackling their long-term traumas from racism, sexism, and childhood mental and physical abuse by acting out in society. In the United States, more than any other country, we are experiencing a record number of serial murders, mass shootings, excessive force, false reporting, bullying, mischief, homicide, and suicide. There is fear, loathing and a significant group of diagnosed, misdiagnosed and undiagnosed individuals living and working in every community and business. The workers' response is to isolate and find different work to minimize or eliminate exposure to co-workers, neighbors, the public and the police.

Manage mental health by managing work/life balance. The toxicity of the workplace/work environment necessitates "smart" work . "As we come out of a worldwide recession and move towards a shortage of key talent, employers will have to have a fundamental rethink of their approach to work. There already is extensive evidence that people are choosing to move jobs to improve their work/life balance. No longer does a big pay packet bring satisfaction to employees with scarce skills. They recognize that time is as valuable an asset as money. So, they will be attracted to work environments where people are expected to have a personal life and not have sacrificed their freedom in the name of career progression." (Thomson, Peter. "New Ways of Working in the Company of the Future." In Reinventing the Company in the Digital Age. Madrid: BBVA, 2014.) Thomson's statements have borne fruit in 2021.

The answer has also been acknowledging and effectively managing our emotions. Remember we all have the right to be angry, sad, happy, and proud AND to express each emotion without being labeled. That said, we must take control of our mental health by doing the following: 1) Protect your sleep by keeping a sleep schedule, not eating heavy right before bed, turning off the television and electronics 30 minutes before bed. 2) Maintain a balanced diet. 3) Get regular exercise. 4) Get involved with the community. 5) Find a hobby.

When all else fails, have a good cry. The sun shines bright after a good rain.

Regards,

Melody

Marquita Chanel Having It All

Thu, 17 Mar 2022 21:34:02 GMT

Having It All

Marquita Chanel

When I was approached to write this article I was completely thrown off. I was asked to write an article on the subject of “Having it all and maintaining it”. I began to think, “How can I write about having it all?” I don’t have it all! When I look at myself I see someone that is blessed by God, but having it all, not so much. I know that the little that I do have is because of God. Without him I know I would not be where I am.

I am truly grateful that God has blessed me with parents that love me and took care of me, a husband, friends and family, Boots (my dog), home, career, businesses, and even some material things. If this is what it means to have it all, well then I guess I do. But one thing I do know, none of this means anything without God.

Having this mindset is how I stay blessed. I keep my life in its proper perspective. I know that God is the only reason why I could “have it all.” I also know that if I ever started to act like I made it on my own, pride would lead to my destruction. The same goes for you. The bible says in Proverbs 16:18, ”Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.” I am not trying to go through that! I am sure you don’t want that either! Ain’t nobody got time for that!

So while we are chasing our dreams and living our best lives let’s make sure that we keep God first. Many people have great riches and are miserable! Ask me how I know? There was a time that I thought buying things would make me happy. It did for a moment but when the thrill was gone, it was gone! Why do you think there have been so many celebrity suicides? Nothing can fill a God-sized hole in your life, but God. People chase money, status, power, and fame yet they are unsatisfied. This does not have to be us. We know the truth. If we seek the kingdom of God and his righteousness first, all of these things will be added to our lives. (Matthew 6:33) God wants to give us great things, tangible and intangible! God wants us to live abundant lives on this side of Heaven, but we have to put him first, if not we are lost. A life of luxury is meaningless especially if we die and spend an eternity in torment without God. If you don’t have a personal relationship with God that brings about true change in your life, I don’t care what materials you have, you still have nothing.

For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul? Matthew 16:26

With love,

Marquita Chanel